The Durenda Wilson Podcast

We all have had seasons where God seems silent. They can be very challenging to navigate when we want so much to remain faithful, but it doesn't seem like we are getting any encouragement from God. I've had more days like this than I could have ever imagined over the last six months since my diagnosis, so I felt like I could speak to this and hopefully bring encouragement to your hearts. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CCEF (this site has a lot of great biblical counseling on all kinds of topics) CCEF (more on When God Seems Silent) Having Two Legs (on morbid introspection vs godly introspection) Psalm 13 Psalm 77:1-13 Matthew 23:1-4 Romans 8:26,27 Romans 8:34 Hebrews 7:25 Matthew 11:28-30 (Message Bible)

We all have areas of our lives with more questions than answers. How do we find true biblical courage while living in the unknown? Today, I'm sharing with you some biblical practices that I've found helpful while living in the unknown. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Courage by Joe Rigney: How the Gospel Creates Christian Fortitude Quotes and scriptures mentioned in this episode: Thomas Merton: “The world of men has forgotten the joys of silence, the peace of solitude which is necessary, to some extent, for the fullness of human living. When that inner voice is not heard…life is always miserable and exhausting…If man is constantly exiled from his own home, locked out of his own spiritual solitude, he ceases to be a true person.” From an article on How Silence Helps Us connect With God: Without silence, we struggle to know ourselves and who God created us to be. When our minds are constantly filled with outside stimuli, it becomes impossible to make space for the lessons that silence can teach us about God, about ourselves, and about his work in the world each day. Psalm 46:10 Exodus 14:14 Isaiah 40:31 2 Chron. 20:17 Psalm 37:7 Isaiah 30:15 Psalm 31:24 Psalm 112:7,8 Wes's sermon on silence, solitude, and stillness: Growth and Opposition THE AGE-LONG MINUTE by Amy Carmichael Thou art the Lord who slept upon the pillow, Thou art the Lord who soothed the furious sea, What matter beating wind and tossing billow If only we are in the boat with Thee? Hold us in quiet through the age-long minute While Thou art silent, and the wind is shrill: Can the boat sink while Thou, dear Lord, art in it? Can the heart faint that waiteth on Thy will? St. Francis de Sales 1567-1622 Be at peace. Do not look forward in fear to the changes of life; rather look to them with full hope as they arise. God, whose very own you are, will deliver you from out of them. He has kept you hitherto, and He will lead you safely through all things; and when you cannot stand it, God will bury you in his arms. Do not fear what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you then and every day. He will either shield you from suffering, or give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace, and put aside all anxious thoughts and imagination.

Unrealistic and unmet expectations can take a real toll on the state of our souls and our relationships, including our relationship with God. Today, I’ve invited Wes to share some thoughts on having a biblical perspective when it comes to expectations of ourselves, others, and God. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar (enter keyword, and all episodes on that topic will come up) Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Other episodes with Wes: Applying Romans 13 to the Here and Now The Importance of a Biblical Education The Biblical Importance of Family Recognizing False Teachers The Dangers of a Self-Help Culture How to Find a Biblical Church Let's Talk About Biblical Discipline Biblical Submission: The Hot Potato Are We Living in the Last Days? Living With Hope When the Church Says Things Are Only Going to Get Worse Jesus' Return: Revelation, the Mark of the Beast and the Anti-Christ Why We Can't Understand Beauty Without Morality How Should Believers Handle Suffering Tips for Working Through Conflict With Other Believers How to Heal From Church Hurt Keeping a Biblical Worldview in the Midst of a Constant Negative News Cycle Learning to Be Human in a Digital World Ways to Encourage a Healthy Family Culture in Your Home Listen to Wes' sermons here Series on Ecclesiastes (first episode here)

In a world increasingly dependent upon screens and technology, it's as crucial as it is countercultural to help kids capture the natural joys and treasures each day holds. As we do this, we as adults are also reminded of what a great God we serve and the hope we have in Him! This podcast is full of encouragement and ideas as we discuss the importance of encouraging wonder and curiosity in our kids and how to do that in simple and practical ways that don't require a lot of preparation! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Ways to connect with Amanda: www.WonderwoodAdventures.com www.AmandaDykes.com Instagram: @amanda_spins_stories and @apocketfulofwonder Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/authoramandadykes

In a world that prizes hustle and constant productivity, breaking the habit of hurry can seem far-fetched. Yet we still try to achieve it with life hacks to get more sleep and increase energy. However, self-help strategies are not the solution to our exhaustion problem. Today, Eryn Lynum joins me to talk about what it looks like to move away from the hurry and toward the rest that God has for us. This episode will be balm for your soul! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Nature of Rest: What the Bible and Creation Teach Us About Sabbath LivingNat Theo: Nature Lessons Rooted in the BibleRooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family’s Faith Through God’s Creation936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of Intentional Parenting ErynLynum.com Instagram.com/erynlynumauthor Facebook.com/authorerynlynum Linkedin

Most of us have at least some fear of death. Our culture is obsessed with it but without a remedy. However, it's a completely different story for Believers! Pastor Wes reminded me recently that Jesus has authority over sin and death and death is our servant because we belong to Jesus. One of my listeners heard me talk about this and asked if I would have Wes on the podcast to dive deeper into this topic. I'm delighted that he agreed to do that and he's here today to help us reframe our experiences according to God's word and align our thinking about death with what Christ has transformed it into. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Give Send Go (link to my fundraiser) Venmo-@Durenda-Wilson

Many of us are in the midst of trials and afflictions and with that comes 2 common struggles: Not feeling loved by God and Losing Our Sense of Purpose. In today's episode, I share some things the Lord has encouraged me with in the midst of my own trials. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Give Send Go (link to my fundraiser) Ecclesiastes Series: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2lpOv8MddcJqkrXz11L8i2?si=4xx0ZkDMS660haf-b9n3Ng Venmo-@Durenda-Wilson Great is Thy Faithfulness Great is thy faithfulness, O God, my Father; There is no shadow of turning with thee. Thou changest not, thy compassions, they fail not; As thou hast been, thou forever wilt be. Great is thy faithfulness, Great is thy faithfulness, Morning by morning new mercies I see. All I have needed thy hand hast provided; Great is thy faithfulness, Lord unto me. Summer and winter and springtime and harvest, Sun, moon, and stars in their courses above Join with all nature in manifold witness To thy great faithfulness, mercy, and love. Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth, Thine own dear presence to cheer and to guide; Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow, Blessings all mine and ten thousand beside. Ecc. 9:7 Romans 8:35,37-39 He Giveth More Grace Listen Here 1. He giveth more grace as our burdens grow greater, He sendeth more strength as our labors increase; To added afflictions He addeth His mercy, To multiplied trials He multiplies peace. 2. When we have exhausted our store of endurance, When our strength has failed ere the day is half done, When we reach the end of our hoarded resources Our Father’s full giving is only begun. 3. Fear not that thy need shall exceed His provision, Our God ever yearns His resources to share; Lean hard on the arm everlasting, availing; The Father both thee and thy load will upbear. 4. His love has no limits, His grace has no measure, His power no boundary known unto men; For out of His infinite riches in Jesus He giveth, and giveth, and giveth again.

​When stressed, fearful, or anxious, we can feel claustrophobic, like we are in a small, constricted space. God tells us in His Word that HE moves us to a large, spacious place where we can breathe and stand firm against the enemy. Today I'm sharing more of my journey and the ways that God has met me in the unknown. Letting Go of the Counterfeit-Story of the Pearl Necklace Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day

Living in the midst of the unknown is where I am personally right now. Today I'm sharing from that place in hopes that you will find encouragement in your own places of the unknown. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Psalms for lamenting: -Ps 13 -Ps 25:1-2, 16-21 -Ps 31:1-5 -Ps 86:1-4 https://www.givesendgo.com/durenda-wilson Venmo-@Durenda-Wilson

What does it look like to engage with the cultural? Today Wes joins us again to help us understand how to engage with the culture God has placed us in in a biblical manner. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

What does it look like to shepherd our kids' emotions? Today Wes joins us again to share his heart and truths from God’s word about guiding our children's emotions. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember? Today my daughter-in-law, Julia, will be talking to my second child, Jenna, about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with her into adulthood. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Many of you may have noticed that my kids have recently taken over the podcast. So I wanted to update you on a huge recent life change for our whole family. Thank you for being here. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to Fundraiser Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Today, Jenna and Johanna (our 2nd, and 7th born children) come on the podcast to talk about the best advice they've gotten from their mom! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember? Today my daughter-in-law, Julia, will be talking to my firstborn child, Brittney, about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with her into adulthood. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember? Today my daughter-in-law, Julia, will be talking to my 5th child (and her husband), Luke, about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with him into adulthood. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember? Today I'm talking to our youngest daughter about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with her into adulthood. Resources mentioned in this episode: 2 other episodes I did with Johanna: Simply Modest: A Podcast For Moms and Daughters Encouraging Contentment in Our Unmarried Daughters Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Every dad wants to be the best dad he can be, but what does that look like? Today Wes joins us again to share his heart and truths from God’s word on how imitating the Fatherhood of God is the best way to be the dad your kids need. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Christmas isn’t that far away and what could be better than reading great books to our kids that reveal God’s faithfulness in sending Jesus? This isn't another Advent book (although we love those), it's one that can be read in 2 weeks(allows for a more flexible reading schedule in the midst of a busy season) and showcases the promises that God fulfilled in Jesus. What a great way to keep Jesus as the focal point of the season! Resources mentioned in this episode: Promises Made Promises Kept by Marty Machowski Redemption Tales Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Multi Plus Multivitamin for Women (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Dealing with picky eaters can chip away at our relationship with our kids and the joy in our homes. There are many reasons a child may seem picky and today we are going to help break some of this down so you can be more well-equipped to help your child grow up to have a healthy relationship with food! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School DayCTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Magnesium Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ways to connect with Katie: Kitchen Stewardship Website Kids Cook Real Food E-Course Host of The Healthy Parenting Handbook Podcast / YouTube clips TEDxBismarck: What if Kids Never Learn Critical Thinking Skills? TEDxHartford: Picky Eating Isn't About the Food