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Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.

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United States

Description:

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.

Language:

English


Episodes

Do I have a porn addiction?

4/8/2021
You don’t worry about having a bathtub masturbation addiction. Leah answers a listener’s questions about whether she has a porn addiction, and why she can’t orgasm with her husband. She talks about identifying the function of porn, not taking on shame, and navigating a relationship agreement around it. Bookmark moments: Podcast recommendation: Title –Host –Apple Podcasts description -Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/DecideBalanceFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DecideBalance Join...

Duration:00:26:42

Sex was a marital duty - Charlotte

4/1/2021
Charlotte’s sexual journey has taken the deep bends—and openings—of the yoga she practices. She met her husband in a guru community, fled it, had two daughters, reclaimed her body, and is now exploring “high-fidelity” polyamory in several configurations. Charlotte is a 45-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, and perimenopausal with an athletic body. Her sexual orientation and preferred relationship style are under exploration, and her current relationship status is...

Duration:00:51:44

We were in a rut BEFORE the pandemic – Cindy

3/25/2021
Leah shares a coaching session with Cindy, a married mother of one, for support around a very human variety of issues: decreased libido, sex after motherhood, love languages, pandemic life, sex for connection vs. conception, miscarriage, self-care, homework, and grace. Bookmark moments: Join me on Patreon: As of July 2020, all Good Girls Talk About Sex audio extras are now FREE! They can be accessed at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. I've done this because not everyone has the...

Duration:00:44:50

Sex is great but so is sleep - Jordan

3/18/2021
Jordan is a young mother of two young children; she’s also a doula, and therefore all up in bodies and their business. Her innate curiosity led her on a sex and biology research deep-dive that coincided with the start of her relationship with her husband. As a result, she is passionate in her work and home about open and aware sexual dialogue, consent, communication, and support. Jordan is a 23-year-old cisgender female who describes herself as white, straight, monogamous and married with...

Duration:01:08:29

Do you remember your safe word? - Chris & Caitlin

3/11/2021
Caitlin returns for a follow-up coaching session with her partner, Chris. They check in with Leah about their BDSM explorations, dom/sub dynamics, communication in and out of play sessions, aftercare, safe words, bruising, pleasure, and sourcing and trying new ideas. Bookmark moments: Resources mentioned: Three Minute GameYes / No / Maybe listLiterotica Join me on Patreon: As of July 2020, all Good Girls Talk About Sex audio extras are now FREE! They can be accessed at...

Duration:00:56:50

Unhappily married - Tee

3/4/2021
Tee is unhappily married, and unhappy with her sex life—like so many people. Also like too many, she experiences the lingering impacts of sexual assault. She’s doing the work of setting boundaries, trying to provide a good example for her kids, and is still hoping someday she’ll find a communicative and loving partner. Bookmark moments: The Patreon extras for this episode are: This week at Patreon we’ve got the full extended Lowdown Q&A with Tee. As of July 2020, all Good Girls Talk...

Duration:00:54:35

I think I had a crush on a woman - Coaching Caitlin

2/25/2021
Leah shares a coaching session with client Caitlin to give us an in-depth experience of what coaching looks and feels like. Caitlin is divorced and currently in a friends-with-benefits heterosexual relationship. She and Leah had discussed fantasies and BDSM in previous private sessions; here they focus on Caitlin’s new (or perhaps not new?) sexual attraction to women, and how she might begin to explore that in real life. Bookmark moments: Resources mentioned: Erotica collections –I...

Duration:00:44:29

I thought my vagina was broken - Stephanie

2/18/2021
Stephanie shares how childhood shame about feeling good in her body led to an eating disorder. She talks about how the eating disorder affected her ability to relate with sexual partners, including her now-husband. Healing the eating disorder has allowed her to begin relating in a new way with her body and her husband. Bookmark moments: 2:37 - Stephanie shares her first memory of sexual play at age 5 or 6, accidentally discovering that rubbing her genitals felt good. The adults around...

Duration:00:57:59

Dealing with post-sex UTIs

2/11/2021
Dr. Evelin Dacker returns to answer a listener’s question about common and chronic UTI’s that occur after sex. She breaks down the how and why, and addresses prevention and treatment. She explains how naturopaths can restore balance to your vaginal ecology without creating a medical wasteland, and recommends some home remedies so that you too can help your vagina help itself. Bookmark moments: Podcast recommendation: Title -Host -Apple Podcasts description -Instagram...

Duration:00:24:51

They can't find the clit without a roadmap - Alexa (take 2)

2/6/2021
“Deaf U” star Alexa Paulay-Simmons gets candid about who she is (and always has been) as a sexual person, and how that’s shaped her life—both on the inside through her choices and experiences, and on the outside with the tight-knit Deaf community and the show’s global audience. Alexa is a 24-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, straight, monogamous, with a sporty body. She was featured in the Netflix series “Deaf U”. At the time of this broadcast, she is dating fellow...

Duration:00:51:44

An error in translation

2/4/2021
Hey friends, You’ll notice this isn’t the regular episode you were expecting! The regular episode was loaded into the feed, and some of you may have already downloaded and listened to it. However, I made an error in the production of this episode so, in fairness to our guest, I’ve pulled the episode to fix it. Here’s what happened – Our guest, Alexa, is Deaf and we did the interview through an interpreter. It was my first time ever doing an interview through an interpreter, so it took...

Duration:00:01:59

They can't find the clit without a roadmap - Alexa

2/4/2021
“Deaf U” star Alexa Paulay-Simmons gets candid about who she is (and always has been) as a sexual person, and how that’s shaped her life—both on the inside through her choices and experiences, and on the outside with the tight-knit Deaf community and the show’s global audience. Alexa is a 24-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, straight, monogamous, with a sporty body. She was featured in the Netflix series “Deaf U”. At the time of this broadcast, she is dating...

Duration:00:52:16

My pandemic sex life

1/28/2021
“The story of our pandemic sex life: it has not been pretty.” Host Leah gets raw and real about how her intimate life has weathered the storm of a year-long international crisis, and about how confronting her partner’s depression spiral turned out to be a better strategy—for both of them—than enduring it competently. Bookmark moments: Podcast recommendation: Title – Heaving BosomsHosts – Erin and MelodyDescription -Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/heavingbosoms Join me on...

Duration:00:26:48

He was a god and I was a kid - Debbie

1/21/2021
Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal. Debbie is a 52-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, married, and post-menopausal. She describes her body as average. Bookmark moments: 3:40 - Debbie’s first memory of sexual pleasure is at age 16 with her...

Duration:00:55:06

Improve your sex life with the STARS talk

1/14/2021
STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex. Dr. Evelin Dacker developed the STARS method to create a way for potential and current partners to have a thorough and safe conversation about physical and relationship expectations. Public Service Announcement: Sometimes discovery is the mother of tension. Intimate play can be easier and much more fun if you go in knowing what each other likes, or doesn’t. Bookmark moments: 2:39 - What is the...

Duration:00:43:57

I tried to pee standing up – Lachlan

12/10/2020
Lachlan was born with a vagina. His is the story of how a boy learned to be a girl, then learned to be invisible, then a lesbian, before learning that he could just be who he was all along, except that it’s still … complicated. In this super-sized episode… Lachlan is a 41-year-old transgender man. He describes himself as white, straight-ish, monogamish and single. He describes his body as a round, cuddly bear. Bookmark moments: The Lowdown ALL audio extras are now FREE for...

Duration:01:32:03

What’s your favorite kind of touch?

12/3/2020
What kind of touch do you enjoy? Have you thought about the ways, and places? Touch is a many-splendored thing. PSA: If you don’t know what kind of touch you like, there’s nothing wrong with you—but you have some (really great) homework to do. Bookmark moments: Podcast recommendation: www.twosisterscult.comhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-sisters-and-a-cult/id1503417365https://www.instagram.com/twosisterscult/https://www.facebook.com/twosisterscult Book a PJ Party!!!...

Duration:00:25:58

I don’t equate sex and love - Gretchen

11/25/2020
Leah met Gretchen at Sex Geek Summer Camp. They realized they share remarkably similar journeys; both started having sex later in life, believed that they were broken, then sought out sexual experiences and healing. Significantly, both engaged the services of a tantric practitioner. Gretchen is a cisgender 46-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as bisexual and polyamorous. She describes her body as average. PSA: You can’t learn to swim in a lecture hall. Bookmark...

Duration:01:01:06

What are your hard red lines?

11/19/2020
Even people who think they’re sexually open have hard red lines. This week Leah digs into discerning where your absolute no’s are, why they might be there, and how to share them with your partner(s). Bookmark moments: Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and registrations are at www.leahcarey.com/pjparty FACEBOOK GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk HAVE A QUESTION?: Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at...

Duration:00:25:42

Sex, mattresses and wheelchairs - Candi

11/12/2020
Overview: Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares how it progressed and how it changed her physical capabilities over her lifetime, and what it’s like to date and to have sex with a visible disability. She also opens up about loving rough sex and BDSM, despite an appearance—and often others’ assumption—of fragility. Public Service Announcement: Never judge a book by its wheels. Bookmark moments: The Patreon extras for this episode are: Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and...

Duration:00:55:04