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Why Him? Why Her? - Finding Real Love by Understanding Your Personality Type

Helen Fisher

A groundbreaking book about how your personality type determines who you love Why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? In this fascinating and informative book, Helen Fisher, one of the world's leading experts on romantic love, unlocks the hidden code of desire and attachment. Each of us, it turns out, primarily expresses one of four broad personality types-Explorer, Builder, Director, or Negotiator-and each of these types is governed by different chemical systems in the brain. Driven by this biology, we are attracted to partners who both mirror and complement our own personality type. Until now the search for love has been blind, but Fisher pulls back the curtain and reveals how we unconsciously go about finding the right match. Drawing on her unique study of 40,000 men and women, she explores each personality type in detail and shows you how to identify your own type. Then she explains why some types match up well, whereas others are problematic. (Note to Explorers: be prepared for a wild ride when you hitch your star to a fellow Explorer!) Ultimately, Fisher's investigation into the complex nature of romance and attachment leads to astonishing new insights into the essence of dating, love, and marriage. Based on entirely new research-including a detailed questionnaire completed by five million people in thirty-three countries-Why Him? Why Her? will change your understanding of why you love him (or her) and help you use nature's chemistry to find and keep your life partner.

A groundbreaking book about how your personality type determines who you love Why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? In this fascinating and informative book, Helen Fisher, one of the world's leading experts on romantic love, unlocks the hidden code of desire and attachment. Each of us, it turns out, primarily expresses one of four broad personality types-Explorer, Builder, Director, or Negotiator-and each of these types is governed by different chemical systems in the brain. Driven by this biology, we are attracted to partners who both mirror and complement our own personality type. Until now the search for love has been blind, but Fisher pulls back the curtain and reveals how we unconsciously go about finding the right match. Drawing on her unique study of 40,000 men and women, she explores each personality type in detail and shows you how to identify your own type. Then she explains why some types match up well, whereas others are problematic. (Note to Explorers: be prepared for a wild ride when you hitch your star to a fellow Explorer!) Ultimately, Fisher's investigation into the complex nature of romance and attachment leads to astonishing new insights into the essence of dating, love, and marriage. Based on entirely new research-including a detailed questionnaire completed by five million people in thirty-three countries-Why Him? Why Her? will change your understanding of why you love him (or her) and help you use nature's chemistry to find and keep your life partner.
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A groundbreaking book about how your personality type determines who you love Why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? In this fascinating and informative book, Helen Fisher, one of the world's leading experts on romantic love, unlocks the hidden code of desire and attachment. Each of us, it turns out, primarily expresses one of four broad personality types-Explorer, Builder, Director, or Negotiator-and each of these types is governed by different chemical systems in the brain. Driven by this biology, we are attracted to partners who both mirror and complement our own personality type. Until now the search for love has been blind, but Fisher pulls back the curtain and reveals how we unconsciously go about finding the right match. Drawing on her unique study of 40,000 men and women, she explores each personality type in detail and shows you how to identify your own type. Then she explains why some types match up well, whereas others are problematic. (Note to Explorers: be prepared for a wild ride when you hitch your star to a fellow Explorer!) Ultimately, Fisher's investigation into the complex nature of romance and attachment leads to astonishing new insights into the essence of dating, love, and marriage. Based on entirely new research-including a detailed questionnaire completed by five million people in thirty-three countries-Why Him? Why Her? will change your understanding of why you love him (or her) and help you use nature's chemistry to find and keep your life partner.

Language:

English

Length:

7h 51m


Chapters

Free Sample

05:00

Chapter 1
Chapter 1

06:54


Chapter 2
Chapter 2

03:44


Chapter 3
Chapter 3

03:32


Chapter 4
Chapter 4

02:53


Chapter 5
Chapter 5

05:54


Chapter 6
Chapter 6

01:49


Chapter 7
Chapter 7

02:07


Chapter 8
Chapter 8

02:31


Chapter 9
Chapter 9

02:53


Chapter 10
Chapter 10

04:28


Chapter 11
Chapter 11

05:51


Chapter 12
Chapter 12

04:11


Chapter 13
Chapter 13

06:10


Chapter 14
Chapter 14

04:48


Chapter 15
Chapter 15

06:14


Chapter 16
Chapter 16

07:35


Chapter 17
Chapter 17

02:52


Chapter 18
Chapter 18

06:16


Chapter 19
Chapter 19

04:50


Chapter 20
Chapter 20

05:05


Chapter 21
Chapter 21

05:09


Chapter 22
Chapter 22

04:25


Chapter 23
Chapter 23

05:10


Chapter 24
Chapter 24

03:40


Chapter 25
Chapter 25

05:52


Chapter 26
Chapter 26

03:40


Chapter 27
Chapter 27

05:17


Chapter 28
Chapter 28

06:28


Chapter 29
Chapter 29

04:45


Chapter 30
Chapter 30

02:55


Chapter 31
Chapter 31

07:03


Chapter 32
Chapter 32

04:20


Chapter 33
Chapter 33

04:28


Chapter 34
Chapter 34

04:53


Chapter 35
Chapter 35

04:00


Chapter 36
Chapter 36

05:47


Chapter 37
Chapter 37

04:40


Chapter 38
Chapter 38

04:17


Chapter 39
Chapter 39

04:40


Chapter 40
Chapter 40

06:42


Chapter 41
Chapter 41

05:42


Chapter 42
Chapter 42

02:22


Chapter 43
Chapter 43

04:09


Chapter 44
Chapter 44

04:57


Chapter 45
Chapter 45

05:14


Chapter 46
Chapter 46

06:18


Chapter 47
Chapter 47

06:52


Chapter 48
Chapter 48

04:45


Chapter 49
Chapter 49

04:17


Chapter 50
Chapter 50

04:42


Chapter 51
Chapter 51

04:07


Chapter 52
Chapter 52

05:10


Chapter 53
Chapter 53

04:30


Chapter 54
Chapter 54

04:38


Chapter 55
Chapter 55

02:57


Chapter 56
Chapter 56

04:49


Chapter 57
Chapter 57

06:20


Chapter 58
Chapter 58

02:12


Chapter 59
Chapter 59

04:49


Chapter 60
Chapter 60

03:04


Chapter 61
Chapter 61

04:50


Chapter 62
Chapter 62

05:29


Chapter 63
Chapter 63

05:14


Chapter 64
Chapter 64

05:02


Chapter 65
Chapter 65

04:00


Chapter 66
Chapter 66

05:53


Chapter 67
Chapter 67

07:10


Chapter 68
Chapter 68

06:15


Chapter 69
Chapter 69

04:18


Chapter 70
Chapter 70

01:33


Chapter 71
Chapter 71

04:32


Chapter 72
Chapter 72

05:37


Chapter 73
Chapter 73

06:40


Chapter 74
Chapter 74

06:07


Chapter 75
Chapter 75

06:51


Chapter 76
Chapter 76

05:55


Chapter 77
Chapter 77

06:39


Chapter 78
Chapter 78

04:59


Chapter 79
Chapter 79

02:55


Chapter 80
Chapter 80

07:03


Chapter 81
Chapter 81

04:27


Chapter 82
Chapter 82

03:29


Chapter 83
Chapter 83

06:57


Chapter 84
Chapter 84

02:44


Chapter 85
Chapter 85

03:16


Chapter 86
Chapter 86

05:40


Chapter 87
Chapter 87

05:59


Chapter 88
Chapter 88

06:00


Chapter 89
Chapter 89

07:10


Chapter 90
Chapter 90

04:22


Chapter 91
Chapter 91

02:29


Chapter 92
Chapter 92

05:24


Chapter 93
Chapter 93

03:30


Chapter 94
Chapter 94

03:19


Chapter 95
Chapter 95

03:23


Chapter 96
Chapter 96

03:19


Chapter 97
Chapter 97

06:35


Chapter 98
Chapter 98

04:31


Chapter 99
Chapter 99

00:47


Chapter 100
Chapter 100

00:01