Another day another question. In essence, you decide what kind of career you want because you are you own boss. If your morals clash with your role it might be worth thinking about whether it is worth staying.
We all need something. What we need more than anything else is tolerance for others. Stepping out of one's shell and trying to understanding another person's life decisions by simply asking 'why?' might be a step in the right direction. Judgments may not help.