Men Loving Well with Dr. Jim Slaughter

Sam Black's motivating factor for writing and speaking on this topic was the need to provide an empathetic primer to ministry leaders and pastors who want to serve those in the church better. Many of those pastors were saying, "I know that two-thirds of the men in my church and one-third of the women say they have an ongoing struggle with pornography. Based on the statistics, I look out at my congregation and know there must be people struggling with this, but who are not talking to me about it. How can I help them? Where do I begin?" Sam has heard lots of statements like this over his 16 years at Covenant Eyes. Covenant Eyes is a ministry that provides accountability software and lots of education to help people stop using pornography for good, or never to start. Sam has lead conferences in ballrooms filled with parents who were willing to discuss this topic, and who were ready to learn how pornography makes such a terribly destructive impact on their kids lives, and on their own as well. Yet some say this topic is too taboo to talk about in their church, and that the church didn't help them very much. Many people who have been through recovery and life change process say the same thing, the church did not help them very much. That's not the way it should be. The use of pornography, and sexual addiction are such besetting sins in a person's life, and are an enormous struggle even for Christians within the church. We as Christians are the church, and we need to be able to lean into that truth with authority, grace, and love, with a safe place and a safe process to really bring true lasting freedom. You don't have to be a pastor to learn how to help adults, teens or children in your life that are struggling with pornography. You too can learn how to protect people from ever getting trapped into pornography, and how pornography hijacks the brain. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Geoff "Cash" Denief When I think about men loving well, the name Cash Denief comes to mind immediately. Cash's own business is in the lumber industry, but much of his time is spent with his wife, Zan, helping run her premier bed and breakfast business. Some years back, Zan purchased a 100 year old schoolhouse and began to develop her vision by turning it into a bed and breakfast. Cash has worked side by side with his wife to help update and remodel, care for the grounds, and serve the gourmet meals that Zan prepares. I have watched Cash care for his wife lovingly and sacrificially through the years, investing himself in her life and dreams. He follows the guidelines Paul sets forth in Ephesians 5:22-33. He loves his wife the way Christ loves the church, giving himself up for her. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Igor Bandura - Ukrainian Pastor and Michael Johnson,vice president of the Ukrainian Baptist Union Direct from the frontline in Ukraine, Pastor Igor Bandura, vice president of the Ukrainian Baptist Union is joined by Michael Johnson, president of Slavic Gospel Association (SGA, www.sga.org), serving alongside the local pastors risking their lives to deliver crucial humanitarian and spiritual aid on the frontline and he offers a firsthand update on what is happening in the besieged country and among the 100,000 members in the 2000 churches there. Bandura represents a grassroots network of more than 2,000 churches across Ukraine -- local pastors and congregations helping their neighbors day after day as relentless missile attacks continue. Ukrainian pastors have radically adjusted their ministries to meet the physical and spiritual needs of church members and countrymen since Russian forces invaded Ukraine almost a year ago. Bandura reported that he and other pastors have relocated out of danger zones to the best of their ability in order to continue coordinating the work of the churches. They have sent wives and families to other places while they join the nation’s men and boys in holding forth. “We are trying to build international relations and unite all the people who are working to provide humanitarian aid,” he explained. The reality on the ground is that “millions of people left their homes and moved to the west of Ukraine,” he said. And more people are trying to cross the borders with Hungary, Poland, Romania and Slovakia, “and there are 20- to 30-kilometer lines of cars waiting to cross the border and find safety. It takes sometimes two or three days.” Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

This is the fourth episode in a 4-part series: 1) Make Her Feel Loved. 2) Make Her Feel Safe. 3) Make Her Feel Equal and 4) Make Her Feel Desired. Part 4 emphasizes the importance of making your wife feel desired by showing her that you are attracted to her, you are crazy about her, you want her and only her. She alone is the delight of your eye. She needs to have you pursue her. All of these things will make her feel more desired by you. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Men Loving Well with Dr. Jim Slaughter is a podcast dedicated to helping men become better husbands and fathers. Dr. Slaughter is a licensed marriage and family therapist who has been helping couples for over 30 years. In each episode, he shares practical advice and biblical insights that can help men improve their relationships with their wives and children. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

I interview Dale Settles and his wife, Janet Perez Eckles who lost her sight at the age of 30. But she doesn't let her blindness stop her. Janet is dancing, writing books and exploring with her husband, Dale as her eyes. Listen in as Dale and Janet discuss their life together and how Dale loves his wife through being her eyes. HUSBAND BE MY EYES Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

This is the 3rd part of a 4 part series on improving your relationship and romance with your wife. Sometimes husbands can be domineering, but that kills a relationship. It's important for us husbands to understand that our wives are equal to us and that the Bible makes it clear that men and women are equal as persons. We compliment one another. We do for one another what we can't do for ourselves. So there is no room for a husband to feel superior to his wife because she's a woman. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

This is Part 2 of my 4-part series on how to grow and enhance your relationship and romance with your wife. Make Her Feel Safe teaches you how to shut down your anger and put it on the shelf. This enables you to hear and attend to your wife's words, needs which allows your communication to improve and conflicts to be resolved bringing you closer each time this happens. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

This is the first episode in a 4-part series: 1) Make Her Feel Loved. 2) Make Her Feel Safe. 3) Make Her Feel Equal and 4) Make Her Feel Desired. Part 1 emphasizes the importance of not just making your wife believe that you love her, but that she feels loved by you, which is even more important. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Without Hope, people become depressed, despondent, and even suicidal. Here, Dr. Jim Slaughter identifies eight keys to finding hope and keeping it alive. If you are a couple asking "Do you think there's any hope for us? Jim's answer is "of course there's hope for you. There's always hope!" Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Dr. Slaughter shares a brief digest about how to grow in the Christian life including 4 spiritual laws, six great assurances and six ways of growing mature and strong. If you would like to coach with Jim, just reach out to him through his website drjimslaughter.com or call his wellness center at 817-232-1363. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Dr Slaughter highlights 12 dangerous signals that warn of impending burnout. He explores the symptoms of burnout, and offers solutions for preventing it and recovering from it. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Where is the spirit of anticipation, the twinkle of the eye, the electricity of a kiss, the excitement of sex? What about the emotional security that I am #1 in his or her mind? Dr. Slaughter teaches how we can meet each others deep emotional need to feel loved through love languages. If we can learn this, and choose to do it, then the love we share will be exciting and fulfilling beyond anything we've experienced. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Dr. Jim Slaughter chats with the Producer, Director, Actor, Alex Kendrick on his new movie OVERCOMER, his passion for making Godly films and his family. Join us and hear an amazing story about his life and film. Alex Kendrick is an amazing guy. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Jim teaches key methods for shutting down anger, the emotion that can ruin everything. Resource Available now - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN, a dynamic, user friendly workbook that teaches key methods for shutting down anger, the emotion that can ruin everything. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

There is a sense of losing ourselves when we live life. People feel like they need direction. An interview with Dr. Slaughter on iHeartRadio's Living Well Show on coaching men to live their dreams by removing false beliefs and sabotaging behaviors. Finding their true selves and reaching their goals, leading them to true contentment and success. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

How to hear what your wife is really saying to hear the meaning beneath the words to lead to a a healthier more meaningful way to communicate. This kind of conversation heals wounds and helps prevent conflict from arising during conversations. When a couple can communicate this way they create a deeper bond and a lasting relationship. These tools can do the same for any relationship. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

Dr. Joel Wallach, BS, DVM, ND, Dr Joel Wallach on how men can lead their family to be healthy and nutritionally well. Dr. Joel D. Wallach DVM ND, is a biomedical research pioneer, Nobel Prize Nomine in medicine with his research is in the Smithsonian Institute who spent more than 40 years observing and researching the effects of individual nutrients on health. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

How Parents can be good disciples to their children with direct and casual spiritual instruction. Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6) Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter

An issue common to us all from time to time is the problem of conflict in a relationship. Conflict ignored or left unchecked can lead to wounds, even scars, that end friendships, separate families, and destroy marriages. Here are some principles from Dr. Slaughter about how to handle conflict before it handles you. Be sure to like and subscribe to my social media page. https://www.facebook.com/lovingwellshow/ Don't forget to check out Dr. Jim Slaughter's Book - MASTER THE ANGER WITHIN: http://www.dpztechnology.com/store.html#!/Jim-Slaughter/c/128630254 Visit Dr. Jim Slaughter's websites at: https://www.drjimslaughter.com/ https://www.menlovingwell.com/ https://www.lifesolutionscoachingandcounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.jimslaughter