The Relationship Type

Spooky season never ends!!! In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota are joined by the hosts of the “Dark House” podcast, House Beautiful editors Hadley Mendelsohn and Alyssa Fiorentino. “Dark House” explores beautiful homes that can’t seem to escape their dark histories, whether it’s true crime, paranormal activity, or both. They discuss how their podcast came to be, what attracts them to haunted houses, their relationship with ghosts and the paranormal, and more. Find “Dark House” anywhere you listen to podcasts, like Spotify and Apple. And follow them on Instagram: instagram.com/darkhousepodcast Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com If you liked this episode, please leave us a review! Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

Happy (almost) Halloween, gabby ghouls! In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex and Patty settle into spooky season with some good old-fashioned ghost stories and tales of an even scarier phenomenon—ghosting! They share their stories being ghosted, or even ghosting themselves, plus explore why we ghost, when it’s a bad idea versus totally acceptable, and how it's impacted their own lives and relationships. But that's not all! As Halloween approaches, they're adding a spine-tingling twist to today's episode. In the spirit of the season, they'll be sharing some real ghost stories and ouija board mishaps that’ll leave you with goosebumps—because the only thing scarier than ghosts of situationships past is actual apparitions that appear in doorways at random!! True story, Alex swears! So, if you're all alone, pick up the phone, and call…Alex and Patty (Ghostbusters)! Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex and Patty sit down with writer, playwright and filmmaker Sara Jin Li to dive deep into the topics of self-care and love, and what it means to move away from the capitalistic ideas of each. Sara has been exploring the myths of self-care and why we should instead turn to our communities for true healing. As modern life becomes increasingly intertwined with the demands of capitalism, we often find ourselves caught between the pursuit of self-care and love. This discussion will leave you with a sense of understanding in your quest for meaningful relationships and self-fulfillment within the confines of today's capitalist society. The ladies also talk about imposter syndrome—and how Sara simply does not subscribe to it—the pitfalls of online dating, and what it’s like to move across the country and leave friends and family behind. Gut Feelings, Sara’s Substack: sarajinli.substack.com Sara’s literary salon, called Heretics Club: hereticsclub.com Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

We’re baaack! In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex and Patty update listeners on what’s been going on in their lives and dive into their current relationships with grief and love. They also share their love for each other, which is a super cute moment. Just saying. Having gone through a recent loss in her family, Alex kicks off the episode by opening up about the grief she is experiencing, and how it manifests in her day-to-day life. In this episode, Alex pays tribute to her loved ones who have passed by sharing beautiful anecdotes that honor their memory. Later in the episode, Patty shares how a recent wedding attendance made her contemplate romantic love and what she is hoping to find in her life partner. Spoiler: It’s a good dancer. Having attended three weddings this year alone, Patty discusses how the love she witnessed reminds her why she endures the hell that is modern dating. Lastly, the ladies gab about the magic of Fall, the joy of embracing basic autumnal vibes, and the ultimate guide on how and when to watch Nora Ephron’s epic romcom trilogy. To learn more about the Dinner Party, visit: thedinnerparty.org Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota dive into their relationships with friendship. This highly-requested episode will cover the magic of friendship, how to navigate friend breakups, friendship dealbreakers, how to make new friends and more. A lot changes when trying to grow and maintain friendships into adulthood—and Alex and Patty share their personal experience with (their attempt at) balancing careers, relationships and personal growth while trying to hold onto meaningful connections. You’ll also hear Alex and Patty’s thoughts on that scary Vice article about losing all your friends at 25, and their reaction to the growing trend of transactional friendships, as explained in an episode of The Atlantic’s “How to Be Human” podcast titled "What Do We Owe Our Friends?" Whether your friendships are feeling abundant or scarce, tune in for an engaging conversation that will leave you with a deeper understanding of your own friendships and those around you. ALSO! In this episode, Patty fumbles over which moon is best to manifest under—a full or a new moon. According to Chani Nicholas, this latest new moon in Virgo was actually a phenomenal time to manifest and new moons can be a good time to set intentions as they are a marker of new beginnings. The more you know! Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota sit down Desi Sulca, a Brooklyn-based video editor and seasoned dater who is currently navigating the good, the bad and the chaotic world of dating in New York City. Tune in as Desi shares their experience with dating in the queer community as a young 30-something. They discuss the importance of astrology in their search for love, their dating deal breakers, dating apps like Raya, their second puberty, and more. From the excitement of discovering romance in unexpected places to the challenges of finding genuine connections, Desi's journey is a testament to the power of authenticity and embracing experiences outside of one’s comfort zone. In this episode, you'll also hear Desi's story of being a divorcee and how that inspired them to come out as trans, shedding light on the complexities of love, loss and the courage to start anew. It's a conversation that resonates with anyone who has experienced the ups and downs of being in a serious relationship. So, whether you're a seasoned New Yorker navigating the dating scene or someone who is just looking to build strong community connections, tune in for insights, stories, and laughter in this exploration of love, community, and *Rihanna voice* finding love in a hopeless place. Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota dive into the first of many dating episodes, and they’re joined by a guest who's currently navigating dating intentionally in a new city—Nate Kling. Nate is a self-proclaimed intentional dater joining the pod from Portland, Oregon—but here's the catch: He’s from San Diego, California. With such diverse dating landscapes to draw from, Nate has some wisdom to drop about the differences, challenges, and delightful surprises he's encountered while figuring out the dating scene in these two distinct cities. Join us as we sit down with Nate to explore the nuances of dating—both online and offline—in the Pacific Northwest, what it's like to date intentionally, and the world of dating in your late 20s. We'll discuss the quirks, the trends, and the dos and don'ts of modern dating, all while sharing some relatable stories along the way. Whether you're a seasoned dater, someone considering taking the plunge, or just curious about how people attempt to date in *frantically waves hands* all of this, tune in for a look into the (tragic-ish) world of modern romance. Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

In this episode of “The Relationship Type,” hosts Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota sit down with a very special guest, Dr. Nate Rodriguez. Dr. Nate isn't just an Associate Professor and Director at San Diego State University’s School of Journalism and Media Studies; he's also Alex’s personal mentor. With a profound expertise in radio and teaching about media and pop culture, Dr. Nate shares how our media landscape influences our understanding of self and others. As he unpacks the intersectionality of media, identity and culture, Dr. Nate shares how he crafts his engaging classes around pop culture icons and pivotal moments that he wishes he had when he was growing up. From teaching classes on how the Barbie movie redefined stereotypes, to the cultural impact of Selena, and the boundary-pushing expressions of artists like Bad Bunny and Cardi B, Dr. Nate’s portfolio of courses will have you ready to enroll at SDSU and take on more student debt. Throughout the episode, you'll gain a new perspective on how media shapes our perceptions of relationships, society, and ourselves. If you, like Alex and Patty, can’t get enough of Dr. Nate, be sure to follow him on social and check out + subscribe to his podcast Sin Vergüenza. Find Sin Vergüenza wherever you listen to podcasts, or on Spotify here. Follow Dr. Nate on Instagram: instagram.com/drnaterodriguez Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

We love a bonus!! In this episode of "The Relationship Type," Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota dive into the sun-soaked world of Jenny Han's beloved young adult novel-turned-tv show, "The Summer I Turned Pretty." Joined by special guest and TSITP superfan Rosemary (Rosie) Wotjkoski, an Associate Editor on the Emerging Platforms team at Cosmopolitan, Alex and Patty unpack the emotional rollercoaster that is the Amazon Prime hit series’ second season. Get ready to gab about the complex dynamics between Belly and the Fisher brothers, Conrad and Jeremiah—and be prepared to take a side. (Spoiler: If you are team Jeremiah, this episode may shock you.) With a spotlight on themes of nostalgia, grief, young love and the fleeting nature of summer, the gals discuss how "The Summer I Turned Pretty" captures both the beauty and challenges of growing up. So grab your beach towel and sunscreen as we take a deep dive into the world of "The Summer I Turned Pretty." Whether you're a longtime fan of the series or discovering it for the first time, this episode will transport you to the hazy summer days in Cousins Beach, where every emotion felt too real. Tune in as we explore the power of relationships, grief, and the magic of young love. 07:13 We start discussing "The Summer I Turned Pretty." Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Find Rosie on Instagram: instagram.com/rfwrosie Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

Welcome to The Relationship Type, the podcast that goes deep into all things relationships. Join our hosts Alex Piscatelli and Patty Camerota every Thursday as they navigate the complexities (and sometimes simplicities!) of human connections with insightful discussions and relatable stories that should leave you feeling seen, heard, and hopefully touched! Whether it's dissecting the nuances of modern romance or sharing heartfelt stories of personal growth, our hosts will chat about it all. Get ready for a weekly dose of wisdom, humor, and candid conversations, featuring a wide array of guests—from relationship experts to everyday individuals sharing their unique experiences. Tune in for your weekly gab sesh with The Relationship Type. Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/therelationshiptype Contact us on Instagram or via email therelationshiptype@gmail.com Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Thanks for gabbing with us 🫀

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli is joined by her good friend and friend of the podcast Jake Henry. Jake works in politics in Washington D.C., and they discuss the age old question: Can you date someone with different political views than you? Can you date someone who isn't an Elizabeth Warren supporter? All answers are ~explored~. ***This episode was recorded before January 6, 2021.*** Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Need advice? Submit your questions at bit.ly/doaltadvice and I'll read them on air. Music: purple-planet.com

After a few month-long hiatus, Dating or at least trying is BACK and better than ever! In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli is joined by her boyfriend Jack Molmud. They discuss why the show took a hiatus, friend breakups, what they learned from 2020 and more. Then they answer ~relationship~ questions, discuss squirting and plenty of other TMI topics. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Music: purple-planet.com

Thank you all SO MUCH for supporting Dating or at least trying for the past two years. In this episode, Alex shares news of a hiatus from the podcast and some changes being made. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli and Daisy Santana speak with Rachel, who sells feet pics. She shares her experience selling, how she began to sell feet pics, how much she makes and more. Note: This episode was recorded May 2020. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli sets Daisy Santana up on a blind date. Meet the contender: His name is Michael Ajeto, and Alex knew nothing about him prior to the podcast, except a gut feeling that he would be good with Daisy. Listen in as they meet Michael virtually for the first time, and Daisy and Michael go on their date right on the podcast recording. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli and Daisy Santana speak with Will Galvez. Will is a healthy man in his 20s living in San Diego who contracted coronavirus. He spent six days in the hospital and thought he was going to die. He shares his story: how he got the virus, what his experience was and the precautions we all need to be taking. He shared his story on his blog, which you can find here. Follow Will at @willlgalvez, and follow his podcast What's On The Menu? on Apple and Spotify. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli and Daisy Santana speak with their good friend Jake Henry. Jake ended his engagement last year after moving to Spain to be with his fiancé at the time. He opens up about how to heal after heartbreak, getting closure and working on yourself. We also answer a listener's advice question sent in, asking what to do about his ex who he wants to be friends with benefits with. Follow Jake at @justjakedc. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli and Daisy Santana speak with their good friend Adriana Heldiz. Adriana is a visual journalist at Voice of San Diego, a local nonprofit media organization. She discusses her experience covering the ongoing Black Lives Matter protests in San Diego and talks about the importance of getting involved locally. One of her photos from a local protest went viral. Now it's available to be purchased as a print, and a portion of the proceeds are going to the San Diego Association of Black Journalists, an organization that advocates on behalf of Black journalists.⁣⁣ You can purchase that here. Daisy also gives updates on her love life and paying for the dating apps. Follow Adriana's work at @aheldiz and @voiceofsandiego. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli and Daisy Santana speak with the hosts of the Tea With Qwns Podcast, Janine and Jerralyn Davis. Their podcast is focused on navigating their twenties, and they frequently discuss current events and making a difference. They share how to make your voice heard with everything going on in America: how to contact your representatives, how to use your voice and how to have conversations with those around you. Janine and Jerralyn also share stories in their own relationships. Janine discusses how to manage a long distance relationship and how she found love with childhood friend. Jerralyn shares how she and her boyfriend met out, and how they've navigated a new relationship during quarantine. Find the Tea With Qwns Podcast on iTunes, Spotify or on Instagram @teawithqwnspod. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com

In this episode of Dating or at least trying, Alex Piscatelli and Daisy Santana speak with their college professor and DOALT favorite Dr. Nate Rodriguez. Dr. Nate is a media studies professor, and he teaches a class at San Diego State University called "Media & Identity", which looks into intersectionalities of identity, especially in media. He talks about what intersectionality is, how it relates to everything going on in the world and why it's so important. He also talks about how intersectionality shows up in the dating world. Visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co for resources and ways you can help the Black Lives Matter movement. Follow @datingoratleasttrying on Instagram and leave us a review if you liked this episode. 💖 Go to Alex's advice column at spillurtea.com for DRAMA and to ask your anonymous advice questions on dating, sex and relationships. Music: purple-planet.com