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2-7 Episode 33: Succulent Buttplugs and Throne Games

We've been gone a while, so we've got a bit of catching up to do. We talk about National Masturbation Month (it's May!) and our own creative endeavors. Elia's got a new book coming out, and Kysmet's doing a sketching challenge. Some chat about Marie Kondo and baking as well. Then it's a more serious talk about the RITA awards and racism. Finally, we dive in and become a full Game of Thrones podcast for this episode; spoilers up through season 8, episode 3 (The Long Night). Show notes at...


2-6 Episode 32: Don't Eat Bath Bombs, Kids

This episode is a wild ride through a bunch of topics. We discuss the self-bondage we've gotten into and classes we've taken, and then an exploration of what's keeping us busy: updates on Elia's latest trilogy and Kysmet's Inktober work. There's lots of talk of baking with a digression to discuss how many dicks are in a bushel of dicks and then a big reveal about how many fake dicks Elia actually owns. We also do some toy reviews and blab about Dungeons and Dragons, including our pet...


2-5 Episode 31: Recorded Live at Dungeons + Geekdoms

We're recording live at Dungeons and Geekdoms New England! We talk about Vagina Rage and shitty sex ed in America. Then it's a bunch about the amazing kink con, the classes we're taking, and the vendors and products. Some discussion of Jurassic World, dinosaur gothic, dinosaur porn, and video games we're playing. I also include a short review of the Volita. All that and much, much more in this latest episode of Come and Play. Show notes at


2-4 Episode 30: Galumphing Through Summer

We saw Ocean's 8, so we spend some time discussing how much we love beautiful ladies and people doing what they're good at. Also a bit of commentary about the importance of women supporting women. We cast our women-over-50 buddy cop movie, too. From here, we move on to talking extensively about Professor Marston and the Wonder Women. Speaking of polyamory, Elia has books coming out, including one this August. Then it's onto discussion of games. We finish by discussing the Zumio, a radical...


2-3 Episode 29: The Marvel Fuckvaluation

After the Infinity War discourse on Episode 28, we needed to spend some time discussing who in the Marvel universe would be good in bed. Includes some ranking, hypotheses about characters' engagement and skill, logistics of fucking Mjolnir, and thoughtful analysis of why fucking Groot is okay but fucking Rocket is creepy. Then we discuss Hue, an indie puzzle platformer, and finish up with Elia's review of the Fun Factory Volta, a fun clitoral vibrator that Kysmet thinks looks like a...


2-1 Episode 28: The Late, Great Infinity War Discourse

This episode is solely devoted to Infinity War discussion. That's right, we might be a bit late to the party, but at least we've given everyone a chance to see it in theaters. This episode is filled with spoilers for Avengers: Infinity War. We discuss our thoughts on the ending and what's going to happen in Part 2, the characters who did and didn't win our emotional investment, and why Thanos is the original incel fuckboy. Show notes:


2-1 Episode 27: Keep Your Daddy-Dick Away From Me

It's the first episode of Come and Play's second season! Kysmet is now a co-host of the podcast, which is exciting for all involved. We talk about the struggles for creative production and sustaining ourselves when the creative well runs dry. We also discuss the difference between self-care and "little" behavior. There's also conversation about the horrible consent violations by Jeff Mach and what's happened to Geeky Kink as a result. Then we delve into Monster Hunter, Sea of Thieves, and...


26: Don't Get Head from the DemiGorgon

In Episode 26, Kysmet is back for some in-depth toy discussion. We talk about the kGoal Kegel Exerciser from Minna Life, including discussing whether there's a market for kegel exercise games that let you shoot aliens with your vagina. We think there is. Then we talk about the Satisfyer Pro Penguin, a magnificent toy that is both adorable and orgasmic.


25: Horror, Psychopaths, and Kink Ed

In episode 25, Kysmet rejoins me on the podcast. We get into that October spirit talking about horror movies and psychological thrillers, including some talk about actual psychopaths and the stigmatization of mental illness in the wake of some of the horrible acts of violence in the United States. It's not all heavy, though: we talk about Harrison Ford in his peak-hotness Indiana Jones days and the gateway shows that helped us figure out our kinky selves. We also discuss the trouble with...


24: Tie me up, tie me down, but don't chew next to me

In episode 24, I talk about a couple of interesting syndromes: misophonia and synesthesia, plus a whole bunch of stuff about bondage. I talk about different materials for bondage as well as safety concerns. Go tie up a consensual partner and have fun!


23: Hygge and the Violet Wand

In episode 23, I talk about Hygge, the Danish art of creating coziness and intimacy. I discuss Slime Rancher, a fun and adorable game I've been playing. I review the Tantus Echo Super Soft, a fun squishy dildo, and then talk for a while about the violet wand and electricity play.


22: Bisexual Talk, Atomic Blonde, and Scavenger Hunts

In Episode 22, I'm a bit hoarse, but not for fun reasons. I talk about a giant scavenger hunt called Gishwhes that I've participated in for the last five years, and then move on to some brief discussion of the horrible stuff happening in our country and the importance of rising against that but also taking care of our mental health. Then, a discussion of the awesome glory of Atomic Blonde. Finally, I talk about my bisexuality, and how I eventually came to terms with it after years of denial.


21: Astronomy and Anal August

Episode 21 is a bit of a grab bag with a few big themes. First off, I talk about my recent trip to Michigan, historical geekiness, and some thoughts on TV shows like Game of Thrones, Rick and Morty, and Silicon Valley. Then it's a deep dive into astronomy with meteor showers: where they come from, who's searching for meteorites in Antarctica, and why Mark Twain was a stubborn badass. A bit about the upcoming solar eclipse, too. But then it's a different kind of deep dive into Anal August...


20: Should I bang an egg-laying dildo?

Episode 20 is quite a mixed bag. There's a bunch of talk about women being awesome, like my review of Wonder Woman and complaints about the whiny babies who hate Doctor 13 from Doctor Who. Also, I ask the big question: should I bang an egg-laying dildo? and talk about ovipositors. This episode also includes musings about origins of kink (could it be hereditary?) and a mini-review of the Fun Factory Bouncer. Don't miss this episode.


19: Taking Over the World!

In Episode 19, I do some ranting about feminism, anti-fat romance authors, and this health care bill. Also, I talk about learning Civ V and getting a new Google Pixel. Plus, I review the Mystery Vibe Crescendo, a posable vibrator with six separate motors and a lot of possibility.


18: Guest Kysmet, Part II: Sparkly Pink Vibrators for Everyone!

Episode 18 is the second half of our interview with Kysmet! Here, we get into the sexy stuff, specifically sex toys and our own complicated histories with them, and why you should never throw your partner's vibrator against the wall.


17: Guest Kysmet, Part I: Body Positivity and Kickstarter Stabbing Games

Episode 17 is the first part of my interview with Kysmet, a local kinky geek. In this episode, we talk about some new games, including the Friday the 13th Kickstarter game, and the difficulties of body positivity for all genders during bathing suit season. Bonus: listen to how a Japanese TV show inspired Kysmet to throw out all her underwear.


16: Remote Vibrators and Puzzle Games

In episode 16, I talk about some puzzle games like Fez and Weffriddles. Then, I give my history with remote control vibrators, including the shitty ones before the days of Bluetooth and a few that actually work, like the Lovense Lush and the We-Vibe Wish. Plus, a listener letter answering all my questions about the Prince Albert piercing!


15: Guest Anne Gaston, Part II: There's No Crying In Basements!

In the second half of this interview with Anne Gaston, we get into the kinky side of things. Hear about her intro to kink and her current interests, as well as some book recommendations and a revealing this-or-that session.


14: Guest Anne Gaston, Part 1 - Anime, Geeky Origins, and Cheesecake

Episode 14 is the first half of a two-part interview with my guest Anne Gaston! Anne is an erotic romance novelist, like me, and a geeky kinkster, too. In part 1, we talk about how we met, Anne's writing career and her geekiness, which includes a bunch about anime. Other topics include the possible demonic connections of Power Rangers, a Sailor Moon dildo, the bathing habits of Lord of the Rings characters, and wine mom subculture.