Dad Space Podcast - for Dads by Dads

EPISODE 74 - Brian Teague - Becoming A Dad, Parenting Young Children, Finding Your Seat At The Table --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

BONUS - Thank you for being there for our family and for my Mom Over the past 10 - 12 days you have shown up for our family in a very meaningful way. Past guests, podcast friends and listeners alike have been sending toughts, prayers, love and encouraging words that I have been sharing with my family and with my Mom. It has been a very difficult few days, but I wanted to release a short epiosde to thank all of you for your kindness. When I started a podcast I wasn't totally prepared for the impact of shared voices via the internet - the connections made, the new friendships and the great conversations that have happened with and without a microphone. For those that have been following these past few days thank you, and for those that might be here for the very first time, thank you for pressing play. A podcast can be entertainment, a diversion or company - but for me as a podcast host, it has become deeper and far richer by having you as apart of this community. I am looking forward to more amazing conversations in the future, and Mom if you can still hear my podcast wherever you are, I hope you know that we are always thinking of you. On behalf of my Mom Sharon, our immediate and extended family - to you, thank you. Dave ___ Sharon Winona 1945 - 2023 It is with heavy hearts that we announce the peaceful passing of Sharon, December 2 at Niagara Health St. Catharines site, aged 78. Sharon was born in Temiskaming Shores to Gibson and Muriel Lowe on May 3, 1945. The family would like to sincerely thank the Critical Care team at Niagara Health for their excellent care and compassion. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 73 - Marty Suidgeest - An Ally For Recently Divorced Men - Radical Self Responsibility ___ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 72 - Aly Bird - How To Be A Better Ally in Grief, Showing Up For Others ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 71 - Kyle Jetsel - The Driven Autism Dad - Non-Verbal Communication and De-escalation ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 70 - J D McCabe - Author and Dad - Restoring Relationships With Your Children Can you rebuild your relationship with your kids after a horrifying breakup? Unprogramming lies and damaging accusations fed to your children as truth by a vendictive family member Knowing the truth and not being able to say a word to your kids as your reputation is trashed Restoring relationships Mascot Books announces the release of The Third Gift: My Dance with the Devil (And Her Mother) by J.D. McCabe You hear horror stories about someone you love turning on you and vowing to ruin your life, but you never think it would happen to you. This is the story of how one man’s wife of twenty plus years—and the mother of his children—changed their lives irrevocably. Based on his real diaries, J. D. “Danny” recounts the unimaginable story of how his marriage with his wife, Erin, fell apart. It started with Erin blaming him for everything. Most importantly, the lack of trust in their marriage. She enlisted her mother in her efforts, and together they forged the words of family, trust and honesty into a metaphorical hammer and beat him into the ground. Their accusations of infidelity and drug addiction accumulated, twisting reality and eventually resulting in Danny’s involuntary hospitalization. Despite the abuse he faced at the hands of someone he once loved, Danny revisits the horrifying story with an astounding sense of bravery, strength, and hope. Danny hopes that readers come away valuing the importance of real friendship, family, and faith. Above all, he hopes to encourage people going through similar situations to believe in themselves, and be their own advocates. J.D. “Danny” McCabe grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, as the middle child of a very large family. From an early age, he was independent and a practical realist. This first-time author began writing his diary as a historical journal of events that evolved quickly and came without context. Danny was encouraged to share this personal and unbelievable voyage in rediscovering himself by the many people who witnessed and heard about his journey first hand. He is blessed with two beautiful adult children. J.D. resides in the Charleston, SC area. To set up an interview, reading, signing, or for information The Third Gift: My Dance with the Devil: And Her Mother please contact J.D. at thethirdgiftbook@gmail.com Follow The Third Gift on Facebook @thirdgift Instagram @thethirdgift, Twitter @thirdgiftbook Learn more at https://thirdgift.com/ ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 69 - Celebrating My Anniversary, Thirty Years of Marriage and six questions to ask your partner Questions to ask your spouse on your wedding anniversary The relationship my husband and I have built is far from perfect, but it’s ours. This acknowledgment from us, two couples therapists, has never been more important. We’ve put the work in and will continue to put the work in. And along the way, we’ve leaned into a few key questions that help us reflect and adjust. These questions are meant to guide you and your partner to define and evaluate your purpose together. There are multiple benefits to asking these questions, and your anniversary is a great time to do so. This is your opportunity to tune in and listen to each other, hopefully distraction-free. You might be pleasantly surprised at the little ways you excite your partner! You’ll also be keenly aware of the strengths your relationship has exhibited and the resiliency you tapped into over the past year. Lastly, these questions are meant to foster gratitude – you can do hard things together, and love isn’t the only thing that your relationship is made of. Source: https://connectcouplestherapy.com/6-questions-you-should-ask-each-other-on-your-anniversary/ ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 68 - My Van is a Total Loss - 8 tips on overcoming even the most crippling setbacks So our recently paid off van, parked on the side of the road was destroyed by a getaway stolen backhoe - how is your day going? Have you ever had a bunch of terrible things happen, seemingly all at once? That is how things are going for me right now, and to be honest, I am getting super frustrated, a little down and it doesn't feel good at the moment - I am pretty sure that I am not the only one, so I found this article and it helped, a bit - so I thought I would share it with you and maybe find some solace in commiserating with you as I work through some pretty awful "luck" as of late! 8 tips on overcoming even the most crippling setbacks Everyone experiences challenges. It’s how you react to those challenges that determines whether you’ll be successful. If you do something, do it with passion and purpose. The best way to prepare for whatever the future holds is to do everything to the best of your ability. Enjoy the journey. There will always be setbacks You may have to go against the grain for years. The experiences we value most in life are often the most challenging. They push you out of your comfort zone and help you grow. —Melanie Perkins, co-founder and CEO of Canva If you’re experiencing hard times, just keep showing up and adding value. Over-deliver in every relationship — business or personal — until you focus more on what’s ahead, rather than behind you. Helping others reach their goals became my obsession. Eventually, I no longer compared or measured opportunities against my past mistakes. I measured them against the future’s limitless potential. Focus on something you can do or fix, no matter how small. Then take time to appreciate each accomplishment along the way. If you do, you will make it through and come out on the other side. No matter what life throws at you, it is an incredible opportunity to grow. It comes down to how you perceive your challenges — and what you do about them. Keep a positive mindset, and reframe challenges into your greatest gifts. Find meaning in your challenges, and take action to make things go your way. Making it through things allows us to persevere and grow like never before. When I face challenges, remember the strength it took to get through a challenging time. There is no substitute for mindset, work ethic and discipline. 1. Keep pushing and adjusting 2. Show up and help others 3. Focus on what you can control 4. Have faith and act 5. Find others who encourage you 6. You can handle more than you think 7. Don’t make failure an option 8. Accept responsibility Source: https://www.cnbc.com/2018/12/07/8-tips-on-overcoming-even-the-most-crippling-setbacks.html ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 67 - Kyle Goodknight - Four Things That Can Destroy Your Marriage and How to Save It Kyle stops by to share his Dad Story and to offer up his suggestions that could save your relationship! Kyle is a trained voiceover talent, versed in commercial, corporate, educational, medical, telephony, narrations, and character voices. Kyle is also a trained first responder that faithfully serves his community https://kylegoodknight.com/ ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

EPISODE 66 - Eric Guttmann - Be a Healthy Dad, You Can't Surge Trust, and Fat Loss Over 40 Eric Guttmann takes his military training and focuses now on helping Dad's live a healthier life! The Book: Fat Loss After 40: A Simple System to Reduce Inflammation, Reset Your Body, and Restore Health First it’s five pounds, then ten. Before long, you find yourself fifty pounds overweight and relying on motivation to magically melt the pounds—only your motivation is gone. Perhaps you’ve always struggled with weight gain. Or maybe this was never a concern until your forties. For most of us, though, weight gain is a constant battle that becomes harder to win the older we are. How do we make progress against Mother Nature? When do we stop fighting our own bodies? In Fat Loss After 40, retired Naval Officer Eric Guttmann—a health and fitness expert—provides his sensible system for shedding fat without starvation or excessive exercise. He shows you how to adopt a successful mindset and incorporate an elimination diet to reduce inflammation and drop pounds—potentially ten to fifteen in the first thirty days. You’ll learn how to reap benefits from fasting, incorporate a single exercise to boost human growth hormone, and use supplements to optimize cellular energy. If you’re tired of bearing the burden of excess weight, Fat Loss After 40 is the inspiration and know-how you need to lose the pounds—for good. Eric Guttmann is an author and an Ultimate Human Performance (UHP) certified physio/kinesiology expert who served for more than twenty years in active duty as both a Naval Flight Officer (NFO) and a Foreign Area Officer (FAO). With several instruction certifications, including Elite Combat Fitness and Commando Krav Maga, Eric is a US Navy Certified Fitness Leader (CFL) with degrees in Physical Education and National Security Affairs. He studied acupuncture and Eastern medicine. He was also a collegiate track athlete in the javelin, along with judo and gymnastics. https://www.instagram.com/eric_guttmann ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E65 - Dr. John DeGarmo - Foster Parenting, Adoption and Family without the labels International Speaker and Foster Care/ Parenting Expert Global Key Note Speaker and Presenter Motivational Speaker Inspirational Speaker Consultant to foster care and child welfare agencies across the globe Trauma Informed Speaker and Trainer Best selling author of 10 books ​Expert Witness for legal firms the best selling book The Little Book of Foster Care Wisdom: 365 Days of Inspiration and Encouragement for Foster Care Families. Recipient of the Good Morning America Ultimate Hero Award, the Heroes of the Homeless Award, and several other honors. Dr. John DeGarmo is a popular and in demand Positive Behavior Intervention and Supports (PBIS) tranformational and motivational speaker and trainer. Dr. John travels the nation and globe working with schools, businesses, child welfare programs, foster care systems, and foster and adoptive parent groups, delivering powerful, humor filled, and inspiring messages and training seminars, empowering audiences across the world. Dr. John brings tremendous energy to his delivery. He is a powerfully dynamic speaker, engaging the audience from beginning to end. John's presentations are thoroughly researched beforehand, and full of insight and information. Dr. John does not stop after the presentations, though, as he is a relationship builder, and spends quality time with audiences afterward, answering questions, listening to others, and giving additional insight. https://www.drjohndegarmofostercare.com/ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E64 - Dave Guesting on Get Real Parental Coaching with Sandra Trew - I am not a Babysitter, I am a Dad Dave guesting on the Get Real Parental Coaching with Sandra Trew! Parenting is hard work. From balancing home life, to potty training, sibling rivalry, housework, shouting, talking back, you name it, we are covering it. This show is for DADS who don't want to feel overwhelmed daily but looking for help, advice and tips in various areas of child development. My expertise comes from over 30 years of experience in the Childcare Industry, including being a mother of 2!! . This podcast will be keeping it real ALL THE WAY!!!!! Dave talks about his challenges and his emotions when he first became a dad. There was not much support system out there at that time so he had to learn very quickly to navigate his way around as a dad. One of his challenges was members of the public using him as a default babysitter for his own kids! https://getrealparentalcoaching.com/ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E63 - Jared Brenchley - Giving the Gift of Financial Legacy to Your Family, Being a Good Example to Your Kids Hear how Jared is not only focused on his immediate family and their financial future, but Jared is building out for future generations with financial legacy - a very impressive plan! Income through real estate - live free, U don't need a job, U need income https://linktr.ee/askjared ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E62 - Doug Beitz - Adult Children, Being a Grandfather and Men's Intuition Mens Intuition Coach Hi, I'm Doug Beitz, over the past 6 years I've been on a journey of developing my Inner Knowing (Intuition). Many times I've watched men misjudge situations, only to hear them say, "I knew I shouldn't have done that". Why didn't they listen to their gut feel, that inner knowing, their inner voice, call it what you want? “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation”. When I first read that over 35 years ago, it resonated to my core. Conditioning of society has convinced most men to not buck the system, fit in and go with the flow. Well I've had enough of that bullshit, and I'm here to help those men who've had enough of it too! I have discovered the answers for the direction we planned our lives to go are within us. I won't pretend to know all the ways to tap into these answers, but I am far enough along this intuitional journey, that I can offer serious guidance to men who are looking for help. Would you like to learn how to tap into your Intuition? I ask thought-provoking questions to reveal the answers your inner self wants to say, so you can find your voice and have those conversations you're yearning for. You'll move forward in life, smashing goals way sooner than you ever thought possible! This is powerful stuff! Are you ready to have the hard conversations that will open the world you're longing for? https://dougbeitz.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E61 - Becoming A Grandpa For The First Time - Five Things to Consider in This Next Chapter So, some news from my side of the microphone - I am recording this episode a few days from becoming a first time Grandpa - I am in my early 50's, so this feels early to me to cross this line into becoming a Grandfather, I am struggling with feelings of inadequacy, some fear, excitement, nervousness and feeling a little lost in the whole thing to be honest - so I recorded this ahead of the big day so that I can listen back and hear my thoughts pre and post - and I want to reach out to others just like me to gain your wisdom and support in this next chapter of life! New Role, New Responsibilities So, if you’re about to become a first-time grandparent, congratulations! It’s sure to be a rewarding and life-changing experience. You’ll likely have a lot of unkowns, and that’s totally normal. Learning as you go is part of the fun. Here’s what you can expect: And to prepare for becoming a first-time grandparent: Get ready to embark on an amazing adventure as you accept your new role and responsibilities as a new grandparent. Although it can be exhausting at times, there’s nothing quite like seeing the world through the eyes of a child. The most important thing, though, is just being there for your family and showing them how much you love them. That’s what being a grandparent – and parent – is all about. https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E60 - James Francis - The Dark Days of Attempting Suicide to the Brighter Days of Being Here For Your Family About James Francis James Francis is an entrepreneur and professional speaker. He has been a successful executive starting and running several businesses in the well-being and insurance markets. Through the course of his three decade career, he has worked closely with private equity and venture capital investors, he has run sales teams for large publicly traded companies, he has been a c-suite executive for six start ups in the healthcare and well-being space, and he has even owned and operated a vintage Good Humor ice cream truck. James also works as a varsity high school Lacrosse coach every spring, pursuing his passion for the game he loves and coaching. He has been diagnosed with severe anxiety and clinical depression and has learned, through different modalities, how to manage his mental illness and thrive and live in peace. James brings his learnings into the boardroom and has taught many executives how to meditate and the importance of "slowing down" to achieve their goals. He grew up on Long Island and he and his family have lived on the shoreline of Connecticut for over 28 years. Book: There's Coffee in the Fridge: One Man's Journey Through Anxiety and Depression Does our past define us? Or does it merely serve to inform our future? At its heart, this book is a story of overcoming anxiety and depression, as well as suicidal tendencies and attempts. With a remarkably candid approach, peppered with dry humor and keen observation, author James Francis takes us on a journey that is all at once deep, dark, twisting, and ultimately so very redemptive. One part gripping memoir, and one part how-to guide, you will come away with tools such as: This is a book of triumph, a victory over mental health struggles earned through the hardest of trials. You can use your past to create a healthier future too - it starts here, it starts now. https://www.therescoffeeinthefridge.com/ If you are in need of help - please contact Talk Suicide Canada - 1.833.456.4566 If you or someone you know is thinking about suicide, call Talk Suicide Canada at 1-833-456-4566 (24/7) or text 45645 (4 PM - 12 AM ET) 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline https://988lifeline.org/ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E59 - Mark Gordon - What if there was a Dad Test, Empty Nest Musings and Advice for a New Dad ABOUT MARK GORDON​ I am a Relationship Catalyst who Empowers people to develop healthy relationships through inspirational speaking, transformational courses, and coaching! I have seen hundreds of lives transformed with the principals taught. I have been involved in community leadership, coaching, teaching, and keynote speaking for more than 30 years. My passion for people is evident to anyone who experience my speaking, writing, courses or coaching. I have a strong desire to empower people, families and organizations to become relationally, emotionally and spiritually healthy. My greatest success has been my amazing family. I have been married to my wife Sandi for over 40 years, I have three growth children, who are married, and two grandchildren. https://www.markgordon.ca/ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E58 - Nate A Turner J.D. - The Harvard University Blueprint for Raising Your Kids Book - Raising Supaman - Although many years have passed since Nathaniel A. Turner began writing letters to his then two-year-old son, Raising Supaman remains as prophetic as ever. Turner's aim in writing his son was to witness during his lifetime the outward manifestation of his deepest hopes and most profound dreams, namely that his child would be a better man than him. In Raising Supaman, Turner explores the most critical issues in the lives of males of all ages. From academic success and professional advancement to personal achievement to social responsibility, Turner wrote a practical travel guide that anyone might use to navigate their way through the incredible journey called life. Join this TED speaker and internationally renowned Humanity Propulsion Engineer for a transparent, authentic, and loving examination of the role and purpose of a man through the letters of a father to his son, correspondence intuitively written from one man to another man. In Raising Supaman, not only will you discover what is necessary to raise a great man, but you will find everything you need to become a Supaman. About the Author Author and TED speaker, Nathaniel A. Turner, JD, MALS is a self-described “Humanity Propulsion Engineer.” Turner’s appeared in many media outlets, including The Washington Post, Black Enterprise, iHeartRadio, The Good Men Project, Sirius XM, and U.S. News & World Report. Corporations, municipalities, and NGOs like Anthem, Inc., National Collegiate Athletic Association, the City of Indianapolis, and the National Society of Black Engineers invite Nate to share his practical message for living the life we’ve always imagined while also serving the greater good. A modern-day Renaissance Man, as evidenced by the diversity of his education, including a bachelor in accounting, masters in history and theology, and doctor of jurisprudence combined with a wide range of personal experiences and professions, are only part of what makes his wide-ranging presentations “can’t miss” events. What truly sets Nate apart from others is his unique oft times comical ability not only to see the world differently but to challenge his audiences in an edutaining way to live outside the box so that the world might be able to experience us at our very best. As a zealous advocate that every person has an opportunity to maximize their human potential, Nate regularly shares through books, courses, workshops, and conferences a backward design life process initially created to help his unborn child become a great global citizen and meet the rigorous educational requirements of the top colleges and universities without means of wealth, privilege, legacy status, fraud, bribery, cheating or Adobe Photoshop. Today, those tools, techniques, and strategies initially created to help a Gen Zer thrive in the Fourth Industrial Revolution are educational and life development staples for students and parents of all ages, and organizations all over the country. When you hear Nathaniel, not only will it be obvious why he is a highly sought after speaker, you will never be the same. Moreover, there is little doubt that those in the audience will leave with a renewed commitment to live the life they’ve always imagined while doing their part to leave the earth better than it was when they arrived. For more information, visit www.nathanielaturner.com. Book: The Amazing World of STEM Book: Stop The Bus: Education Reform in 31 Days Book: It's A Jungle Out There: Power Parenting Lessons Inspired by The Lion King Book: Journey Forward: How to Use Journaling to Envision and Manifest the Life You Always Wanted ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E57 - Stay on Course The Life and Legacy of Ennio Riga, Chef to the Stars by Julie Riga When Ennio Riga passed away in February of 2016, he left behind an incredible legacy. To his many admirers who enjoyed his delicious culinary creations, he was a world-renowned chef. To Julie Riga, he was a loving father who taught her the importance of leadership, perseverance, and determination. About the Author Julie Riga, Ennio’s daughter, continues his legacy as a leadership coach, trainer, speaker, and author. In compiling the stories for the book, Julie carries on Ennio’s tradition by helping others reflect, and then decisively act on, their own calls to greatness. https://www.stayoncourse.io/ ___ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message

E56 - Mark Craven - Dads, Kiss Your Sons, Facing Your Fears of Becoming A Dad and Finding Love for Your Son Mark Craven is the author of several books and writes a self-development blog for his website, www.SuccessUpAhead.com. Mark also hosts the podcast, The Craven Effect. He has worked as a Math Instructor, Student Success Coach, and Senior Academic Advisor at the college level. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Biology and a master’s degree in Higher Education Management. Mark lives in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania with his family Terrified to Become a Dad? So Was I. Fear is often our first response when we discover we are going to be fathers. We talk to just about everyone we know or search for quick answers to give us some sense of confidence to see our way through the unknown ahead. But what if you didn't have a dad? What if you didn't have role models to follow? What if the whole idea of being a dad is so completely foreign to you that quantum mechanics seems easier to master? That's my story along with becoming everything to my son that I never had growing up. As a teacher and coach in higher education, Mark Craven has researched numerous behavioral studies as well as the biology of neurological systems pointing to insights for new and expectant dads to adhere in Dad's, Kiss Your Sons, bringing a whole new level of significance to being a dad. The current generation of dads has made fatherhood a part of their self-identity. They are seeking resources and feeling that there aren't enough content-related resources available to them. Dad's, Kiss Your Sons is the book every dad needs. https://www.successupahead.com/ https://dadspace.ca/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dad-space-podcast/message