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Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality. Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey hosts the type of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Leah interviews people (including people brought up as little girls plus transgender women) of all sizes, shapes, ages, orientations, relationship structures, kink levels, races, religions, cultural backgrounds, and more. The conversations on Good Girls Talk About Sex are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental. You are likely to hear stories that reflect your own experiences and let you know that you're not alone. You're also likely to hear stories that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new experiences! You will probably LOVE this show if: * You crave late-night conversations with friends about sex * You've ever wondered if your sexual needs, desires, or fantasies are "normal" * You're curious about sex but don't have anyone in your life to talk about it with You will probably NOT LIKE this show if: * You are uncomfortable hearing people talk about sex and their bodies in frank terms * You are uncomfortable with swearing and/or raw displays of emotion * You believe sex should only happen between a man and a woman within the confines of marriage Most guests appear anonymously so they're free to tell the good, the bad, and the titillating! These conversations are explicit but never salacious.

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality. Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey hosts the type of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Leah interviews people (including people brought up as little girls plus transgender women) of all sizes, shapes, ages, orientations, relationship structures, kink levels, races, religions, cultural backgrounds, and more. The conversations on Good Girls Talk About Sex are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental. You are likely to hear stories that reflect your own experiences and let you know that you're not alone. You're also likely to hear stories that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new experiences! You will probably LOVE this show if: * You crave late-night conversations with friends about sex * You've ever wondered if your sexual needs, desires, or fantasies are "normal" * You're curious about sex but don't have anyone in your life to talk about it with You will probably NOT LIKE this show if: * You are uncomfortable hearing people talk about sex and their bodies in frank terms * You are uncomfortable with swearing and/or raw displays of emotion * You believe sex should only happen between a man and a woman within the confines of marriage Most guests appear anonymously so they're free to tell the good, the bad, and the titillating! These conversations are explicit but never salacious.

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United States

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Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality. Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey hosts the type of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Leah interviews people (including people brought up as little girls plus transgender women) of all sizes, shapes, ages, orientations, relationship structures, kink levels, races, religions, cultural backgrounds, and more. The conversations on Good Girls Talk About Sex are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental. You are likely to hear stories that reflect your own experiences and let you know that you're not alone. You're also likely to hear stories that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new experiences! You will probably LOVE this show if: * You crave late-night conversations with friends about sex * You've ever wondered if your sexual needs, desires, or fantasies are "normal" * You're curious about sex but don't have anyone in your life to talk about it with You will probably NOT LIKE this show if: * You are uncomfortable hearing people talk about sex and their bodies in frank terms * You are uncomfortable with swearing and/or raw displays of emotion * You believe sex should only happen between a man and a woman within the confines of marriage Most guests appear anonymously so they're free to tell the good, the bad, and the titillating! These conversations are explicit but never salacious.

Language:

English


Episodes

Post-Roe America - Grieving and next steps

6/30/2022
It's been a tough week. With the decision in Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization, fully half of the American population has lost the ability to make health care choices for our own bodies. We are now more regressive on reproductive health than countries like Mexico. In this episode, we look at the grief many of us are feeling; the frustration of being a cis woman supporting our male partner's grief journey; and tactics to get help to people who need it most. Full show...

Duration:00:33:06

I was the 'other woman' - Mia

6/23/2022
While a stutter may seem like an impediment to clear communication, Mia says it helped her identify a perfect partner. She talks about how an early experience of being "the other woman" continues to affect her feelings about relationships. Then, she and Leah discuss how to navigate changing bodies, waning attraction, and mismatched libidos. Mia is a 29-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, straight, monogamous, and engaged to be married. She grew up in a non-practicing...

Duration:01:06:09

Fingering and blow jobs were a sin - Hannah

6/9/2022
Purity ring, wedding ring ... cock ring?! After many conversations with people who have religious trauma around sexuality, it's a pleasure to finally welcome someone who grew up in conservative Christianity and has a healthy relationship with sex. Hannah opens up about how she and her husband navigated abstinence while still building a relationship based on trust and pleasure, and how they continued to nurture both after pregnancy loss. We also talk about sex during pregnancy and in the...

Duration:01:35:32

Romance and sex aren't the same thing - Kristen

5/26/2022
People typically talk about an absence of sex as something gone wrong, followed by an array of advice to spice up, fix, rekindle, reboot, top down, bottoms up, laugh, cry, and eventually achieve perfect sex. But what if your life feels pretty perfect without it? Kristen grew up in Purity Culture, so her lack of interest in dating was a plus as a teenager. But when she became an adult and still wasn't interested in dating, it became clear that something else was going on. Kristen eventually...

Duration:00:45:19

He brought handcuffs and blindfold on our first date - Rachel

5/12/2022
Talk about coming full circle: when your friends-with-benefits from age 12 comes back around to become your life partner and literally make your deepest taboo fantasies come true. Rachel shares how she started kissing in daycare, experimented sexually in her teens, tried marriage and polyamory, learning BDSM and psychedelically-enhanced role playing along the way. Rachel is a 38-year-old, cisgender female who describes herself as white, pansexual, monogamish, and partnered. She describes...

Duration:01:43:15

I trained to be a dominatrix - Rain Dove

4/28/2022
Rain Dove grew up with a birth certificate that listed gender as "F." For much of their life, they imagined that "F" stood for "Failure" to be properly "Female." Today Rain is a gender-bending model who walks runways for designers of both masculine- and feminine-coded clothing. Rain is also an activist working to make the world better for people of all genders, orientations, and more. Rain is currently assisting vulnerable people to escape Ukraine. What if gender is not just about genitals,...

Duration:01:17:25

He pinned me down and fingered me

4/14/2022
It's been a minute, but I'm back! In this episode, I talk about what's been going on and where I've been. Then, we take a deep dive into a question from Reddit about whether not saying "no" is the same as assault. Thank you to our episode sponsor: Beducated - Get a free trial PLUS lock in a rate that's 65% off FOREVER! Use the coupon code GOODGIRLSTALK. Sign up at: http://beducate.me/pd2208-goodgirlstalk For full show notes and transcript go to:...

Duration:00:37:19

Thick thighs save lives - Leah

2/17/2022
Having trouble loving your body? In our culture that’s normal, no matter your shape or size. In a special crossover episode, Leah talks with Rachael and Kelsea on the Thick Thighs Save Lives podcast about how public nudity experiences along her journey sexual awakening transformed her understanding about what kinds of bodies are lovable. She gives tips on how to feel better naked, tune into what you want, and communicate it to your partner. Thanks to our episode sponsor: Kindra – try...

Duration:00:58:04

"Fat" is not a feeling - HAI

2/3/2022
Did you know when you say “I feel fat” it's actually code for something much deeper? In a special crossover episode, Leah talks with Kate and Haje on the Human Awareness podcast about body image and how many of us feel our personal worth is defined by how our body looks; how we think once we deal with body image issues they should be done and never recur; and how she learned to overcome numbness related to sexual touch. Episode sponsors: Dipsea Stories – go to...

Duration:01:01:56

What if "The One" isn't enough? - Michelle

1/20/2022
What happens when you discover the reason you've never been interested in sex is that you've been having the wrong kind of sex for your body? And that the mismatch at the root of your loving-but-sexless marriage is that your spouse doesn't want that kind of sex? Michelle, one of our most popular guests from the past, returns to talk about what has happened over the last two years, including beginning a domme/sub relationship with another woman. Michelle is a 44-year-old cisgender woman....

Duration:01:22:47

How I ended up on Dan Savage's podcast

1/13/2022
Surprise! It's a bonus episode! Leah shares how she became a featured guest on the #1 sex and relationship advice podcast, and why it is such a big deal for her. Savage Lovecast episode - https://savage.love/lovecast/2022/01/04/a-study-of-hypno-porn/ Read excerpts of Leah's memoir-in-progress - https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/s9e0j0 Full show notes - https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/how-i-ended-up-on-dan-savages-podcast/

Duration:00:28:32

ADHD and your orgasm - Catieosaurus

1/6/2022
How can kink un-kink you? Cate is a sex educator who discovered for themselves that kink can be therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Cate shares how they manage being ADHD, demisexual, non-monogamous, and pansexual, after surviving growing up Catholic. If you spend time thinking about gaming, fruit snacks, or ADHD you may already know Cate. You can find them on Twitch, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and more under the handle Catieosaurus. Thank you to our...

Duration:01:29:43

You do you, but you should also be doing me - Liz

12/23/2021
Whether it’s secretly watching our parents’ porn or uninformative Sex Ed, most of us get inadequate information about sex. Liz learned to pleasure herself early on, then followed her instincts about who to kiss and when to have sex for the first time. The same inner compass led her to leave two marriages and advocate for her libido. Liz is a 44-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, pansexual (with a strong heterosexual lean), probably monogamous, and mid-divorce. She...

Duration:01:25:45

Am I asexual if I still want to kiss people? - Alice

12/9/2021
Is it normal to want dating without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date? When you’re on the asexual spectrum with bisexual attractions, it can be confusing to chart desire and create a relationship that works for you. Alice from South Africa talks about having very little sex education and a low sex drive, but still finding her way. Alice is a 23-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, and single. She’s not sure how to define her sexual...

Duration:01:04:07

Exploring anal play - Julia

11/24/2021
How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see. Julia takes us through confusing early fantasies to landing that first girl-kiss to realizing what it means to love people with vaginas in all their gender presentations. Now she wants to start exploring anal play. Julia is a 27-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, queer, monogamous, and she doesn’t have kids. She still gets a regular period and describes her...

Duration:01:27:36

My vagina was dry as a bone - Gabby

11/11/2021
What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex? Is purity culture religious abuse? In this episode we hear that story from Gabby. She is a 34-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, straight but open to exploring, currently non-monogamous with three recurring partners. She has two sons, is pre-menopausal, and describes her body as curvy. Bookmark topics: Gabby grew up in purity...

Duration:01:57:26

Water sports and incest porn – Joy

10/28/2021
Joy talks about taboo territory like incest porn, being HSV-2 positive, and trying out “water sports.” She has early memories of non-consensual experiences, which led to weak boundaries and a tendency towards dissociation and passivity. A hysterectomy and genital changes further changed her body and libido. She’s always enjoyed masturbation and has been unpartnered for some time; she’s ready to explore again. Joy is a 44-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white,...

Duration:01:18:14

The Evangelical Church Stunted My Sexuality – Brenda Marie Davies

10/14/2021
Brenda grew up in a “sex silent” household and transitioned right into purity culture. For a naturally highly sexual person, this spelled dysfunction and disaster. She found her way out of abuse and repression, went through a period of intense exploration, and she is now an advocate and educator for other survivors of religious trauma. She shares her truth publicly and celebrates all of her experiences—even the “dark” ones, as they have anchored her learning along the healing...

Duration:01:34:51

I watched porn on the school bus – Kay

9/30/2021
Kay is our youngest guest yet, and she lets us in on how her generation is exploring sex differently because they’re the first with easy access to p*rn. She has dated people of multiple genders, and realized she loves all bodies. Despite her young age, Kay has already learned hard lessons about toxic relationships, trust, and consent. Kay is an 18-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as Black, pansexual, monogamous, and in a relationship. She grew up Catholic and describes her...

Duration:01:19:22

Pain and pleasure cum together – Caz

9/16/2021
Caz is an open book with a ton of chapters: a non-binary disability advocate kink-loving trauma survivor pain/pleasure early wayfinder who left live sex shows for the dating apps. The extraordinary roads they had to navigate led them to know themselves intimately, and helped them learn to accept, manage, and finally enjoy bodily pain. Caz is a 40-year-old, non-binary person who was assigned female at birth. They describe themselves as queer, non-monogamous and single. They’ve had a...

Duration:01:27:58