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What does life look like after the funeral? After the divorce is final? After the diagnosis? Society doesn't teach us how to cope with loss, but we are experiencing loss every day. Whether your loss is a person, a relationship, a job, a pet, or a dream, loss shapes who you are and how you choose to live in the world. Join Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide as she explores the ideas, resources, and stories that help us "come back" to life after death, divorce, illness and more.

What does life look like after the funeral? After the divorce is final? After the diagnosis? Society doesn't teach us how to cope with loss, but we are experiencing loss every day. Whether your loss is a person, a relationship, a job, a pet, or a dream, loss shapes who you are and how you choose to live in the world. Join Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide as she explores the ideas, resources, and stories that help us "come back" to life after death, divorce, illness and more.
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What does life look like after the funeral? After the divorce is final? After the diagnosis? Society doesn't teach us how to cope with loss, but we are experiencing loss every day. Whether your loss is a person, a relationship, a job, a pet, or a dream, loss shapes who you are and how you choose to live in the world. Join Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide as she explores the ideas, resources, and stories that help us "come back" to life after death, divorce, illness and more.

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Episodes

In the Meantime: Our Bodies Remember Grief and Trauma

12/12/2018
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Grief and illness are definitely related. This week, I'm sharing resources for further reading on how our bodies "keep score" of the trauma we have experienced. Season 5 of Coming Back premieres January 2, 2019! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia Subscribe to Coming Back: https://apple.co/2CMqhhEhttp://spoti.fi/2CMr16khttp://bit.ly/2m08eJrhttp://bit.ly/2m1JWilhttps://tinyurl.com/y8elxq9thttp://bit.ly/2F469Fl Continue the...

Duration:00:11:37

In the Meantime: A Couple of Wedding Stories

12/5/2018
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My dad is getting remarried this weekend, so I'm sharing a few wedding stories that remind me of my mom including details I learned about her wedding after her death. Season 5 of Coming Back premieres January 2, 2019! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia Subscribe to Coming Back: https://apple.co/2CMqhhEhttp://spoti.fi/2CMr16khttp://bit.ly/2m08eJrhttp://bit.ly/2m1JWilhttps://tinyurl.com/y8elxq9thttp://bit.ly/2F469Fl Continue...

Duration:00:10:36

In the Meantime: Why I Still Listen to My Hometown Radio Station

11/28/2018
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Part of life after grief is letting yourself do things you'd think were "silly" or "weird" before. This week, I give myself permission to get nostalgic and revisit my younger self this time of year. Season 5 of Coming Back premieres January 2, 2019! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia Subscribe to Coming...

Duration:00:14:16

E64: SEASON 4 FINALE: The Power of Finding Your People + A Giveaway!

11/21/2018
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It's the end of Season 4 of Coming Back! I'm sharing some final thoughts with you from this season's episodes as well as some upcoming events, including another double-book giveaway! Enter the giveaway by supporting Coming Back on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia Winner will be selected at random from the list of all active patrons as of 12/31/2018. Winner will receive two paperback copies of The Grief Recovery Method Handbook, a set of three Coming Back themed stickers,...

Duration:00:13:15

E63: Doing the Grief Shuffle with Glen Lord - Bereavement Cruise 2019

11/14/2018
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Death didn't exist in Glen Lord's family—at least not in his childhood. After losing his four-year-old son Noah to complications of a tonsillectomy, he found himself angry and lost. Realizing the need for genuine, accurate information on grief, Glen founded The Grief Toolbox and the Walking Through Grief Support Series to connect with others in the midst of loss. Today we're talking about what it's like to grow up in a death-averse home, the three things we need to recover from grief, and...

Duration:00:44:45

E62: Giving Men Permission to Grieve with Herb Knoll - Bereavement Cruise 2019

11/7/2018
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Herb Knoll walked away from his life after his wife died of pancreatic cancer. In finding little to no support for widowers in books and grief groups, he forged his own path, spending nine years interviewing widowers and experts. The result of his research is his book, The Widower's Journey. This week, we're talking about anticipatory grief and how a number of caregivers fall ill during the caregiving process, what it's like to have losses occur on holidays and birthdays, and what men need...

Duration:00:55:15

E61: Wearing Grief Shoes with Lynda Cheldelin Fell - Bereavement Cruise 2019

10/31/2018
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A premonition dream of her daughter's death was became reality in 2009 when Lynda Cheldelin Fell lost her third child, Aly, in a car accident. Shortly after, her husband suffered a stroke leaving him with permanent disabilities. This "double whammy" of grief brought Lynda to a place that she describes as "far more than the '5 Stages.'" Today we're talking about how grief turns us into 2.0 versions of ourselves, how our lives after loss are made up of collateral blessings, and what it's like...

Duration:00:53:28

E60: Learning to Dance Again with Robin Chodak - Bereavement Cruise 2019

10/24/2018
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Robin Chodak lost her husband to suicide in 2005 and was instantly plunged into a world of myths and misinformation about suicide. Today, we're talking about the complications of grief due to suicide, the burden of saying "suicide is preventable," and what really helped Robin do a 180 in the aftermath of her husband's death. Also this week, I'm sharing my three biggest fears in the wake of my mom's death that I revealed in an interview on Moments of Hope with Lynda Cheldelin...

Duration:00:52:45

E59: Grief at a Round Table with Peggy Langenwalter & Trish Comer - Bereavement Cruise 2019

10/17/2018
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Peggy Langenwalter and Trish Comer had their respective rugs pulled out from under them when their husbands died. "Widow" became their new, unwelcome reality and dealing with the loss of a spouse became their daily focus. On this first group discussion on Coming Back, we're talking about what it's like to take on the role of a deceased partner, how grief doesn't give a damn about convenience, and how everyone's voices are heard when we welcome grievers to a round table. Also this week, I'm...

Duration:01:11:23

E58: Giving People Back to Themselves with Cathy Cheshire - Bereavement Cruise 2019

10/10/2018
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Cathy Cheshire wants you to change your mind, AKA the thoughts you think about grief. This week, we're talking about the losses that challenged her to develop mindfulness, including the deaths of her two sons, and the belief that grievers can heal themselves when given the right tools to do so. We're covering what it feels like to be punished for telling the truth about your loss, learning to love the people who could not love us, and how grief work is essentially a practice of "giving...

Duration:00:48:21

E57: There Is Life Beyond Bereavement with Annah Elizabeth - Bereavement Cruise 2019

10/3/2018
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Seven years of non-stop losses drove Annah Elizabeth to ask, "What makes some people resilient and others crumble under the weight of grief?" That questioning led her to uncover her system of recovering from grief, The Five Facets of Healing. Today we're talking about how we spend the rest of our lives finding resolution for grief, how the second and third year of loss tend to be the hardest to cope with, and how not believing you're healing is a weird part of the healing process. Also this...

Duration:01:00:55

E56: Choose to Heal with Barbara J. Hopkinson - Bereavement Cruise 2019

9/26/2018
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A suicide attempt was Barbara J. Hopkinson's wake-up call. In a brief moment, she realized she had a choice to make: live and dwell in her losses or choose the long, hard, road of resilience. This week, we're talking about Barbara's wide array of losses including her 21-year-old son, Brent, her 30-year marriage, and her right eye. We're covering how a lifetime of losses can all feel and look different, how debilitating grief can be, and how coming back is ultimately a choice. Also this week,...

Duration:00:42:55

E55: The Energy of Grief with Sharon Ehlers - Bereavement Cruise 2019

9/19/2018
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Sharon Ehlers has a logical mind, one that made her skeptical of energy work and healing when it crossed her path in the aftermath of two devastating losses by suicide. Now, eight years later, she owns and operates Grief Reiki, a business that helps people cope with the energy of grief—an energy that affects the body, mind, and spirit. Today we're talking about what Reiki is and how it can help a grieving heart, how Sharon is bringing Reiki on the 2019 Bereavement Cruise, and what skeptics...

Duration:00:39:20

E54: Comfortable in the Surreal with Diane Speer - Bereavement Cruise 2019

9/12/2018
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Diane Speer was nine when she was cornered at a memorial dinner by her uncle, who unloaded the traumatic grief of losing his son onto her. From that day on, she was terrified of wakes and funerals. Today, the death her grandmother, the death of her mom, and three near-death experiences (NDEs) have cracked her open to her calling: helping people "transition" from life to death through mindfulness. We're talking about how grief makes us comfortable with death and loss, the role of intuition in...

Duration:00:51:07

E53: Joy and Grief Can Coexist with Linda Findlay - Bereavement Cruise 2019

9/5/2018
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Linda Findlay's daughter, Aubrie, lived for exactly two hours and nine minutes. Aubrie's time on the earth was incredibly short but the impact she left on Linda was profound. What began as a support group to heal from her devastating loss morphed into an aftercare service for funeral homes and a series of books, followed by Linda's biggest undertaking yet—the Bereavement Cruise, now in its third year. She's on a mission to show grievers that joy and grief can coexist. Today we're talking...

Duration:00:53:24

In the Meantime: Chelsea Leigh Trescott on Why We Need to Be Alone (Sometimes)

8/29/2018
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I asked breakup coach Chelsea Leigh Trescott a hot button question: "Do you believe people are better off alone?" Chelsea Leigh Trescott's work and podcast: http://breakupward.com/ Season 4 of Coming Back premieres next week on September 5, 2018! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia http://www.comingbackcruise.com Subscribe: https://apple.co/2CMqhhEhttp://spoti.fi/2CMr16khttp://bit.ly/2m08eJrhttp://bit.ly/2m1JWilhttp://bit.ly/2lWQmiGhttp://bit.ly/2F469Fl Continue...

Duration:00:07:02

In the Meantime: Why Michele Neff Hernandez Misses Her Dead Husband When It Rains

8/22/2018
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Sometimes it's the little things we miss the most. This week, Michele Neff Hernandez talks about why she misses her husband, Phil, every time it rains. Michele Neff Hernandez's work: https://www.soaringspirits.org/ Camp Widow: https://www.campwidow.org/ Season 4 of Coming Back premieres September 5, 2018! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia http://www.comingbackcruise.com...

Duration:00:08:05

In the Meantime: Ruth Ungar on Dolly Parton's "Coat of Many Colors"

8/15/2018
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Music isn't created in a bubble. Hear how Ruth Ungar drew spiritual inspiration from Dolly Parton's "Coat of Many Colors." Ruth Ungar's music + The Mammals: http://www.themammals.love/ Season 4 of Coming Back premieres September 5, 2018! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia http://www.comingbackcruise.com...

Duration:00:07:56

In the Meantime: What Kim Skarritt Would Do With a Day Off

8/8/2018
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Working with grief and death calls for a day off. Here's what doggy caretaker Kim Skarritt would do with a day to herself. Kim Skarritt and Silver Muzzle Cottage: http://silvermuzzlecottage.com/ Season 4 of Coming Back premieres September 5, 2018! In the meantime... https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia http://www.comingbackcruise.com...

Duration:00:07:35

In the Meantime: Debbie Augenthaler Laughed and Cried at Her Husband's Funeral

8/1/2018
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When Debbie Augenthaler's husband died, his friends asked to do something special to honor him. Debbie Augenthaler's work and book: http://www.debbieaugenthaler.com/ Season 4 of Coming Back premieres September 5, 2018! In the...

Duration:00:09:01