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Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.


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Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.




I don’t equate sex and love - Gretchen

Leah met Gretchen at Sex Geek Summer Camp. They realized they share remarkably similar journeys; both started having sex later in life, believed that they were broken, then sought out sexual experiences and healing. Significantly, both engaged the services of a tantric practitioner. Gretchen is a cisgender 46-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as bisexual and polyamorous. She describes her body as average. PSA: You can’t learn to swim in a lecture hall. Bookmark...


What are your hard red lines?

Even people who think they’re sexually open have hard red lines. This week Leah digs into discerning where your absolute no’s are, why they might be there, and how to share them with your partner(s). Bookmark moments: Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and registrations are at FACEBOOK GROUP: HAVE A QUESTION?: Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at...


Sex, mattresses and wheelchairs - Candi

Overview: Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares how it progressed and how it changed her physical capabilities over her lifetime, and what it’s like to date and to have sex with a visible disability. She also opens up about loving rough sex and BDSM, despite an appearance—and often others’ assumption—of fragility. Public Service Announcement: Never judge a book by its wheels. Bookmark moments: The Patreon extras for this episode are: Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and...


Letting go of shame

After having a baby, a mom is left feeling alone in the process of re-learning her body. Leah explains why it’s more than okay to seek support, and how that can generate its own kind of healing. Bookmark moments: A Mind Full of Everything with Agrita -The elephant...


I felt like I had to sleep with him - Yami

Yami opens up about a variety of common though not-commonly-talked-about subjects: sexual assault by a family member, and navigating polyamory. Yami is a 23-year-old, cisgender female who describes herself as bisexual and heteroromantic, in a relationship and exploring opening up with her partner. She describes her body shape as “a few extra pounds.” Public service announcement: It is not your job to not be assaulted. Especially as a younger person, you shouldn’t even need to know how...


Do you worry about your smell or taste?

Bookmark moments: Resources mentioned: Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and registrations are at FACEBOOK GROUP: AM I NORMAL?: Leave a message for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at RATE THIS POD: Leave a rating and review at BE A GUEST: Want to be on the show? Visit...


I struggled with guilt when I became a mother - Jocelyn

Jocelyn is a full-service sex worker who’s seen many aspects of the industry, and who currently specializes in sexual healing and sexual surrogacy. Joslyn is a 37 year old, cisgender female who describes herself as white, pansexual, polyamorous, single and dating, and Canadian. She grew up in a Protestant Christian home. She describes her body as athletic with curves. How Healing Happens: Sex work can be a bridge to all levels of healing, from getting basic touch needs met to helping the...


When exercise = danger

Leah talks about a consent violation she experienced during medical care last year, and also shares her insights into her own fear around exercising. Bookmark moments: Resources mentioned: Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and registrations are at FACEBOOK GROUP: HAVE A QUESTION?: Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at...


It’s a vagina, not a birth defect - Lynn

Lynn shares her trauma history, and then opens up on a deep and detailed level about hiring a sex worker to save her marriage. Because no one in her family talked about sex or bodies, for much of her early life, she believed that her vagina was a fatal birth defect. Lynn is a 49-year-old, cisgender female. She describes herself as white, NOT straight, mostly monogamous, married, and peri-menopausal. She describes her body as "very average." How Healing Happens: Sex workers can play a...


Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?

Receiving oral sex isn’t just about a tongue on a clit – it’s about all the emotional and mental conversation happening at the same time. Bookmark moments: Am I Normal? Extra Bits PSA: Hey. Not everybody likes pizza, either. Podcast recommendation: Resources...


Doing her “wifely duty” – Jade

Jade opens up about the tension and difficulties in her past marriage, and the sexual dynamics of subtle pressure and coercion she experienced in the marriage and in her earlier dating. Maturity and emotional safety are at the core of her current partnership and it revolutionizes her sex life. She’s now in love with her girl parts! Jade is a 51-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as bisexual, monogamous, in a relationship, and the mother of 2 children who are still at home....


Do you swallow?

We follow the oral sex question with a deep dive into swallowing ejaculate (or *not*.) We hear a wide variety of yes/no answers, but also yes/no conditions. Then Leah share her personal experience with blowjobs and the journey she took to make sure it was as good for her as it was for him. How Healing Happens: Little boys get just as much bad messaging as little girls do. Learning how to openly and safely communicate with your sexual partner can re-educate and heal you both. Bookmark...


I like foreplay, not penetration - Paulette

This week, 72-year-old Paulette gives us a window into growing up in a conservative time and culture, and how those tight-lipped and sexually discouraging tropes impacted her lifelong ability to experience pleasure. Paulette is a cisgender female. She describes herself as mixed Black/Latinx, heterosexual, monogamous, and post-menopausal. She describes her body as "thick." PSA: Restrictive beliefs can impact so many areas of life and pleasure. If something is confusing you and holding you...


Do you enjoy giving blow jobs?

A variety of women answer whether or not they enjoy giving oral sex; host Leah goes more in-depth about her own personal experiences and preferences, and about how to engage in, negotiate, and enjoy the act. Then, the discussion turns to navigating a polyamorous relationship for someone new to the practice. Extra Bits: PSA—Beware of performative standards (what you see in porn), and always feel free to negotiate the specifics of a sex act according to what is both comfortable and...


I had no idea what a vagina looked like - Mel

Mel had plenty of boyfriends but had trouble being faithful. She has chosen ethical non-monogamy as a way of meeting her variety of relational and physical attractions and needs. Mel is a 55-year-old, cisgender female. She describes herself as very petite, polyamorous, and post-menopausal. Public Service Announcement: If you think monogamy is the vanilla prison for which there is no safe word, or find yourself cheating yet again to get your needs met, it may be time to think outside the...


Hair down there or are you bare?

Leah asks the women’s she’s interviewed about their relationship status with their pubic hair. Then she shares her own story of growing up with a combination of a genetically inherited bountiful mound and a learned lady-like horror of the same. EXTRA BITS: What we learned: Once again we learned that the range *is* the norm. Women go from no hair at all, to all the hair there is. Even for one person, it varies by day, week, month, or major life event. Bookmark moments: if it’s normal to...


Don't marry someone you haven't slept with - Heather

Heather grew up assuming she would marry a man and have children. So she did. But sex was never a good experience. Then she had sex with a woman for the first time, and her life was changed forever. Today she lives with her female partner and co-parents her four daughters with her former husband. She opens up about her early sexual journey through the lens of parenthood, and what she wants for her daughters compared to what she experienced. Heather is a 45-year-old, cis-gender female who...


Do you prefer clit stimulation or penetration?

Leah tackles the hierarchy of orgasms—and getting there at all. This week women respond to whether they prefer clit or vaginal stimulation, which opens up a penetrating (see what we did there?!) discussion about preferences. Sex Ed For Adults: “You are the only one who knows what’s right for your genitals.” As long as what’s under consideration is consensual, pretty much everything else falls on a scale from “I desire it” to “I don’t desire it.” There is no norm within that scale—the scale...


I'm so f'ing multi-orgasmic - Stacey

Stacey grew up aware of and comfortable with her own pleasure from an early age. She has a daughter and is twice divorced. She’s had a rich sex life, and now finds happiness, satisfaction, and opportunity for personal growth in open relationships. Stacey is a 45-year-old, cis-gender female, who describes herself as Black, heterosexual, and non-monogamous. She is currently single and open to exploring a relationship with a “primary partner.” This is a re-broadcast of episode 5. Public...


How many people have you had sex with?

Leah has asked many of her interviewees how many sexual partners they’ve had. The answers, in their surprisingly wide variety, show that there is no “normal.” This also opens up a discussion about what “counts” as sex. Here’s a Thought: Your sexual desires don’t always overlap with your romantic relationship preferences. You can be attracted to and visually stimulated by both men and women, but maybe you only want to engage in long-term committed partnerships with men—or vice...