If you're constantly attracted to crazy chicks, if you're always getting burned by bad boys, if you can't enjoy a relationship without drama or get turned on by someone stable, if sex isn't hot without a hot mess, then you might be addicted to chaos.
Dating with baggage--you may have it, or you may be dating someone who has it. Kids, a crazy ex, an ugly divorce, personal issues, all qualify as stuff we bring with us when we date and get into new relationships.
Sex when you're single can be wild and fun if you're adventurous, or it can spell doom and gloom if you're not careful. It all depends on where you're at, what your needs are, and what kind of shape your ego is in.