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We Here Man! We’re getting older but we ain’t dead yet! We’ve grown wiser, stronger and bolder. Allow us to share our journey of marriage, relationship growth, child rearing and the hell of adulting with you!

We Here Man! We’re getting older but we ain’t dead yet! We’ve grown wiser, stronger and bolder. Allow us to share our journey of marriage, relationship growth, child rearing and the hell of adulting with you!
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We Here Man! We’re getting older but we ain’t dead yet! We’ve grown wiser, stronger and bolder. Allow us to share our journey of marriage, relationship growth, child rearing and the hell of adulting with you!






Ep 36: Launchpad Relationships

CV and Nelia Bee finally agree to disagree. CV is adamant in proving his point that men are railroaded when it comes down to relationships and the financial short end of the stick they get. Nelia, on the other hand, stands by the notion that women should be protected by the courts for having to the be supporting role in relationships. Let's talk about it. Email us questions or advice letters at weheremanpodcast@gmail.com. Follow us at https://www.instagram.com/we_here_man/


Ep 35: Ask For What You Want In The Bedroom!

Sooooooooo basically Nelia Bee and CV talk about how to ask for what you want in the bedroom. Tune in to hear how Nelia advocates for women to be vocal about what they want sexually from their partner without being judged. Sex is meant to be fun, free and occur frequently. Let's have real conversation about how to keep it fun, and fresh with your partner. If you want to have questions about healthy sex lives or anything else from Nelia Bee, email us at weheremanpodcast@gmail.com Continue...


Ep 34: The Struggle is Real

CV is really going through it right now. Is it a midlife crisis? Nelia Bee and I discuss the growing pains of finding your passions. CV candidly shares what he's currently going through on this journey which includes a detox from social media. Listeners send letters in about what you may want to hear us talk about or send us advice letters to weheremanpodcast@gmail.com. Also make sure to subscribe, and review us in the Apple Podcast store and share with your friends....


Ep 33: Own Your Birthing Experience

This isn't our first baby, as many of our listeners already know. For those of you that are new to the show, we are having a our second addition to the family; baby girl S.E.V. We are honored to have Anne Margolis from www.homesweethomebirth.com as our guest. She brings 20 years of midwifery experience and many other accolades too long for us to list in this brief show description. Tune in to learn how you can Own Your Birthing Experience and advocate for how you want to deliver your child...


Ep 32: Parenting Vs. Marriage

Sometimes the battle between parenting and marriage can be like mortal kombat. Our kid is important to us, but we can't allow him to cock block us or stop us from working on the foundation of our marriage. Neila Bee and CV touch on the work that's required to make the marriage work.


Ep 31: Am I the Pappy?

Nelia Bee had a dream that she had a chocolate baby. And neither of us are chocolate. So I jokingly said I need a paternity test if that's the case. But in all jokes there is a little bit of truth. People if your baby came out looking far different than you, is it okay to ask your spouse for a paternity test.


Ep 30: Talkin, Dating, or Fuckin' in close circles

Have you ever dated in a close circle? Have you ever smashed someone and your friend ended up dating them. If so write us @ weheremanpodcast@gmail.com. In this episode we talk about the zero degrees of separation between us and our dating and just some of the rules around those types of situation if there are really any. Follow us on instagram @we_here_man Join us on our facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/wehereman/


We See Why Money Causes Divorce

We're stronger than this. This being the strain of being responsible financially. It's hard and CV and Nelia Bee discuss how they had a major disagreement about money. We're sharing so you can not make the same mistakes we made. In the future, we plan to start reading letters. Please write us about all things relationship at weheremanpodcast@gmail.com. Tell us about your problems, advice on how we can do better or something you want to hear us talk about. Again, follow us on IG:...


Ep 28: Is it possible to love only one? Let's talk Polyamory

Let's face it! Monogamy is not natural. But we force ourselves into this pretty box anyway right? Today we get to discuss with our special guest Kevin Patterson aka " The Poly Role Model." Tune in and learn more about polyamory and if it fits for you. Email us feedback, relationship advice, lifestyle or whether you would like to have a convo with us on the show @ weheremanpodcast@gmail.com Be sure to follow us on instagram as well @https://www.instagram.com/we_here_man/


Ep 27: Could your gay friend tell you the nitty gritty?

Today we talk with CV's good friend. He happens to be gay and we just talk about the dynamic of that relationship. Just like CV used to talk with him about smashing his chicks.... Jason talks to him openly about how he does his thing. We also delve into sexuality and how he has navigated just living life as a black gay man in today's society. Follow us @https://www.instagram.com/we_here_man/


Ep 26: Husbands Be Honest: Pregnancy Ain't Sexy.

I ain't lying to my wife that she's glowing. Fuck that. lol I love her though, but I want my wife back.


Ep 25: K.Dot Set Delaney Up for Failure

Nelia Bee and CV disagree on the young lady being called out for singing the N word at the Kendrick Lamar concert. Is this a big deal? Let's talk about it! We appreciate you listening. Drop us a review in the apple podcasts or google play podcast stores. Share us with your friends and don't be selfish. Thanks in advance! Also, Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/we_here_man/


Ep 24: TooDeepForTheIntro: With Angelo Geter of Life Snacks

Inspired by episode 20 "Lost Without You." Neila B and CV discuss life after losing a spouse with Angelo Geter of "Life Snacks". Hopefully we make you laugh, maybe you may shed a tear, but we hope you take something away from this episode. Thank you for listening and following our podcast journey thus far! If you're reading this, it's not too late to give us the stars, and comments. Also don't be selfish and keep us all to yourselves, share the pod! Follow us on Instagram:...


Ep 23: We Got Mommy Issues too!

First we introduce Captain Fresh, our son to the pod. He's been waiting to make a cameo so show him so love folks. Second, I promise we aren't as broken as we sound. We give praise to all of the good our mom's have given us, but we share some of our personal burdens or crosses we bear given from our beloved mothers. We're on iheart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/966-We-Here-Man-29260180/ Follow our instagram: https://www.instagram.com/we_here_man/ and make sure you rate us wherever you...


Ep 21: Cooking In the Kitchen and Bedroom With Chef Ayo

So we got interview my one of my favorite rapper's chef, Chef Ayo and her significant other Tavis. Tune in to find out how she spices things up not only in the kitchen, but in the bedroom as well. Be sure to follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/we_here_man/ Follow @chefayocherry for recipes that will step your cooking game all the way up as well.


Ep 21: B.Y.O.R.G. - Inspired by Teyana and Iman

As Uncle Charla would say " Eff yo dreams, if they aren't your own." So Eff your relationship goals if they aren't you own. CV and Neila Be just briefly discuss how important it is to not get too enamored in other folks relationships and just focus on who you are and what you and your significant other have. In other words, Be Your Own Relationship Goals. Pheww, we dodged a bullet in social media yesterday because I swear reports were trying to say Iman was out here thotting like Tristian...


Ep 20: Lost Without Ya

Not on some mushy Notebook story, but to sum it up we talk about how we are dependent on each other everyday. Whether it's me laying on the booty struggling to get to work or doing paperwork... we need each other for different things. We also share some of the crazy annoying things we do to each other. We ain't the only ones out there. lol.


Ep 19: Friends of Friends

According to the Book of CV 12:11. "Thou shalt not be friends with his friends with his male friends." This commandment was shown to be necessary when a person once thought of as a friend decides to try to strike a friendship independent of CV. Am I wrong people? Am I misreading this? Is it normal for this type of friendship to spawn between your significant and your friends opposite his/her sex?


Ep 18: Venting to the Opposite Sex

CV had to take one on the chin here. CV openly talks about when he got caught oversharing with someone of the opposite sex and it became a detriment to his marriage and health (jokes people, but maybe not so much of a joke). Thankfully, Neila B is in a place where we are okay revisiting and discussing that on today's pod.


Ep 17: Thru Your Phone...Thanks Cardi B

Major shoutout to Cardi B for putting out such a great project that brought back FLASHBACKS of that time that Neila B wanted to kill me in my sleep. We discuss how some of the lyrics ring through true to life from Cardi B's new album.