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Comedians and authors Laura Lane and Angela Spera give best friend advice on pop culture, politics, news headlines, workplace dynamics, dating, parenting, friendship and whatever else is on your mind.

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Comedians and authors Laura Lane and Angela Spera give best friend advice on pop culture, politics, news headlines, workplace dynamics, dating, parenting, friendship and whatever else is on your mind.

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Episodes
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The Final Episode

8/11/2021
After 6 years straight of weekly episodes, this is our final This Is Why podcast (!). We get updates on how the show has affected people's lives, read mushy gush farewell messages and answer two last listener questions. In the news we discuss vaccinations & spending time with people who have different political views. Angela talks about her bridal shower venue getting double booked and Laura talks about getting yelled at by an old man. Thank you listeners for hanging out with us for the last six years and sharing your lives and listening to ours. What a wild ride! This week's episode is brought to you by: Coors Light Italic (offer code: THISISWHY) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:42:14

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How to Master Dating & Everything We’ve Learned

8/4/2021
This week we share our top dating lessons and tips from the past 6 years. We answer your listener questions including letting grudges go and getting along with in-laws. In the news we discuss the best dating shows ever & a new dating app hits the market. Angela gets locked out of Facebook for posting wedding photos and Laura ponders Bennifer. This week's episode is brought to you by: BetterHelp See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:11:27

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6-Year Anniversary Celebration

7/28/2021
It's our 6-Year Anniversary and we drop some BIG NEWS! We look back at our top episodes, the past 6 years and feel the feels. Then we answer your listener questions including a follow-up from a listener who went against our advice and now has a new problem and another listener who is a COVID bride and doesn’t know what anniversary to celebrate. In the news we discuss why more couples are sleeping apart & Pinterest bans all weight loss ads. This week's episode is brought to you by: Italic (offer code: THISISWHY) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:55:24

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Having Better Sex (& Sleep!) ft. Amanda Goetz, founder of House of Wise CBD

7/21/2021
This week we talk all about CBD and how it can help with sleep, sex and more. We welcome Amanda Goetz, founder of House of Wise, a CBD company that enables women to take control of their sleep, sex, stress, and wealth by earning money selling high-end, trusted CBD products. We answer your listener questions including one listener whose sleep schedule has been off ever since Covid hit and a male listener who is confused by fuckboy culture. Then we talk about what’s in the news: some people think LSD can treat allergies & a social media post sparks debate over the use of the term “single mom.” This week's episode is brought to you by: Coors Light Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE) BetterHelp See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:57:12

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Surviving Postpartum ft. Doula Devon Clement

7/14/2021
This week we talk all about postpartum care, babies and doulas! We welcome Devon Clement, a postpartum doula, parenting guide, baby sleep coach and owner of the agency Happy Family After. We answer your listener questions including what to do when your partner doesn’t want more kids and when to bring up kids when you’re dating. In the news we discuss a summer baby boom & a new Gerber Baby. This episode is brought to you by: Care/Of (offer code: THISISWHY50) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:07:01

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Angela Got Married!

7/7/2021
It's one of our most anticipated episodes: Angela got married!!! We hear all about it: the rain! the tears! the trash bags! We answer your listener questions including one listener who hates her best friend’s fiancé and another listener who is worried about bridesmaid etiquette. In the news: low-rise jeans are actually back & Gwen Stefani might have had a secret wedding. Angela's dad wears jeans to her wedding and Laura learns about scar massage. This week's episode is brought to you by: Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE) BetterHelp Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:51:14

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Baby Baby Baby Stuff

6/30/2021
We're reunited and it feels so good! Angela is married, Laura had a baby! Big things have happened! We’ll answer your listener questions including one about staying friends with exes and keeping things fresh with your partner. Then we’re talking about what’s in the news: aliens & repurposing wedding dresses. Angela goes to a restaurant that has a menu for dogs, Laura contemplates changing her baby's name. This week's episode is brought to you by: Osea (offer code: THISISWHY) Stitchfix See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:54:08

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Laura’s Birth Story #2 ft. Baby Daddy Nic

6/23/2021
Laura's back on the show after a 1 month maternity leave! She's joined by baby daddy, producer, talented artist and husband Nic Rad to talk all about the c-section birth, being parents and what life's been like. We answer your listener questions including a question about a partner’s social media use and having bedbugs. In the news we discuss the best staycation cities & why you should spend time apart from your partner. This week's episode is brought to you by: BetterHelp Coors Light Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:14:47

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How to Know You’ve Found “The One” ft. Angela’s Fiancé, Ian (Laura’s maternity leave!)

6/16/2021
This week’s episode is called How to Know You’ve Found “The One.” It's Ian's final week as a guest host before Laura's triumphant return! We talk about how you have to go on lots of "meh" dates to know when it's a good one and how important it is to feel comfortable with someone. We also answer your listener questions, including a listener who has never met her long-distance boyfriend IRL and another listener who wants to know how to not go crazy while waiting on a proposal. Then we talk about what’s in the news: Gen Z thinks millennials are “cheugy” & a Tennessee hat shop sells insanely offensive ‘not vaccinated’ badges. Angela prepares for a rainy wedding day, and Ian takes therapy in his hot car. This week's episode is brought to you by: Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE) Care/Of (offer code: THISISWHY50) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:49:27

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Making New Friends as an Adult ft. Ian (Angela’s Fiancé)

6/9/2021
This week's episode is called Making New Friends as an Adult. Ian is back as guest host while Laura continues her maternity leave. We talk about times we've seen people make friends by sliding into DMs and walking dogs. We answer your listener questions, including one listener who is struggling to make work friends and another who had to end a friendship over too much negativity. Then we talk about what's in the news: why sunlight is good for you & why we’re about to enter a “YOLO economy.” Angela gets a taste of her own medicine when Ian talks about her on another podcast and Ian drinks whiskey at his new barber shop. This week's episode is brought to you by: BetterHelp Stitch Fix Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:51:55

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Keeping Arguments Respectful ft. Ian (Angela’s Fiancé)

6/2/2021
This week's episode is called Keeping Arguments Respectful. Laura is still on maternity leave, so Ian returns as guest co-host. We talk about recent arguments we've had and how we keep it kind (after yelling a bit, of course). We answer your listener questions, including one listener whose boyfriend has gained weight and another listener who is dealing with some resentment after moving in with her boyfriend. Then we’re talking about what’s in the news: the COVID vaccine is affecting people’s periods & some people are skipping their second dose. Angela gets her first dose of Moderna and has a wacky period and Ian adjusts to post-vax life. This week's episode is brought to you by: Osea (offer code: THISISWHY) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:50:48

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Lessons from Pandemic Wedding Planning ft. Ian (Angela's Fiancé)

5/26/2021
This week's episode is called Lessons from Pandemic Wedding Planning. Laura is on maternity leave, so Angela's fiancé, Ian, fills in. We talk about how we knew rescheduling the wedding (3x!) was the right move and how you need to do what you're most comfortable with. We answer your listener questions, including one listener who wants to know how we knew when we wanted to go from dating to relationship and another who wants to know how to make the best of quarantine time spent with her fiancé. Then we talk about what's in the news: TikTokers are smoking flowers & Gen Z isn’t watching TV. Angela claps back at Ian when he tells her not to wear too much makeup at the wedding and Ian embarrasses himself at the eye doctor. This week's episode is brought to you by: Coors Light BetterHelp Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:02:38

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Eating Plant Based ft. ‘The Plant-Based Baby & Toddler’ author & registered dietician Whitney English

5/19/2021
This week we welcome registered dietician and co-author of the new book "The Plant-Based Baby and Toddler" Whitney English Tabaie to discuss all things nutrition and diet. We break down myths and discuss the health (and moral!) benefits of eating more plants. Then we answer your listener questions, including one about plant-based protein options and another about nutrient deficiencies. In the news, we discuss how foods affect sleep & the happiest cities in America. This week's episode is brought to you by: Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE) Finding You Stitchfix Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:06:32

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Missing Your Ex

5/12/2021
This week we talk about what to do when you miss your ex and how to distinguish between missing your ex and missing being in a relationship. Then we answer your listener questions including a listener who misses being silly with her ex and another listener who wonders why exes come out of the woodwork when you’re newly single. In the news we discuss 'The Bachelor' looking to cast senior citizens & scientists want to send sperm to the moon. Angela's feeling all the feels seeing people out and about and Laura gets a surprising DM response from another author. Care/Of (offer code: THISISWHY50) BetterHelp Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:30:32

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Outgrowing Old Friendships

5/5/2021
This week’s episode is called Outgrowing Old Friendships. We talk about switching friendship orbits, when you need to confront a friend you no longer want in your life and when it's okay to let people float away or go in and out of your life. Then we answer your listener questions including one listener who realized her life is better without her childhood friend in it and another who lost two friends when they decided to start dating each other. In the news we discuss: a divorced man is ordered to pay back his ex-wife for housework & what you can and can’t do if you’re fully vaccinated. Angela and Laura find out that they both write down funny things that family members say in their notes app. This week's episode is brought to you by: Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE) Osea (offer code: THISISWHY) Finding You See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:49:05

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300th Episode Special

4/28/2021
This week is our 300th episode!!! We will be taking a nostalgic look back at some of our favorite moments. Then we dive into the mailbox, which includes a fan with a foot fetish and another listener who wants some pandemic advice. In the news we discuss why what you do is not who you are & the people still buying VHS tapes. Angela's boyfriend gets his vaccine for high BMI and Laura gets hers while pregnant. This week's episode is brought to you by: BetterHelp Coors Light The Viall Files See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:20:03

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Everything You Want to Ask an OB about Pregnancy ft. Dr. Nathan Fox

4/21/2021
This week we welcome OB and high-risk specialist Dr. Nathan Fox to answer all of our burning pregnancy questions. We cover everything from COVID to sushi (yes you can eat it!) and more! We answer your listener questions including fertility preparation tips and getting pregnant over 40. Then we talk about what’s in the news: Prince Harry & Megan Markle’s pregnancy shines light on pregnancy after miscarriage & why evictions are linked to adverse birth outcomes. For even more great info on pregnancy check out Dr. Fox's two podcasts: High Risk Birth Stories and the Healthful Woman Podcast! This week's episode is brought to you by: BetterHelp Spectacle Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:12:45

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Hitting a Covid Wall with Your Partner

4/14/2021
This week's episode is called Hitting a Covid Wall with Your Partner. We talk about tips to keep the spark alive and not bore the crap out of each other when you see each other all of the time. We answer your listener questions including one listener who is running out of things to say to her partner and another who is having less sex with her fiancé lately. Then we talk about what’s in the news: sex between married couples is down & a new Harry Potter video game will allow users to create transgender characters. Angela cancels her wedding again and Laura gets a famous new neighbor she tries to befriend with no luck. This week's episode is brought to you by: Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE) Care/Of (offer code: THISISWHY50) Brightline Health (offer code: THISISBRIGHT50) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:51:01

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Freezing Your Eggs ft. Journalist and Producer Darla Murray

4/7/2021
This week we welcome Emmy Award-winning journalist and producer Darla Murray to talk about her experience freezing her eggs and her piece about the process for Cosmopolitan. Then we answer your listener questions including one listener whose friends expect her to foot the bill and another wondering how to get through TTC (trying to conceive). In the news we discuss an unexpected side effect of unprotected sex & how baby aspirin could help you get pregnant. This week's episode is brought to you by: Organifi (offer code: THISISWHY) Bright Cellars (offer code: THISISWHY) In Case You Missed It See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:01:08:06

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Fairness In the Household

3/31/2021
More people spending time at home means more chores to do! This week we talk about how to keep things feeling fair between your partner or roomies when it comes to domestic crap. We’ll be answering your listener questions including one listener whose partner isn’t great at helping with tasks and our listeners try to help name Laura’s baby. In the news we discuss what to wear to your first job & the most popular dog names in history. Angela goes viral for her comment on Britney Spears. And Laura does hypnosis to try and flip her baby. This week's episode is brought to you by: Coors Light Organifi (offer code: THISISWHY) Advertise on This Is Why via Gumball.fm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Duration:00:54:10