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What She's Thinking: men's dating & sex questions answered by women

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Men, submit your dating + sex questions to have them answered by female guests, moderated by your dating coach Greg

Men, submit your dating + sex questions to have them answered by female guests, moderated by your dating coach Greg

Location:

United States

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Men, submit your dating + sex questions to have them answered by female guests, moderated by your dating coach Greg

Language:

English

Contact:

4155470392


Episodes

Building CoupleUp Dating: good things but a bit depressed

6/21/2021
CoupleUp has soft launched in the San Francisco Bay Area, so if you're nearby go sign up at CoupleUpNow.com! Continuing to share updates as I build. Want to come on the show when I resume Q&A with ladies? Email greg AT debugdating DOT com Here's what I talk about in the episode: Last week was challenging. I'm feeling a bit depressed today; definitely was yesterday as well. And there's some good things, so I want to share those, too. Since I've mentioned before that I struggled with...

Duration:00:07:50

Building CoupleUp Dating: overwhelm is a real thing, especially when building

6/14/2021
Changed the name of the dating app to CoupleUp! And we've launched in the San Francisco Bay Area, so if you're nearby go sign up at CoupleUpNow.com This is another update as I build, and I'm looking for people to come on, to resume the dating Q&A. Want to be an anonymous guest? Go to DebugDating.com/questions Here's what I talk about: You can also follow along on the journey on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoupleUpNow Or Twitter: https://twitter.com/CoupleUpDating Submit your...

Duration:00:10:01

Building a dating app update: depression sucks

12/24/2020
It's been a while since I released an episode -- because I'm building a dating app! It's specifically for finding Long Term Relationships. Tentatively calling it Bubble Dating -- changed the name to CoupleUp! Here's what I talk about: Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn Help others find the podcast: a rating or review on Apple...

Duration:00:05:42

It's been a while, bc I'm building a dating app for LTRs

12/18/2020
It's been a while since I released an episode -- because I'm building a dating app! It's specifically for finding Long Term Relationships. Tentatively calling it http://bubble.dating/ Once a week you get on video and go on 5-minute video dates. Each week's event is $10. It's also about having compassion for each other, something very much missing from other dating apps. For now I'm testing it in the San Francisco Bay Area. Want to try it out? Use code "podcast" for $2 off. Submit your...

Duration:00:12:49

Covid-19 Cuties Z and C, part 2: why Z is having more sex, but dating less, and C isn't dating at all

5/17/2020
How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? 35-year-olds Z and C answer questions about how they're dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions This episode covers: - Are your expectations of guys' efforts to date you, higher or lower than prior to the quarantine? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - What are the types of video dates? e.g. normally we...

Duration:00:20:25

Covid-19 Cuties Z and C, part 1: why Z is having more sex, but dating less, and C isn’t dating at all

5/10/2020
How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? 35-year-olds Z and C answer questions about how they're dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions This episode covers: - What's the first dating thing you’re going to do when quarantine is over? - In terms of priority level, what level was dating before, and how has it changed now? - Have you changed your distance...

Duration:00:23:09

Bonus Coronavirus episode for women: do you want sex more or less during the pandemic, types of video dates

5/1/2020
Bonus episode for women. The ladies on the last interview asked for advice for themselves, so I thought I'd share that with you. Please email me and let me know what you think of the episode! I'm greg@debugdating.com. If you'd be interested in hearing more episodes where men answer your questions, email me that as well. This episode covers: - What is your advice to me? Can you help me be better on a zoom date? - Articulating your desires - From a male perspective, what vibe are you...

Duration:00:13:24

More Coronavirus Dating with S and D: do you want sex more or less during the pandemic, types of video dates

4/25/2020
Once COVID-19 hit, I knew I wanted to restart this podcast. Like many of my friends, I'm sure you're wondering how to date right now. So pardon the lower quality audio of my guests! How can we date during the Coronavirus (aka COVID-19)? S and D answer your questions about how they're dating during this era of pandemic (part 2) Submit your questions! DebugDating.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you want sex more or less as a result of the current situation? - What are the types of...

Duration:00:18:37

Coronavirus Dating with S and D, part 1: dates in the era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing

4/19/2020
Once COVID-19 hit, I knew I wanted to restart this podcast. Like many of my friends, I'm sure you're wondering how to date right now. So pardon the lower quality audio of my guests! How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? S and D answer your questions about how they're dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions! DebugDating.com/questions This episode covers: - What's the first dating thing you’re going to...

Duration:00:27:26

Top 2 love languages, what does "gifts" really mean, should I send a 2nd message, "good" aggressiveness vs scary, how a man can tell her sex drive

4/13/2019
A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the San Francisco Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Prioritize the qualities that you want in a date, so you can recognize a match when you meet one - Brainstorm qualities of you that will attract those matches - Upgrade...

Duration:00:27:44

No kiss by the 2nd date=move on, best activity for 1st date, does work stress affect your libido, and more!

4/5/2019
A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the San Francisco Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Determine how to recognize the match you're really looking for - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of women in general! SF: Monday April 1st at 7pm...

Duration:00:42:52

Who pays on 1st date, favorite foreplay spots, how to ask if she likes what you're doing during sex, attractive parts of men's bodies, things she appreciates when you do

3/21/2019
R (36), S (27), and G (26) finish answering your questions about dating and sex. In the SF Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Determine how to recognize the match you're really looking for - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of women in general! SF: Monday April 1st at 7pm...

Duration:00:28:44

Best way to get consent, length of ideal sex session, creating connection on a date, top 2 languages of love, discussing fantasies that aren't mainstream

3/15/2019
R (36), S (27), and G (26) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the SF Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Determine how to recognize the match you're really looking for - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of women in general! SF: Monday April 1st at 7pm South Bay:...

Duration:00:34:39

Turn-ons during sex, caring about how much you make, how to tell her you're excited for sex, how you can create connection on a date

3/8/2019
Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 2 / 2) Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions This episode covers: - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - When you want to have sex more than your partner does, or your partner wants to have sex more than you do, what do you feel like is the best way...

Duration:00:37:10

21: work affecting libido, when to talk about sex, aggressiveness you like in a man

2/28/2019
Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 1 / 2) Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions This episode covers: - How would you like to be approached at work? Have you ever been? How did that feel? - What are the Pros/Cons of Online Dating sites (PoF, OkCupid) vs Apps (e.g. Tinder, Bumble)? - If you're 2 dates in and there's still no kiss, would you move on? - What kind of aggressiveness do you...

Duration:00:34:12

20: who pays on 1st date, do you care how much a guy makes, what can he do to help her make clear sexual requests, how does work stress affect dating and sex, optimal sex session length

2/25/2019
Note: this episode got messed up on my podcast host, with 2 minutes of silence and a weird speed adjustment (no, I wasn't on helium!) so I've re-uploaded it. Sorry about that -- give it another listen! Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - If a guy isn’t interested in you, how would you like...

Duration:00:23:58

19: First date topics, languages of love, women's short answers, Instagram, older vs younger matches, last things you appreciate

2/23/2019
Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are the first date topics that meaningful and enjoyable for you to talk about? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - Why do women so often just answer with something short ("things are great"), and not even ask a question back to me? (Is this...

Duration:00:24:34

18: Non-American perspective, part 3: do you enjoy teasing men, best venues to meet potential partners, who pays on the first dates

2/15/2019
Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you enjoy teasing men (like leaning in for a kiss, then pulling back if he leans in)? What do you get out of it? How do you think it feels for us? What’s the best way to deal with a woman who’s teasing me? - Outside of online dating, what are the best...

Duration:00:18:42

17: Non-American perspective: wanting sex more than he does, favorite foreplay spots, favorite parts of men's bodies, breast touching, favorite ways for man to tell you he's excited for sex

2/7/2019
Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Workshops: facebook.com/debugDating/events SF: find a date for Valentine's Day LA: Get the first dates you want! Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What do you find attractive about men’s bodies? - Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there? - What's your...

Duration:00:23:42

16: Non-American perspective: good first dates, creating connection, stress affecting dating & libido, asking for feedback during sex

2/3/2019
Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Workshops: facebook.com/debugDating/events SF: find a date for Valentine's Day LA: Get the first dates you want! Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone? - If you could choose any activity for your next first date, what would it be and why? -...

Duration:00:36:07