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Communicating ABOUT sex so you have BETTER sex

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I wish my husband would leave - Aimee

10/3/2019
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Aimee is a 37-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, straight, and married. Although Aimee considers herself monogamous, she has recently begun an affair with another man that her husband does not know about. We talk about this extensively in the second half of the episode. This is a challenging subject, but it’s also real – there are so few places to learn about healthy relationships and healthy sexuality that many people are struggling in unhappy marriages and looking...

Duration:00:43:19

The funny one, not the pretty one – Erin

9/19/2019
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Erin is a 34-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as queer, in a new relationship, she isn’t certain of her preferred relationship style. Erin deals with OCD, plus related mental conditions that cause her to pull her hair (Trichotillomania) and pick her skin (Dermatillomania). Those conditions cause her nervousness when exposing herself with a new partner. Major themes in this episode include being queer, OCD, and exploring sex in adulthood. Here are some of the great...

Duration:00:42:04

I thought I couldn't orgasm - Martyna

9/5/2019
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Martyna is a 29-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, and in a relationship. She grew up in Poland and now lives in South Africa. Martyna deals with depression, and she talks today about how that has affected her relationships and sex. She also talks about how the season 1 STARS episode affected her thinking about how to talk about consent. You can find that episode at...

Duration:00:45:22

Episode 24 - Margot

8/8/2019
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Margot is a 39-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as black, British, bisexual and currently in an open, long-distance relationship. She also travels widely and lives for extended periods in other parts of the world, giving her insight into different sexual cultures around the world. Major themes in this episode include open relationships, later-in-life sexual explorations, and learning about sexuality in a culture that was not open about the subject. Here are some of the...

Duration:00:44:36

Episode 23 - Diana

8/1/2019
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Diana is a 37-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, married and monogamous. Diana had a traumatic birth with her older son, which led to a disconnection from her body and her pleasure. She was able to have a vaginal birth with her younger child, which helped reconnect her with her body and sexuality. Major themes in this episode include sexuality after trauma from childbirth and reclaiming your body after motherhood. Here are some of the great moments...

Duration:00:45:25

Episode 22 - Davina

7/25/2019
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Davina Bookbinder is a 33-year-old, transgender woman who describes herself as white, Jewish, queer, polyamorous and actively dating. Major themes in this episode include being transgender, discovering and navigating gender identity, and sex as a trans woman. This episode is extra long because there's just SOOOO much great material! Davina is a good friend and she and I have had long conversations about gender in general and her gender in particular. It is because she and I have developed...

Duration:00:58:50

Episode 21 - Jane

7/18/2019
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Jane is a 36-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heteroflexible, monogamous and with a partner of three years. Jane went to Catholic School while she was growing up in Scotland and in her family she learned that certain topics should never be discussed – including sex. Major themes in this episode include difficulty in communicating about sex, body image and sex, and exploring BDSM. Here are some of the great moments she shared with us: The Quick 5: The...

Duration:00:44:29

Episode 20 - Betsy

7/11/2019
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Betsy is a 38-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, straight, monogamous and in a relationship. Last year Betsy came to me to do sexual communication coaching as she considered branching into some new sexual explorations with BDSM as a submissive. She tells some of that story in this episode. Major themes in this episode include exploring new sexual realms (with support from a coach), navigating a changing relationship with her body, and BDSM. Here are some of the...

Duration:00:41:21

Episode 19 - Shelly

7/3/2019
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Shelly is a 44-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, lesbian, living with her girlfriend and monogamous. She grew up in the Mormon church, got married and had seven children as she was expected to do. Then several years ago she started questioning her faith and left the church. She then realized that she’s also a lesbian, which is an extreme no-no in the Mormon church. Major themes in this episode include the interplay of Mormonism and lesbianism, and recovering from...

Duration:00:44:53

Episode 18 - Laina

6/27/2019
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Laina is a 33-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as Chinese, heterosexual, married, and monogamous. Laina has one child and struggles with body image. She believes that nobody would want to have sex with her, and that her husband only does it because she’s his only option. Major themes in this episode include body image, libido, and changes in sexuality after giving birth. Here are some of the great moments Laina shared with us: The Quick Five: The Patreon extras for this...

Duration:00:40:15

Episode 17 - Jessi Kneeland (the return)

6/20/2019
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Jessi Kneeland is a 32-year old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, bisexual, single, and monogamish. She is an amazing body image coach and you can find her online at www.JessiKneeland.com and on Instagram @JessiKneeland. You can find her writing on queer sex HERE. You can find my season 1 conversation with Jessi HERE. The major theme of this episode is Jessi’s detailing her first serious explorations into queer sex and partnering with women. Here are some of the great...

Duration:00:45:28

Episode 16 - Inez

6/13/2019
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Inez is a 32-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, married with children, and monogamous. Inez is dealing with chronic illness and is in a currently sexless marriage. Topics covered in this interview include: recovering personal pleasure after abuse/trauma, body image, chronic illness and its impact on sexual activity, and how a partner's mental health diagnosis impacts the relationship. Here are some of the great moments she shared with us: The...

Duration:00:45:35

Episode 15 - Danielle

6/6/2019
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Danielle is a 41-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, Jewish, heteroflexible, married and monogamous. Danielle and her husband Adam host the podcast Marriage and Martinis, where they explore every hilarious, heartfelt, shocking, embarrassing, and completely inappropriate facet of marriage and parenting. Major themes in this episode include how OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) affected Danielle’s early experience of sex, how we allow our assumptions of what other...

Duration:00:43:21

Episode 14 - Shana

5/30/2019
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Shana is a 41-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as biracial (half black/half white), heterosexual, monogamous and currently in a relationship. Major themes explored in this episode include healing from old hurts, learning about consent, and discovering our own pleasure, rather than just focusing on pleasing our partner. Here are some of the great moments Shana shared with us: To become a community supporter, visit www.Patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex The Patreon extras...

Duration:00:42:04

Season 2 Trailer

5/23/2019
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Season 2 of Good Girls Talk About Sex is almost here! It begins Thursday, May 30! Make sure you've subscribed in your favorite podcast app so you don't miss a single episode. Here's to your better sex life!

Duration:00:05:17

Minisode with Reema Zaman

4/18/2019
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Welcome to a between-the-seasons mini episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex! Reema Zaman is a 35-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as Bangladeshi, heterosexual, monogamous, and single. Because her father was a diplomat, Reema lived in many countries during her growing-up years. She came to the United States by herself at age 18 with a dream of being an actress. She released the book I Am Yours in February 2019. It is the story of reclaiming her voice after years of trauma and...

Duration:00:17:40

Season One finale - The Quick Five extravaganza

4/4/2019
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It's the season one finale of Good Girls Talk About Sex! When I began this podcast, I had the typical fears - primarily, I wasn't sure it was any good! I've been overwhelmed and humbled and so grateful for the responses I've gotten back from you, dear friends. I've had feedback from people telling me deep, personal stories about changes they've made and things they've learned as a result of this podcast. Nothing could make me happier! Thanks to every one of you who has reached out to me...

Duration:00:37:55

Episode 13 - Amy

3/28/2019
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In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Amy, a 47-year-old cis-gendered white woman who describes herself as bisexual and married. I was interested in talking with Amy because she teased me with this bit of info: after being with her partner for almost 30 years, they discovered a previously undisclosed mutual interest in a new sexual adventure. How did they go for so long without discovering this shared interest? She tells us in this conversation. Here are some of the...

Duration:00:43:15

Episode 12 - Elizabeth

3/21/2019
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In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Elizabeth, a cis-gendered white woman in a monogamous heterosexual relationship who is approaching 40. Elizabeth has an active sex life with her male partner, which includes pegging. While that is something that might be considered relatively common in some circles, for others it is out on the fringes of “normal” sexual activity. Elizabeth opens up about how they got into it, why she loves it, and why it’s scary to admit to when...

Duration:00:42:09

Episode 11 - Trystan Reese

3/14/2019
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In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Trystan Reese, a transgender white man in a monogamous gay marriage who is 35 years old. In 2017, Trystan gave birth to a baby conceived with his husband Biff. Their story has been shared in People Magazine, CNN, Cosmo and more. You can find them online at BiffAndI.com. While Trystan has been living as a man for the past 15 years, he was raised and socialized as a female for his first 18 years. That gives him an intimate...

Duration:00:43:40