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A podcast hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone to share what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. People new to the lifestyle or new to the idea that BDSM and love can mix will find something to learn or realize they're not alone in their experiences or feelings.

A podcast hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone to share what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. People new to the lifestyle or new to the idea that BDSM and love can mix will find something to learn or realize they're not alone in their experiences or feelings.
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United States

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A podcast hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone to share what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. People new to the lifestyle or new to the idea that BDSM and love can mix will find something to learn or realize they're not alone in their experiences or feelings.

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English


Episodes

When You’re Afraid of Change in Your D/s Relationship

10/18/2019
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Being afraid (or overly cautious) about change is extremely common. Some people just don’t handle change well, while others want to feel in control of the changes that happen to them. We received a... The post When You’re Afraid of Change in Your D/s Relationship appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:01:22

The Problem with Seeing Other D/s Relationships as #RelationshipGoals

10/11/2019
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There’s not a thing wrong with admiring other kinky relationships. We know quite a few people who we think have great chemistry, and we love being around them. But there are problems when we... The post The Problem with Seeing Other D/s Relationships as #RelationshipGoals appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:01:45

Crossing Boundaries and Ignoring Consent When Pursuing a Partner

10/4/2019
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I struggled with what to title this week’s episode. Primarily because I mostly want to say, “UGH, don’t do THESE things! EVER!” But that’s not very descriptive is it? This week’s episode was inspired... The post Crossing Boundaries and Ignoring Consent When Pursuing a Partner appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:28:30

Praise and Affirmation in D/s Relationships

9/27/2019
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We’ve gotten a LOT of requests to talk about praise kinks, but we’d prefer to talk about the importance of praise and affirmation in D/s relationships. But don’t worry, we’ve got the hook-up for... The post Praise and Affirmation in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:36:26

Disappointment in D/s Relationships

9/20/2019
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We’re baaaaa-aaaaaack! And so happy to be recording again! This week, we talked about dealing with disappointing your partner in a D/s relationship — from a submissive AND a Dominant perspective. In this episode:... The post Disappointment in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:51:25

How Stress Impacts D/s Relationships

8/30/2019
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No one is shocked that stress impacts our D/s relationships. Of course it happens, but that doesn’t mean we always handle it well — or that our D/s relationship won’t bend under the strain.... The post How Stress Impacts D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:46:10

The Power of Laughter and Humor in D/s Relationships

8/23/2019
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Listen to one podcast episode (or watch a video), and you know that John Brownstone and I laugh a LOT. Part of it has to do with being happy, but part of it is... The post The Power of Laughter and Humor in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:15:28

Forgiveness in D/s Relationships

8/16/2019
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Forgiveness is a big topic and a sticky one. There are no right answers about when or if you should forgive a partner or whether a relationship can be saved. But one thing is... The post Forgiveness in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:25:03

Having Your Needs Met in Your D/s Relationship

8/9/2019
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Everyone has needs and everyone in a relationship has needs. Only you can decide which of those needs is most important, but in D/s if anyone tries to convince you your needs are unimportant,... The post Having Your Needs Met in Your D/s Relationship appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:43:05

Taking Care of Each Other When You’re Apart

8/2/2019
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(Some) Dominants want to protect their partner, and (some) submissives want to take care of their partner. But when you have to be apart — either temporarily or as part of a long distance... The post Taking Care of Each Other When You’re Apart appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:41:25

Consenting to Activities You Don’t Love But Your Partner Does

7/26/2019
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This is kind of a weird one. It can be an overwhelmingly fun experience and an opportunity for growth when you do something your partner enjoys that you wouldn’t necessarily choose for yourself. On... The post Consenting to Activities You Don’t Love But Your Partner Does appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:28:39

Listener Questions: 24/7 D/s, Being a Good Dom, and More!

7/19/2019
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This week, we did something a little different. We’ve been overwhelmed (in a good way) with a lot of listener questions, and there just isn’t enough time in the day to answer everyone. So... The post Listener Questions: 24/7 D/s, Being a Good Dom, and More! appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:40:00

Helping People Feel Welcome in the Kinky Community

7/12/2019
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We love being members of a kinky community — online and in-person. And we also appreciate the hard work that goes into hosting events and facilitating meet-ups. But after a few events where we... The post Helping People Feel Welcome in the Kinky Community appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:42:28

When Your D/s is Out of Sync

7/5/2019
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Earlier this week, we were out of sync — we weren’t in tune with each other in terms of kink. John Brownstone went too hard, too fast, and I didn’t speak up when I... The post When Your D/s is Out of Sync appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:34:08

Saying “No” In D/s Relationships

6/28/2019
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No means no, until you negotiate something different in your D/s relationship. No can be a kinky act of denial or it can be a way to maintain boundaries. The one thing that’s definite... The post Saying “No” In D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:35:56

Dealing With Your Fears in D/s Relationships

6/21/2019
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When you’re new to D/s or just new to a D/s relationship, it’s common to have fears and concerns. Especially if you’ve had bad experiences or heartbreak in the past. We’re not telling you... The post Dealing With Your Fears in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:30:39

No Privacy for Kink, “Making” Your Partner Get Into BDSM, and More

6/14/2019
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We’re back from hiatus, and so freaking glad to be back. So glad, in fact, that it’s like we forgot how to plan an episode and then make it. Which means we took the... The post No Privacy for Kink, “Making” Your Partner Get Into BDSM, and More appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:15:20

We Answer Your Questions!

5/17/2019
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It’s our last episode before we take a break to move, so we made it easy on ourselves. We’re answering the questions asked on social media. We cover all kinds of topics from the... The post We Answer Your Questions! appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:02:01:28

A Random Episode

5/10/2019
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This week, we have no topic to discuss because, to be honest, we’re freaking exhausted. So we turned on the mics and started talking. We did have a few things we wanted to touch... The post A Random Episode appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:00:56:19

The Importance of Teamwork in D/s Relationships

5/3/2019
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John Brownstone and I work together all the time, and we consider ourselves a really good team. That has never been more evident since we began the moving process. Any relationship should be seen... The post The Importance of Teamwork in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:19:48