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The Sexually Liberated Woman is a podcast that highlights, celebrates, and encourages the sexually liberated woman—not just the idea of her, but her true-blue erotic empowerment in the flesh. Hosted by sex writer and sexuality doula Ev'Yan Whitney, this podcast features vulnerable conversations about sex and healing with some of the courageous women she's worked with, open and informative discussions about sexual identity with experts and advocates, and laid back chats with sex-positive babes she adores. New episodes every other week!

The Sexually Liberated Woman is a podcast that highlights, celebrates, and encourages the sexually liberated woman—not just the idea of her, but her true-blue erotic empowerment in the flesh. Hosted by sex writer and sexuality doula Ev'Yan Whitney, this podcast features vulnerable conversations about sex and healing with some of the courageous women she's worked with, open and informative discussions about sexual identity with experts and advocates, and laid back chats with sex-positive babes she adores. New episodes every other week!
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The Sexually Liberated Woman is a podcast that highlights, celebrates, and encourages the sexually liberated woman—not just the idea of her, but her true-blue erotic empowerment in the flesh. Hosted by sex writer and sexuality doula Ev'Yan Whitney, this podcast features vulnerable conversations about sex and healing with some of the courageous women she's worked with, open and informative discussions about sexual identity with experts and advocates, and laid back chats with sex-positive babes she adores. New episodes every other week!

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Episodes

35: Sex Work & Sexual Liberation

10/10/2018
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Ev'Yan brings back sex activist and porn performer Allie Oops (@cummanifesto) to talk all about sex work—what it is, why Allie does it, and how we cannot talk about sexual liberation and sex-positivity without talking about and supporting sex workers. Other things they discuss: The whorearchy and how Allie dismantled her own whorephobia; the difference between feminist porn and ethical porn; porn literacy and politics; who gets to call themselves a sex worker; and how to humanize and...

Duration:01:05:22

34: My Sexual Liberation Is Not For Male Consumption

9/26/2018
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After receiving an unsolicited dick pic regarding her sensual selfies, Ev'Yan goes off on men who objectify her body without her consent and invite themselves into her sexual expression. She also gives some tips and words of encouragement for women/femmes who want to express and explore their sexuality in public but are afraid to do so. Bookmark this one and listen to it whenever you need to be reminded that you can feel safe and express your sexuality in the open at the same time. Other...

Duration:00:30:00

33: Sacred Sex With Your Vibrator

9/12/2018
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Ev'Yan sits down with Amy Boyajian of Wild Flower Sex Shop (@wildflowersex) about sex toys—how they can be a fun and playful way to enhance and explore your sexuality—even though in some sacred sex circles would tell you otherwise. They go deep on the topic of pleasure hierarchies: the notion that your sexuality and experience of pleasure can only be "sacred" and "healthy" if it follows certain rigid (and ridiculous) guidelines (and yes, this BS is still being spread by "sex-positive"...

Duration:00:53:58

32: Taking The Earth As Your Lover

8/29/2018
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Ev'Yan chats with an ecosexual femme Luna Dietrich (@pusssywitch), who is in a sexual relationship with the earth. They talk about what ecosexuality is, what it looks like in practice, and how Luna embodies and honors this sexual identity on her own terms. They also talk about how this sensual relationship with nature is available and accessible to all of us and Luna gives us some suggestions on how we can connect with our sexuality through nature. And later: Ev'Yan has an exciting...

Duration:00:47:49

31: The Moon, The Stars, & My Sex Life

8/15/2018
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In this one, Ev'Yan gets dragged (in a good way!) by the stars in an astrology reading done by astrologer, Jaliessa Sipress (@jaliessasipress) of Obsidian Moon Astrology. The reading goes over parts of Ev'Yan's natal chart and how certain planets (and their placements) are influencing her sexuality, sexual identity, sex life, and even her kinks. It's kind of creepy how accurate it is. Other things discussed: demisexuality; Mars and Venus; Virgo and Cancer energy; kink quizzes; astrology as...

Duration:00:55:55

30: Slow & Sensual

8/1/2018
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A call to arms to slow the f— down. In this one, Ev'Yan shares a simple practice of sensual embodiment that she gives her clients (and uses herself) when she's too much in her head and not in her body. Sensuality is a huge and important part of sexuality. We cannot be sexually liberated if we don’t have a mindful relationship with our sensual bodies. Ev'Yan also chats about her recent trip to NYC where she challenged and dismantled some seriously massive fears and limiting beliefs (and...

Duration:00:19:28

29: Black Pleasure Matters

7/18/2018
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Ev'Yan has a conversation with Dalychia and Rafaella, the radical babes behind Afrosexology.com. They do incredible and work around educating, liberating, and healing black sexuality by creating spaces for black women and femmes to find sexual pleasure and erotic joy. The three of them talk about using pleasure as an act of resistance and the importance of black women prioritizing feeling good, especially during times when we are fighting anti-blackness and racism constantly. Other things...

Duration:00:58:31

28: Pelvic Bowls & Yoni Eggs

7/4/2018
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Before you use a yoni egg, listen to this. In this one, Ev'Yan chats with her friend, Danielle Cornelius (daniellecornelius.com), a chiropractor and holistic pelvic care practitioner, who specializes in the health and healing of the pelvis. They talk all about the importance of taking care of this part of the body and how its wellness is an important part of sexual pleasure and liberation. Danielle also educates us about yoni eggs and why you should think twice before using one (spoiler:...

Duration:00:49:25

27: I'm Coming Out (Again)

6/20/2018
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In celebration of Pride month, Ev'Yan takes you on an intimate journey through her messy, confusing, dramatic queer identity origin story—from her very first girl crush to how her religious family reacted to her coming out to how she expresses her queer identity while being married to a man. She speaks vulnerably about the myths and fears that kept her from exploring her sexuality for so long and the things she still struggles with today in ID-ing as a queer woman, like the fact she feels...

Duration:00:35:23

26: Tasha Is A Sexually Liberated Woman

6/6/2018
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Ev'Yan has an open and vulnerable conversation with Tasha, a client she worked with and helped come from out of the clutches of sexual shame and into a "give no fucks" kind of sexual expression. Tasha shares how she went from sex being this traumatic, serious thing for her to reclaiming her laughter and seeing sex as play. She also gets really candid about her personal story as a survivor and how it is that her sexual trauma no longer swallows her anymore. Other things they talked about:...

Duration:00:51:57

High Hopes, Low Desire

4/25/2018
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Hi! Long time no see! Did you miss me? It's been almost a year since I've been in your feed and I'm back today with a special announcement—just for you. (Don't worry, you're going to love it.) Low-desire resources: sexloveliberation.com/lowdesire To help support the continuation of this podcast, make a one-time donation: paypal.me/sexloveliberation. Thank you so much, I literally couldn't do this without you. Blog: sexloveliberation.com Instagram: @evyan.whitney Facebook:...

Duration:00:11:40

Ep. 25: Your Sexuality Questions Answered!

5/31/2017
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In this one, Ev’Yan answers emails and gives sex advice with her super smart sex educator friend, Amory Jane (amoryjane.com). One person doesn’t know how to keep her self-made boundary of safe sex because sex without a condom feels too good. Another’s asking for input on how she can date and explore her sexuality in college as a homeschooled virgin. And they give one woman tips on how to jumpstart her low libido with the help of weed. There’s a lot more in this episode, including more advice...

Duration:00:59:31

Back For Seconds: Ep. 9: Solo Sex Magic with Vanessa Cuccia

5/17/2017
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Ev'Yan's taking this week off to work on some other fun projects of hers, but she didn't want to leave you hanging. So today, we're revisiting the conversation she had last year with Chakrubs creator and badass sex witch, Vanessa Cuccia (chakrubs.com). They talk about masturbation as a form of self-care and how to create intentions (aka spells) with your orgasm. Ev'Yan also shares 35 reasons you should add masturbation to your self-care regimen. More on this episode (including show notes)...

Duration:00:47:00

24: My Very First Time

5/3/2017
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In this quickie episode, Ev’Yan talks about her "first time." Also in this episode: Self-pleasure, teenaged love and relationships, a dirty little secret, International Masturbation Month, and the origin story of how Sex Love Liberation was born. For more on this episode, including show notes go here > http://bit.ly/2qFwfpU Music: "Erykah" by Otis McDonald Artwork by Cay Horiuchi

Duration:00:16:15

23: Men Need Sexual Liberation, Too

4/19/2017
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In this one, Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with a sexually woke guy who goes by the name "Expressions Untold" on Instagram about male sexuality and what men’s sexual liberation looks like. Expressions Untold gets vulnerable about his own sexual liberation journey, sharing with us how he went from praying away his sexuality to embracing who he is as a sexual being, and he speaks very candidly about the ways toxic masculinity and the patriarchy keeps men from being sexually free. Also in this...

Duration:00:56:12

Ep. 22: Reclaiming Your Sexuality With Erotic Dance

4/5/2017
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Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with her friend Rashida KhanBey (rashidak.com), a striptease teacher who uses erotic dance as a method of reclaiming and connecting to her sexuality. Rashida gives us a glimpse of her self-love journey—how it was she came to start teaching erotic dance in the first place—and shares a few simple dance moves you can try, no matter what your size or your experience with dance is. Also in this episode: Sexual self-discovery, liberating queer identity, sensuality, God and...

Duration:01:04:27

I Can't, I'm On My Period

3/28/2017
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It's Fallow Week for Ev'Yan and she's changing up the schedule a little bit for the podcast (and yes, she's totally using the "I've got my period" excuse—but for a good reason). To make up for it (and because she loves you) she gives you a little taste of next week's brand new episode. What do you think it's going to be about? Thanks for your patience and support! See you next week! xo sexloveliberation.com *Music: Erykah by Otis McDonald

Duration:00:04:50

Ep. 21: Oshun, Sensuality, & Decolonizing Black Femme Sexuality

3/15/2017
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Ev'Yan chats with Dr. Zelaika Clarke about Oshun, the Yoruba deity of sensuality and sexuality, and how we can use Her influence to empower and liberate our sensual and erotic expressions. Also in this episode: Radical menstruation, osunality, self-romancing, decolonizing black femme sexuality, Beyoncé, self-love as a way of fighting internalized oppression, a slew of book recommendations, and a self-love ritual you can do to invoke Oshun. For more on this episode (including show notes and...

Duration:00:48:00

Ep. 20: A Quickie: Sexual Self-Care For Depression & Other Unsexy Feels

3/2/2017
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*Episode 20!* In this one, Ev'Yan shares how she's coping through some hard mental health stuff that's been coming up lately which is making her feel disconnected from her sexuality. She talks about the ways she's practicing sexual self-care—that is, a self-care practice that heals and gently acknowledges you as a sexual being—and how you can practice it too if you're in the same boat. Also in this episode: The new moon, erotic muses, non-sexual touch and desire, affirmations, and coconut...

Duration:00:17:22

Ep. 19: My Mom is a Sexually Liberated Woman (ft. Ev'Yan's mom)

2/15/2017
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Ev'Yan's back from hibernating with a brand new episode! In this one, Ev'Yan speaks very candidly with her mom, Simone, about sex and sexuality — for the first time ever in her adult life. Simone talks about how her strict Christian upbringing informed her sexuality, her first experiences with sex as a young woman, and what sex is like for her now as a 53-year-old woman in a new relationship. Ev'Yan's mom also reveals a very emotional truth about her sexual past that Ev'Yan never knew....

Duration:00:39:23