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San Diego's number one rated sex, intimacy and love coach takes you on a passionate journey through all the forbidden questions you've always wanted answers to. Get clear, sensual, guidance to help you learn about your body, experience more passion and uncover hotter chemistry. Learn how to do all of it simply by tuning in and applying what you learned. If you're currently experiencing heartbreak, emotional pain or betrayal there are plenty additional episodes to help you get through it all. Tari's unique blend of wisdom, intelligence and humor takes complex and often uncomfortable subjects and breaks them down into something you can do something with, tonight! A must for anyone who wants to elevate themselves or their intimate relationship to the next level. The Closeness podcast is also a supplement to real world in-person and virtual coaching sessions. To schedule an appointment for you and your partner, fill out an intake form at www.getcloseness.com/intake

San Diego's number one rated sex, intimacy and love coach takes you on a passionate journey through all the forbidden questions you've always wanted answers to. Get clear, sensual, guidance to help you learn about your body, experience more passion and uncover hotter chemistry. Learn how to do all of it simply by tuning in and applying what you learned. If you're currently experiencing heartbreak, emotional pain or betrayal there are plenty additional episodes to help you get through it all. Tari's unique blend of wisdom, intelligence and humor takes complex and often uncomfortable subjects and breaks them down into something you can do something with, tonight! A must for anyone who wants to elevate themselves or their intimate relationship to the next level. The Closeness podcast is also a supplement to real world in-person and virtual coaching sessions. To schedule an appointment for you and your partner, fill out an intake form at www.getcloseness.com/intake

Location:

San Diego, CA

Description:

San Diego's number one rated sex, intimacy and love coach takes you on a passionate journey through all the forbidden questions you've always wanted answers to. Get clear, sensual, guidance to help you learn about your body, experience more passion and uncover hotter chemistry. Learn how to do all of it simply by tuning in and applying what you learned. If you're currently experiencing heartbreak, emotional pain or betrayal there are plenty additional episodes to help you get through it all. Tari's unique blend of wisdom, intelligence and humor takes complex and often uncomfortable subjects and breaks them down into something you can do something with, tonight! A must for anyone who wants to elevate themselves or their intimate relationship to the next level. The Closeness podcast is also a supplement to real world in-person and virtual coaching sessions. To schedule an appointment for you and your partner, fill out an intake form at www.getcloseness.com/intake

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English

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8054273162


Episodes

Staying hard, getting it up, finishing too early, ED, PE, and other fascinating subjects for men and women

5/21/2022
The most difficult subject for any man to think about much less discuss is likely to be: keeping it up, getting it up and finishing too quickly. This is an episode you'll want to listen to with your partner because there are tools, tips and tricks in here for both men and women. Don't skip out on incredible intimacy when the answers can be found right here! CHAPTERS 0:00 Introductions 1:33 Finishing too quickly is not an option for a successful relationship 2:35 It’s not enough to only...

Duration:01:19:30

How to properly be dominant and assertive with a woman in the bedroom

1/29/2022
CHAPTERS 0:00 Introductions 3:29 How exactly does a man learn to be dominant 8:06 What does healthy dominance mean? 14:30 When a woman is ready for sex before you are and understanding gender roles 16:15 What is sexual foreplay? 22:05 Women often can't express what they want 24:03 How do you handle bad results and fears 25:37 Welcome to Deep Listening™ 29:04 What do women want in bed? 30:15 The shadow side of aggressiveness is not sexually attractive 32:45 What are some better...

Duration:01:25:24

Can you have it all in relationships? Plus, female mating strategies

11/23/2021
CHAPTERS 0:00 Introduction and can you have it all? Recitals and disclaimers 2:44 In a nutshell 4:20 What does it mean to have it all? 9:40 Misunderstandings 12:40 Should one person be your everything? 15:21 COVID and Politics 16:26 Are you really perfect, just the way you are? 17:40 The Disney Fairytale 21:30 How Women Select mates 24:39 How men often think of intimacy 25:45 Great sex does not come naturally to most many men 33:04 How does one become a skilled lover? 37:25 Can...

Duration:01:02:58

Profound life lessons from 30 expressions we no longer need

10/4/2021
Chapters: 0:00 Intro 6:40 Oh you really don't care? 7:38 Words carry power 8:35 I don't sugar coat 12:46 A certain type of emoji 14:55 Who hurt you? 17:00 Cute 22:55 It is what it is 30:42 Like I said 34:27 Thoughts on talking and conversing 36:10 Useless filler words 38:55 Pour some sprinkles on me 39:23 Low key pointless phrases 41:06 Other phrases that have gone out of style 44:00 I feel like... 48:20 Next time 49:15 It depends 52:07 I just can't possibly...

Duration:01:59:55

To come or not to come. Whether men should finish and how women feel about it

6/29/2021
One of the biggest questions of our time as it pertains to intimacy is whether or not a man should always "finish" when having sex. This episodes dives deep into the pros and cons and explores the little known avenue of pressure that women can place on men. Topics include: 0:00 Introduction 0:53 Societal expectations around finishing 1:33 Typical expectations around male ejaculation 9:10 Is a male orgasm bad? 12:03 The spiritual minded orgasm 13:17 Restraining for energy 14:44...

Duration:00:41:16

Confessions of an ex NYC male sex worker

4/11/2021
In our first interview with a male guest, we're pulling out all of the stops. Sebastien is an ex New York City rent boy and long term friend of mine. We’ll go in depth about his ‘job,’ the world of chemsex, his spiral into addiction and his recovery. Tune in to listen to his story now. CHAPTERS 0:00 Introduction 4:02 How we met 6:25 How did a foreigner find himself at UCLA 7:12 Dry wit disclaimer 9:48 What kind of household did you grow up in? 10:39 Did you have a sense of your...

Duration:01:55:37

What to do and what it means when a woman says she needs space

3/14/2021
One of the most difficult things someone can hear, is that their partner needs space. Nothing is clear, the terms are undefined, and once uttered it usually ends up in disaster. Tune in now to find out what to do. CHAPTERS: 0:00 Introduction 5:25 Malignant phrases 6:20 How to handle short term space 8:38 When she takes days, weeks and months of space 13:15 What you're supposed to know when she says she needs space 16:08 If you're going to try to make it work, here's what you should...

Duration:01:30:39

Part 3: How to properly handle and move on from a breakup

2/16/2021
1:45 Actions speak louder than words 5:55 What do you actually owe the other person? 8:24 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you 10:36 When we invest ourselves too much and get overextended 13:54 Self care and taking care of ourselves 20:23 When you think you don't want anyone else but them 23:28 getting over your previous relationships 24:36 an exercise to show yourself you can get past this... using your exes 26:20 Caring for and helping others...once you're...

Duration:01:14:37

Part 2: How to properly handle, cope and deal with a breakup

1/25/2021
One of the biggest challenges of being alive today, is handling, processing, surviving and getting through a breakup. In this 90 minute episode I am going to help you get through it. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:45 You are probably in crisis right now 7:09 We look for ways to resent our partner to get over them 8:05 Understanding the emotional scale 9:08 There must be a grieving process 10:20 The disaster of distracting yourself vs healing yourself 12:14 The age old adage, that everything...

Duration:01:29:26

How to properly handle a breakup…before it happens Part 1

10/10/2020

Duration:01:04:59

Ghosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!

6/29/2020
It's one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here's everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it. CHAPTERS: 0:00 What is ghosting? 2:25 Why do people ghost? 6:25 When does emotional involvement begin? 10:17 Preliminaries and disclaimers 13:15 Having to make backup plans 14:41 Taking our own insecurities out on others 15:16 The most important sentence when it comes to dating 16:45 Runaway brides 19:58...

Duration:02:01:56

How to Create Hot Sexual Chemistry from Nothing

5/25/2020
What’s your definition of hot passionate chemistry? Do you believe that it’s just “there or it isn’t?” In this episode we will put that myth to an end. We’ll explore over twenty concepts including: - How to have naturally good chemistry with everyone around you -Is chemistry for men inevitable or bound to happen regardless of what happens? -How many kinds of chemistry are there? -How to have good chemistry by "allowing it" to happen and letting yourself go there -How we constantly shut...

Duration:01:21:49

Is she asking for it and is she asking for it sexually?

4/13/2020
If you've ever secretly wondered what it's like to be involved in the sex industry, you're in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, If you've ever secretly wondered what it's like to be involved in the sex industry, you're in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, modeling, dancing, "sugaring" or being a sugar baby, and more. Subscribe and tune in as she spills story after story in this very detailed and intimate account of Heather's life as a sex worker. It's...

Duration:01:17:17

An Intimate Sensual Meditation About Kauai

3/24/2020
In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need it. Think of it as a rampage of appreciation. We won't reveal much, but make sure you're in a comfortable and relaxing place before you listen. Fifteen minutes is just the right amount to help shift your focus without demanding too much of your time. Are you ready to...

Duration:00:24:40

How to Properly Have Sex with a Man and How to Turn a Man On

3/15/2020
Countless Closeness episodes focus on how to pleasure a woman, but what can you do to take care of your man? Put down your magazine and let's get deep. Sure, we can talk about how to go down and how to arch your back, but what about the stuff everyone is afraid to talk about? Let’s get closer: Closeness Coaching for sex, intimacy, relationships and quality of life: www.getcloseness.com/coaching Subscribe to Closeness on...

Duration:01:17:36

How to kiss properly. 10 big juicy steps.

3/10/2020
Learning to kiss our partner in a way that really turns them on is not innate. Like most things we do for the first time, we're sloppy and we don't take the time to learn good technique. Yes even kissing has a technique and it isn't taught in school or by our family, fortunately. Enter the Closeness podcast: a guide to kissing, replete with all the do's and don'ts you need to be a successful lover as well as understanding all the different varieties of kissing. One of the best tips we can...

Duration:01:07:31

How to properly have sex with a woman

1/9/2020
Welcome to 2020 and welcome to Season Two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we're diving in with a sexually-explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal experience she won't forget. What are some of the specific things we can do to get out of our heads, out of our egos and into our partner? Do you have strategies for going beyond yourself and getting into her? This is not a technique driven episode, but if you apply these principles...

Duration:01:22:47

How to Have the Big Talk: STD’s, STI’s and Proper Etiquette

12/14/2019
Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new is very vulnerable. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and sharing your feelings are difficult territories to navigate. Since most of us feel uncomfortable even thinking about it, very few of us possess the wherewithal to have a mature conversation and make the right choices. We're put off and grossed out by disease, but then in the moments when it counts, we don't do a whole lot to prevent transmission. Sometimes we make...

Duration:00:57:57

The Female Sexual Response Cycle: 10 Passionate Phases

11/15/2019
Growing up you may have heard of the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. We'd like to introduce you to something a little more provocative. In this sexually explosive episode, we'll unravel the 10 phases most women go through as they get more and more turned on, but we'll take it further and deeper than you ever thought possible. Move over Masters and Johnson, this sexual response cycle is hot! Are you ready to come closer? Closeness Coaching for sex,...

Duration:00:47:41

How to say no, Part 2: Changing your mind and maybe

10/30/2019
How many times have you changed your mind? Perhaps you didn't desire someone at first and you later found yourself wanting them. You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something switched and you felt differently. Why is that? As a general rule, men love to please women. How then do you reject a man in a way that is healthy for both sexes? Delivery and tone is everything. If feeling safe is a concern, tune in to learn how sugar coating,...

Duration:01:04:25