Family Life Today
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The C-12 Story
Success doesn’t always deliver what it promises. Buck Jacobs, founder of the C12 Group – a Christian leadership development organization, talks about his life as a financially successful, yet spiritually and emotionally miserable businessman before giving his life to Christ. Don Barefoot, president of C12, describes the excitement of seeing businessmen become kingdom focused.
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Fatherly Advice to Singles--Get Married
Dr. Al Mohler, Jr., president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, talks to singles about the mystery of marriage.
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3/3 Building a Marriage that Lasts
Are you getting married for the right reasons? Pastor Gary Thomas urges singles to “seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness” before starting the search for a lifelong mate. Thomas says dating is a "dance" and that it is God who creates a marriage and sustains it. He reminds singles that they’re not just choosing their future spouse, but they’re also choosing the parent of their future children, their children’s grandparents and extended family.
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2/3 Finding Your Soul Mate
Are you waiting for destiny to bring you your perfect match? Gary Thomas, author of Sacred Choice, points out that there is no scriptural evidence for believing in a "soul mate" and encourages men and women to pray and pursue biblical wisdom when seeking a spouse.
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1/3 True Love or Infatuation?
Your heart is pounding. Your palms are sweating. You can’t think of anything but your beloved. Is this true love or infatuation? Author and pastor Gary Thomas reminds us that while infatuation and romance are fun, they also work as a mild sedative on wisdom, and aren’t the best foundation for a happy, life-long marriage.
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2/2 Stories of Trials and Faith
Robert and Bobbie Wolgemuth describe the stories from their favorite couples in the Bible, and relate how we can learn from the trials others have faced.
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1/2 Where the Rubber Meets the Road
When Bobbie Wolgemuth discovered she had stage four ovarian cancer, she realized that God had given her more than a trial. He had provided a platform for her to proclaim God’s goodness in the midst of suffering, and a way to preach the ultimate healing power of the gospel, firsthand.
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3/3 Winning as a Stepmother With a Father's Help
Could you use some help with your step mothering? Maybe help is closer than you think! Stepmother Laura Petherbridge and Christian counselor Ron Deal tell fathers how their loyalty and support toward their wives can make a world of difference in a blended family.
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2/3 How to Avoid Becoming a Wicked Stepmother
Stepmothers have gotten a bad rap every since the days of Cinderella, but Laura Petherbridge, tells why they often deserve it. Laura, a stepmother herself, and family therapist Ron Deal tell you how to avoid making some of the most wicked step parenting mistakes.
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1/3 The Role of the Stepmother
If being a mother is hard work, then being a stepmother is twice as difficult. Successful Stepfamilies founder Ron Deal, along with author and stepmother Laura Petherbridge, talk about the challenges unique to a stepmother.
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2/2 Sufficient Grace
The Bible tells us that as we journey through this life, we will have troubles, but do our troubles have to define us? According to Joni Tada, we should be defined by how we respond to troubles. Hear from quadriplegic and cancer survivor Joni Tada and her husband Ken, as they discuss how life’s marathon continues into a new and richer season.
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1/2 Following God Together
A hymn writer once said God only uses suffering “my dross to consume and my gold to refine”. For quadriplegic Joni Tada, God has used more than four decades of confinement to a wheelchair to refine her character. And, after almost four decades of marriage, her marriage to Ken has refined into an exquisite embrasure of God’s fully sufficient grace.
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3/3 Opening the Gates
The teenage years offer a lot of exciting new opportunities, like dating and driving. But a parent still needs to set boundaries in these areas and others, until a teen is ready and able to handle them. Susan Merrill, author of “The Passionate Mom,” encourages moms to gauge a child’s maturity before giving a child free reign in certain areas, whether that be using technology like a cell phone or video games, or stepping out on a date.
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2/3 Purposeful Parenting
Mom, you know you have to protect your children. But do you know how? Mother of five Susan Merrill, director of the popular website iMOM.com, talks to moms about cultivating patience. Susan tells how, in one particular situation involving a wayward child, she relinquished her anxiety and frustration to the Lord and found a refreshing answer. Susan reminds us that God loves the prayer of a helpless parent.
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1/3 Daring to Parent
Being a mom can be the biggest stretch of your life. But it’s so worth it. Those are the sentiments of Susan Merrill, as she reflects on her own life as a mother of five. Susan admits that she found her mothering answers in the book of Nehemiah. Like Nehemiah, Susan states that mothers need to build a wall around their children and open the gates, which she equates to privileges like dating and cell phones, only as wide as each child is appropriately able to handle. A mother’s perception...
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2/2 Trusting God in the Valley
What do you do in life’s valleys? Amy Julia Becker and Jennifer Shaw talk about the unique challenges of raising a child with special needs. Amy Julia is mother to Penny, who has Down syndrome. Jennifer's son Toby, has Sensory processing disorder. Both women commend their husbands for stepping up and serving them sacrificially when times were especially hard, making their marriage bonds even stronger. Amy Julia and Jennifer also share how they’ve seen God at work in the midst of their...
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1/2 Embracing the Unexpected
Life doesn’t always go as planned. Jennifer Shaw and Amy Julia Becker talk about the talk about the fear, despair and disorientation they sometimes felt as they sought to understand and fully embrace their child’s special needs.
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3/3 Cracking the Code of Female Behavior
Having a hard time figuring out the woman in your life? Then join us as author Shaunti Feldhahn coaches men on female behavior and unlocks the mysteries of the fairer sex.
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2/3 Decoding Male Behavior
Are you having difficulty “reading” your man? Then put on your thinking cap and join us as Shaunti Feldhahn walks us through the A-B-C’s of understanding men.
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1/3 Men and Women: Understanding the Differences
There’s no denying that men and women are different. But do you realize HOW different? Author Shaunti Feldhahn talks to Dennis Rainey about some of the biggest revelations she discovered while doing research for her books, “For Men Only,” and “For Women Only.”
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Defending the Fatherless
Adoption is dear to the heart of God. Adoptive parent Jedd Medefind talks to Dennis Rainey about the explosion of interest and engagement in the church around the subject of adoption. Jedd, who is the President of the Christian Alliance for Orphans, talks about the reality of adoption, its joys and challenges, and tells what first lead him and his wife to first consider bringing another child into their home.
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4/4 Bob and Karrie: On the Road to Recovery
Bob and Karrie Wood, leaders in the Celebrate Recovery Ministry, tell Dennis how they first put their faith in Christ and how God's power and love began to break the spell of their addictions to drugs, alcohol, pornography, and eating disorders. Hear how God continues to renew and restore their lives and their relationships with those they love most.
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3/4 Bob's Story: A Wake-Up Call
Bob Wood, a leader along with his wife, Karrie, in the Celebrate Recovery Ministry, talks about his former addiction to drugs, alcohol, and pornography.
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2/4 Stumbling Onto Hope
Karrie Wood, a leader with her husband, Bob, in the Celebrate Recovery Ministry, shares how God delivered her from her addiction to alcohol and bulimia when she began putting her trust in a God who forgives, transforms, and offers hope.
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1/4 Karrie's Story: Sliding Into Addiction
Dennis Rainey talks with Bob and Karrie Wood, leaders of the Celebrate Recovery Ministry at Fellowship Bible Church in Little Rock, Arkansas. Karrie tells how she slid into an addiction to alcohol and bulimia and suffered silently from sexual abuse.
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A Place to Belong
What secrets in your past are you keeping in the closet? Author Lisa Troyer spent many years trying to run away from her past, which included sexual abuse delivered at the hands of a former high school teacher. But no matter how she tried, she couldn’t outrun it, or the shame, guilt and depression that came with the memories. Lisa recalls the watershed moment when she finally found the freedom to admit her abuse to herself and others.
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2/2 A Pastor's Journey Through Sexual Addiction
Like Paul, we often do what we don’t want to do, and don’t do what we should. It’s a universal problem called sin. Veteran pastor TC Ryan tells how, despite extensive counseling and a accountability group, he continued to battle with compulsive sexual behavior which eventually landed him in jail. Ashamed and without hope, he began to realize that God was finally answering his prayer to do whatever it took to set him free, even if it meant hitting rock bottom. Hear what God is doing in his...
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1/2 Taking Steps to Wholeness
Pornography promises a feast for the eyes. But it soon becomes poison to those who consume it. Former pastor TC Ryan tells of his descent into the world of sexual addiction. Beginning with sexual exploration in early adolescence, his behavior quickly became compulsive and continued into marriage, much to his dismay. Ryan recalls warring against his faith, and praying to God for deliverance from his sin.
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2/2 Standing Ready to Forgive
Marriage is for a lifetime. But when a spouse refuses to admit or give up their sin, sometimes separation is in order. Vicki Tiede, the former wife of a man addicted to porn, talks about confronting her husband with his addiction and sadly realizing that his behavior wasn’t going to stop. Taking the advice of godly counsel, Vicki left home in an attempt to protect herself and her daughter from her husband’s increasingly reckless behavior. Vicki tells how her faith in Christ helped her...
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1/2 Something Amiss
Pornography is hurting a lot of marriages. Vicki Tiede knows. Formerly married to a pornography user, Vicki recalls the confusion she felt over her husband’s disinterest in sex, beginning on the honeymoon. But after finding inappropriate magazines, and concerned about the amount of time he was spending on the computer, she finally put two and two together. Distraught and pregnant she sought help from her pastor and recommitted her life and her marriage to Christ.
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3/3 A Time to Rebuild
Could you forgive your husband if he was caught in a sexual indiscretion? You might think you wouldn't be able to, but with Christ's help, you can. Meg Wilson talks about the state of her marriage eight years after her husband confessed to a sexual affair. Meg reveals how they rebuilt trust and tells how forgiveness has helped them heal.
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2/3 Confession: A Hard Step to Freedom
After forgiving her husband for his sexual addiction and working hard to keep her marriage together, Meg's husband later confessed to having an affair. Author Meg Wilson talks about the hurt and anger she felt after her husband's betrayal and tells where she found encouragement and strength to walk through this trial.
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1/3 Shocked by Sexual Addiction
She thought she had the perfect life - a solid marriage, two wonderful daughters, a middle class lifestyle. But what she would later find out would rock her world like never before. Meg Wilson remembers the day when her husband called to tell her that he was stepping down from his job because of his addiction to internet porn. Hear how Meg responded to this devastating news and how they put their marriage back together step by step.
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2/2 Laughter and Tears
Last November, FamilyLife passed a milestone. Hear a very special 20th anniversary message as Dennis Rainey & Bob Lepine join colleagues to reflect on the triumphs, failures, outtakes, and heart piercing moments from the last 20 years.
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1/2 God’s Faithfulness
Recently, FamilyLife Today had a party - and we invited all our friends to celebrate with us...and that includes YOU! Be our honored guest as we reflect on twenty years of laughter, tears and God's goodness.
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2/2 Love Renewed: Barry and Pam Abell--Day 2
Money can't buy happiness. Hear the compelling story of Barry and Pam Abell, an upscale couple who seemingly had it all, until they gave it all up for a rich relationship with Christ and each other.
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1/2 Love Renewed: Barry and Pam Abell--Day 1
To those who knew them, they had it all - wealth, beauty, and a model family. But what others didn't know is that they were miserable. Barry and Pam Abell, directors of Campus Crusade's Executive Ministries, tell how raising children and the pace of a busy career almost split them apart.
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3/3 Changed Heart, Changed Life
Arriving home from Bible study, Angela got the call every parent dreads. Her son, Christopher, was in jail, busted for selling drugs. Could this be the answer to her prayers? Christopher and his mother, Angela, talk about his time in prison, the shock of finding out he was HIV positive, and the way God slowly and patiently drew Christopher to the only one who could rescue him now, Jesus Christ. Hear what Christopher is doing now, and what his plans are for the future.
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2/3 A Turning Point
While Christopher Yuan turned to his gay friends and, eventually, drugs for happiness, Angela, his mother, turned to God. Praying in earnest for her son’s salvation, Angela tells how her heart and attitude began to change toward Christopher. Standing on God’s promises, she and her husband prayed that God would do whatever it took to bring Christopher to Himself. Expelled from dental school and furious at his parents, Christopher tells how he became more involved with selling and using drugs,...
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1/3 A Gay Son’s Journey to God
Sometimes getting from here to there isn’t a direct shot. Often the road God takes us on has unexpected twists and turns. Christopher Yuan, a professor at Moody Bible Institute, reflects back to the day when he finally “came out” to his parents and drove resolutely away, ready to fully embrace the gay lifestyle he knew back at University of Kentucky where he was a dental student. In despair, his mother, Angela, tells how she turned to a God she’d only heard about to find peace, joy, and hope...
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2/2 Blessed Be the Name of the Lord
Parenting a prodigal isn’t easy. Dennis Mansfield knows. His son, Nate, started experimenting with marijuana as a teen and eventually became addicted to heroin in his twenties. Dennis talks about his hopes and love for his son, despite his rebellion and eventual incarceration. Praying jail time would turn him around, Dennis continued to encourage his son after his release, and is thankful for the time he spent with Nate before he was found dead from an adverse drug reaction that killed him...
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1/2 My Boy, My Prodigal
There are defining moments in every life. Dennis Mansfield, an executive film producer and father of three, talks about his spiritual journey, his marriage and his children, particularly his oldest son, Nate. Dennis talks openly about Nate’s early drug use, his spiral downward into the drug culture, including his run-in with the law, and his attempts with his wife to help their prodigal son.
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2/2 Strategies for Parenting Your Adopted Child
Barbara Rainey, talks about some of the ways adoption affects your marriage, your other children, and your relationship with Christ.
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1/2 Adopting Deborah
Adoption isn't a fairy tale, but it is a miracle. Barbara Rainey talks about her early adoption desires and her dream-come-true daughter Deborah, whom she and Dennis adopted more than twenty years ago.
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Bridging the Gap of Interracial Adoption
After Ryan Bomberger’s birth mother was raped, she could easily have chosen abortion…but Ryan and his nine siblings are glad she didn’t. Tune in for this incredible story of life giving redemption in the face of incredible hardship.
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2/2 On The Death of the Saints
The death of someone we love is an unwelcome reality, but how do we continue to live and function in a worldly realm when someone who has impacted us so deeply is no longer with us? Join us as Dr. Michael Easley eulogizes his friend and mentor Dr. Howard Hendricks, and unpacks the Gospel truth of our coming resurrection.
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1/2 He’s Not Just a “Prof”, He’s My Dad
Plenty of well known people receive flowery eulogies from the famous and powerful, but far fewer receive parting words of genuine love and affirmation from their children. Dr. Howard Hendricks was one of those fortunate men who received both. Join us as we celebrate a life lived to the glory of God, as recounted by his children.
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3/3 Lessons We've Learned as Parents
Some of the greatest lessons of life come through parenting. Michael and Sharon Dennehey, the parents of 12 children, nine of whom are adopted, have spent much time in life’s classroom and reflect on what adoption has taught them. The Denneheys remind listeners that as believers, we’ve all been adopted by God, and that expanding their family through adoption hasn’t depleted the love they have to give, but has enlarged it.
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2/3 The Realities of Adoption
Adoption has its challenges. Michael and Sharon Dennehy, known as the “United Nations” couple due to the number of international adoptions they’ve pursued, talk about the challenges and realities of adopting children with special needs. Sharon admits there are days when parenting seems overwhelming, and she just wants to take a long nap. Then she remembers God’s calling, and she realizes afresh the amazing blessing she has is these children.
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1/3 Nurturing a Heart for Adoption
Have you ever considered adoption? Michael and Sharon Dennehy didn’t, at least not in the early years of marriage as they dreamed about their ideal family. But God began to change their minds. And then they saw George, a little boy from Romania with no arms, and knew they wanted him to be their son. Michael and Sharon talk about the incredible family God designed for them, which includes 12 children, nine of whom are adopted and many of whom have special needs.
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Contagious Courage
Courage can be contagious – but in order to transmit it to someone else, you have to have it yourself, and they have to be exposed to it. Dennis Rainey shares the attributes of Joshua, a courageous servant of God in this powerful message on courage.
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Biblical Womanhood
When we experience failures and defeats, it’s tempting to walk away, and Priscilla Shirer says that’s the moment when Christ often shows up and uses our defeat as a pulpit to proclaim His glory. Join us, as Priscilla Shirer speaks on the Sisterhood of the Net, on the next FamilyLife Today
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The Marriage God Wants You To Have
Do you think your marriage is supposed to be the most important relationship in your life? If so, then Voddie Baucham wants you to read Revelation 19 again. Understanding and living out our marriages as a picture of the coming marriage of Christ and his Bride, on the next FamilyLife Today with Dennis Rainey
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Characteristics of a Repentant Spouse
Are you looking for something that can revolutionize your marriage? Eric Mason says you might want to start with a little repentance. He shares characteristics of a genuinely broken, truly repentant spouse, based on Psalm 51.
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Dr. Love's Prescription for a Happy Marriage
"Is it love, or is it the flu?" In a tongue-in-cheek, but biblical presentation, Bob Lepine explains 5 toxic behaviors that impair physical "feelings" of romance in marriage relationships.
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Saved by Suffering
How do you cope with suffering when it comes? Do you look for the silver lining or throw a pity party? Tullian Tchividjian, the grandson of legendary evangelist Billy Graham, exposes the myth that good things naturally come to good people and bad things happen to bad people, but instead points us to the truth that suffering is a universal part of life and comes to all equally. Tullian recalls the difficulty he had coping with his parents divorce, but now sees it as a gift that exposed his...
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The Gift of Suffering
God promises that if we abide in Him we’ll experience blessing. But does that also mean we’ll be happy? Author and pastor Tullian Tchividjian explains that being blessed by God doesn’t necessarily translate into a life of pleasure and ease. Tullian points us back to the theology of the cross which says that suffering and difficulty can set us free to see how small we are and how truly big and competent God is.
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The Reality of Suffering
Life has its moments of suffering. But in those moments our faith grows, as does our character. Pastor Tullian Tchividjian remembers some painful situations in his past, including the time not too long ago when he took over the pastorate at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church. Tullian reveals what God taught him in that difficult situation, and considers what it was that set him free to be who God called him to be. Tullian further explains why suffering is really a gift of God in disguise.
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Answering the Call of Fatherhood
It’s been said, “A boy without a father is like an explorer without a map.” Author and pastor Doug Wilson reflects on his decision as a young father to start a Christian school when his children were small, and encourages other men to say, “Geronimo!” and jump to action when the circumstances call for it. Doug defines masculinity as “the glad assumption of sacrificial responsibility,” and tells how the family is blessed when a man gives himself away in loving sacrifice to his wife and...
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Where are the Fathers?
Kids are running on fumes today – what our guest, Pastor Doug Wilson, calls father hunger. Doug, a father of three and grandfather to 16, implores men to be intentional in their role as fathers and model and instruct their children on the responsibilities of manhood: to provide and protect.
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Remembering Howard Hendricks
For over five decades, Dr. Howard Hendricks faithfully labored in God’s vineyard. He served with humility, shunning the limelight, even as he shaped the theological worldview of over 13,000 students at Dallas Theological Seminary. Last Wednesday, February 20th, 2013, Dr. Hendricks departed for heaven. Join us as we pay tribute to a great Patriarch, our friend, Dr. Howard Hendricks.
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Jesus Loves Me
Learn a simple and creative way to teach your children the true meaning of Easter. Dennis Rainey and Bob Lepine have some kids in the studio to help them talk about this important story.
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Creative Ideas for Easter
What are you doing to teach your children the true meaning of Easter? Moms Barbara Rainey and Tracey Eyster tell how they celebrated Easter when their children were young, and share some fun ideas that can help your children embrace the wonder and awe of Jesus’ death and resurrection.
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Honoring Christ as the Great “I AM”
God first introduced Himself as “I AM.” How would you introduce him to others? Barbara Rainey talks about her new resource designed to teach your family about the great I AM, and to proclaim His name during the Easter season. Called “Behold the Lamb,” Barbara explains how this devotional can be used during Holy Week as to explain who Jesus is.
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Remembering Christ's Death and Resurrection
Is the gospel the focus of your Easter celebration? Barbara Rainey reminds us that Easter is a perfect time to proclaim your faith to believers as well as nonbelievers as they visit your home during the Lenten season. A great way to do that is through “Behold the Lamb,” an interactive devotional Barbara created designed to teach your children who Jesus is. Consisting of an artfully designed wreath featuring a lamb and the words, “I AM,” this resource explores the eight “I AM” statements...
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Letters of Love
Trying to reach your loved one's heart? Why not try a love letter! Church history professor Michael Haykin shares some revealing letters written by some of our most beloved theologians from the past, including Samuel Pierce, Benjamin Bedham, and Martin Lloyd Jones.
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Embracing Companionship
If you think Christians of yesteryear were bores when it came to romance, think again. We turn back the pages of history as Michael Haykin, professor of church history at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, talks about the romances and love letters of some of our most well-known theologians, including Martin Luther and John Calvin.
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Pornography: Poisoning Marital Intimacy
In today’s society, pornography is so ubiquitous that many counselors essentially presume it is present in any marriage where sexual difficulties exist. Russell Moore exposes the evil of pornography to the light of Gospel truth, as he explores the root causes behind sexual and relational dysfunction in Christian marriages.
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Purifying the Marriage Bed
It’s been said that the best defense is a good offense. Russell Moore says that when it comes to maintaining marital fidelity, a wife’s best defense may well be to move into her husband’s life with hard questions and a loving presence to open up the dialogue about marital fidelity – before the affair happens.
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Purity: Not Just for the Unmarried
You’re faithful to your spouse, right? You’ve never cheated, and you wouldn’t think of starting. And, your spouse feels the same way, right? Consequently, you’re not a risk for sexual temptation, right? Russell Moore says not so fast. You WILL encounter sexual temptation in your marriage, because sexual temptation is a demonic response against the holy sexual intimacy in your healthy marriage. Moore outlines how to guard your marriage bed against the assaults of the devil.
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Adventure, Focus and Time
One of the reasons we get bored in our marriage is that it becomes too routine. Break out of your rut - try new things, go new places, and you'll find the passion returning once again, according to Dennis and Barbara Rainey.
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Romance That Goes the Distance
Dennis and Barbara Rainey tell how going the extra mile in romance can put the "mmmm" back in marriage.
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All I Want is a Little Respect
Dennis and Barbara Rainey say that understanding what your husband needs and providing that is a powerful way to communicate respect.
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Ingredients to Make Romance Grow: Security and Acceptance
Dennis and Barbara Rainey encourage you to give your marriage a romantic lift by accepting your spouse as he/she is.
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Beware the Little Foxes: Obstacles to Romance
Dennis and Barbara Rainey tell how the little nuisances of life are often the very things that become big obstacles to romance. Find out how you can jump these hurdles for a more intimate marriage.
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Significance After the NFL
Jeff Kemp was a successful NFL quarterback with a great marriage, wonderful kids, significant ministry and a great heritage of spiritual vitality. So why, after eleven years as a quarterback in the NFL, was he standing on the porch of his home lamenting his troubles? More importantly, how could he find his way out of a deep pit of despair? Jeff Kemp reflects on moving from success to significance.
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Marriage Under the Shadow of the NFL
A drive for success runs deep in the Kemp family. Jeff’s dad Jack was the stuff of legend, both in the NFL as a Super Bowl winning quarterback, and as a powerful and influential United States Congressman. So it was no surprise that Jeff was driven to succeed. But how does one move from success to significance? Jeff shares what football taught him about handling life’s blitzes, and how God opened his eyes to true significance in Christ.
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Valuable Lessons From My Sons
Tony Dungy, head coach of the Indianapolis Colts, shares what he's learned from his sons, Eric and Jordan, as well as his son James, who died in 2005.
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Preparing for Easter
Are your memories of Easter seasons past mostly a blurry rush of dresses and colored eggs? Or, does Easter sneak up on you by surprise? If so, perhaps you’re missing the richness of Lent. Barbara Rainey helps us rediscover Lent, the season of preparation for the holiest week in the Church’s entire year.
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Unlocking the Mysteries of Lent
Many Christians have forgotten the “holy” in the holidays…and perhaps none more so than Easter. Barbara Rainey helps us rediscover Easter, as we rediscover Lent… Easter’s season of preparation for the greatest holiday in the church year.
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Parenting As a Calling
God has a divine purpose in mind when He calls us to be parents. Dennis Rainey says when he and his wife Barbara were first planning their family, he wrongly assumed God was giving them children to raise. But after years of parenting, he realized that the children were to help him finish growing up. Dennis Rainey shares the final installment of lessons learned in 40 years of marriage from a talk he gave to students at Southern Seminary.
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Great Marriage Means Lavish Forgiveness
It is impossible to experience marriage as God designed it without being liberal and lavish in forgiveness. Dennis Rainey shares the second installment of lessons he's learned in over 40 years of marriage, to students at Southern Seminary.
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Moving Past Rookie Errors
In the first few years of his marriage to Barbara, Dennis Rainey made a lot of, what he calls "rookie errors". Today, after celebrating 40 years of marriage, he wishes to pass along the first ten of forty lessons he learned to students at Southern Theological Seminary to help them avoid making the same errors.
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A Marriage Revolution
Though madly in love, marriage didn't bring the happiness they longed for. Hans and Star Molegraaf tell how their marriage fell apart nearly as quickly as their red-hot romance had started. After separating, Hans tells how he began to come face-to-face with his anger issues, but Star admits she had already found someone else. Hear how God lead them back to one another and miraculously renovated their marriage.
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From Infatuation to Brokenness
Sparks flew the night they met. Hans and Star Molegraaf reminisce about their whirlwind courtship and their partying lifestyle that lead them away from the Lord and into each other's arms.
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Unity
Just five guidelines for a successful marriage: sounds easy! Author and pastor Tommy Nelson details these important steps, and gives a few thoughts to consider before you take the plunge.
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Essentials
Thinking about getting married? Author and pastor Tommy Nelson tells you how to build a marriage that will last.
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The Start of the Extraordinary
After 10 years of marriage Justin and Trish Davis felt like virtual strangers living under one roof. A slow drift became a great divide, and an extramarital affair threatened to end their marriage for good. But God had other plans. Justin and Trish Davis talk honestly about the marital problems that almost sunk their relationship and their ministry until God’s truth and healing brought their marriage back on solid ground.
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A Foundation of Sinking Sand
They knew they were right for each other, but marriage revealed they were much more different than they initially thought. A baby followed, and petty annoyances became resentment that drew them further and further off course. Pastor Justin Davis and his wife, Trish, talk about the early years of their marriage and the difficulties that turned them from lovers, to best friends, to friends, to enemies and eventually strangers.
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No Ordinary Beginning
Sometimes a drizzle can turn into a downpour. When Trisha first met Justin Davis on the campus of Lincoln Christian College sparks didn’t fly. At least not right away. But Justin persisted and soon their friendship turned to romance, and marriage followed. Justin and Trisha reflect back on their college days, their courtship, the awkward proposal and their even more awkward honeymoon.
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Standing on the Shoulders of the Father
What do Joshua, Joel, Alex, Brett, and Isaac Harris all have in common? Their mother and father, Sono and Gregg Harris! Listen as Gregg and five of his sons explain some of what goes into raising sons who embrace manhood early.
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Creating a Family Vision
Where is your family heading? If you don’t know, it’s likely you’ll wind up somewhere you don’t want to be. Greg Gunn, a father of seven and President of Family Vision Ministries, and his wife Rhonda teach couples how they can discover their family’s unique purpose and passion by creating a Family I.D.
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Write it Down, Live it Out, Pass it On
Businessmen are familiar with strategic planning. But what about applying that same strategy to your family? Family Vision Ministries President Greg Gunn and his wife, Rhonda, realized their need to be on the same page when it came to raising their family of seven. They started meeting regularly to discuss goals for their marriage and children, and eventually they came up with a family vision statement and the top 25 values they wanted their family to live by.
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Encouraging Our Guys
Are you encouraging your husband to be all he can be for Christ? Dennis Rainey and Pastor Kenny Luck, the Founder and President of Every Man Ministries, reflect on a wife’s ability to motivate and encourage her husband, especially as it relates to a man’s involvement in ministry. When men get healthy, says Luck, the church gets healthy, and Christ’s kingdom is advanced.
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Calling Men to a Higher Mission
The church’s least utilized asset are the men who attend. Kenny Luck, the Men’s Pastor at Saddleback Church, encourages men to get engaged in their local church and to catch a vision of what the Body of Christ can accomplish when each man’s passion for the Great Commission is ignited.
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Our On-Again, Off-Again Relationship with Food
Christian counselor Elyse Fitzpatrick, author of the book "Love to Eat, Hate to Eat," explains how we can take a biblical approach to food.
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Understanding Our Motivation for Eating
Author Elyse Fitzpatrick, a Christian counselor and Project Director for the Institute for Biblical Counseling, talks about the pleasures of eating, and warns us not to make food our Savior or a salve for our discontent.
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Is Food Your Idol?
Christian counselor Elyse Fitzpatrick, author of the book "Love to Eat, Hate to Eat," explores the connection between idolatry and our abuse of food.
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Getting Through College Debt-Free
Is it possible to get through college without going into debt? Ron Blue, the founder of Ron Blue & Co. and the current president of Kingdom Advisors, talks to parents and students alike about the benefits of paying for college as you go rather than relying on student loans.
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Outrunning the Debt Monster
Are your spending habits becoming a debt habit? Christian financial expert Ron Blue shares four biblical principles for building a healthy financial foundation for your family.
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More Recipes for Successful Family Fun
If family devotions make you yawn, it’s time to cook up some fun! FamilyLife’s Just Add Family recipe tin makes family devotions a quick and easy treat, and authors Kurt and Olivia Bruner will tell you how. Family fun is cooking at meal times, bed times, or anytime at all… just add family!
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Rousing Recipes for Fun Family Devotions
Building a strong spiritual heritage can start with simple recipe cards! Kurt and Olivia Bruner (parents of four) tell parents how to whip up fun family devotions with FamilyLife’s Just Add Family resource. Grab a card and go for new ideas to make family times fun, appealing, and fruitful.
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Are You Adopted? Part 2
Lois had been lied to for 48 years. Was it God’s will that she found out the truth now? Author Lois Rabey talks about discovering the truth about her birth.
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Are You Adopted? Part 1
Her mother had died years earlier and her father was gravely ill. But Lois was about to get the shock of her life. Author Lois Rabey tells how she felt when a family secret that had been hidden for 48 years was finally revealed.
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Christmas Spirit with Keith & Kristyn Getty
12/24 Keith and Kristyn Getty remind us the reason for the season. Presenting Christmas hymns and carols from the Getty's album, and a special reading of the biblical story by Kristyn Getty. Note: No podcast available for this program due to copyright restrictions.
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Soulmates, Unicorns and other Myths
Are you on a quest to find your soul mate? If so, you may be on the wrong journey. Counselor Jim Keller probes the legend of the soul mate as he explores and explodes mythologies of marital happiness. Jim Keller turns marriage upside down and sheds light on what makes a Godly marriage.
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Drifting Into Conflict
Many couples drift into marital miscommunication, yet nearly as many find themselves surprised both by the arrival and the intensity of the storm. What happened? Counselor Jim Keller reveals a simple yet profound truth about communication; How you listen has a lot more to do with communication than how you speak. Jim Keller explores the art of listening.
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In Praise of Large Families
How many children does it take to make a large family? Four? Six? Eight? Dennis Rainey talks with Leslie Leyland Fields, author of the book "Surprise Child," about the benefits of a large family. Leslie, a mother of six, tells how her big family has enlarged her heart and changed her in ways she didn't think possible when she was single.
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Relational Tension Increases at Christmas
It's challenging enough trying to blend two families in a re-marriage, but blending family traditions surrounding Christmas takes the "blender" to a higher speed. Bob and Vickie Maday and their respective daughters, Katie and Jonell frankly describe the uncomfortable but inevitable tension that exists in the early years of a new blended family's Christmas traditions.
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Blending Your Family Traditions
Bob and Vicki Maday each had adult children from previous marriages, when they decided to get married. But, since their kids were adults, they should be able to process this new blended family like adults, and transition quickly. Right? Not so fast. Bob and Vicki's adult daughters Katie and Jonell share the complicated emotions they had to wade through when their parents married each other and created a new blended family.
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Blending a Family
Rob Bugh is a pastor and a widower, Rhonda is a pediatrician and a widow. How do you bring two very different people and two very different households together to form a new home? Blended Family Expert Ron Deal joins Rob and Rhonda as they explore the challenges and opportunities associated with blending families after the death of a spouse.
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Coming Out of the Clouds
As a forty something woman, Rhonda found herself widowed. Her late husband had been a Godly man, a highly respected surgeon, a great dad and the love of her life. Now he was gone. Across town, Rhonda’s pastor, Rob Bugh – her husband’s best friend and pastor – had only recently watched cancer take the love of his life. Now, even in the midst of their grief, sparks were beginning to fly between newly widowed Rob and Rhonda…but could it really work? Hear Rob and Rhonda’s story of blending two...
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Finding Grace in the Depths of Disappointment
Rhonda was a beloved wife, a great mom and a successful pediatrician. Her husband was a Godly man, a respected surgeon and the love of her life. Together, it looked like happily ever after, until the day her husband came home with stunning news: “I have terminal cancer”. Join us for Rhonda’s powerful journey through the valley of the shadow of death, and beyond.
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How We Build Strong Families
Dennis Rainey shares the second five urgent steps a family can take to stay spiritually healthy.
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Ten Urgent Steps
Dennis Rainey takes some time to encourage families, especially fathers, and share some disciplines that will keep your family spiritually healthy. Not commandments, but more than suggestions, Dennis offers the first five of ten urgent steps.
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His Name Matters – Exalting Jesus at Christmas
Our homes are living testimonies of our values, and no more so than at Christmas. But how do we cut through the social noise at Christmastime and proclaim the name of the one who owns this holiday? Barbara Rainey reveals an exciting new way you can put Christ back into Christmas.
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Jesus; the Real Light on Your Christmas Tree
We all know Deuteronomy 6 commands us to "teach our children about God" – but have we missed the other part of the passage? We are also commanded to adorn our homes with physical evidence of the Word of God. Find out how you can do that, using the names of Christ, on the next FamilyLife Today.
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Submission and Respect
How do you respect and submit to an unbelieving spouse? Lynn Donovan, Dineen Miller, and Darla Stone love their husbands. But loving their husbands doesn’t mean there are things they wouldn’t like to change about them, especially spiritually. These faithful women learned long ago that even though their spouse may not share their faith, God still expects them to submit to their husband’s authority as leader of the home. Hear them tell how they honored their unbelieving husbands in the areas...
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When Differing Values Collide
Marriage can often accentuate the differences in a husband and wife. Especially spiritual differences. Lynn Donovan, Dineen Miller and Darla Stone talk about the reality of being married to an unbeliever.
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Unequally Yoked: Three Stories
Do you wish you and your husband were on the same page spiritually? That’s what authors Lynn Donovan, Dineen Miller and Darla Stone also wanted as they dove deeper into their faith. But what could they do while they waited for their husbands to come to the Lord? Find out what these prayer warriors did to help their marriage thrive and grow despite the spiritual differences.
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Celebrating Christmas
Have you ever wondered why we celebrate Christmas the way we do? If so, join Phil Vischer, the VeggieTales Creator of the DVD, “Why Do We Call it Christmas?,” as he explores the who, what, where, when, and how of our most popular holiday, Christmas.
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Buck Denver Asks…
Cutting down trees? Hanging stockings? Santa Claus? What do any of these have to do with Jesus’ birthday? More than you think! VeggieTales Creator Phil Vischer talks about his latest Christmas DVD which explains the meaning behind some of our fondest Christmas traditions.
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As Mom: Q & A with Barbara Rainey
Barbara Rainey, answers your most perplexing questions about parenting.
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Jesus: the Reason We Celebrate
Are you tired of reindeer, snowmen, and Santas dominating your Christmas holidays? Would you like a simple way to focus on the real reason we celebrate Christmas? If so, we might just have the answer. Barbara Rainey explains how Adorenaments – seven names of Christ from the passages of Luke and Isaiah, shaped into beautiful ornaments, can help you reflect on the true nature of Christ our King as they hang on your tree, wreath, or gifts this Christmas.
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A Christ-Focused Christmas
A growing to-do list can keep us distracted during the holidays. The spiritual aspect of the season oftentimes gets overshadowed as we bake, shop and decorate ourselves to exhaustion. But let’s not forget the real reason we celebrate – the birth of Jesus Christ. Barbara Rainey talks about the latest tool for keeping Christ front and center of your celebrations -- Adorenaments, a beautiful set of seven names of Christ that will remind you of who, and why, we worship each December.
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Finding Life in the Cross
Keith and Kristyn Getty talk about their music and the need to reflect Christ's work on the Cross in the hymns that they write.
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Hymns That Lift Our Hearts and Minds to God
Dennis Rainey talks with Irish composers and artists, Keith and Kristyn Getty, the talent behind the popular hymns "In Christ Alone" and "Speak Oh Lord". Find out why they're on a mission to revive the art of hymnody for a new generation.
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Why Me?
Has God ever let you down? Jerry Sittser lost his wife, mother and daughter in a tragic accident that left him wondering, "Why?" Then a friend challenged him with the thought, "Why not?" Rethinking his expectations about life and Christianity, Jerry came to realize that God didn't promise him a pain-free life, but promised instead to be with him in his loss and suffering.
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Death is the New Life
Dying to yourself probably isn’t at the top of your list of things you need to do today. But it should be. Michael and Hayley DiMarco talk about the life we can find when we die to our own desires and allow God to lead. Hayley recalls how shopping, and the search for more stuff, became her idol and landed her $20,000 in debt after college. She explains how worshiping God and taking a year-long shopping sabbatical shifted her focus and brought her to a healthier, holier place.
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Taking Up Our Cross
Have you taken up your cross lately? Authors Michael and Hayley DiMarco recall times when they’ve had to die to themselves in order to bring life to their marriage. They assure listeners that it’s okay if they find they’re at the end of themselves because they’ll find something more valuable – the abundant life that Christ has promised.
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Finding God in the Stories of Loss
In the midst of deepest suffering, where is God and why doesn’t He deliver us and answer our prayers? Perhaps the answer to that question lies in the nature of the prayers themselves. Author Jerry Sittser and Ron Deal, who have both dealt with unexpected loss of loved ones, talk frankly about finding their place in God’s story.
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Considering Remarriage
God has redeemed the past. God will be with us in the future. For many Christians, the last place they think to live is in the here and now. They imagine that re-marriage will solve their problems and bring them happiness. Jerry Sittser and Ron Deal remind us that our most pressing business right now is what God has brought into our lives today. Be assured, God will give us grace for our tomorrows.
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Living Out Your Story of Redemption
Throughout history, men and women of God who have achieved notable accomplishments have shared a common characteristic: a steely resolve to put aside all pain, suffering, and setbacks in pursuit of what God has called them to. Jerry Sittser talks about the years he focused on raising his children as a single dad, and the turn of events that led him to consider courtship and eventually, re-marriage.
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Becoming Spiritually Ambidextrous
As we live our lives, we are writing a story. The best stories include challenges and adversities. Years after the death of his wife, mother and daughter, Jerry Sittser discusses how God uses suffering to write his story.
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Finding Your Story in the Bigger Story
If suffering is so integral to human sanctification, why do we, as humans fear and avoid it? Jerry Sittser discusses the role of suffering in our spiritual formation.
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The Final Mission
After nearly a decade of service, Navy Seal Adam Brown said goodbye to his wife and family, departing for what he expected to be his final mission. It was truly his final mission. But Adam was on two missions. One for the US military, and the other was a mission from God. A riveting story of heroism, sacrifice and redemption, as told by his widow, Kelly Brown.
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Overcoming Adversity
Adam Brown had already overcome a drug addiction and trouble with the law. He joined the military and became an elite Navy Seal. But that, says his widow, Kelly Brown, was just the beginning of his adversity. He later overcame what, for anyone else, would have been career ending injuries. He adapted and continued thrive as a leader in the Navy Seals.
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Dynamic and Destructive
For awhile her life lacked direction. But now that she was back home in Arkansas, life was looking up. Kelly Brown, widow of Navy Seal, Adam Brown, talks about meeting Adam, a daring young man with a sparkle in his eye and a bent towards living in the extreme, when she was 21. They fell hard and fast. But alcohol and drugs almost ruined their relationship before it started. Hear her tell about their rocky romance and how she eventually became “Mrs. Adam Brown.”
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Disarming the Affair
Judy Starr’s emotional affair was strong, but was her commitment to her husband stronger? Judy Starr tells listeners the steps she took to close the door on her emotional affair. Despite her deep connection to the sea captain, ultimately Judy found that her commitment to her husband and to her God was stronger.
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The Attraction Begins
A long-time missionary couple, an exotic locale, and a handsome sea captain: the recipe for disaster? Missionary Judy Starr found herself enticed to leave her marriage for a handsome sea captain. It was unthinkable, but it happened while she and her husband were ministering in the Caribbean and she began an emotional affair with another man.
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Cultivating "That Girl"
Do you remember "that girl"? No, not the one on late-night reruns. The fun and flirty one that used to take extra care to look cute. The one that would go out of her way to please the man she loved—"that girl" you used to be before you got married and had children. Heidi St. John talks about the importance of cultivating "that girl" for your husband. Heidi also reminisces about her grandmother, whose love and adoration for her husband never diminished throughout 75 years of marriage.
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What Spells Romance?
Are you romantic? Author and home-schooling mom Heidi St. John talks frankly to wives about infusing their marriages with a little bit of old-fashioned romance. Heidi reveals what spells romance to her husband, such as praise, quality time, a submissive spirit, and sex; and she asks wives to consider what they can do to keep their marriages from bogging down in the mundane.
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Making Your Husband a Priority
Are you sacrificing your marriage on the altar of good parenting? Wife and mother of seven Heidi St. John talks about the importance of nurturing your marriage through the child-rearing years. Heidi recalls the romance erosion that happened in her own marriage, and remembers the pivotal day when her husband, Jay, told her he missed her. Heidi reminds mothers not to neglect their marriages and to set aside time each day to reconnect with their spouses.
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Time for a Radical Sabbatical
Are you feeling overwhelmed with busyness? If so, you'll want to hear about the radical steps one over-extended mother took to step out of the rat race and refocus on her family. With extra time back in their schedules, author Joanne Kraft talks about some of the fun family field trips they took and her favorite family memories from their relaxing and rejuvenating year off.
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Breaking Free from Busyness
Remember time-outs? Have you ever wished there were time-outs for families—time away from all the to-do lists generated by our culture and more freedom to do what you really want? Recovering too-busy mom Joanne Kraft recalls the day when she and her husband decided their family was going to take a year off from all sports and extracurricular activities to spend more time together. Find out how they benefitted from a slower pace of life, and how you can do the same.
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Dating Friendships
Is dating that beneficial? According to pastors Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas, not really. For Heistand and Thomas, the activity of going on a date isn't a problem, but too many people use the dating relationship to justify their sexual activity, as if "being in a relationship" makes promiscuity okay. Instead of dating, they encourage singles to establish dating friendships, getting to know someone gradually over time, and then making their intentions of marriage known before beginning to...
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Sexually Involved—Yes, No, Maybe?
How far is too far? Pastors Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas share a biblical theology of dating aimed at persuading a new generation of Christians to get serious about honoring Christ with their sexuality.
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Grace Adopts Us into His Family
Max Lucado shares the compelling story of Lee Nailling, a boy of eight who learned firsthand about adoption when his father put him and his two younger brothers on the orphan train from New York to Texas. Find out what happened to Lee, and what happens to us all, when God declares us to be His very own sons and daughters.
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Grace Extends Forgiveness to Others
Who in your life needs your forgiveness? Pastor and author Max Lucado tells the powerful story of Victoria Ruvolo, a woman who illustrated the love and forgiveness of God one November after teens intentionally threw an object at her vehicle, breaking the windshield and shattering her face. Nine months later, as she stood in court, Victoria was able to exhibit grace to her offenders. Max explains why vengeance should always be the Lord's and why you should consider how much you've been...
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God's Best Idea
What's so unique about grace? Everything! Best-selling author Max Lucado explains why grace is so essential to the Christian message and why it frees believers from having to prove themselves to God. Max notes that we shouldn't limit grace to what Jesus already did for us; it's what He does—His presence inside our heart. Bottom line: God is the ultimate heart surgeon, transplanting His heart into ours, as He tells us in Ezekiel 36: "I'll remove your heart of stone and replace it with a heart...
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Every Little Prayer, Every Little Kiss
When Steven Curtis Chapman sings lines like "it's all about love," that’s not just some generic pop-song hook, because Steven has a special woman in mind. Hear from Steven and Mary Beth Chapman about how Christ’s love sustains and defines their own rich love story.
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How Mary Beth and Steven Curtis Chapman Met
Before he was a Grammy and Dove Award winning singer-songwriter, Steven Curtis Chapman was just another struggling Nashville artist, until he met a young woman named Mary Beth. Hear how a storybook romance blossomed into a marriage that honors God through the hard times as well as the good.
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Red Light, Green Light
Dating again has its pluses and minuses. When do you know to take caution? Ron Deal, FamilyLife's director of Blended Family Ministries, joins single mom Sabrina Beasley and Rob and Rhonda Bugh, a widower and widow whose marriage formed a blended family of nine, to talk about the character traits one should look for in a prospective date and future mate. Find out what behaviors should immediately signal a red flag in the relationship.
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The Realities of Dating Again
Are you ready to date again? Christian counselor Ron Deal shares his thoughts about dating and remarriage, and encourages those who are divorced or widowed to be intentional about creating a home that is redemptive, even if remarriage never happens. Weighing in on the topic is Pastor Rob Bugh and his wife, Rhonda, who have a blended family of nine; and Sabrina Beasley, whose seven-year marriage ended in 2010 when her husband was killed in a car accident, leaving her a single mother of two.
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"Coupleness" Doesn't Equal "Familyness"
Dating is hard, and dating again after divorce or loss can be even more complex. Therapist and blended-family expert Ron Deal joins Rob and Rhonda Bugh, long-time family friends who married each other after their spouses died; and widow and mother of two, Sabrina Beasley, to talk about the challenges of dating and marrying again.
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Understanding the Four P's
Is the young man pursuing your daughter worthy of her? Dennis Rainey talks with pastor Voddie Baucham about the qualifications of a married man, which includes being a priest, prophet, provider and pastor of his family.
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Discovering Biblical Leadership
Will the young man who marries your daughter know how to lead her? Pastor Voddie Baucham explains why a young man must be able to lead in love, righteousness, and intimacy in order to be a good husband.
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Building a Son-in-Law
Sometimes if you can't find the right man you have to build him. Pastor and author Voddie Baucham equips fathers to ask the right probing questions of the young men who are pursuing their daughters.
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Step Up Young Man
What does it mean when a young man asks a woman's father for her hand in marriage? Pastor Voddie Baucham talks with Dennis Rainey about the significance of the hand-off from a bride's father to her fianc, as well as the characteristics a young man must have that show he is ready to marry.
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Living in Light of Eternity
When someone battles through cancer, and then receives a clean bill of health, something remains--a nagging shadow of doubt. "Am I cured?" "Will it return?" "How long do I really have?" For Matt and Lauren Chandler, these and other questions find their ultimate answer in the Chandler's robust faith in Jesus Christ.
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The Day Everything Changed
Thanksgiving Day 2009 is forever etched in the mind of Lauren Chandler. That's the day her husband, pastor Matt Chandler, experienced a series of violent seizures that marked the beginning of Matt's two-year battle with brain cancer. Listen to an exclusive interview and update with Matt and Lauren Chandler.
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Drawing Near to Those Who Are Far
A dangerous prayer? Or a step of faith toward great adventures? When Jennie Allen and her husband, Zac, told God they would do anything, they weren't sure where He would lead them. Now, having been led to adopt a child from Rwanda, Jennie shares how thankful they are for what God has taught them about trusting Him and how amazed they are by the joy they found on the other side of obedience.
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Signing Over Your Life
"We'll do anything." That's the prayer that Jennie Allen and her husband, Zac, told God as they sought His will for their lives. Even though it felt like death, Jennie explains, she was at a point where she didn't want to be normal but wanted to surrender to Christ completely. What was the result? Peace, and a life and a message that is simpler and clearer than ever before.
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Breaking the Idols
Jennie had grown up in church. And by all accounts, she had everything going for her, including a strong walk with God. Author Jennie Allen talks about the hour when she moved from being a person who knew about God to a person who craved being used and indwelt by the powerful Creator of the universe. Jennie recalls the night that she and her husband, Zac, gave God everything, including their lives, their comfort and their family.
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Adoption: The Gift That Keeps on Giving
When you're a successful collegiate football coach for a top program, life is already plenty complicated. So why would God call you into something so challenging as adoption? For Georgia Bulldog coach Mark Richt and his wife Katharyn, the answer was found in the face of their adopted daughter. Join us for a compelling story of sacrificial and surprising love.
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More to Give
What could you do to help the orphans, as commanded in Scripture? Mark Richt, head coach at the University of Georgia, and his wife, Katharyn, talk about the decision they made years ago to adopt two children from the Ukraine: a little girl named Anya, who was born with a facial deformity, and a 3-year-old boy named Zach. Hear them share what this commitment, made over 10 years ago, has meant to them and their children.
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Reaching Out to the Orphan, Part 2
The cost of adoption and fatherlessness weighs particularly hard on the next generation of men. Rick Warren, Dennis Rainey, Jedd Medefind and Russell Moore continue their discussion, in a special edition of FamilyLife Today recorded live at the Orphan Summit.
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Reaching Out to the Orphan, Part 1
The challenges of the orphan crisis are many and varied, and every Christian man needs to step up and play a part in the solution. Join Rick Warren, Dennis Rainey, Jedd Medefind as they discuss the problem, and offer solutions from their own life examples.
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Two Lives Changed
Each year, thousands of young men and women age out of the foster care system, and a very large number of them are left hopeless and at risk. Find out how one church embraced the challenge and changed the lives of two young women forever.
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Changing Relationships
The kids are grown and gone. Now what? Barbara Rainey and Susan Yates talk about the changing relationships a woman is likely to experience once she arrives at the empty nest. Barbara and Susan give some helpful suggestions for embracing this stage of life and intentionally improving the relationship she has with her husband, children and friends.
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Mixed Feelings Stirred Up By the Empty Nest
Am I the only one who feels this way? Barbara Rainey and Susan Yates recall how they felt when they first entered this confusing, liberating, and emotion-packed stage of life called the empty nest.
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What Your Husband Needs: Respect
A man needs to be honored in his home, and one way to do that is through respect. Author Arlene Pellicane shares three things that spell respect to her husband: sexual intimacy, letting him lead, and praise. She also tells why having fun and doing activities with your spouse builds the relationship and opens doors of communication.
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Next Stop: Eros
Respect for our husbands has far-reaching effects, especially in the bedroom. Wife and mom Arlene Pellicane lets wives in on a little secret about sex – husbands equate making love with respect, and the less intimacy they share with their wife, the less they feel respected. Hear Arlene's great advice for affair-proofing your marriage.
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Giving the Gift of Domestic Tranquility
Would others describe your home as peaceful? Arlene Pellicane, author of "31 Days to a Happy Husband," talks to wives about the importance of making their homes a sanctuary of peace and order. Sharing stories from her own life, Arlene explains how husbands want and need a place of rest, and can't often find it if the house is a wreck, the kids are screaming, and their wives are focused on everything but them.
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Married to a Liar
Are you totally honest with your spouse? Are they totally honest with you? Lou Priolo, author of "Picking Up the Pieces," reminds us that communication must be honest and open if we're going to have a healthy marriage. Concealment – or not telling the entire truth, is still a lie. But what do you do if your spouse isn't telling the truth? Lou explains that any behavior done to mislead or deceive is a lie and must be confronted.
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Taking Every Thought Captive
Has anyone ever broken your heart? Christian counselor Lou Priolo gives some sound advice for dealing with the emotions of a break-up. Lou explains that while we can't turn our emotions off, we can, with God's help, turn them around, and continue to love that person with the love of Christ, even if they aren't around.
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Breaking Up is Hard to Do
Live long enough, and someone will likely break your heart. Author and biblical counselor Lou Priolo talks about the emotions people feel as they struggle with a broken heart: guilt, loneliness, despair, hopelessness and shame. Lou encourages the brokenhearted to practice forgiveness and to remember Romans 12:18: "So far as it depends on you, live peaceably with everyone."
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Let's Walk Through the Bible
Remember your Sunday school days? If you're like most, you remember more about the craft projects and snacks than you do about learning the Scriptures. Dennis Rainey talks to Phil Vischer, the creator of VeggieTales and the interactive, online "mini-network" for children called JellyTelly. Phil talks about the collapse of his original company, Big Idea Productions, and his newest project that will take kids, and parents, chapter by chapter through the Bible, from Old Testament to the New.
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The Bible - Fun?
The Bible, and Bible study, is thought by many to be dry and boring. The good news is, it doesn't have to be! VeggieTales creator Phil Vischer wants parents and children alike to know that learning the Bible can be exciting and fun! Phil talks about his latest project, a 13-DVD series called Buck Denver Asks…What's in the Bible?, that will take families all the way through the Bible – Genesis to Revelation.
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The Desert of Estrangement
The earthquake of divorce doesn't just affect the spouses involved. Shock waves are felt by everyone who knows the couple, especially their children. Sharon Hersh, author of "Begin Again, Believe Again," talks about the divide that came between her and her daughter as her daughter reached adulthood. It culminated with them not speaking to each other for a year. Sharon explains how she began to rest in the notion that God was in the circumstances and would work it out in His own time. And to...
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Help on the Path: Embracing Surrender
Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before you can look up. That's where author and counselor Sharon Hersh found herself after her husband left her. Sharon tells how she turned to her old friends, alcohol and work, for comfort, but soon realized that only God, and all His grace, could lead her out of despair. Sharon recalls the moment when she was able to forgive her husband and surrender to God's will for her life.
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A Terrible Turning Point
She and her husband were considered "experts" in marriage. They spoke at conferences and gave couples biblical, practical advice on how to build intimacy and oneness. So when her own marriage dissolved, she was stunned. Christian counselor Sharon Hersh admits that parallel lives, lack of communication, and neglect of the marriage contributed to its demise, but shares how God is using her brokenness as a stepping stone to build another beautiful story of hope with her life.
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Dr. Meg's Food Advice
Tired of your kids scrunching their noses at the family dinner table? Family pediatrician Dr. Meg Meeker gives some wise advice for getting your kids to eat.
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Naked Surrender
Our bodies are a gift from God. Andrew Comiskey, founder of Desert Stream Ministries, talks about the same-sex attraction that began as a boy and influenced him in young adulthood. Through the love of his family and even greater love of his God, Andrew tells how he began to understand the beauty and power of his God-given sexuality and how he could become a good gift to the opposite sex.
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Celebrating Special Children
Rest for the weary. Cameron Doolittle and Brenda Solomon come together to talk about Jill's House, the respite care facility that's giving much needed rest to families in the Virginia, Washington, D.C. and Maryland area. Founded by Brenda and her husband, Lon, after they experienced the need for respite firsthand while caring for their daughter Jill, Jill's House provides overnight programs and weeklong day camps to children with special needs ages 6 to 17 and their siblings.
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Brenda's Story
Life's twists and turns can be unexpected and unimaginable. Brenda Solomon knows. In 1992 she gave birth to a daughter, Jill, who had a severe seizure disorder, which would eventually leave the child with intellectual disabilities. Brenda explains how the 24-hour care her daughter required sapped the life out of her family and lead them to nearly total exhaustion. But as she prayed for help, God stepped in with respite, and the idea of Jill's House, a full-service, overnight respite center,...
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Putting an End to Youth Entitlement
Do you feel more like the household maid than the queen of her castle? When Kay Wills Wyma asked her son to clean his room and he replied that it was her job, she knew something had to change. Kay and her husband began a 12-month experiment with their five children, introducing a new chore each month and rewarding them for a job well done. Amazed by what her kids were able to accomplish and the confidence they began to have, Kay began to realize the value of making kids work.
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Cleaning Up: Tackling Bedrooms and KP Duty
Are you doing for your kids what they should be doing for themselves? Author and mom Kay Wills Wyma decided to end the entitlement attitude she saw in her children by kicking off a one-year experiment in her home that would reward her kids for household chores. From making beds to grocery shopping to cleaning toilets, her family experienced for themselves the ways meaningful work can transform self-absorption into earned self-confidence and concern for others.
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Advice From a Former Enabler
Mom, are you tired of doing it all? Self-described enabler and mother of five, Kay Wills Wyma, tells how she introduced her kids to the basic tasks of independence by implementing an unusual one-year experiment designed to teach her kids to be helpers, rather than the helped, one household chore at a time.
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You're More Than Just a Mom
Mom, has cleaning, cooking and changing diapers all day lost its luster? While your daily “to-do” list may seem trivial to you at times, it doesn’t mean it’s not of vital importance. Today, Mother of two, Tracey Eyster, creator and editor of MomLifeToday.com, reminds mothers that what they are doing--shaping and molding the next generation--is more important than any other job out there. Tracey talks about some of the attitudes that often hinder a mother emotionally, including the attitude,...
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A Family is a Ministry
We all dream of what life will be like once we’re married. But the reality doesn’t always match the dream. Tracey Eyster, author of “Be the Mom", talks frankly about the early years of her marriage as she and her husband, Bill, were climbing the corporate ladder. A season of infertility, followed by the joyous birth of their daughter, showed her that her focus now had truly changed, and she longed to be home. Tracey tells Dennis Rainey how she supported Bill while he earned accolades as a...
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Adopting the Motherhood Mindset
Only 9% of high school girls say they want to be mothers. Erin Davis didn’t think she wanted to be a mother either, preferring instead a life of ministry beside her husband. But a high-risk pregnancy and a miracle named Elisha changed her mind and heart. Erin talks about her pregnancy, the ongoing ultrasound tests that hinted that something was wrong, and the advice of a doctor to abort. Erin gives mothers a kingdom vision for their role as mom.
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Our Children as Our Mission Field
"Erin was excited to impact the youth of her culture. But she is more excited now to impact generations to come as she diligently loves and mothers her two children. Author Erin Davis reminds listeners that it’s not a matter of whether or not you work inside or outside the home, but a matter of faith as you seek to fulfill God’s agenda rather than your own. Erin reflects how her ministry to kids has been enriched since she had children of her own, and how God is using motherhood as a way to...
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Embracing Motherhood
"Children are a blessing from the Lord. Do you really believe that? Erin Davis, founder of Graffiti Ministries, tells how the Lord changed her heart about motherhood. Erin and her husband had decided not to have children in order to serve the Lord wholeheartedly in youth ministry. But when she found out she was pregnant, and told at 12 weeks that the baby may not survive, she began to discover God’s heart for children and the valuable role that mothers have.
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Unpacking Peer Pressure
Feeling like you’ve been edged out in popularity by your tween’s friends? Take heart Mom and Dad– you are still the most important person in your child’s life. Mom and daughter duo, Dr. Brenda Hunter and Kristin Blair, talk about raising tweens during the perilous middle-school years. Although peer pressure is powerful, especially since “fitting in” is the most important thing in a middle-schooler’s life, parents need to be at the top of their game, recognizing bad influences and encouraging...
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Setting Boundaries for Your Middle-Schoolers
Has parenting gotten harder since your child hit puberty? Psychologist Dr. Brenda Hunter and her daughter, education columnist Kristen Blair, talk about the challenges parents of tweens face. Most concerning, they relate, is the bombardment of the media and it’s infringement on the life of the family and the life of their children. Hunter and Blair encourage parents to take back the territory they’ve lost by setting some healthy boundaries for their children.
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Embracing the Stay-at-Home Life
Meeting “the one” her freshman year, moving to Germany… Those weren’t the only surprises God would have for her in the coming years. Lisa Williams, the former anchor of the K-LOVE morning show, tells what it was that lead her into radio and talks frankly about her 20 year struggle with infertility, her family, and her decision to become a stay-at-home mom.
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Temptation and Opportunity
When your kids leave home, what temptations will they face? Best-selling authors Michael and Hayley DiMarco reveal three truths about temptation, and encourage parents to teach their teens to handle temptation before they come knocking. The DiMarco’s also remind students that college is the most opportunity rich time in their lives, and to use this time wisely.
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The Challenges of Freedom
You’ve graduated, and the next chapter of your life is about to begin. Michael and Hayley DiMarco, founders and publishers of Hungry Planet books, reminisce about their own launch at 18 into the big, wide world and tell what they should have, and could have, done better, as they embraced their new-found freedom.
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- Christian Talk, Family
- Family Life
- English
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