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I don't have all the answers. But I do have things to say. Witty, insightful, wise, thoughtful, unique, probably awkward but potentially brilliant things said by a 40-something career introvert. No politics. No controversy. Just things. Follow me on Facebook! @IHaveThingsToSayTHebert https://www.facebook.com/IHaveThingsToSayTHebert/?modal=admin_todo_tour Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

I don't have all the answers. But I do have things to say. Witty, insightful, wise, thoughtful, unique, probably awkward but potentially brilliant things said by a 40-something career introvert. No politics. No controversy. Just things. Follow me on Facebook! @IHaveThingsToSayTHebert https://www.facebook.com/IHaveThingsToSayTHebert/?modal=admin_todo_tour Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support
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I don't have all the answers. But I do have things to say. Witty, insightful, wise, thoughtful, unique, probably awkward but potentially brilliant things said by a 40-something career introvert. No politics. No controversy. Just things. Follow me on Facebook! @IHaveThingsToSayTHebert https://www.facebook.com/IHaveThingsToSayTHebert/?modal=admin_todo_tour Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

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Episodes

The Problem With “Hustle”

3/22/2019
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Today we talk about “Hustle” vs. “Slow.” I have a hard time with the word “Hustle” It’s a label we seem to strive for—especially in the entrepreneur world. It’s not a bad word! But it’s a word or a way of life we put on a pedestal—then we deal with massive guilt if we find ourselves in a moment lacking hustle. Is it okay to slow down? What are the benefits of slowing down? Am I failing “the” hustle if I’m not hustling to the world’s expectations? Listen to find out. Like what you hear? Be...

Duration:00:44:52

Make Good Choices

2/27/2019
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This episode is inspired by watching “Botched Up Bodies” and “Surviving R. Kelly” and what weighs heavy on my heart as a result. We too often make bad choices. I’m talking about just doing really dumb—or blatantly wrong—with a justification or rationalization that we feel makes it right....despite the horrible or hurtful outcomes. I’m also talking abut looking the other way when we shouldn’t. Or not speaking up when it’s the right thing to do. Or going with what’s popular when we know it’s...

Duration:00:51:19

The Recipe for Feeling Un-Loved

2/16/2019
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This episode is strategically placed AFTER Valentine’s Day. It’s a day when you either feel exceptionally loved—or tragically UN-loved. Did you know? “Feeling” unloved doesn’t mean you “are” unloved. Today we’ll talk about the recipe of behavior that can lead to us feeling unloved—and how we can change the recipe for a better outcome. This episode isn’t just for anyone who felt unloved on Valentine’s Day. It’s for anyone who struggles with feeling like no one loves you on a regular,...

Duration:00:39:35

Speak Up!

2/7/2019
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Today’s episode is inspired again in part by ShineText.com and of course, my own thoughts and feelings. Are you ever afraid to say what you think and feel? Today we talk about how you deserve to be heard. But so often, we let our fear of how others will interpret what we say keep us from saying anything at all. Speak up! You are worthy. But first, listening to me talk about talking. Like what you hear? Be sure your rate this show on your favorite podcast app! LOVE what you hear? Sponsor the...

Duration:00:46:30

Busting Buzzwords—I’m Not Toxic, You Are

2/1/2019
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Today we celebrate our 20th Episode and surpassing 1,000 listens!!! Hooray! We also add another installment of Busting Buzzwords. We’ll talk about an all-too-common label for people we don’t want in our lives these days: Toxic Is it accurate? WHEN is it accurate? If I say it first, does it mean you are toxic and I’m not?? We’ll explore what being toxic “isn’t” and why we need to be careful tossing that label on anyone we feel isn’t up to our standards. Like what you hear? Be sure your rate...

Duration:00:34:41

40-Something is Awesome-Something

1/24/2019
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Back after a week of laryngitis!! I had a birthday this week and reflected on my 40s far. If you are dreading turning 40 or being in your 40s, let me encourage you with this episode. Cuz 40-something is Awesome-Something. Like what you hear? Be sure your rate this show on your favorite podcast app! LOVE what you hear? Sponsor the show! For as little as $1/ month, you can support this podcast. When you become a sponsor, you get recognition! Teri’s audience is waiting to hear about your biz....

Duration:00:21:07

If You Can’t Do a Lot—Do a Little

1/9/2019
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Overwhelmed? Overcommitted? Over-stressed? Over...EVERYTHING!?! Today’s episode is for you. When we have too much on our plate, we sometimes don’t get anything done. It creates anxiety. When we don’t get anything done, we feel like we let ourselves and others down. Teri shares how overwhelmed she is TODAY. Sometimes it’s short-term circumstances. Other times, it’s a lifestyle we choose for ourselves. Teri talks about doing at least a little if we can’t do it ALL...and why that’s okay....

Duration:00:28:33

The “Skinny Girl” Talks Body Image

1/5/2019
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I grew up a “skinny” girl. But guess what? Skinny girls have body image issues too. And I’m not “skinny” anymore. Today we look at our expectations for our bodies as we age, and how we use that to justify our self worth. We’ll also hear a reminder that you are YOU—no matter your size and how you change over time. Teri leaves us with some recommendations of how to reframe our body insecurities into a healthier mindset. Yes, eat pizza if it brings you joy. Sponsor Spotlight: Relax With Christy...

Duration:01:00:32

New Year Resolutions are Dumb

12/27/2018
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I hate New Years resolutions. But that’s not the same as living life without purpose or goals and plans. In this episode, I’ll talk about why I think New Years resolutions are dumb. I’ll also talk about a different approach to making and keeping goals (this coming from a TERRIBLE goal-maker). And we’ll look at why giving ourselves grace while making and pursuing goals is vital. Thanks to Keith Kochner for some of the inspiration here. Find him at keithkochner.com or mentorfish.com. Like what...

Duration:00:42:30

Feel Your Feels

12/19/2018
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Today we talk about our feelings. No really. Do you feel your feelings? Do you feel bad about how you feel? Do you struggle feeling like it’s okay to ask for help when you’re struggling? I’m a life-long guilt-sufferer. I even feel bad about how I feel sometimes. Let’s talk about what that means and how we can feel our feels instead of faking “better” feelings or staying stuck when we’re low. Shout out again to Daily Shine and Sheila Walsh’s words for helping me gather my thoughts on this...

Duration:00:40:07

How Does Giving Make You Feel?

12/13/2018
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It’s the Giving “Season”. But even when it’s not in season, how does giving make you feel? Today we’ll talk about when giving stresses you out and how you can give in other ways besides money and stuff. Shout again to shinetext.com for a little inspiration to add to my own. If you DO have the giving spirit, don’t forget you can sponsor this podcast for as little as $1 a month! This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:29:34

Busting Buzzwords—Being Present

12/5/2018
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Today we have another installment of our “Busting Buzzwords” series. We tackle the phrase “Being Present”. What does it mean? What SHOULD it mean? How do we misuse it in our lives? How can we make it work as intended? I might not have the answers. But I do have things to say about it. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:37:57

#ComplimentGoals

11/28/2018
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How do you receive compliments? Do you give compliments freely? Today we talk about why it’s hard to receive compliments, why it’s hard to GIVE compliments, and how we can reach some #ComplimentGoals. Thanks again to shinetext.com for the inspiration. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:36:58

Let’s Talk Grief During the Holidays

11/21/2018
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Not everyone has a “happy” Christmas. Hear a little about what you might experience if you are grieving during the holidays. And if you know someone who is grieving, learn a little about what you can do for them during the holidays. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:51:03

Single Splainin’ — Single for the Holidays

11/15/2018
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Continuing our recurring series called “Single Splainin’” where I explain single life to the world, we look at being single during the holidays. Don’t feel sorry for us, y’all. But take a listen and see how holidays and being single might be different from holidays with a family, spouse, and kids. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:30:40

Busting Buzzwords: You’re Not a Hot Mess

11/10/2018
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The first of a new recurring segment called Busting Buzzwords. Today we look at the term “Hot Mess” and talk about why we need to disown the term and the lifestyle. Like the podcast so far? Leave me a rating and review on the platform where you listen to me! This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:20:15

Your Worst Day Won’t Last Forever

11/6/2018
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When we’re in the middle of our worst “day” it can feel like it will last forever. I promise, it won’t. In this episode we talk about believing that there are better days beyond our worst. We also talk about showing up for those in the middle of those terrible days. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:32:51

You’re Not Awesome All the Time

10/30/2018
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Today we talk about how personal development *should* work, and which reviews and feedback is the most honest for life and whatnot. Also, shoutout to #airbnb for being awesome. I get no money for mentioning them but you should use them for your travel stays anytime. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:35:16

It Happened on a Thursday

10/24/2018
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In this episode, we talk about losing a sibling as adult. It’s a life-altering event. But you’re not alone. This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:35:53

Longing for Belonging

10/22/2018
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Today we OFFICIALLY launch into the poscast-osphere! We’ll talk about lacking the confidence to belong and how to own your space, whether it’s the same old space or a new frontier. Get your daily Shine texts at shinetext.com (PS: I’m not affiliated with Shine texts—I just like them.) This podcast is sponsored by Anchor Become a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ihavethingstosay/support

Duration:00:31:19