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MC 019: Heir to my Throne

8/8/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip? and Benji discuss a new child-parent relationship discussed by David Kaslowski’s in his podcast Light the Fight. Links: www.themarriagecode.org http://elevatepodcasting.com/light_the_fight/ #016- “The Oldest Child Relationship” In this episode: Is there a Phillip in the house? What is the “Oldest Child” relationship? Enemies and Friends […]

Duration:00:45:23

MC 018: Am I a Creator?

7/23/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji ask the question: What is realistic?, and explore the meaning of being a creator. Complete with sound bytes of Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jim Carrey, and Will Smith speaking on this topic. “Other People and cultural precedent is not going to tell me what kind […]

Duration:01:05:18

MC 017: Acquiring Leadership

7/14/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji dive deeper into what makes a good leader, and how just what they do that makes people want to follow them. “We love him, because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19 Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this episode: How do we gain […]

Duration:00:45:06

MC 016: What I heard vs What they meant

6/23/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji revisit the skill of Active Listening as they explore the answer to the question: How I get someone to understand what I’m trying to say? “How can we assume that what we heard is what they meant, when so often it’s not?” – […]

Duration:00:43:21

MC 015: Influence vs. Control

6/13/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji discuss the difference between Influence and Control as they revisit the Mirroring principle and expound on it’s use. They use examples from their own lives and from popular culture. “We can create the outcome we want, based on what we choose to do.” […]

Duration:00:49:09

MC 014: Solving #1 Cause of Divorce

5/25/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji dive into the leading cause of divorce: finances. They pick apart the discussion to more effective practices that lead to a happy and healthy, financially functional, marriage. Links: www.themarriagecode.org Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University: https://www.daveramsey.com/fpu#in-progress=1 Brian Reagan’s Art skit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NpLjKVvY28 In this episode: […]

Duration:00:40:26

MC 013: Parenting Holy Grail

5/15/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Benji goes into detail sharing some of the techniques and tips about parenting children that he had to pay a pretty penny to obtain, which has revolutionized the way he views raising children. “The biggest thing I had to change to fix my kids, was me.” […]

Duration:00:41:54

MC 012: The Role of Men

4/30/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji discuss one of the more controversial topics in marriage: the roles of men and women. They delve deeply into what it means to be a leader in the home as well and identify the do’s and don’t’s of leadership. “If I was meant […]

Duration:00:40:14

MC 011: Reflections

4/19/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji continue the discussion from last episode on how to invest in your spouse the way we invest in our hobbies and sports, plus there is an exciting announcement from the Boekweg family! In this classic follow-up episode they outline different ways to learn […]

Duration:00:43:47

MC 010: How to Get Spouse Certified

3/22/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji discuss the question, “What could happen if we spent as much time studying our spouse as we spend studying our favorite sports team?” They outline a “plethora” of everyday thing anyone can do to strengthen your connection to your spouse and liven up […]

Duration:00:48:33

MC 009: Emotional Release

2/13/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji discuss why some conversations that you use Active Listening on do not completely fixing the problem, and how to correct it. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this episode: Emotions in conversation Stored emotions Emotional release Viewing the bigger picture

Duration:00:47:38

MC 008: The Marriage Paradigm

1/31/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji share their marital background and what their marriages look like, the concept of a paradigm shift is explained, a Great Marriage is defined, and the challenge to Walk on Water. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this episode: Definition of a Great Marriage What Phillip and […]

Duration:00:39:53

MC 007: Child Factor

1/29/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, we dive a little deeper into the dynamic of children in a marriage. With special guest speaker Maria Christensen who is a fellow podcast host and mother of six (ranging from 4 years old to 20 years old), we discuss some of the modern tips and […]

Duration:00:32:54

MC 006: Child or Pawn

1/4/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, We dive deep into the area of kids in a marriage. Kids change everything; from diapers and homework to mischief and another mouth to feed. They can also unwittingly become the center of a parental power struggle over authority. We’ll discuss the dangers and how to […]

Duration:00:36:35

MC 005: Relationship Inventory

1/4/2018
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, we explain the tool that is the culmination of the several principles discussed thus far. All the pieces will come together (Mirroring, Active Listening, Tally System, etc.) into the one tool that empowers you take stalk of your relationship and encourage positive change. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In […]

Duration:00:51:34

MC 001: Marriage is like Spaghetti

12/26/2017
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Summery: Introducing the Marriage Code Podcast, with Benjamin Boekweg and Phillip Enkey who share their experiences and just why they say marriage is like spaghetti. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In This Episode: Why marriage is like a spaghetti recipe In a nutshell, what the recipe is What to expect on the next episodes

Duration:00:17:21

MC 004: Fully Understanding the Tally System

12/22/2017
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, we fully describe the Tally System, how we are all doing whether we know it or not, the proper role of appreciation and the five different styles of apology and what they mean. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In this episode: The concept of the Tally System and how […]

Duration:00:53:28

MC 003: The Power of Active Listening

12/22/2017
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, we examine the skill of Active Listening through real-life examples and list out the steps to make it work for you. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In This Episode: The levels of conflict The steps for Active Listening Real examples of conflict resolution using Active Listening

Duration:00:58:22

MC 002: Mirroring – Victim or Commander

12/22/2017
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Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, we explore the concept of Mirroring and how to use it to command the outcome of any conversation and much much more. Links: www.themarriagecode.org In This Episode: We define the concept of Mirroring We explain the definition of a “fight” in a relationship The different methods […]

Duration:01:06:48