In this episode we share how we utilize dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld and share crazy stories of the people we’ve met so far, including finally finding that magical 4-way connection with a couple who can hang with our wild swinger ways!
We detail our experience of our first house party, Mrs. Tequila’s first time on a Sybian, and a straight up wild night with a super hot couple, that ended with a unicorn disappearing into the mist. We drunkenly thought holding the mics while recording this episode was a good idea. It was not. Sorry for the rando thumping going on in this one!
In this episode we discuss our business trip hall pass experiences from January, getting on Tinder to find dates, and share the heart-to-heart, tear-filled conversation about feelings of trying an open marriage and solo play for the first time. Mrs. Tequila also begins to realize her fear of intimacy around double-dates and that this is the reason why she enjoys the one night stand style. This is a mix of sexy stories and a therapy couch session.
Our first swinging adventure coming out of hiatus was on New Year's Eve at the club where we had one hell of a party night. Fun conversation with friends, anonymous sex with strangers, and 5 hours of all night sexcapades.
After four months of waiting for the stars to align to meet the right single guy, we finally met up with someone we clicked with. People talk about how finding a single guy in the lifestyle is easy. It is not! Unless you don't have standards.
In episode no. 7 we discussed how the lifestyle is making us realize there are different flavors of disappointment, and Mrs. Tequila has an epiphany about taking rejection personally, remembering lessons from the book The Four Agreements.
Things get deep and introspective in this episode as we process all of the feelings that Mrs. Tequila began to sort through after our first full swap. It got messy. We peel back the layers to understanding complicated feelings and how to get through the emotional roller coaster.