How is it that your spouse can be a source of joy and of frustration all on the same day? How can your marriage move so quickly from hard to easy (and vice versa)? Why is it such a challenge to get in sync with your mate? It's possible to have a secure and successful marriage, but you have to know the access code that keeps the heart-to-heart connection to your spouse alive and well. Knowing your mate's code-the core needs he or she longs to have met-will give you ready access into the other's heart. The Marriage Code is packed with ideas for breaking through barriers so couples can connect at a richer, deeper level. When that happens, you'll learn to laugh and have fun together, problems will be solved faster and with greater empathy, small differences won't escalate into all-out wars, and you'll each go out of your way to meet the other's needs. The Marriage Code is filled with practical advice, biblical insights, warmth, and wit that will propel you toward greater intimacy in every area of your partnership together.