Shameless Sex

This episode was recorded during Shameless Sex Podcast's first women's retreat in Costa Rica. We talk all about how to extend orgasms, anal sex safety, witchy "orgasms", and finding sexy like-minded community - all via questions and comments from actual retreat participants. Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for the next Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Click here to learn more or sign up here

In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex. About our guests: Double Teamed Podcast is on a mission to bring awareness to non-monogamy, kink, and sexuality and help make these taboo subjects more understood and accepted by our younger generations. Cami & Niki love to get honest and vulnerable with their listeners, discussing their experiences in open relationships, dating, Dominance & submission, and sex parties. Find them anywhere you listen to podcasts and across your favorite social media platforms. To learn more visit doubleteamedpodcast.com Come to our live mini-workshop + book launch event at Blue Boutique in Salt Lake City on December, 8th! Grab your tickets here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as our top recommendations for toys and lube. And the best part? We had the honor of recording this episode in the Antique Vibrator Museum at San Francisco's Good Vibrations! About our guest: Dr. Carol Queen is a writer and cultural sexologist with a Ph.D. in human sexuality. Queen is active on behalf of progressive sex education and sexual diversity and has been speaking and writing about non-mainstream sexualities, from lesbian to leather, for over 35 years. Queen also works as staff sexologist, company historian, and curator of the Antique Vibrator Museum at Good Vibrations, the women-founded sex toy and bookstore in San Francisco. To learn more click here or visit carolqueen.com Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get the perfect gift of pleasure jewelry by Crave for yourself or someone special at shamelesspod.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom? Repeat guest and sexual master Erik Everhard answers all this and more. About our guest: Erik Everhard is an author, men’s coach, and former adult film star who specializes in teaching men to recognize and master the primary cues responsible for making 85 percent of women reach the holy grail of sexual interactions: orgasm. His teachings are grounded in practical knowledge, mental tactics, and strategic positions. Holding a master’s-level certification in neuro-linguistic programming and having more than 5000 real-world sexual interactions with women allows him a unique perspective which enables his clients to overcome their limiting beliefs and performance issues, and become masters in the bedroom. To learn more visit everhardacademy.com Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders) Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but isn’t seeing any shifts. And what if my penis owning partner is multi-orgasmic and I (say a pussy owner) am not. Can I learn to have multiple orgasms the same way they can? Repeat guest Destin Gerek answers all this and more. About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized author, speaker, and coach in masculinity, sexual self-mastery, and personal empowerment. Destin is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves. He routinely writes and lectures on men’s and women’s sexuality, relationships, porn addiction, premature ejaculation, multiple orgasms for men and women, circumcision, embodied trauma, and more. Links: http://destingerek.com/shameless https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerek/ http://instagram.com/destingerek https://www.youtube.com/user/destingerek https://twitter.com/destingerek https://www.tiktok.com/@destingerek Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Clean your bumhole + get 10% off our favorite bidets at hellotushy.com/shameless Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies. Get ready to laugh, learn, and listen to an inspiring life story! About our guest: Tristan Taormino is a writer, speaker, sex educator, and host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. A former syndicated columnist for The Village Voice, she is the author of numerous books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, Down and Dirty Sex Secrets, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, and her recent memoir A Part of the Heart Can’t Be Eaten. She is the founding editor of the annual Best Lesbian Erotica anthologies, editor of The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, and coeditor of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure. Taormino has won four Lambda Literary Awards and eight Feminist Porn Awards, among other awards. She lives in Los Angeles. To learn more go to tristantaormino.com Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self. About our guest: Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and co-author of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever. He writes “Sexplain It,” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health, and “Navigating Non-Monogamy,” the polyamorous relationship column at Cosmopolitan. He is editor-in-chief of the BOYSLUT Zine, which publishes nonfiction erotica from kinksters across the globe. His work has been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more. To learn more go to zacharyzane.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 50% off some of our new favorite THC and CBD products with code SHAMELESS at dietsmoke.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How can mindfulness lead to more pleasure, better orgasms and deeper connection with lovers? Is meditation the same as mindfulness? How do mindfulness and fantasy work together? Can I be present and fantasize at the same time? What are some key tips and tools for mastering mindfulness in the bedroom? About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is codependency, where does it come from, and how does it show up in both casual and long term relationships? How can people work on their codependency? What about dating? What are some of the top mistakes people often make when dating while really wanting a relationship? What if I'm casually dating while looking for my longterm partner? Are there top do's and don'ts...like should I not have sex on the first date? And what do I do if I meet someone I want to dive deeper with? How and when should I share this with them, and how can I manage my fear or feelings of rejection? About our guests: Sherry Gaba, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, author of Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love. She helps people cope with codependency, love addiction, narcissistic abuse, and mental health issues. As a leading expert on codependency and toxic relationships, Sherry’s TV appearances include: Vh1’s Celebrity Rehab, CNN, Inside Edition, the Robert Irvine Show and Access Live, E! News, among others. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s World, the LA Times, Thrive Global, the New York Post, Zoosk, Psychology Today, Marriage.com and other leading publications. She has also been a guest on many SiriusXM radio shows. Sherry is the founder of Wake-Up Recovery for Codependency and Toxic Relationships, an online group coaching program for codependents, love addicts and victims of narcissistic abuse. Carla Romo is an author of Contagious Love, speaker and a certified life coach specializing in dating and relationships. At age 24, she hit her rock bottom with yet another toxic codependent relationship. But, this time, she got up and learned how to break free from codependency. Inspired by her self-growth journey, she took lemons and made lemonade. Today she helps people build a confident relationship within so they can thrive in all aspects of their life. Carla leads nationwide workshops and talks to people from varying backgrounds. Her work ranges from small group settings to hundreds of attendees either in person or virtual. She has been featured on or partnered with Simon Business School, Milwaukee Bucks, BRAVO, Bumble, Lifetime, Bustle, The Knot, as well as high rated iTunes Podcasts. Carla attended the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) becoming a Certified Professional Coach and an Energy Leadership Master Practitioner. To learn more visit https://thelovefix.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS15 at purepleasureshop.com

In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “dating your spouse” so important? And does batin' aka self-pleasure really help with sex ruts and lead to better sex? About our guest: Jordyn Hakes is a Washington-based sex and marriage expert, wife, mom, and host of the top-ranking podcast, The Horny Housewife. Through her quick-witted humor and no-nonsense approach to sex and relationships, Jordyn offers listeners an honest and open look into the complexities of sex, marriage, society, and culture. She is passionate about helping others find more pleasure and playfulness in their relationships and sex lives while creating an inviting and supportive environment where individuals can explore their desires without judgment or shame. Listeners can also unlock a new level of foreplay and explore new worlds of intimacy with Jordyn's Patreon, where you can subscribe and listen to erotica read aloud, support the podcast, and discover the written humor and frank advice, Jordyn brings sex talk – from the basics to your wildest fantasies – out of the locker room and into your living room. An influential voice in the community and across social media, her expertise has been featured in Women's Health and Cosmopolitan. To learn more visit thehornyhousewifepodcast.com. Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every hardcover preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships and parenting? What are some things that can be helpful for parents to consider? How about when shit hits the fan and the relationship feels like a mess? What can couples do when things go awry? About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Click here to learn more about Dr. Aly's Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game 4 week course for couples, starting October, 2023. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off. Click here for Dr. Aly's Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills 8 week course starting in Jan 2024. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off. Extra links: On-demand workshops Coaching info Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just fine the way it is"? What can couples with mismatched desires/libidos do? About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. Text 415 308 9580 or go to https://erwandavon.com/consult/ to learn more or book a session. Follow the Davon's on IG and TT @davonmethod Use code CODE100 to get $100 off their upcoming Pleasure Course here Apply for a scholarship to come to The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self in Costa Rica November 1st-6th, 2023 for 40%+ off ! We only have one spot available so sign up ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS15 at purepleasureshop.com

This episode features two humans from one of our new favorite podcasts called F*ck Yeah. We shamelessly discuss everything from what we've learned from past relationships, moving on after breakups and divorce (and cheating/affairs), our latest and hottest sexual revelations, non-monogamy, and so much more. Not only is this episode extra special as it was recorded by four badass podcasters poolside while sipping wine in bathing suits, but also because we at Shameless Sex forgot some of our recording equipment, so we all had to share one mic! Enjoy! About our guests: Sarah Tomchesson and Robin Jennings, co-hosts of the bold, feminist podcast F*ck Yeah, have spent most of their adult lives advocating for sexual liberation through their sex ed work, their art, and how they live their lives. With the help of experts (and all-around interesting people, they are on a mission to disrupt traditional ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, the patriarchy, parenthood, and femininity. F*ck Yeah tackles topics ranging from sex-positive parenting to leather families with irreverence, nuance, compassion and curiosity. Follow @fuckyeahpod to join the search for radical (self) acceptance as we explore taboos and the beautifully messy parts of this human experience. And be sure to subscribe, follow and listen to F*ck Yeah on your favorite podcast app

What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up? Swinging experts Dan and Lacy of the Swing Nation Podcast answer all this and more. About our guests: Dan and Lacy are Podcasters and Social Media influencers who look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. To learn more go to theswingnation.net Get 60+ creative ways to spice up your sex life when you sign up for our newsletter at shamelesssex.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder! Other links: Take care of your pits and bits with our favorite new line from Lume, and get $5 off with code SHAMELESS at lumedeodorant.com Get the 20% off the innovative Hot Octopuss pleasure product line with code SHAMELESS20 at hotoctopuss.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms? Repeat guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Forrest Andrews has been one of our regular guests on Shameless sex and we’re delighted to have him back with us again. For those of you who aren’t familiar with Aneros, they are the originators of handsfree, self-powered, anally driven prostate massagers. This is a product that amplifies the strength of ejaculations and unlocks the door to a different kind of experience… a very powerful whole-body orgasm. Forrest is Aneros’ Director of Product Development and a true expert on all things prostate. To learn more visit aneros.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder! Other links from our awesome sponsors: Join the clean ass club and get 40% with code SHAMELESS now through September 11th, 2023 at hellotushy.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why are a lot of people uncomfortable with getting on top and riding that D? How can people become more confident in their riding skills? What if the way I ride the D isn’t what my partner likes? What is the difference between grinding, thrusting and scooting? And what is the Cowgirl Workout all about? Will it teach me to ride that D to a T? Repeat guest and riding expert Tyomi Morgan answers all this and more. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, digestible sex education has garnered her success throughout the world and her love for coaching women has impacted millions. Tyomi is the founder of The Cowgirl Workout™ and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. She also serves as the seminar coordinator for The Exxxotica Expo, the Largest Event Dedicated to Love and Sex in the USA. To learn more go to linktr.ee/realglamazontyomi Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder! Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Take care of your pits and bits with our favorite new line from Lume, and get $5 off with code SHAMELESS at lumedeodorant.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more. About our guest: Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Adult Entertainment Actor. Born in rural Western Australia Stirling started off his Adult Entertainment career in 2017 shooting for smaller studios based in Melbourne, Australia. He then moved to the United Kingdom and used his experience and connections to get his foot in the door in the British Adult Entertainment industry, shooting for numerous large studios throughout 2017. His career started to really kick into gear in the beginning of 2018 when he shot his first scene for Brazzers in 2018 and after that was flown out to Budapest, Hungary to shoot for other MindGeek brands like Babes. He stayed in Europe for several months working between Budapest, Hungary and Prague, Czech Republic building a lot of momentum and gaining tremendous experience after being cast by big names like Rocco Siffredi and the FakeHub Network. Stirling’s life prior to Porn wasn’t exactly innocent either, he spent several years in Australia working as a High-Class Male Companion where he would ‘service’ wealthy business women and fulfill live cuckold fantasies for desiring couples. Prior to that line of work he was also involved in the Swinging scene and the PUA scene. Stirling now uses his wealth of experience as a professional sex machine to teach men how to improve their own sex lives and through his Youtube channel he also helps enlighten men on the virtues of living an unapologetically masculine life. “His nominations include 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Newcoming, 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Pornstar, 2019 AVN Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2019 AVN Awards Best Foreign Sex Scene, 2019 Urban X Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2021 AVN Awards Best Actor (Featurette), 2021 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2021 Xbiz Awards Best Sex Scene (Gonzo), 2022 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2022 AVN Awards Best Foursome/Orgy Sex Scene.” In 2020 he received the XRCO (X-Rated Film Critics Organization) Best New Male Stud Award and has received numerous award nominations already in his relatively short adult industry career. The next big step in Stirling’s Porn career was to make waves in the USA and he made a big impact the moment he landed in 2019, being picked up by Kink.com as one of their regular male talents and receiving numerous award nominations in his first year in the American porn scene. He has fast become one of the most respected, reliable and sought-after male performers in the industry and his career in the USA continues to flourish. He has since shot for all the big name brands in the Adult Entertainment Industry such as Evil Angel, Naughty America, Brazzers, Babes, Digital Playground, Realty Kings, TeamSkeet, Kink, New Sensations, Wicked, HardX, EroticaX, ScoreGroup, Penthouse, Hustler, PureTaboo, Zero Tolerance, Bellesa, LustCinema, Devils Films, MissaX and PervCity. Be sure to check out his work here: youtube.com/stirlingcooper twitter.com/stirlingwisdom instagram.com/cooperstirling Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder! Other links: Take care of your pits and bits with our favorite new line from Lume, and get $5 off with code SHAMELESS at lumedeodorant.com Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is being an incredible lover in casual sex and dating all about? How can I become one? How does having a self pleasure practice aka batin’ fit into this? What is "the power of the thrust"? And why is learning how to attune to my lover so important for great sex? Intimacy expert and repeat guest Fabienne Annick answers all this and more. About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick. The Art of Dating is available now and Sexual Self Mastery for men- a 12 week training in erotic artistry and embodied technique will be starting again in September. This is an in-depth online program where you get to learn about the psychology and technique behind being an amazing, long-lasting lover through live calls, hours of video trainings, and epic guided practices. Listeners get $100 off when they use coupon code SHAMELESS now through September 10th, 2023. Sign up now at fabienneannick.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sign up ASAP here Get free goodies AND free access to our Live Zoom Q and A on Tuesday, August 22nd 1-1:45pm by donating to the Embrace Organization here: embracespt.org/gifts Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Hosts Cami and Niki of the Double Teamed Podcast talk all things kink, non-monogamy, and sexuality. In this short clip, Niki talks about running into her ex-husband again at a wedding, two years after their divorce. They were in a non-monogamous turned polyamorous marriage that ended when they decided perhaps their goals for the future looked entirely different. Cami and Niki recount the emotional reunion and discuss re-escalation. To learn more about Double Teamed or to listen to more episodes go to doubleteamedpodcast.com

It’s Anal August! So let’s get the party started by talking about buttholes. Why are so many people are into anal stimulation? Why are some people anti-anal? What are some key tips for safe and pleasurable anal play? What about the prostate? What is it, where is it, and what does it do? If I have a prostate, how can I stimulate it? Will it lead to bigger orgasms? And how can I stimulate my partner's prostate? Return guest Charlie Glickman, PhD answers all this and so much more. Happy Anal August! About our guest: Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a somatic sexuality educator, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 30 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. In February 2023, Charlie completed an accountability process. For more info about that or to learn about his coaching offerings, visit www.makesexeasy.com. Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Follow us on Instagram here: instagram.com/shamelesssexpodcast Get free goodies by donating to the Embrace Organization here: embracespt.org/gifts Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off Vedo toys with code VEDOAUGUST23 at purepleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com