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Divorce is a life event that hits every aspect of your being: financial, emotional, physical, and mental. At Divorce University Online our mission is to give you the tools to navigate your divorce in a way that allows you to create the life of your dreams and helps you continue to succeed in your post-divorce challenges.

Divorce is a life event that hits every aspect of your being: financial, emotional, physical, and mental. At Divorce University Online our mission is to give you the tools to navigate your divorce in a way that allows you to create the life of your dreams and helps you continue to succeed in your post-divorce challenges.
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Divorce is a life event that hits every aspect of your being: financial, emotional, physical, and mental. At Divorce University Online our mission is to give you the tools to navigate your divorce in a way that allows you to create the life of your dreams and helps you continue to succeed in your post-divorce challenges.

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Episodes

How do you handle the religious training of children after divorce?

5/21/2019
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How do you handle the religious training of children after divorce? In Episode 37 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we walk you through many of the struggles co-parents have around this issue. What if one of you isn’t religious or doesn’t attend church? What if you have different religions? How do you talk to the kids about attending separate churches post break-up? And what do you do for special church events? There are workable solutions as we’ve discovered in our 12 years of...

Duration:00:37:35

I Am Not a Victim

5/14/2019
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Welcome to Episode 36 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 36, I Am Not a Victim, we help you reframe the mindset that traps many of us during divorce. It’s common to feel that your spouse destroyed your family by having affairs, spending excessively, constantly criticizing or whatever other issues broke down your marriage. This puts us in a mindset of “I can’t because” and when we start saying those words, we become weak, full of self-doubt, and vulnerable to continuing...

Duration:00:44:00

Understanding Attorney Retainers, Fees, and Billing

5/7/2019
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Welcome to Episode 35 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 35, Understanding Attorney Retainers, Fees, and Billing, we try to remove the confusion around attorney fees. Many divorcing people have never had a prior need for legal services and don’t understand an attorney retainer or how it works. Furthermore, they don’t understand how billing and fees are charged to them and are often shocked when they receive the first bill from their attorney. In this episode we demystify...

Duration:00:42:15

Divorce Court Process Flyover

4/30/2019
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Welcome to Episode 34 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 34, Divorce Court Process Flyover – Understanding the Basics, we talk about the legal process that everyone goes through during divorce. It’s important to have a basic understanding of the process so that you can make decisions regarding your case. Divorce is a lawsuit that involves pleadings, motions, discovery, and trial. For most people this part alone feels overwhelming. Confused yet? Listen now as we help you...

Duration:00:48:37

What Are Your Divorce Superpowers?

4/23/2019
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Welcome to Episode 33 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 33, What Are Your Divorce Superpowers?, we talk about common feelings we all have during divorce such as anxiety, anger, fear, and depression. Then, we help you discover the divorce superpower lurking inside of you that will help you fight those enemies. Finding your inner Superman or Wonderwoman is easier than you think. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!...

Duration:00:44:04

The Number One Divorce Secret: It Will Be Better Tomorrow,

4/16/2019
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Welcome to Episode 32 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 32, The Number One Divorce Secret: It Will Be Better Tomorrow, we talk about the crisis of divorce that almost every single person experience including the strong illusion that your current misery will last forever. Fortunately, it won’t. Divorce is a transition to a new life. But how do you get to that new life? What steps can you take to get out of the misery and get excited about your future? Join us as we help you...

Duration:00:38:10

Four Weapons That Demolish Post-Separation Negativity

4/9/2019
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Welcome to Episode 31 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 31, Four Weapons That Demolish Post-Separation Negativity, we talk about the common cycle of negativity often see in newly separated people. Hurt, anger, and resentment are common emotions in divorce and unfortunately, many people stay stuck in those emotions for extended periods of time. Often our exes are the target of these negative feelings but staying stuck actually hurts you way more than it hurts them. But...

Duration:00:44:58

How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation

4/2/2019
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Welcome to Episode 30 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 30, How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation, we talk about what to do if you have a restraining order, are on supervised visitation, or just have less parenting time than you wanted. Thomas always says child custody is a marathon not a sprint and we’re going to help you run that marathon in a way that will help you get more parenting time. We’ll discuss how to build a closer relationship with your child with...

Duration:00:50:23

The Secret to Healthy Post-Divorce Relationships

3/26/2019
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Welcome to Episode 29 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 29, The Secret to Healthy Post-Divorce Relationships, we talk about what caused the misery in our previous relationship, how we can get ourselves emotionally healthy, and how not to get ourselves into the same situation all over again! If you’re anything like us, you definitely have no desire to repeat the past! Understanding dependence, independence, and interdependence and how they all work together to form a...

Duration:00:39:25

Five Resolutions to Transform You After Divorce

3/19/2019
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Welcome to Episode 28 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 28, Five Resolutions to Transform You After Divorce, we talk about how maddening the divorce process is for most people. It is inherently negative and therefore, easily framed in negative ways by those of us going through it. Unfortunately, the Court process only perpetuates more negativity. But what if there was a way to turn the tables on that process and find your joy again? Divorce is an opportunity to find...

Duration:00:45:42

Courts Can’t Change Your Ex

3/12/2019
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Welcome to Episode 27 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 27, Courts Can’t Change Your Ex, we talk about most peoples’ desire for the Court to know what’s going on in their situation. Courts are really good at managing big issues but not so good at managing the day-to-day aspects of relationships. So, what do you do? Join us as we talk about solutions to the day-to-day issues and steps you can take to help you manage aspects of your case and dealing with your ex even when...

Duration:00:36:05

The Shot Heard Round The World

3/5/2019
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Welcome to Episode 26 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 26, The Shot Heard ‘Round the World, we talk about how an aggressive stance is a recipe for heartache and expense in any divorce case. A conflict of interest exists for an attorney in any divorce case because the more conflict there is, the more money they make. How well do you know your attorney and understand what motivates their decision making? Breaking up is difficult for almost everyone but the choices you make...

Duration:00:34:43

Step-Parenting

2/26/2019
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Welcome to Episode 25 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 25, Step-Parenting, Family Life's Most Thankless Gig we talk about the difficulty of incorporating new mates into a divorced family. We share some of our own experiences and discuss common questions. How much authority should your new mate have with the kids? How do you get the kids and your ex-spouse on board with the new relationship? Join us as we share our own mistakes and help you avoid common pitfalls. For more...

Duration:00:41:35

Communication 201 - Examples of Effective Communication

2/19/2019
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Welcome to Episode 24 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 24, Communication 201 - Examples of Effective Communication we dive into concrete examples of communication between coparents and explain how we would revise the communication and why we recommend the changes. These examples are designed to help you model your own communication and create more cooperative and peaceful communication with your coparent. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com....

Duration:00:49:13

Communication A Vital Co-Parenting Skill

2/12/2019
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Welcome to Episode 23 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 23 we discuss “Communication, A Vital Co-Parenting Skill”. Are you wearing the black or white hat in your custody case? In this episode, we discuss how to eliminate conflict, defensiveness, and how to let your ex “be the crazy one”. We’ll also dive into ways you can get the parenting schedule you really want! For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Duration:00:36:13

Care and Feeding of Attorneys

2/5/2019
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Welcome to Episode 22 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 22 we discuss “Care and Feeding of Attorneys” Of course, you want to get as much value as you can from you attorney by leveraging their knowledge and expertise, but how? Join us as we discuss shoeboxes, developing a plan, and taking charge of your case. We’ll also dive into ways you can help your attorney help you! For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Duration:00:40:18

How Much Does All Of This Really Cost?

1/29/2019
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Welcome to Episode 21 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 21 we discuss “How Much Does All of This Really Cost?” Obviously, divorce is a financial disaster for almost everyone and concerns about how much more cost will be involved in the divorce process itself, is a very common question. We’ll will discuss the different methods of moving through divorce including self-representation, mediation, and using attorneys. We’ll also dive into ways you can save money regardless of...

Duration:00:41:15

Child Custody From The Child's Point of View

1/22/2019
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Welcome to Episode 20 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 20 we talk about child custody from the point of view of the child, and how these conflict and court battles can affect your child. We also go into detail about how you can shield your child from these conflicts and why it is important to do so. Listen in to understand more about how this process can affect your child and how to mitigate that. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank...

Duration:00:40:38

I’m Restrained from seeing My Children, How Can I Get My Kids Back?

1/15/2019
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Welcome to Episode 19 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 19, I’m Restrained from seeing My Children, How Can I Get My Kids Back?, We talk about being in one of the most difficult situations a parent can be in, and that is not being able to see their children. We talk you through one of the most important factors of pulling the case back to your side, and that is staying calm. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Duration:00:42:10

Are Your Emotions Causing You to Lose Your Case?

1/8/2019
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Welcome to Episode 18 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 18, Are Your Emotions Causing You to Lose Your Case? We talk about how your emotions can take control of your case and cost you time and money spent in the court room. We also talk about how it may affect a judges decision making on your case. Tune in to learn how to avoid mistakes when dealing with emotions. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Duration:00:41:54