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Decoding the inner workings of a fulfilling marriage The definitive collection of coaching tips, communication techniques, relationship improvement advice, and training on the subject of creating, maintaining, and restoring a fulfilling and long lasting marriage. Hosted by Phillip Enkey and Benjamin Boekweg.

Decoding the inner workings of a fulfilling marriage The definitive collection of coaching tips, communication techniques, relationship improvement advice, and training on the subject of creating, maintaining, and restoring a fulfilling and long lasting marriage. Hosted by Phillip Enkey and Benjamin Boekweg.

Location:

United States

Description:

Decoding the inner workings of a fulfilling marriage The definitive collection of coaching tips, communication techniques, relationship improvement advice, and training on the subject of creating, maintaining, and restoring a fulfilling and long lasting marriage. Hosted by Phillip Enkey and Benjamin Boekweg.

Language:

English


Episodes

MC 036: 30 Days – Part 2

8/31/2019
MC 031: What’s in your Playbook? Summary: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji and Phillip continue the conversation of “What if you had only 30-days to save your marriage?” and finish explaining their 30-day plans. In this episode: Benji’s 30-Day Plan Week 1: re-Discovery Day 1: Get a notebook and a yellow […]

Duration:00:54:02

MC 036: 30 Days – Part 1

8/27/2019
Summary: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, what if you had 30 days to save your marriage? What would you do? Phillip Enkey and Benji Boekweg dive right in and explore how to save their marriages in 30 days. Links: Aladdin – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OczOUJw1Z7k&t=15s John Gottman – https://www.gottman.com/about/john-julie-gottman/ In this episode: Another announcement! Big […]

Duration:00:37:42

MC 035: Insights Gained from Childbirths

8/19/2019
MC 035: Insights Gained from Childbirths Summary: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Someone has an announcement! Also Phillip and Benji discuss the personal insights they have gained while going through the childbirth process with their wives, and how it relates to the human mind and the current paradigm. “This was one of […]

Duration:00:44:47

MC 034: THE LOST EPISODE – Expectations

7/29/2019
Summary: Once thought to be lost forever, this found and remastered episode takes a dive into the root cause of unmet expectations. Expectations – Are you shooting at a moving target? Phillip and Benji share examples and laughs as they draw out a 4-step system to alleviate day-to-day tensions that we all naturally assume are […]

Duration:00:47:57

MC 033: The Journey Begins, Part 2 – Return and Report

7/18/2019
Summary: The journey continues as Benji incorporates a new style of parenting that revolves around teaching children to govern themselves. Now back to report on his progress so far of implementing a family government, the hiccups, and reason why. Time to explore the answers. It may be simpler (and crazier) than you would have thought. […]

Duration:00:38:14

MC 032: The Journey Begins, Part 1 – I was wrong

4/29/2019
Summary: The journey begins as Benji incorporates a new style of parenting that revolves around teaching children to govern themselves. He refers to the book he is implementing and give a progress report on what he has accomplished so far and also what he hopes to achieve, along with some important insights he received while […]

Duration:00:46:34

MC 031: What’s in your Playbook?

2/19/2019
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, from touchdowns to clean kitchens and beyond, Phillip and Benji discuss the importance of your Marriage Playbook. What rules or guidelines have you and your spouse pre-agreed on for when the situation arises, you both will know how to respond? Links: Remember who you are – […]

Duration:00:44:05

MC 030: Seeing Our Little Humans

2/6/2019
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji is joined by his wife, Ann Boekweg, and discuss two interesting questions of “Can the child claim the parent is disobeying them?” and “Can simple words of love actually change a child’s behavior in the moment?”. Links: http://themarriagecode.org In this episode: Children’s response to structure […]

Duration:00:46:40

MC 029: Marriage Calibration

1/15/2019
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji discuss the importance of “calibration” in a marriage, as well as emotional connection in the phases of marriage. Links: Metronome Synchronization – https://youtu.be/W1TMZASCR-I In this episode: Calibration Techniques: Sway – sway back and forth for a few minutes while listening to a song with […]

Duration:00:47:48

MC 028: Marriage Phases and Sarcasm

12/26/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji returns from a 3 day marriage seminar with all the latest tips, tricks, and insights into how to make marriages work better, stronger, and longer. Links: Metronome Synchronization – https://youtu.be/W1TMZASCR-I In this episode: Marriage Phases 5 – Thrive in Abundance 4 – Calibrate 3 – Challenge […]

Duration:00:40:42

MC 027: Hurt Feelings

11/22/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji Dives into the four steps to begin the journey of implementing the Marriage Code principals into your marriage. Discussing the four simple procedures than anyone can do to start upgrading your outlook and start actively mirroring. “You don’t have to be great to start, but […]

Duration:00:42:28

MC 026: How to Start Now

11/13/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji Dives into the four steps to begin the journey of implementing the Marriage Code principals into your marriage. Discussing the four simple procedures than anyone can do to start upgrading your outlook and start actively mirroring. “You don’t have to be great to start, but […]

Duration:00:51:14

MC 025: Preparing for a Relationship Inventory

11/1/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji spend more time fleshing out how to prepare for a Relationship Inventory and share some of the do’s and dont’s they discovered, while also addressing the question of how to best initiate a Relationship Inventory with your spouse even if they are not […]

Duration:00:48:46

MC 024: Empty Your Cup

10/15/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji shares some of his personal experiences and some of his flaws as he discusses one of the key ingredients in alleviating the emotional tension in the home. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this episode: What if I am doing all the steps and still not getting […]

Duration:00:46:43

MC 023: A Woman’s Perspective – Part 2

9/25/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji continue their exploration into the woman’s perspective from the eyes of their spouses. Today’s podcast features the interview with Phillip’s wife Dani. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this episode: Exclusive interview with Dani Enkey and her side of the story of how she met Phillip […]

Duration:00:49:16

MC 022: A Woman’s Perspective – Part 1

9/6/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji dive into the female perspective of how applying Marriage Code principles has affected their marriage. In this part, Phillip and Benji interview Benji’s amazing wife Ann. “Frustration is caused by a lack of knowing they understand” – Benji Boekweg Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this […]

Duration:00:51:45

MC 021: Learning Love Languages

8/28/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji learn what their love languages are and discuss how this knowledge can improve marriage and family relationships. Phillip and Benji take the 5 Love Languages quiz on the air to find out their love languages. “The most heartfelt communication is their own love […]

Duration:00:47:50

MC 020: Chinks in our Marital Armor

8/20/2018
Summery:In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji revisit the tally system in relation to finances and how to shield your marriage from the number one cause of divorce. Links: www.themarriagecode.org Dumb and Dumber (1994) – https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109686/ The Office: I declare BANKRUPTCY! – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-m3RtoguAQ In this episode: Financial Tallies Ownership vs. Assignment […]

Duration:00:46:37

MC 019: Heir to my Throne

8/8/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip? and Benji discuss a new child-parent relationship discussed by David Kaslowski’s in his podcast Light the Fight. Links: www.themarriagecode.org http://elevatepodcasting.com/light_the_fight/ #016- “The Oldest Child Relationship” In this episode: Is there a Phillip in the house? What is the “Oldest Child” relationship? Enemies and Friends […]

Duration:00:45:23

MC 018: Am I a Creator?

7/23/2018
Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji ask the question: What is realistic?, and explore the meaning of being a creator. Complete with sound bytes of Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jim Carrey, and Will Smith speaking on this topic. “Other People and cultural precedent is not going to tell me what kind […]

Duration:01:05:18