
Let the Wildflowers Grow
Brigitte M. Becker
Let the Wildflowers Grow: One Mother's Journey through Adoption, Attachment and Borderline Personality Disorder is a beautiful story of mother-daughter love that turns to anguish in the challenges of mental health. It follows the poignant narrative of Brigitte Becker, who along with her husband and son, open their heart and home to a bright, beautiful ten-year-old from Ukraine named Anna, embarking together on a journey of adjusting this cherished young girl to the United States.
As mother and daughter bond in shared adventures, the family grows closer. However, signs of attachment and borderline personality disorders emerge in Anna, thrusting Brigitte, like any mother in this situation, into uncharted territory.
As Anna grapples with the challenge of regulating her emotions amidst the escalating battle with mental illness, nonetheless she is steadfast in her resolve to assert herself as an independent human being. Meanwhile, Brigitte seeks out every medical means of help possible. Driven by a fear of abandonment, Anna faces unstable emotional states that erupt in risky behavior.
In the quiet moments of reflection, as she gazes out at the wildflowers dancing in the breeze, Brigitte’s heart aches with the weight of her responses and decisions. But amidst the sadness, there’s determination, a resolve to let things happen naturally, that they will work out over time. Will they? Do they?
This riveting, reads-like-a-novel memoir, is for you if you are a parent of a child with mental illness and are looking for resources, support, and understanding of the unique challenges for adoptees and their families. Through her candid yet heart-wrenching writing, Brigitte gives you a real-life look into a mother’s path towards happiness and healing—as her daughter looks ahead, striving for independence amidst an uncertain future.
Duration - 9h.
Author - Brigitte M. Becker.
Narrator - Tanya Saari.
Published Date - Tuesday, 07 January 2025.
Copyright - © 2024 Brigitte M. Becker ©.
Location:
United States
Description:
Let the Wildflowers Grow: One Mother's Journey through Adoption, Attachment and Borderline Personality Disorder is a beautiful story of mother-daughter love that turns to anguish in the challenges of mental health. It follows the poignant narrative of Brigitte Becker, who along with her husband and son, open their heart and home to a bright, beautiful ten-year-old from Ukraine named Anna, embarking together on a journey of adjusting this cherished young girl to the United States. As mother and daughter bond in shared adventures, the family grows closer. However, signs of attachment and borderline personality disorders emerge in Anna, thrusting Brigitte, like any mother in this situation, into uncharted territory. As Anna grapples with the challenge of regulating her emotions amidst the escalating battle with mental illness, nonetheless she is steadfast in her resolve to assert herself as an independent human being. Meanwhile, Brigitte seeks out every medical means of help possible. Driven by a fear of abandonment, Anna faces unstable emotional states that erupt in risky behavior. In the quiet moments of reflection, as she gazes out at the wildflowers dancing in the breeze, Brigitte’s heart aches with the weight of her responses and decisions. But amidst the sadness, there’s determination, a resolve to let things happen naturally, that they will work out over time. Will they? Do they? This riveting, reads-like-a-novel memoir, is for you if you are a parent of a child with mental illness and are looking for resources, support, and understanding of the unique challenges for adoptees and their families. Through her candid yet heart-wrenching writing, Brigitte gives you a real-life look into a mother’s path towards happiness and healing—as her daughter looks ahead, striving for independence amidst an uncertain future. Duration - 9h. Author - Brigitte M. Becker. Narrator - Tanya Saari. Published Date - Tuesday, 07 January 2025. Copyright - © 2024 Brigitte M. Becker ©.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
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Introduction
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Part 1 - 2013
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Chapter 1 - Special
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Chapter 2 - Excited
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Chapter 3 - Adventurous
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Chapter 4 - Joyful
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Part 2 - 2014
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Chapter 5 - Magical
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Part 3 - 2015
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Chapter 6 - Empathetic
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Part 4 - 2016
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Chapter 7 - Understanding
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Chapter 8 - Distressed
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Chapter 9 - Concerned
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Part 5 - 2017
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Chapter 10 - Blindsided
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Chapter 11 - Determined
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Chapter 12 - Sorrow
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Chapter 13 - Heartbroken
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Chapter 14 - Tentative
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Chapter 15 - Light
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Chapter 16 - Tired
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Part 6 - 2018
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Chapter 17 - Mindful
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Chapter 18 - Positive
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Chapter 19 - Over the Moon
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Chapter 20 - Understanding
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Part 7 - 2019
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Chapter 21 - Supportive
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Chapter 22 - Unavailable
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Chapter 23 - Still
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Chapter 24 - Discerning
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Chapter 25 - Concerned
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Chapter 26 - Uneasy
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Chapter 27 - Relieved
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Chapter 28 - Rested
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Chapter 29 - Present
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Chapter 30 - Scrambling
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Chapter 31 - Calm
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Chapter 32 - Misled
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Chapter 33 - Split
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Chapter 34 - Dumbfounded
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Chapter 35 - Sympathetic
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Chapter 36 - Stormy
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Chapter 37 - Outsider
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Chapter 38 - Hopeful
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Part 8 - 2020
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Chapter 39 - Stuck
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Chapter 40 - Fleeting
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Chapter 41 - Bewildered
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Chapter 42 - Patient
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Chapter 43 - Inundated
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Chapter 44 - Connected
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Chapter 45 - Resolute
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Chapter 46 - Embarrassed
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Chapter 47 - Dismay
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Chapter 48 - Optimistic
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Chapter 49 - Disoriented
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Chapter 50 - Observing
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Part 9 - 2021
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Chapter 51 - Replaced
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Part 10 - 2022
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Chapter 52 - $%$#@!
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Chapter 53 - Scared
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Chapter 54 - Angry
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Chapter 55 - Defeated
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Chapter 56 - Tense
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Chapter 57 - No Words
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Chapter 58 - Firm
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Part 11 - 2023
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Chapter 59 - Worried
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Chapter 60 - Sad
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Part 12 - 2024
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Chapter 61 - Spirited
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Epilogue
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Acknowledgments
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Recommended Reading
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About the Author
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Thank You for Reading My Book!
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Ending Credits
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