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Are you "that" person? The one who shows up everywhere 20 minutes early, dressed impeccably with homemade baked goods in hand? No? You've found the right podcast. Learn about wellness that doesn't involve force-feeding yourself wheatgrass. Lean into hospitality when your home has more dust bunnies than Pinterest-perfect tablescapes. Find out what to say when, after Thanksgiving dinner, someone misguidedly asks if you're expecting. What does life look like WITHOUT an Instagram filter? Let's discuss it all, learn it all, figure it all out - but not all at once.

Are you "that" person? The one who shows up everywhere 20 minutes early, dressed impeccably with homemade baked goods in hand? No? You've found the right podcast. Learn about wellness that doesn't involve force-feeding yourself wheatgrass. Lean into hospitality when your home has more dust bunnies than Pinterest-perfect tablescapes. Find out what to say when, after Thanksgiving dinner, someone misguidedly asks if you're expecting. What does life look like WITHOUT an Instagram filter? Let's discuss it all, learn it all, figure it all out - but not all at once.
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Are you "that" person? The one who shows up everywhere 20 minutes early, dressed impeccably with homemade baked goods in hand? No? You've found the right podcast. Learn about wellness that doesn't involve force-feeding yourself wheatgrass. Lean into hospitality when your home has more dust bunnies than Pinterest-perfect tablescapes. Find out what to say when, after Thanksgiving dinner, someone misguidedly asks if you're expecting. What does life look like WITHOUT an Instagram filter? Let's discuss it all, learn it all, figure it all out - but not all at once.

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Episodes

Episode 24: Love, Let Go and Still Love

8/21/2019
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When Kelli Ingram says she's not stronger, less selfish, divinely called or any different than you are, you get the feeling she's heard those adjectives a million times before. It's easy to see why folks would think she's not like the rest of us, though. A homeschooling mom of six, Kelli is raising children she has carried herself, fostered and adopted; she'll deliver the family's seventh child this fall. With a story like that (and hair that defies gravity), we had a million questions for...

Duration:01:42:04

Episode 23: Campaign Slogans I'd Vote For in 2020

8/14/2019
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Friends, I come to you with fantastic news for me personally and for our nation. After thirty-something years of believing that not being born on American soil disqualified me from running for president, I learned yesterday that isn’t true. Pennsylvania Avenue, here I come; it’s not too late to fulfill my middle school “first female president” superlative. I am unable to donate blood to this day because my brief time in England coincided with a mad cow disease outbreak, so I’ve sacrificed...

Duration:00:14:42

Episode 22: Loving What Is

8/7/2019
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Greenville-based interior designer Whitney McGregor was featured in a spring 2019 issue of Southern Living, a coveted achievement for anyone, particularly a mom of three who works from home. (You'll be comforted to know that a ton of cleaning and professional styling that goes into a photo shoot like this, even in the rooms of a designer!) Our chat runs the gamut, covering her thoughts on loving what is rather than aiming for perfection; styles that are timeless; taking intimidation out of...

Duration:00:59:39

Episode 21: Four Months Too Soon

7/31/2019
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Owen Davis had everything to celebrate when her extended family took a trip to the Caribbean early this year: a happy marriage to her college sweetheart, a precious toddler daughter and twin girls on the way. Things took a turn, though, and what started in an emergency room in the Cayman Islands led to an urgent flight home, a heart-wrenching series of discussions in their hometown hospital, and finally the birth of their micro-preemies not much bigger than a Coke can. Though Molly and...

Duration:01:20:15

Episode 20: Open Hands, Part Two

7/24/2019
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In last week's episode, Tara Posner's life went sideways in the span of a day. What started as just feeling "off" became an aggressive leukemia diagnosis; intense, in-patient chemo; a bone marrow transplant; more than 100 days quarantined in the hospital; organ failure and doctors advising her family to say goodbye. After a few recuperative months at home, Tara learned her cancer had returned - but that was just the beginning. Hear where she is now, what it means to start her own counseling...

Duration:00:51:33

Episode 18: "When Are You Having A Baby?"

7/17/2019
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You’re just standing there, minding your own business, when you’re forced to dodge questions from people who aren’t minding theirs. When are y’all having a baby? Another? A boy? A girl? Letting your only child become a big sibling? Finally giving your parents grandchildren? I don’t have to tell you why these questions are inappropriate and just plain not okay - but I'm gonna. I'm also going to tell you HOW this issue doesn't affect you in the least. How it's hurtful but unnecessary - were...

Duration:00:13:01

Episode 19: Open Hands, Part One

7/17/2019
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Tara Posner had an inkling that something was off, but the 39-year-old mother of three first suspected it was new running shoes slowing her down. She'd soon learn it was leukemia. Thrown into a whirlwind of aggressive in-patient chemo, hospital quarantine and a bone marrow transplant, Tara missed more than just Christmas with her kids; she was unconscious for some of the scariest days of her life. Her husband and children were brought in to say goodbye in early 2016 as her organs began to...

Duration:00:51:33

Episode 17: "The Bubble Got Popped"

7/10/2019
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When artist and teacher Marian Pouch said "I do" at 26, she never imagined that in four years she'd be single and pregnant. The years ahead taught her about blame, forgiveness, happiness versus joy, finding your identity outside of another person, building authentic friendships and reserving judgment. Not to mention the crash course she got in custody arrangements, counseling, co-parenting, the stigma of divorce, and dating with a baby. Marian's story has a happy ending, as she's now...

Duration:01:17:16

Episode 16: An Invitation to Eavesdrop

7/3/2019
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You know that friend who tells you what you need to hear? The one who has a totally different perspective and can speak the truth with love? Working mom of three Emily Scurry is that friend to me. After a recent pep talk where she encouraged me to look a hard situation in the face - and thereby turned my month around - I knew we had to record one of our work-week lunchtime chats. And here it is! Consider this your official invitation to eavesdrop. We walk through what we wish we'd known in...

Duration:00:53:33

Episode 15: Treading Water, Part Two

6/26/2019
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After learning her toddler had metachromatic leukodystrophy, April Robson made it her mission to find joy, purpose and beauty in the everyday moments with her family. In the second half of April's story, she shares how we can care for friends who are facing a painful season, what it means to be grateful, what we should (and should NOT) say to families who are hurting, and how her life has changed in the year since she first heard the letters "MLD." Whether it's a random text (prefaced with...

Duration:00:43:36

Episode 14: Treading Water, Part One

6/19/2019
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April Robson had a picture-perfect family: a husband who once saved her in his phone as "April Hot Girl," two beautiful daughters, a son on the way and a loving community of (in-person and online) friends. Then she learned her two-year-old had metachromatic leukodystrophy, a rare, degenerative, terminal disorder that had a one in four chance of affecting Charlotte's newborn brother as well. With her trademark joy and honesty, April walks through her most heartbreaking and hectic season,...

Duration:00:35:16

Episode 13: Hitchhiker Babies, Part Two

6/12/2019
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Few people could understand why Brittney Bolt, a married mother of two, would volunteer to carry babies for a couple she'd never met. Last week we heard the first part of her gestational surrogacy story, and today we learn how her "hitchhiker babies" made their way into the world. The life-giving, baby-growing "adventure" Brittney anticipated ended up being a complicated one. From preterm labor scares, magnesium and bed rest to delivery, diastasis recti and reconstructive surgery, there...

Duration:00:38:23

Episode 12: Hitchhiker Babies, Part One

6/5/2019
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Few people could understand why Brittney Bolt, a married mother of two, would volunteer to carry twin babies for a couple she'd never met. Describing her as magnanimous or selfless only makes Brittney cringe; she thinks of her two transfers, one D&C, time on bed rest, twin delivery, month of pumping, and post partum reconstructive surgery as an "adventure" she felt called to take. In part one, hear about when Brittney knew she'd want to become a gestational surrogate (hint: I was more...

Duration:00:40:14

Episode 11: "It's Never Over"

5/29/2019
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You may recognize Greer Howard as the in-house reporter for the Atlanta Braves or the face of any number of brands, but there's a lot more to her than a Jumbotron can show you. Greer is a former military wife whose story includes a long-distance marriage, restarting a career in entertainment after cross-country moves, building a healthy co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband, raising a five-year-old while carving out a career that doesn't stick to bankers' hours, and creating...

Duration:00:53:53

Episode 10: Just Say No and Check the Box

5/22/2019
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You can't spell "mayhem" without May, and everyone you know is up to their eyeballs in commitments. Ready to make some room on your over-filled plate? Here are a few things you can say no to sans guilt. Once you've said no where you can, "just check the box" on everything else. Aim for adequate; there's no need to earn a gold medal in everything you touch. Sometimes we just need to survive and advance, and May is one of those times.

Duration:00:13:08

Episode 8: "We're Stressed Enough"

5/15/2019
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Holistic health coach Brady Godfrey thinks you're stressed enough; you don't need to let nutrition or wellness be add to your worries. Hear from an expert about how lowering your expectations, removing judgment, listening to your body, putting on "ear muffs" and tuning out Instagram could make all the difference in looking and feeling your best. Learn her shortcuts for easy school lunches, sneaking produce into your kids' diets (without sneaking it in at all), getting the men in your life...

Duration:00:50:05

Episode 9: Body Image Pep Talk

5/15/2019
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Have you ever rushed to un-tag a photo of yourself, then spent ages pinching, zooming and dissecting it from every angle? Do you wince or stare when you walk past a mirror? Make jokes about your size, shape or how very different you look than your favorite Instagram personality? Feel pressure to Photoshop every "flaw" before you post something? Wish you could walk around with a Snapchat filter in front of your actual body? This pep talk is for you. (And also for me. Ok, mostly for me.)

Duration:00:18:42

Episode 7: "You Are More Than Your Roles"

5/8/2019
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Whitney Meade is a wife, mom, small-business owner, speaker, author and YouTuber who took "chaos" out of her vocabulary and is teaching women to live out their purposes. She dives into the mommy wars; a Lyme disease diagnosis that took her by surprise; how wellness and weight aren't synonymous; why investing in your marriage will pay off; what to quit feeling guilty about; the value of a good night's sleep; and the importance of a Christian counselor. More than anything, Whitney wants you...

Duration:00:55:52

Episode 6: "I Can't Fix It, But I'm Here"

5/1/2019
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What do you say to someone facing unimaginable pain? (Better yet, what do you NOT say?) How do you return to normal life after grief? When did our moms become so wise? And how quickly will our children realize we don't know what we're doing? Dive in to all this and more with Anne Harris, who brings joy and laughter to her family's story of infant loss, rainbow babies and faith when hope was hard to find. Learn what it's like to grow up in a family of six, how life without an Instagram...

Duration:00:43:58

Episode 5: "There Will Be No Shame"

4/24/2019
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Dr. Kelly Kline joins us to answer the But Not All At Once Instagram community's most pressing questions. Her answers include: "Yes, you should absolutely tell your doctor the truth about how much and how often you're drinking wine." "No, you don't need to worry that our staff is going to bat an eyelash at anything you throw our way. Our motto is, 'There will be no shame.' We've seen it all." "Absolutely, I'll write you a prescription for a pre-baby pedicure. That sounds medically...

Duration:00:51:55