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I Need Your Love - Is That True? - How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead

Byron Katie

In Loving What Is, bestselling author Byron Katie introduced thousands of people to her simple and profound method of finding happiness through questioning the mind. Now, I Need Your Love-Is That True? examines a universal, age-old source of anxiety: our relationships with others. In this groundbreaking book, Katie helps you question everything you have been taught to do to gain love and approval. In doing this, you discover how to find genuine love and connection. The usual advice offered in self-help books and reinforced by our culture advocates a stressful, all-consuming quest for love and approval. We are advised to learn self-marketing and manipulative skills-how to attract, impress, seduce, and often pretend to be something we aren't. This approach doesn't work. It leaves millions of walking wounded-those who, having failed to find love or appreciation, blame themselves and conclude that they are unworthy of love. I Need Your Love-Is That True? helps you illuminate every area in your life where you seem to lack what you long for most-the love of your spouse, the respect of your child, a lover's tenderness, or the esteem of your boss. Through its penetrating inquiry, you will quickly discover the falseness of the accepted ways of seeking love and approval, and also of the mythology that equates love with need. Using the method in this book, you will inquire into painful beliefs that you've based your whole life on-and be delighted to see them evaporate. Katie shows you how unraveling the knots in the search for love, approval, and appreciation brings real love and puts you in charge of your own happiness. "Everyone agrees that love is wonderful, except when it's terrible. People spend their whole lives tantalized by love-seeking it, trying to hold on to it, or trying to get over it. Not far behind love, as major preoccupations, come approval and appreciation. From childhood on, most people spend much of their energy in a relentless pursuit of these things, trying out different methods to be noticed, to pl

In Loving What Is, bestselling author Byron Katie introduced thousands of people to her simple and profound method of finding happiness through questioning the mind. Now, I Need Your Love-Is That True? examines a universal, age-old source of anxiety: our relationships with others. In this groundbreaking book, Katie helps you question everything you have been taught to do to gain love and approval. In doing this, you discover how to find genuine love and connection. The usual advice offered in self-help books and reinforced by our culture advocates a stressful, all-consuming quest for love and approval. We are advised to learn self-marketing and manipulative skills-how to attract, impress, seduce, and often pretend to be something we aren't. This approach doesn't work. It leaves millions of walking wounded-those who, having failed to find love or appreciation, blame themselves and conclude that they are unworthy of love. I Need Your Love-Is That True? helps you illuminate every area in your life where you seem to lack what you long for most-the love of your spouse, the respect of your child, a lover's tenderness, or the esteem of your boss. Through its penetrating inquiry, you will quickly discover the falseness of the accepted ways of seeking love and approval, and also of the mythology that equates love with need. Using the method in this book, you will inquire into painful beliefs that you've based your whole life on-and be delighted to see them evaporate. Katie shows you how unraveling the knots in the search for love, approval, and appreciation brings real love and puts you in charge of your own happiness. "Everyone agrees that love is wonderful, except when it's terrible. People spend their whole lives tantalized by love-seeking it, trying to hold on to it, or trying to get over it. Not far behind love, as major preoccupations, come approval and appreciation. From childhood on, most people spend much of their energy in a relentless pursuit of these things, trying out different methods to be noticed, to pl
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In Loving What Is, bestselling author Byron Katie introduced thousands of people to her simple and profound method of finding happiness through questioning the mind. Now, I Need Your Love-Is That True? examines a universal, age-old source of anxiety: our relationships with others. In this groundbreaking book, Katie helps you question everything you have been taught to do to gain love and approval. In doing this, you discover how to find genuine love and connection. The usual advice offered in self-help books and reinforced by our culture advocates a stressful, all-consuming quest for love and approval. We are advised to learn self-marketing and manipulative skills-how to attract, impress, seduce, and often pretend to be something we aren't. This approach doesn't work. It leaves millions of walking wounded-those who, having failed to find love or appreciation, blame themselves and conclude that they are unworthy of love. I Need Your Love-Is That True? helps you illuminate every area in your life where you seem to lack what you long for most-the love of your spouse, the respect of your child, a lover's tenderness, or the esteem of your boss. Through its penetrating inquiry, you will quickly discover the falseness of the accepted ways of seeking love and approval, and also of the mythology that equates love with need. Using the method in this book, you will inquire into painful beliefs that you've based your whole life on-and be delighted to see them evaporate. Katie shows you how unraveling the knots in the search for love, approval, and appreciation brings real love and puts you in charge of your own happiness. "Everyone agrees that love is wonderful, except when it's terrible. People spend their whole lives tantalized by love-seeking it, trying to hold on to it, or trying to get over it. Not far behind love, as major preoccupations, come approval and appreciation. From childhood on, most people spend much of their energy in a relentless pursuit of these things, trying out different methods to be noticed, to pl

Language:

English

Narrators:

Kimberly Farr

Length:

6h 51m


Chapters

Chapter 1
Chapter 1

03:01


Chapter 2
Chapter 2

03:06


Chapter 3
Chapter 3

03:04


Chapter 4
Chapter 4

03:08


Chapter 5
Chapter 5

01:19


Chapter 6
Chapter 6

03:18


Chapter 7
Chapter 7

02:56


Chapter 8
Chapter 8

01:13


Chapter 9
Chapter 9

03:47


Chapter 10
Chapter 10

03:21


Chapter 11
Chapter 11

03:17


Chapter 12
Chapter 12

03:27


Chapter 13
Chapter 13

01:37


Chapter 14
Chapter 14

03:58


Chapter 15
Chapter 15

03:34


Chapter 16
Chapter 16

03:05


Chapter 17
Chapter 17

03:54


Chapter 18
Chapter 18

03:19


Chapter 19
Chapter 19

03:49


Chapter 20
Chapter 20

02:52


Chapter 21
Chapter 21

02:40


Chapter 22
Chapter 22

04:00


Chapter 23
Chapter 23

04:06


Chapter 24
Chapter 24

03:49


Chapter 25
Chapter 25

04:31


Chapter 26
Chapter 26

03:01


Chapter 27
Chapter 27

03:04


Chapter 28
Chapter 28

03:33


Chapter 29
Chapter 29

02:56


Chapter 30
Chapter 30

02:54


Chapter 31
Chapter 31

03:31


Chapter 32
Chapter 32

03:51


Chapter 33
Chapter 33

03:29


Chapter 34
Chapter 34

03:03


Chapter 35
Chapter 35

01:37


Chapter 36
Chapter 36

03:07


Chapter 37
Chapter 37

03:59


Chapter 38
Chapter 38

03:23


Chapter 39
Chapter 39

03:47


Chapter 40
Chapter 40

03:39


Chapter 41
Chapter 41

03:20


Chapter 42
Chapter 42

03:50


Chapter 43
Chapter 43

03:39


Chapter 44
Chapter 44

02:58


Chapter 45
Chapter 45

02:52


Chapter 46
Chapter 46

03:31


Chapter 47
Chapter 47

03:20


Chapter 48
Chapter 48

01:41


Chapter 49
Chapter 49

03:14


Chapter 50
Chapter 50

03:13


Chapter 51
Chapter 51

03:13


Chapter 52
Chapter 52

04:17


Chapter 53
Chapter 53

03:11


Chapter 54
Chapter 54

03:07


Chapter 55
Chapter 55

02:41


Chapter 56
Chapter 56

03:40


Chapter 57
Chapter 57

02:37


Chapter 58
Chapter 58

03:32


Chapter 59
Chapter 59

03:42


Chapter 60
Chapter 60

03:05


Chapter 61
Chapter 61

03:31


Chapter 62
Chapter 62

04:14


Chapter 63
Chapter 63

03:25


Chapter 64
Chapter 64

04:22


Chapter 65
Chapter 65

03:45


Chapter 66
Chapter 66

03:46


Chapter 67
Chapter 67

03:42


Chapter 68
Chapter 68

03:54


Chapter 69
Chapter 69

03:06


Chapter 70
Chapter 70

03:26


Chapter 71
Chapter 71

03:27


Chapter 72
Chapter 72

03:59


Chapter 73
Chapter 73

03:39


Chapter 74
Chapter 74

03:52


Chapter 75
Chapter 75

03:18


Chapter 76
Chapter 76

03:30


Chapter 77
Chapter 77

03:03


Chapter 78
Chapter 78

03:58


Chapter 79
Chapter 79

03:51


Chapter 80
Chapter 80

03:24


Chapter 81
Chapter 81

03:06


Chapter 82
Chapter 82

03:45


Chapter 83
Chapter 83

02:50


Chapter 84
Chapter 84

04:17


Chapter 85
Chapter 85

01:49


Chapter 86
Chapter 86

03:20


Chapter 87
Chapter 87

03:25


Chapter 88
Chapter 88

03:17


Chapter 89
Chapter 89

03:25


Chapter 90
Chapter 90

04:01


Chapter 91
Chapter 91

03:14


Chapter 92
Chapter 92

02:53


Chapter 93
Chapter 93

03:46


Chapter 94
Chapter 94

03:39


Chapter 95
Chapter 95

01:17


Chapter 96
Chapter 96

03:47


Chapter 97
Chapter 97

03:36


Chapter 98
Chapter 98

03:29


Chapter 99
Chapter 99

03:01


Chapter 100
Chapter 100

03:29


Chapter 101
Chapter 101

04:21


Chapter 102
Chapter 102

04:01


Chapter 103
Chapter 103

03:44


Chapter 104
Chapter 104

03:02


Chapter 105
Chapter 105

04:14


Chapter 106
Chapter 106

02:00


Chapter 107
Chapter 107

03:11


Chapter 108
Chapter 108

03:27


Chapter 109
Chapter 109

03:26


Chapter 110
Chapter 110

03:20


Chapter 111
Chapter 111

03:34


Chapter 112
Chapter 112

03:23


Chapter 113
Chapter 113

03:56


Chapter 114
Chapter 114

03:24


Chapter 115
Chapter 115

03:25


Chapter 116
Chapter 116

04:11


Chapter 117
Chapter 117

03:56


Chapter 118
Chapter 118

03:52


Chapter 119
Chapter 119

01:05


Chapter 120
Chapter 120

02:50


Chapter 121
Chapter 121

03:50


Chapter 122
Chapter 122

03:29


Chapter 123
Chapter 123

03:03