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Hot sex, intimacy, relationships, rejection and betrayal. We all find these subjects fascinating and yet we often suffer the most in the throes of all of them. The Closeness podcast takes complex, intimate subjects and breaks them down in a way that you can immediately apply to your personal or intimate life. Every month, join Tari as he takes you on a sensual, intelligent and arousing journey through all the subjects you wish you learned about when you were younger. This podcast is a must for anyone who wants to elevate their intimate relationship with themselves and others to the next level. In person and online Closeness Coaching is available on our website www.getcloseness.com. If this podcast has inspired you, please consider subscribing or donate to our Patreon at www.patreon.com/closeness

Hot sex, intimacy, relationships, rejection and betrayal. We all find these subjects fascinating and yet we often suffer the most in the throes of all of them. The Closeness podcast takes complex, intimate subjects and breaks them down in a way that you can immediately apply to your personal or intimate life. Every month, join Tari as he takes you on a sensual, intelligent and arousing journey through all the subjects you wish you learned about when you were younger. This podcast is a must for anyone who wants to elevate their intimate relationship with themselves and others to the next level. In person and online Closeness Coaching is available on our website www.getcloseness.com. If this podcast has inspired you, please consider subscribing or donate to our Patreon at www.patreon.com/closeness

Location:

San Diego, CA

Description:

Hot sex, intimacy, relationships, rejection and betrayal. We all find these subjects fascinating and yet we often suffer the most in the throes of all of them. The Closeness podcast takes complex, intimate subjects and breaks them down in a way that you can immediately apply to your personal or intimate life. Every month, join Tari as he takes you on a sensual, intelligent and arousing journey through all the subjects you wish you learned about when you were younger. This podcast is a must for anyone who wants to elevate their intimate relationship with themselves and others to the next level. In person and online Closeness Coaching is available on our website www.getcloseness.com. If this podcast has inspired you, please consider subscribing or donate to our Patreon at www.patreon.com/closeness

Language:

English

Contact:

8054273162

Episodes

Confessions of an ex NYC male sex worker

4/11/2021
In our first interview with a male guest, we’re pulling out all of the stops. Sebastien is an ex New York City rent boy and long term friend of mine. We’ll go in depth about his ‘job,’ the world of chemsex, his spiral into addiction and his recovery. Tune in to listen to his story now. CHAPTERS 0:00 Introduction 4:02 How we met 6:25 How did a foreigner find himself at UCLA 7:12 Dry wit disclaimer 9:48 What kind of household did you grow up in? 10:39 Did you have a sense of your...

Duration:01:55:37

What to do and what it means when a woman says she needs space

3/14/2021
One of the most difficult things someone can hear, is that their partner needs space. Nothing is clear, the terms are undefined, and once uttered it usually ends up in disaster. Tune in now to find out what to do. CHAPTERS: 0:00 Introduction 5:25 Malignant phrases 6:20 How to handle short term space 8:38 When she takes days, weeks and months of space 13:15 What you’re supposed to know when she says she needs space 16:08 If you’re going to try to make it work, here’s what you should...

Duration:01:30:39

Part 3: How to properly handle and move on from a breakup

2/16/2021
1:45 Actions speak louder than words 5:55 What do you actually owe the other person? 8:24 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you 10:36 When we invest ourselves too much and get overextended 13:54 Self care and taking care of ourselves 20:23 When you think you don’t want anyone else but them 23:28 getting over your previous relationships 24:36 an exercise to show yourself you can get past this… using your exes 26:20 Caring for and helping others…once you’re healed 28:21...

Duration:01:14:37

Part 2: How to properly handle, cope and deal with a breakup

1/25/2021
One of the biggest challenges of being alive today, is handling, processing, surviving and getting through a breakup. In this 90 minute episode I am going to help you get through it. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:45 You are probably in crisis right now 7:09 We look for ways to resent our partner to get over them 8:05 Understanding the emotional scale 9:08 There must be a grieving process 10:20 The disaster of distracting yourself vs healing yourself 12:14 The age old adage, that everything...

Duration:01:29:26

How to properly handle a breakup…before it happens Part 1

10/10/2020

Duration:01:04:59

Ghosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!

6/29/2020
It’s one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here’s everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it. CHAPTERS: 0:00 What is ghosting? 2:25 Why do people ghost? 6:25 When does emotional involvement begin? 10:17 Preliminaries and disclaimers 13:15 Having to make backup plans 14:41 Taking our own insecurities out on others 15:16 The most important sentence when it comes to dating 16:45 Runaway...

Duration:02:01:56

How to Create Hot Sexual Chemistry from Nothing

5/25/2020
What’s your definition of hot passionate chemistry? Do you believe that it’s just “there or it isn’t?” In this episode we will put that myth to an end. We’ll explore over twenty concepts including: – How to have naturally good chemistry with everyone around you -Is chemistry for men inevitable or bound to happen regardless of what happens? -How many kinds of chemistry are there? -How to have good chemistry by “allowing it” to happen and letting yourself go there -How we constantly shut...

Duration:01:21:49

Is she asking for it and is she asking for it sexually?

4/13/2020
If you’ve ever secretly wondered what it’s like to be involved in the sex industry, you’re in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, If you’ve ever secretly wondered what it’s like to be involved in the sex industry, you’re in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, modeling, dancing, “sugaring” or being a sugar baby, and more. Subscribe and tune in as she spills story after story in this very detailed and intimate account of Heather’s life as a sex worker. It’s...

Duration:01:17:17

An Intimate Sensual Meditation About Kauai

3/24/2020
In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need it. Think of it as a rampage of appreciation. We won’t reveal much, but make sure you’re in a comfortable and relaxing place before you listen. Fifteen minutes is just the right amount to help shift your focus without demanding too much of your time. Are you ready to come...

Duration:00:24:40

How to Properly Have Sex with a Man and How to Turn a Man On

3/15/2020
Countless Closeness episodes focus on how to pleasure a woman, but what can you do to take care of your man? Put down your magazine and let’s get deep. Sure, we can talk about how to go down and how to arch your back, but what about the stuff everyone is afraid to talk about? Let’s get closer: Closeness Coaching for sex, intimacy, relationships and quality of life: www.getcloseness.com/coaching Subscribe to Closeness on...

Duration:01:17:36

How to kiss properly. 10 big juicy steps.

3/10/2020
Learning to kiss our partner in a way that really turns them on is not innate. Like most things we do for the first time, we’re sloppy and we don’t take the time to learn good technique. Yes even kissing has a technique and it isn’t taught in school or by our family, fortunately. Enter the Closeness podcast: a guide to kissing, replete with all the do’s and don’ts you need to be a successful lover as well as understanding all the different varieties of kissing. One of the best tips we can...

Duration:01:07:31

How to properly have sex with a woman

1/9/2020
Welcome to 2020 and welcome to Season Two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we’re diving in with a sexually-explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal experience she won’t forget. What are some of the specific things we can do to get out of our heads, out of our egos and into our partner? Do you have strategies for going beyond yourself and getting into her? This is not a technique driven episode, but if you apply these principles...

Duration:01:22:47

How to Have the Big Talk: STD’s, STI’s and Proper Etiquette

12/14/2019
Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new is very vulnerable. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and sharing your feelings are difficult territories to navigate. Since most of us feel uncomfortable even thinking about it, very few of us possess the wherewithal to have a mature conversation and make the right choices. We’re put off and grossed out by disease, but then in the moments when it counts, we don’t do a whole lot to prevent transmission. Sometimes we make...

Duration:00:57:57

The Female Sexual Response Cycle: 10 Passionate Phases

11/15/2019
Growing up you may have heard of the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. We’d like to introduce you to something a little more provocative. In this sexually explosive episode, we’ll unravel the 10 phases most women go through as they get more and more turned on, but we’ll take it further and deeper than you ever thought possible. Move over Masters and Johnson, this sexual response cycle is hot! Are you ready to come closer? Closeness Coaching for sex,...

Duration:00:47:41

How to say no, Part 2: Changing your mind and maybe

10/30/2019
How many times have you changed your mind? Perhaps you didn’t desire someone at first and you later found yourself wanting them. You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something switched and you felt differently. Why is that? As a general rule, men love to please women. How then do you reject a man in a way that is healthy for both sexes? Delivery and tone is everything. If feeling safe is a concern, tune in to learn how sugar coating,...

Duration:01:04:25

How to say no Part 1: Rejecting and approaching

10/15/2019
Rejection leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining healthy boundaries and a healthy sex life. Why don’t we ever put ourselves in anyone else’s shoes? We hate rejection, but we never stop to imagine the effect our own words have on others. It’s usually scathing and we have no idea that we’re treating others so poorly. It’s critical...

Duration:01:03:21

Sunday morning for her: Another sensual meditation

9/30/2019
One of the best parts of listening to Closeness is learning how to have great sex! After so much great feedback from previous sensual meditations, we’d like to offer you another. When men listen to this episode, they don’t understand it, yet, for a woman it can mean everything. Check it out for yourselves and let us know what you think. It’s short enough for both partners to listen in one setting and it’s worth discussing how each of you felt after listening. Make sure you’re in a place...

Duration:00:14:20

Part 3: Who should pay for first dates and beyond?

9/14/2019
This much-anticipated, 90-minute conclusion to our 3 part series holds nothing back. We’ll share articles, statistics, personal references and even explore if paying for dates is a form of prostitution! We’ll discuss how people really feel when their partner fights or argues for the bill, what the expectations are when people pay, and how it works if you have sex first before going to dinner. We’ll even look at evidence that suggests up to 70% of men feel obligated to pay whether they want...

Duration:01:33:09

Part 2: Who should pay for the first date and beyond?

8/31/2019
In this three part series, we explore over 25 more points regarding who should pay, including: – What happens when the woman makes significantly more financial resources? – How do we know when our ego is running the show vs. our generosity? – How to handle dating with regard to the wage gap – Is paying for and going on dates like prostitution? We’ll deeply explore semantics, expectations, and whether our choices are stemming from fear or inspiration. Do you feel like sex is...

Duration:01:20:39

Who should pay for the first date and beyond?

8/15/2019
In this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three and a half hours of content spread out over three episodes ensures you’ll reexamine almost everything you thought about dating rituals and male, female dynamics. Drawing on countless case studies and hundreds of interviews, Tari helps you...

Duration:01:13:37

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