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On Sex Positive Me, we explore all aspects of sex and relationships, ranging from Fetishes and BDSM to Ethical Non-monogamy and LGBTQ issues. Sex Positive Me destigmatizes sexual practices and relationships while reconciling reality with myths & misconceptions. Our goal is to educate, entertain and be advocates of sexual freedom.

On Sex Positive Me, we explore all aspects of sex and relationships, ranging from Fetishes and BDSM to Ethical Non-monogamy and LGBTQ issues. Sex Positive Me destigmatizes sexual practices and relationships while reconciling reality with myths & misconceptions. Our goal is to educate, entertain and be advocates of sexual freedom.


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On Sex Positive Me, we explore all aspects of sex and relationships, ranging from Fetishes and BDSM to Ethical Non-monogamy and LGBTQ issues. Sex Positive Me destigmatizes sexual practices and relationships while reconciling reality with myths & misconceptions. Our goal is to educate, entertain and be advocates of sexual freedom.






E111 PleazeMe

On this episode, our guest was Heather C. Montgomery, founder and CEO of the sex-positive social platform, PleazeMe ( She created this entertaining and informative site as a means to open the conversation about healthy sex and sexuality, especially for women. After only achieving about 5 orgasms, she was trying to find a safe place to ask questions and could not find one that felt safe, or shame free. She did the logical thing she created! We discuss what makes...


E110: Coralyn Jewel

This week we welcomed Coralyn Jewel to talk about her new book “When The Ice Melts”. It’s the story of her life journey from an Olympic hopeful and skating instructor to an adult performer, club manager, entrepreneur and now #1 International Best Selling Author. We discussed how to navigate the swinging community and the importance of knowing who you are and what your limits are. That’s why she provides lifestyle coaching. "Always breaking any taboos and stigmas,” she told us. She also gave...


E109: Sex Work Across the Pond

We chatted with Chole from the podcast of Stripper Stories. What kind of stories her podcast has from fellow strippers? Well they are pretty funny. We talked about how different it is working in a Strip Club in England compare to the States. How the government regulates the clubs. How COVID-19 as effected the industry. We did discuss Bella Thorne stunt on Only Fans and how it changed the structure. Effected content creators on the platform. It hurts. Please support your adult content...


E108: Devyn Stone

We chatted with Devyn Stone A.K.A. Sir Horror (He/Him) about his books on cigar play and his focus on diversity. With the help of his community help create his book, "DAMN! THAT'S A NICE ASH!”, to show the diversity of folks in doing cigar play. Devyn explains what 840 is and means in reference to his property. Yes, I said property!. We found it mind-blowing and fascinating how he explains the relationship dynamic of him and 840. Devyn is open about his past trauma and mental health...


E107: Ethical Non-Monogamy in Brazil

Talking to Adelita Monterio a psychologist and couples therapist from Brazil! From all the places in the world to find someone that works with the Ethical Non-Monogamy group. We were curious how it differs in Brazil compared to the US and honestly the rest of the world. Learning if there is any discrimination for the bisexual in the community. Do people have access to safe sex practices and information? As always we enjoy exploring what the rest of the world thinks and views about...


E106: Pump It Up

Ever heard of pumping. No, we are not talking about breast pumping. And no, not a tire but yes, a body part. To be more specific, a penis, or a nipple, or a vulva, or … Well, you get the point. John was originally given a penis pump by the doctor overseeing his hormone treatment, but after a year we’ve discovered so much more. The pleasure and benefits of pumping have been amazing and noticeable. Enough that Angelique is now on her own vulva pumping journey. We chatted with Chris Kalev from...


E105: Industry Update with Layna Landry

Sexy, smart, and business savvy. That’s what we said after chatting with Layna Landry on how the adult industry has changed from when she first started 5 years ago to the evolution of online fan sites and the importance of data. Yes, being a cam model is actual work and legitimate business. Marketing, promoting, knowing your online statistic of where your fans are coming from, and what is the content they are looking for are the skills every online marketer should know, even in the adult...


E104: BoneYard Chat

Curious about men’s pleasure? Then we have an episode for you. We had a chat with Kristin Moore from BoneYard toys and they have a line to products specifically for men. From cock rings and lube shooters to suction cups and sounding, we covered it all. This episode was not only informative but hysterical as John disclosed one of his toy mishaps!


E103: The WOW Episode

Amist the global home confinment, many industries have had to pivot. The adult toy industry was no exception. We spoke with Samantha Brow who is an employee of the WOW Tech Group, and a representitive of We-Vibe, Womanizer, and Pjur. She has definitly given more Zoom presentations this year than she ever expected. We discussed the new technology in adult products that can make this time of social distancing a little easier. We reviewed toy safety and care then chatted about the range of male...


E102: Mating Season

It’s Mating Season! But don't go calling your partner just yet. At least not until you heard our conversation with Lexi Sylver. She just released a new book of erotic stories and adventures and it’s steaming hot! We had such a fun conversation and course, lots of laughs talking about her book. Trying to figure out which stories were fictional and which ones really happened was challenging, but they were all very hot. We were very pleased with the fact she did include a few hot sexy stories...


E101: READ ME: A Parental Primer For THE TALK

We were happy to have Dr. Lanae St. John back on the podcast again after 3 years. She recently released her book, READ ME: A Parental Primer for THE TALK and we're so excited to see this book come alive. The information is applicable to adults, parents, and children. She also revealed her five building blocks to a healthy sexuality. These blocks can help anyone build trust in themselves and their partner(s) in creating healthy relationships. We had a great conversation reminiscing over how...


E100: The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay

We have the honor to chat with Jess O’Reilly & Marla Renee Stewart about their new book “The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay” We discuss the reason for writing the book as well as the juicy contents in the book. Not only you learn how to seduce your partner sexually, but you will also learn that some of the information can be applied in a non-sexual way. The book is written for anyone in any type of relationship. Solo, partner, vanilla, or kinky. There is something for everyone in...


E99: Treble and Vine

Wine and music was the topic of this interview with Nashville-based singer-songwriter, performing artist, and wine enthusiast Arianna Lyrist. How does this relate to sex positivity you may ask. Well we believe sex is an experience of the body and mind and what better way to bring them into alignment then with wine and music. Arianna is a Nashville-based singer-songwriter and performing artist, wine enthusiast and currently working toward her Wine, Spirit, Education Trust Level 3...


E98: Make Me Come

Make me Cum! No, that’s not a request but it is the title of the book we just read. “Make Me Come: The Hard Truth About Mutual Satisfaction” wrtten by a married couple, Mickey and Emma-Jean Kapko. "Make Me Come" is your in-depth guide to learning mutually orgasmic sex and increasing intimacy with your partner. By discussion of communication, masturbation, foreplay, orgasm technique, sex positions, and much more, "Make Me Come" will give you the tools needed to find the mind-blowing sex...


E97: Unlearning Sex

Unlearning Sex is a feature documentary film that follows Zanah's six month journey through sexual trauma therapy and healing. In addition to audio clips from therapy, this film features interviews from trauma therapists, sex educators, and activists. Zanah's goal with this film is for people to learn about sexual assault, trauma, and sex education, while watching someone heal in real time. In our conversation with Zanah she opened up about the making of this film and how it changed her...


E96: Consensual Confinement

Stuck inside? Under a "stay at home" order or quarantine. So are we! Want some ideas on how to spend your time? We have a few and it's much more fun than anything you can binge-watch.


E95: Keeping Our Sanity

Well, we’re confined to our homes. Schools are closed. Bars & Restaurants are only open for take out. Social distancing has quickly become a requirement and yet we all still have needs. Let’s try to stay safe during this fearful time but remember not to forget about our sexual and mental health. A lack of touch and intimacy can lead to anxiety and depression. Listen for a little advice we have for staying sane and sexy in this new norm.


E94: The Green Baker

Educating, destigmatizing, & advocating for the responsible use of cannabis. That's become the mission of one South Florida chef name Angie, better known as The Green Baker. After witnessing, first hand the medicinal qualities of CBD and the changes it’s made in her special needs child, she’s expanding her 20 year culinary career to include this misunderstood plant. She is also the cohost of Ganja Beach Radio. But how is this sex positive, you may be thinking? Listen in as she shared her...


E93: Valentine's Day Just Different

Valentine's Day is an event usually filled with heart-shaped gifts, chocolate candies, and thoughts of love, at least for most people. But what if your view is a little different. What if you believed acts of love should be an everyday occurrence and not once a year obligation? Or perhaps you think in the 21st century, Valentine's Day should be planned by all parties instead of being a male’s chivalrous responsibility. How do you handle this holiday if you're in an alternative relationship...


E92: Ghosting

We discuss our latest adventures from skin discrimination and being ghosted to talking about really bad dating adventures from the past. The stories we have are unreal but they really did happen to us. We are just happy that we have our podcast so we can tell you. We did not think that the skincare industry discriminated against men for taking care of the skin, which shocked both of us. The treatment we received was equivalent to a woman car shopping with a man and the salesperson only...