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Graying Rainbows Coming Out LGBT+ Later in Life

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Graying Rainbows is a community that supports people of all genders and sexual identities, with a focus on the challenges of Coming Out LGBT+ Later in Life. We use interviews, history, and storytelling to connect people who are new to the Rainbow Community. Graying Rainbows is released on the first Monday each month.

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United States

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Graying Rainbows is a community that supports people of all genders and sexual identities, with a focus on the challenges of Coming Out LGBT+ Later in Life. We use interviews, history, and storytelling to connect people who are new to the Rainbow Community. Graying Rainbows is released on the first Monday each month.

Twitter:

@GrayingR

Language:

English


Episodes

GR 56 Three Year Anniversary Episode

11/5/2021
Graying Rainbows launched in November 2018. It's been an eventful three years, so this episode is a little different. It contains some advice for new listeners, reflections on lessons learned, and a brief look toward the future. Now that there are over 50 episodes I have done some re-organizing to make it easier to find certain content. The About page at grayingrainbows.com contains a partial list of episodes based on the following categories: (B) Book reviews (F) Faith related stories (POC) People of Color (T) Transgender (V) Veterans I have also placed a complete list of all the episodes on my personal website. Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:15:57

GR 55 Review of "All In" by Billie Jean King

10/1/2021
This episode of Graying Rainbows is a review of Billie Jean King's new autobiography "All In." I highly recommend the audio version because it is read by King and her emotions come through. King's story includes "coming out later in life." She describes the toll that the delay took on her health and happiness, as well as the new sense of freedom she discovered when she was finally out to herself and the world. Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:13:32

Rae McDaniel: Gender Transitions Coach

9/3/2021
This episode of Graying Rainbows features Gender Transition Coach Rae McDaniel. She shares her own story and her passion for helping clients of all ages. Rae's Websites: Practical AudacityGenderfck: The Club Other References: Transgender HistoryGR 12Unbound: Transgender Men and the Remaking of IdentityGR 27 Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbowsAre You Sure? The Unconscioius Origins of Certainty Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:42:27

GR 53 Army Veteran Andre Barnhardt

8/6/2021
In this month's episode of Graying Rainbows Army veteran Andre Barnhardt shares his struggle to embrace his identity as a gay man. He reminds us that despite the new more "open" policies it remains difficult to come out in a military culture. Learn more about Andre: esinnej.com/blog/Transition Americanwoodpics.com Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:21:19

GR 52 Asexuality with Julie Sondra Decker

7/2/2021
This episode is an interview with Julie Sondra Decker, author of "The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality." Most people acknowledge that sexual orientations includes homosexuals, bisexuals, and heterosexuals, but there is actually a fourth possibility. A person who identifies as asexual does not feel sexual attraction to anyone. Unfortunately, many assume that this represents a disease when actually it is part of normal human diversity. We discuss what asexuality IS as well as what it is NOT. Asexuality is about attraction NOT behavior. Our goal is to embrace human diversity and acknowledge that each person's identity should be respected as equally valid. If the idea of asexuality is new to you, I hope you will listen to this informative interview. Links and Resources: The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to AsexualityJulie Sondra DeckerUnderstanding Asexualityhttps://www.asexuality.org Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:49:24

GR 51 Dr. Larry Millhoffer shares his experiences from the early days of AIDS

6/18/2021
Dr. Larry Millhoffer is a retired physician who is grateful to have been with his husband for 45 years. Over that time the meaning of "coming out" has evolved, but a pivotal time in his life was caring for the first patients with AIDS as a young physician in the early 80's. During our conversation he reflects on the challenges of caring for patients in a time of fear and uncertainty, and on how the AIDS crisis changed the LGBT community. Because our community lost so many people during this period I think it is extremely valuable to hear from those who lived through that time. As a gay physician Dr. Millhoffer brings a perspective that we don't usually get to hear. Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:01:04:13

GR 50 Brig. General David Cotton

6/4/2021
Retired Air Force Brig. General David Cotton shares his story of coming out LGBT+ after leaving his military career. He struggled with depression and with ending his marriage, but he shares how he learned how to embrace vulnerability and discovered new ways to connect with others. Links and Resources: https://www.ffbciowa.org/speakers/Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and LeadRadical Compassion: Learning to Love Yourself and Your World with the Practice of RAINState of PridePsychology TodayFirst Friday Breakfast ClubThe Mankind ProjectLauren Olson:GR 2GR 7Rick Clemons: GR 4Eric Marcus: GR 17Deb Fowler: GR 22Mark David Gibson: GR 23Modern Military Association of AmericaMore links from David Cotton Announcements: grayingrainbows@gmail.comGraying Rainbows NewsletterGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:59:09

GR 49 Quinn Cromm (Corrected Version)

5/7/2021
This episode of Graying Rainbows features Quinn Cromm who shares their experience of being non-binary in a world of rapidly changing ideas. If you downloaded this episode before July 7, 2021 please download this corrected version. My apologies to Quinn for mis-gendering them in the original version. Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:50:02

GR 48 Carren Strock Returns

4/2/2021
In this month's episode of Graying Rainbows we talk with writer Carren Strock about the 3rd edition of "Married Women Who Love Women, and More." Despite changing attitudes women continue to discover their attraction to other women after marriage and there are many ways to cope with the unique challenges of this dilemma. Links and References: carrenstrock.com@CarrenStrockFacebookMarried Women Who Love WomenThe Fifth Sacred Thing Announcements: Graying Rainbows NewsletterGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:39:35

GR 47 Former Minister Nathan Hall Shares His Journey

3/5/2021
In this episode of Graying Rainbows former minister Nathan Hall shares what happened when he was outed without warning. It is an inspiring story of strength and resilience. Recommended Reading: God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex RelationshipsUnClobber: Rethinking Our Misuse of the Bible on HomosexualityWhat the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality Announcements: Are You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certaintyhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:48:19

GR 46 Jane Fleishman author of "The Stonewall Generation"

2/5/2021
This month's episode of Graying Rainbows features Jane Fleishman, author of "The Stonewall Generation: LGBTQ Elders on Sex, Activism, and Aging." Links and References: The Stonewall Generation: LGBTQ Elders on Sex, Activism, and Agingjanefleishman.comon YouTubeMiss Major Griffin-GraceyMiss MajorDavid BermudezStonewall Veterans AssociationNational LGBTQ Task Force: Creating ChangeSusan Strykerfeatured in episode 12 Announcements: Graying Rainbows NewsletterGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:59:32

GR 45 Nick McKenney from the Gay Coaches Alliance

1/1/2021
This month's episode of Graying Rainbows features Nick McKenney from the Gay Coaches Alliance. Nick came out 10 years ago when he was 63 years old and his first words for those of you who are struggling is that "it will get better." Email Dr. Campbell at grayingrainbows@gmail.com if you want to learn more about Nick's coaching. Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbowsAre You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certainty Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:38:14

GR 44 Dr. Tony Kaye

12/4/2020
This month's episode of Graying Rainbows features retired UK physician Tony Kaye. He shares his journey including some of the new challenges created by the COVID 19 pandemic. Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbowsAre You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certainty Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:01:00:57

GR 43 Angela Williams

11/6/2020
This episode of Graying Rainbows features Angela Williams who shares her story of breaking free from toxic religious teachings. Her story also reminds us that coming out LGBT+ later in life is about much more than sex. Links and References: Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free Announcements: Embracing Uncertainty: How to Thrive in Uncertain Timeshttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:52:56

GR 42 Lou Poulain

10/2/2020
In this month's episode of Graying Rainbows listener Lou Poulain shares his story of coming out in his sixties. Books and Episodes Mentioned: GR 31Straight Spouses NetworkThe Gay Revolution: The Story of the StruggleGR 1Right Side of History: 100 Years of LGBTQI ActivismThe Stonewall ReaderWhen We Rise: My Life in the MovementHarvey Milk: His Lives and DeathGR 14 Additional Links: PodcastMilkThe Life and Times of Harvey Milk Announcements: Centering the Margins 2020LGBTQ Humanist AllianceClick here to register.http://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:55:41

GR 41 Lorena de Idiáquez Bakula: A story of Transition

9/4/2020
This episode of Graying Rainbows features my friend and fellow physician Lorena de Idiáquez Bakula. Lorena shares her story of growing up as a boy in Puru, where she attended university and medical school before moving to the United States to complete her training. It was not until she had been a successful physician for several years that she was able to transition and embrace her identity as a woman. She explains that despite the challenges she feels her life has changed for the better. Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbowsAre You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of CertaintyClick here to buy an autographed copy. Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:58:38

GR 40 Michael Crumpler

8/7/2020
This month's episode of Graying Rainbows features Reverend Michael Crumpler who is the Director for LGBTQ and Multicultural Programs for the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA). He shares the story of how he was able to realize his dream of being a Christian minister AFTER coming out as LGBT+. We also discuss some of the unique challenges he faced as a black man, who happens to be Gay. Links and References: Michael CrumplerMichael's UUA Blog Moonlight:Are You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certainty Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:46:09

GR 39 Jenn Grace from Publish Your Purpose Press

7/17/2020
This extra episode of Graying Rainbows is an interview with author and entrepreneur Jenn T Grace. Jenn is the founder of Publish Your Purpose Press and her latest book is called "House on Fire: Finding Resilience, Hope, and Purpose in the Ashes." If you have ever wanted to write a book, you won't want to miss this episode. Links and References: https://jenntgrace.comPublish Your Purpose Press:House on Fire: Finding Resilience, Hope, and Purpose in the AshesCracked Open - Never Broken: A MemoirAre You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certainty Announcements: Graying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:48:53

GR 38 Tress Ahles shares "The Messy Middle"

7/3/2020
GR 38 features educator Tress Ahles who courageously shares her ongoing coming out journey, including the tension between the joys of embracing her true identity and guilt about the impact on those she loves. Links and References: Graying Rainbows Newsletterclick heregrayingrainbows33777Are You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certaintyinterview on The Out EntrepreneurRhodes Perry (GR 9)Life Un-closetedRick Clemons (GR 4) Announcements: Are You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of Certaintyhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:35:48

GR 037 William Smith explores "Gay Life After 40"

6/5/2020
This month's guest William Smith founded the long-running website gaylifeafter40.com and several related groups on Facebook. We go beyond his personal coming out story as he shares the lessons he has learned from helping other gay men come out "later in life." Although his work focuses on gay men, these lessons can remind us all of the power of helping others. Links and References: Gay Life After 40:http://www.gaylifeafter40.com/The Gay Life After 40 Mastermind SummitLoren Olson:GR2GR 7Finally Out: Letting Go of Living StraightAARP:SAGE: Announcements: Are You Sure? The Unconscious Origins of CertaintyGraying Rainbows Newsletterhttp://speakpipe.com/docartemisGraying Rainbows Patreonhttp://patreon.com/grayingrainbows Connect on Social Media: @GrayingRhttps://fb.me/grayingrainbowshttps://mewe.com/p/grayingrainbowscomingoutlgbtlaterinlife

Duration:00:42:16