Thriving in Sex Work: Sex Work and Money
Lola Davina
In order to thrive in sex work, Sexy Reader, you must excel at sex AND money.
Secrets and silence swirl around money; sex work money doubly so. But sex workers can't afford to be mystified by their finances. Lola Davina, author of the "Thriving in Sex Work" series, offers a comprehensive, easy-to-follow guide to financial well-being for all sex workers regardless of income, gender, or job title. With her trademark warmth and wit, Lola shows you how to:
• Master your personal finances, even the yuckiest chores.
• Manage your time wisely, while earning what you deserve.
• Dismantle destructive thought patterns that cause you to overspend, undercharge, and give up your power.
• Share with loved ones without oversharing.
• Enjoy your work and love your life!
Thriving in sex work means a healthy body, mind, heart, and bank account. Packed with expertise, time-tested creative exercises, and personal stories, Sex Work and Money will help take your business to the next level!
Contributions by tax, legal, financial, and sex work experts including:
• Writing the Perfect Ad by Taylor B. Jones
• Investing by Erin Lowry of "Broke Millennial"
• Internet Privacy by Violet Blue
• Combating Online Piracy by Jiz Lee
• Forming an LLC by Christopher Kirk
• Paying Taxes by Lori St. Kitts, The Tax Domme
• Understand What You're Signing by Conner Habib
And much more!
Author Bio
Lola Davina has spent nearly thirty years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising.
Duration - 10h 21m.
Author - Lola Davina.
Narrator - Lola Davina.
Published Date - Friday, 05 January 2024.
Copyright - © 2020 The Erotic As Power Press LLC ©.
Location:
United States
Description:
In order to thrive in sex work, Sexy Reader, you must excel at sex AND money. Secrets and silence swirl around money; sex work money doubly so. But sex workers can't afford to be mystified by their finances. Lola Davina, author of the "Thriving in Sex Work" series, offers a comprehensive, easy-to-follow guide to financial well-being for all sex workers regardless of income, gender, or job title. With her trademark warmth and wit, Lola shows you how to: • Master your personal finances, even the yuckiest chores. • Manage your time wisely, while earning what you deserve. • Dismantle destructive thought patterns that cause you to overspend, undercharge, and give up your power. • Share with loved ones without oversharing. • Enjoy your work and love your life! Thriving in sex work means a healthy body, mind, heart, and bank account. Packed with expertise, time-tested creative exercises, and personal stories, Sex Work and Money will help take your business to the next level! Contributions by tax, legal, financial, and sex work experts including: • Writing the Perfect Ad by Taylor B. Jones • Investing by Erin Lowry of "Broke Millennial" • Internet Privacy by Violet Blue • Combating Online Piracy by Jiz Lee • Forming an LLC by Christopher Kirk • Paying Taxes by Lori St. Kitts, The Tax Domme • Understand What You're Signing by Conner Habib And much more! Author Bio Lola Davina has spent nearly thirty years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising. Duration - 10h 21m. Author - Lola Davina. Narrator - Lola Davina. Published Date - Friday, 05 January 2024. Copyright - © 2020 The Erotic As Power Press LLC ©.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
Duration:00:16:05
Dedication And Epigraph
Duration:00:12:22
Author's Foreword
Duration:06:47:29
Preface
Duration:10:21:24
Introduction
Duration:19:40:04
Part One: The Emotional Life Of Sex Work Money
Duration:00:05:29
A Litany For Survival
Duration:01:55:13
Enoughness
Duration:02:38:37
Enoughness Exercise
Duration:02:43:50
The Overwhelm
Duration:02:24:27
Money Bossitude
Duration:02:39:16
First Tool: Positivity
Duration:11:35:05
Second Tool: Body Scan
Duration:05:59:20
Third Tool: Self-Compassion
Duration:12:42:56
Earliest Money Memory
Duration:03:06:33
Exercise: Earliest Money Memory
Duration:04:19:22
Money Demons
Duration:04:07:02
I've Ruined My Life
Duration:06:35:06
Exercise: Grieving Past Mistakes
Duration:02:55:13
I'm Worthless
Duration:03:48:38
Exercise: Stepping Into Your Worth
Duration:02:31:49
I'm Not Good Enough
Duration:04:14:45
Exercise: Living Your Best Sex Work Life
Duration:02:10:41
I Don't Deserve More
Duration:03:17:39
Exercise: Honoring Your Ancestors
Duration:05:15:35
I Can't Take Care Of Myself
Duration:04:49:13
Exercise: Letting The Kids Out
Duration:02:33:23
Money Is Dirty
Duration:02:56:55
Exercise: Winning The Lottery
Duration:02:31:33
The System Is Fucked
Duration:04:16:42
Exercise: Bread And Roses
Duration:02:08:25
I Can Never Have Enough
Duration:03:13:10
Exercise: Assessing Your Everything
Duration:01:58:50
Everyone Has It Better Than Me
Duration:04:09:47
Exercise: Keeping A Gratitude Journal
Duration:02:10:07
Exercise: Thanking Your Body
Duration:01:10:12
Exercise: Letting Go
Duration:00:41:55
Exercise: Earliest Money Memory Revisited
Duration:01:56:36
Exercise: Your Ideal Relationship To Money
Duration:02:53:28
Part Two: Practical Sex Work Money Advice
Duration:00:14:30
Part Two: Practical Sex Work Money Advice: An Introduction
Duration:04:04:20
Having
Duration:01:49:41
Exercise: Emergency Plan
Duration:02:15:31
Banking
Duration:14:53:06
Earning
Duration:06:50:50
Earning: Asserting Ourselves
Duration:08:42:08
Earning: Sliding Scale: A Conversation With Mistress Ilsa Strix
Duration:07:20:25
Earning: Alternative Forms Of Payment
Duration:11:32:31
Earning: Side Hustles
Duration:01:14:20
Earning: Time Management And Productivity
Duration:01:28:14
Earning: Consistency, Reliability, And Transparency
Duration:07:59:49
Budgeting
Duration:12:56:48
Budgeting: Tracking
Duration:05:58:48
Budgeting: Refining Your Budget
Duration:07:36:54
Saving
Duration:12:25:07
Spending
Duration:13:46:05
Investing
Duration:12:01:14
Paying Taxes
Duration:12:42:28
Borrowing
Duration:24:10:45
Giving, Sharing, And Commingling
Duration:07:40:41
Advising And Consulting
Duration:04:34:53
Donating To Charity And To Those In Need
Duration:03:53:24
Bequeathing
Duration:05:09:03
Recap
Duration:02:35:23
Next Steps
Duration:01:30:22
Conclusion Quote
Duration:00:14:28
Special Thanks And Acknowledgements
Duration:01:53:02
About Me
Duration:04:02:20
Envelope Budgeting
Duration:02:38:39
SESTA/FOSTA
Duration:04:29:21
Sex Work And Money Survey
Duration:01:19:08
Ending Credits
Duration:00:23:11