Good Girls Talk About Sex-logo

Good Girls Talk About Sex

Adult Content

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality. Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey hosts the type of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Leah interviews people (including people brought up as little girls plus transgender women) of all sizes, shapes, ages, orientations, relationship structures, kink levels, races, religions, cultural backgrounds, and more. The conversations on Good Girls Talk About Sex are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental. You are likely to hear stories that reflect your own experiences and let you know that you're not alone. You're also likely to hear stories that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new experiences! You will probably LOVE this show if: * You crave late-night conversations with friends about sex * You've ever wondered if your sexual needs, desires, or fantasies are "normal" * You're curious about sex but don't have anyone in your life to talk about it with You will probably NOT LIKE this show if: * You are uncomfortable hearing people talk about sex and their bodies in frank terms * You are uncomfortable with swearing and/or raw displays of emotion * You believe sex should only happen between a man and a woman within the confines of marriage Most guests appear anonymously so they're free to tell the good, the bad, and the titillating! These conversations are explicit but never salacious.

Play Button

Location:

United States

Description:

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality. Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey hosts the type of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Leah interviews people (including people brought up as little girls plus transgender women) of all sizes, shapes, ages, orientations, relationship structures, kink levels, races, religions, cultural backgrounds, and more. The conversations on Good Girls Talk About Sex are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental. You are likely to hear stories that reflect your own experiences and let you know that you're not alone. You're also likely to hear stories that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new experiences! You will probably LOVE this show if: * You crave late-night conversations with friends about sex * You've ever wondered if your sexual needs, desires, or fantasies are "normal" * You're curious about sex but don't have anyone in your life to talk about it with You will probably NOT LIKE this show if: * You are uncomfortable hearing people talk about sex and their bodies in frank terms * You are uncomfortable with swearing and/or raw displays of emotion * You believe sex should only happen between a man and a woman within the confines of marriage Most guests appear anonymously so they're free to tell the good, the bad, and the titillating! These conversations are explicit but never salacious.

Language:

English

Episodes

Things didn't go as expected - Update from Leah

5/25/2023
Leah provides an update to her health journey. When last we spoke, Leah was preparing for a hysterectomy surgery. However, when her surgeon had her on the operating table, he discovered that he couldn't do the hysterectomy as expected. Instead, she's spent the last month recovering from surgery #1 and preparing for surgery #2. GoFundMe - https://www.leahcarey.com/GoFundMe Class replays - https://www.leahcarey.com/courses

Duration:00:30:00

I had anxiety about touching myself - Chandra

5/11/2023
Chandra grew up in the 7th Day Adventist church, which she equates to a cult. She faults the church for being an educational, social, and religious system that neither acknowledges nor teaches that consent exists for women. She became (mildly) rebellious, experimented with illicit hand-holding, got married, got out, and then embarked on a season of further discovery. Chandra is a 29-year-old, cisgender female. She grew up in the 7th Day Adventist Church in the United States and describes herself as mixed race including Black, white, Chinese, and east Indian. She is bisexual, single, and has no children. She said her preferred relationship style is “honest.” She describes her body as average. Cult Evaded "Fall in love with your sex life" - register for one class or the entire series! www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/7th-day-chandra

Duration:01:14:54

I had sex at 13 so I wouldn't lose him - Yami

4/27/2023
Yami grew up in the Dominican Republic and the United States and there was no conversation in her family about sex. After lots of hard experiences as a teen, she is now involved with a man who is dedicated to her pleasure. They've been exploring swinging, play partners, and polyamory. Yami is a 23-year-old, cisgender female who describes herself as bisexual and heteroromantic, in a relationship and exploring opening up with her partner. She describes her body shape as a few extra pounds. "Fall in love with your sex life" - register for one class or the entire series! www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/thirteen-yami

Duration:00:53:32

I sucked his tongue like a lollipop - Liz

4/13/2023
When it came to exploring her sexuality, Liz took her time – while all her friends were gossiping about their boyfriends and hookups as teenagers, Liz knew she wasn’t ready to lose control. As a single woman, she now has sex occasionally while she waits to find love. Today we revisit the very first episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex from January 2019. Liz is a 37-year-old, cisgender white woman who is single, heterosexual, and monogamous. Fall in love with your sex life in 2023 - register for "Tune In To Your Turn Ons" www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes (plus audio extras): https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/lollipop-liz/

Duration:00:52:02

I feel better when I'm naked - This Is Not About Your Body

3/30/2023
In a special crossover episode, Leah talks with Jessi Kneeland on the This Is Not About Your Body podcast about how body image and sexuality intersect; body image in partnership; advocating for your own needs; and much more. Fall in love with your sex life in 2023 - register for "Tune In To Your Turn Ons": www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Coaching with Leah: www.leahcarey.com/coaching Jessi Kneeland, body image coach: www.jessikneeland.com This Is Not About Your Body podcast: www.listennotes.com/podcasts/this-is-not-about-your-body-jessi-kneeland-s6mpfJiAIYn Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/not-about-your-body/

Duration:01:22:06

I like to be choked and have my hair pulled - Candi

3/16/2023
Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares how it progressed and how it changed her physical capabilities over her lifetime, and what it’s like to date and to have sex with a visible disability. She also opens up about loving rough sex and BDSM, despite what others might perceive as fragility. Candi is a 27-year-old, cisgender woman. She describes herself as heterosexual, monogamous, single, tall, and thin. This is revisiting an episode that was first broadcast in November 2020. Fall in love with your sex life in 2023 - register for "Tune In To Your Turn Ons" www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes (plus audio extras): https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/choking-hair-pulling-candi

Duration:00:57:49

I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa (update)

3/2/2023
Leah shares the health issues she's been dealing with, and why they have brought up extensive flashbacks to her mother's cancer journey. Then we revisit a conversation with Lisa, first broadcast in December 2019. Lisa is a 40-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, currently in a relationship that is heterosexual, monogamous, and long-distance. She has also long been attracted to women and is considering the likelihood that she is bisexual. "Fall in love with your sex life" - register for one class or the entire series! www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/sex-while-married-lisa

Duration:01:02:48

I imagined group sex while masturbating - Michelle

2/16/2023
Sometimes desires arise in the imagination long before you have a chance to try them in real life. Michelle knew she wanted multiple partners and group arrangements—with people of all genders—even while surfing through old-school hetero-normative porn on the family computer. Now she’s publicly polyamorous and fully out on Instagram, defining her terms by living them. Michelle is a 29-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as Asian, bisexual, polyamorous and partnered. She describes her body as fat and chubby. Find her online at www.polyamorouswhileasian.com and www.instagram.com/polyamorouswhileasian "Fall in love with your sex life" - register for one class or the entire series! www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/group-sex-michelle/

Duration:01:20:17

Making friends with sex in menopause - Sophia

2/2/2023
Sex is complicated when you grow up Catholic and learn that kissing your best friend feels like heaven but will send you straight to hell. Sophia explored her feelings initially but then shut down once she got married. When the sheer physicality of menopause forced her to re-inhabit her body, she embraced a spiritual path towards sexual reawakening. Sophia is a 56-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, lesbian, and married. After a lifetime of monogamy, she recently came out to herself as polyamorous. She grew up in the Roman Catholic church and is now a pastor in the United Church of Christ. She’s post-menopausal and describes her body as thick and creamy. "Fall in love with your sex life" - register for one class or the entire series! www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/menopause-sophia/

Duration:01:46:28

I wanted to be a porn star when I was 13 - Sinn

1/19/2023
When you love being naked, feeling sexy, giving and receiving pleasure, and you're happily married, you may be…a porn star! Sinn Sage takes us into the real world of sex work, from her early days stripping at clubs and “bachelor” parties, to working as a pornstar-for-hire, through creating and selling her own custom porn in the age of SESTA-FOSTA and Pornhub. Sinn Sage is a 39-year-old, cisgender female who says she has a little bit of gender fluidity but is still happy using she/her pronouns. She describes herself as white, queer, monogamish, and married. She describes her body as slim-thick. You can find Sinn online at www.sinn-sage.com. Register for "Fall in love with your sex life – A year of sexy secrets": www.leahcarey.com/classes Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/porn-star-sinn

Duration:01:48:32

I kissed John Travolta - Tori

1/5/2023
In today's episode, we dive into topics like why confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers; how Tori's family tried to buck the stereotypes of Black fathers not being around by allowing her abuser to continue living with them; the moment she had to decide whether to save her abuser or let him die; and even exploring race play. Tori is a 46-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as Black, mostly straight, currently monogamous, and in a relationship. She grew up in the Black Baptist Church and describes her body as plus size. You can find Tori online at toriwestonwriterartist.com, and on Instagram at @toriwestonwriterartist. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/kissed-john-travolta-tori

Duration:01:31:55

I want to get railed by a man - Kelly

12/22/2022
Since beginning her transition to become a transgender woman recently, Kelly has discovered that she is interested in people of all genders. She discusses how hormone therapy has changed her body, her mind, and her orgasms. Kelly is a 34-year-old transgender woman. She describes herself as white, bisexual, single, and currently exploring open relationships. She has no kids and describes her body as thick. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/transgender-woman-kelly

Duration:01:09:18

Use your teeth on my nipples - Heidi

12/8/2022
Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi has a higher libido than her husband, but a lot of other things in the marriage work. Making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend requires having another friend to provide more consistent and fulfilling sex. The first time she brought it up, it was a no from her primary partner. Later she was able to circle back based on their trust, goodwill, and clear communication. Heidi is a 41-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, straight, and partnered. While her preference for relationship style would be monogamous, she is currently ethically non-monogamous to get her sexual needs met. Heidi describes her body as curvy. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/teeth-nipples-heidi

Duration:01:22:06

I was a really horny kid - Carla

11/24/2022
A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages. It’s something like a double-negative version of universes colliding to form new yeses. She’s now a mother of five, and currently balancing sex and motherhood and an unconventional family arrangement. Carla is a 45-year-old cisgender woman who describes herself as Black, heteroflexible, and partnered. She has five children and she said her preferred relationship style is, “If we talk about it and we’re on the same page, it’s okay.” Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/horny-carla

Duration:01:03:47

Opening my relationship made it even better - Leah

11/10/2022
Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship. The two discuss Leah's new adventure into pursuing an open relationship with her long-time partner. This episode is filled with important advice for any couple who feels like improved interactions could lead to deeper intimacy and a better, more fulfilling sex life. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/marriage-and-martinis

Duration:01:11:09

Sex on my period feels better - Monica

10/27/2022
When a dancer goes from embodying the feminine ideal to challenging it, beauty and gender standards are thrown into beautiful disarray. Monica began shaving and bleaching her bountiful body hair when she was 8. Two years ago, she finally rebelled and launched the Wet Hairy Woman project. She continues to untangle her preconceived notions around sexual and gender orientation and is learning to overcome her trauma responses while celebrating her true nature at every level. In other words ... she's gone guerrilla by going gorilla. See then and now photos and videos at https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/monica-steffey-then-and-now/ Monica Steffey is a 26-year-old, cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, bisexual, currently monogamous and interested in exploring, and single. She describes her body as athletic. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/wet-hairy-monica

Duration:01:31:04

Herpes isn't as stigmatized in Europe - Deidre

10/13/2022
The road to reclaiming consent is extra-long when it begins at age 3, and even more complicated by undiagnosed mental health disorders. For Deidre, a lifetime of sexual assault and a growing substance problem led to a rock bottom that included a BPD diagnosis. Today she's feeling healthy mentally and in a wonderful new relationship. Deidre is a 31-year-old non-binary person who uses both she and they pronouns and doesn’t have a preference for either one. Deidre describes herself as white, lesbian, monogamous, and partnered. She grew up in Canada and now lives in Germany. She describes her body as average. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/bpd-and-hsv-deidre

Duration:01:18:17

My throat isn't a virgin but my kitty is - Kyndra

9/29/2022
What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires. Kyndra is a 25-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as Black, monogamous with a curiosity about polyamory, single, and heteroflexible (she says she’s about 70% into men and 30% into women). She grew up in an evangelical Christian home and she describes her body as an hourglass or a Coke bottle. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/throat-not-virgin-kyndra

Duration:01:07:10

No fucks given - Maya Strom

9/15/2022
Is it true that sex will become less fun - or even painful 😬 - after menopause? Is there any way to stop the changes that happen to our bodies as we get older? Today I have a special guest: MY OWN health care provider! She's passionate about women's health and I trust her completely. My favorite part of this episode: Maya's theory on why women have so few fucks to give as they get into their 40s and 50s (hint: it has to do with their hormone levels). You can find Maya at www.mayastrom.com. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/maya-strom

Duration:00:54:31

I loved the double-ended dildo - Stevie

9/1/2022
Sex is hard enough to figure out without also having to wrangle with your gender. Stevie was raised as a little girl, but that never quite fit. They've covered a lot of ground to find clarity. They’re now happily married, while still exploring what they actually like in their body and who they want to be in their relationship. Stevie is 37 years old and identifies as non-binary or gender queer. They describe themselves as white, gay, monogamous, and married. Stevie grew up in Scotland and describes their body as athletic and pear-shaped. Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/double-ended-dildo-stevie

Duration:01:19:38

See More