It's Complicated

In this heated episode, we peel back the layers of those dreaded words, "We need to talk," and plunge into the fiery depths of relationship arguments. We're not just talking petty bickering over unwashed dishes; we're discussing the explosive, therapy-inducing showdowns that can leave even the strongest bonds in peril. Join us as we sift through the wisdom of couple therapist Trevor, who shares three game-changing practices to prevent almost every argument before it spirals out of control. From the art of emotional regulation to the power of staying curious, we unpack the tools that could be the difference between a lovers' spat and a full-blown war of words. Whether you're a match-their-energy type or a cool-headed Buddha, we explore the nuances of communication that could save your next date night from disaster. Tune in, take notes, and let's navigate the minefield of confrontation together. Subscribe, share, and add a little strategy to your love language with It's Complicated. Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We dive deep into the quick unraveling of reality TV's golden couple from The Golden Bachelor post-vows and the allure of televised romance. Does the glitz of the small screen tarnish the sanctity of marriage, or are these quickie divorces just a sign of the times? Join us as we explore the expectations versus the stark reality of love in the limelight. Tune in as we question the motives behind seeking love on TV and the impact it has on the already complex world of relationships. Subscribe, share, and don't miss a moment of the drama on this episode of It's Complicated—because when it comes to love, we're all just trying to figure it out IRL. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We tackle the age-old question of timing in relationships—when is it the right moment to pop the question? Join us as we dissect the societal pressures, personal expectations, and the unspoken rules of engagement. From the anticipation of proposal season to the intricacies of who should propose and when, we're unwrapping the layers of commitment, love, and the ticking biological clock. Whether it's navigating financial readiness or deciphering the silent screams of an ultimatum, we delve into the complexities that couples face on the road to matrimony. Subscribe, share, and tune in for a candid discussion on the matrimonial countdown and the search for middle ground in the modern dating landscape. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Dive into the whirlwind of wedding woes, the trials of postpartum life adjustments, and the ongoing quest to navigate the dating world beyond apps. This episode of It's Complicated unpacks the personal journeys of our hosts as they confront the challenges of planning a dream wedding, embracing a new normal after kids, and the relentless pursuit of romance in the wild. Join us as we dissect the pressures of societal expectations, the intimate struggles of life's transitions, and the unpredictable path to finding love. Subscribe, share, and don't miss a beat of this candid exploration into the complex tapestry of relationships and self-discovery. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

This week, we're pulling back the curtain on the chaotic world of reality TV romance with an even deeper dive into Married at First Sight's latest season. Join us as Rob spills the tea on the dramatic dynamics, unexpected twists, and the raw truth behind the on-screen marriages. From love at first sight to divorce at first fight, we're dissecting the emotional rollercoaster these couples endure and the expert matchmaking that sometimes misses the mark. Whether it's a question of readiness, manipulation, or just plain ol' incompatibility, we're unpacking it all. Tune in, as we navigate the murky waters of love, optics, and the quest for that happily ever after on reality TV. Don't forget to hit subscribe, share with your fellow dating aficionados. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In this explosive episode, we're peeling back the layers on celebrity scandals and the aftermath of public infidelity. Join us as we unpack the Ariana Madix saga and ask the tough questions: When is it time to stop vilifying the cheater? How does fame and fortune change the relationship game? Plus, we're stirring the pot with fresh rumors swirling around Kylie Jenner's love life. Could wealth be the ultimate accelerator for life's milestones? Dive in as we explore the complexities of forgiveness, double standards, and the relentless march of celebrity culture. Don't miss a beat of the drama—subscribe, share, and join our village because with us, it's never just black and white—it's Complicated. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Join us as we unravel the tangled web of modern romance in this week's episode of It's Complicated. From Kristin Cavallari's post-divorce adventures, the latest celeb to join Raya, to the rumor mill milling over the truth about Giselle's new relationship, we're dissecting it all. Plus, we're wading into the murky waters of royal rumors and the aftermath of high-profile breakups. Don't miss out on our candid conversation about age gaps, trust issues in the spotlight, and the ever-evolving standards of the dating world. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and join our village of masterdaters because, let's face it, navigating love is complicated! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

In this heart-pounding episode, we're diving headfirst into the bewildering world of mixed signals and sudden cold feet. Ever wonder why Mr. Right turns into Mr. Ghost after a few magical dates? We're dissecting the perplexing phenomenon of men who woo like Romeo then go Houdini. With the help of dating coach Kelsey Wonderlin's enlightening insights, we're peeling back the layers of emotional unavailability and the fear of commitment that can ambush a blossoming romance. Plus, our very own Rob is put in the hot seat—will his male perspective confirm or contest these modern-day dating dilemmas? Fasten your seatbelts, masterdaters, as we navigate the twists and turns of relationships that seem too good to be true. Subscribe, share, and join our village because we're about to get real about the games people play in the name of love. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Wedding bells are ringing and we dive into the world of matrimonial madness as Jen counts down to her big day, sans the anxiety. From invites to bachelor(ette) parties, and the daunting task of balancing the books, we're unpacking the complexities of planning a wedding in the modern age. Plus, Rob takes a trip back into hermit mode as the dating app scene in Austin leaves much to be desired. Will a change in tactics or location reignite the spark? Meanwhile, Lauren shares her Vegas getaway - a whirlwind of spa time, shows, and roulette, proving Sin City still holds allure for the adult crowd. Don't miss this episode where we tackle the cost of 'I do's, the swipe left blues, and adulting in neon lights. Subscribe, rate, and join our village of masterdaters by following us on social media because let's face it, love might be blind, but we've got our eyes wide open. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Buckle up for a royal rollercoaster of theories and speculation! In this episode, we dive headfirst into the swirling mystery surrounding Kate Middleton's sudden disappearance from the public eye. From potential palace affairs to secret pregnancies and health scares, we dissect the cryptic clues and the palace's perplexing attempts at damage control. Is it a case of royal gaslighting, or something far more serious? As we navigate through an episode of The Crown come to life, join us for a gripping discussion that's got everyone asking: Where in the world is Kate Middleton? Subscribe, share, and stay tuned as we unravel the enigma of the duchess' vanishing act. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Two of us think this reunion was the best one yet, we'll let you guess who that is. We dive deep into the drama, the unanswered questions, and the reality TV gold that's left us all wanting more. From Trevor's text message scandal to the fiery debates over who's the villain of the season, we're unpacking it all. Plus, we weigh in on the success stories, the friendships that have blossomed, and the couples that left us scratching our heads. Don't miss our candid take on the connections, the breakups, and the behind-the-scenes dynamics that make this show a complicated web of love and reality. Subscribe, rate, and share as we navigate the blurred lines between love, entertainment, and the quest for genuine connection. Join us, your indispensable guides through the maze of modern love, because let's face it, it's complicated! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Strap in for a whirlwind episode as we dive deep into the turbulent waters of celebrity relationships and reality TV drama! Join us as we dissect the shocking split of Vanderpump Rules' Jax and Brittany. Is it a PR stunt or the end of the road? Plus, we're dishing out our hot takes on the Love is Blind Season 6 reunion – who's still standing, and who's fallen by the wayside? And if that's not enough, we've got the inside scoop on Lala's baby news and a heated debate on whether you should ever walk down the aisle with unresolved issues. Don't miss this juicy episode where we break down the messiness of love under the spotlight and ponder the complexities of relationships both on and off the screen. Subscribe, share, and join our village because, with It's Complicated, you're never dating or relating alone! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Rob jumped on the Love Is Blind bandwagon and now we can have true water cooler talk! Season 6 is over, and we are probably more sad than Jimmy was when he saw that Chelsea did NOT look like Megan Fox…but not as sad as Chelsea was when Jimmy called her “clingy.” We share our thoughts on the show, the couples, and the finale, including why the first 5 minutes of the show had us in shock, who we sided with, and how we knew Amy and Johnny were IT! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Have you heard of the four horsemen? With regard to relationships, it was created by Dr. John and Julie Gottman - founders of the Gottman Institute, and it has been found to be remarkably accurate about predicting divorce. These destructive communication patterns, if they go unchecked, are likely to land a couple in splitsville, back on the apps, and desperately tuning into our show for answers. We get into what those patterns are and how to avoid them by trying out a couples' check in we found from Amanda Goetz' Life’s A Game weekly newsletter. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We all know Rob loves his reality TV, but when he mentioned there was one show that brought him to tears, we knew we had to check it out for ourselves. Without fail, we fell in love with Love on the Spectrum. Listen as we share our perspective on the show, the cast, and which lessons can be learned and applied to anyone trying to find love. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Jen and Lauren's fav Netflix show, Love is Blind, is back and more complicated than ever! Hear our recap of episodes 1-6, including the couples that came out of the pods, the candidates that got canceled, and our controversial predictions! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

It’s the month of LOVE and the It’s Complicated crew shows you what Valentine's Day looks like at all different stages of the dating and relationship game. We update you on what our lives look like right now, including how Jen celebrates V-Day pre-wedding, how Lauren celebrates V-Day post marriage and kids, and how Rob celebrates V-Day while he’s swiping away and following through with his dating challenge for February! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

We've got your Super Bowl 58 recap, including which significant other got more coverage, the repercussions of being in the public eye, how we felt when we watched Taylor Swift get the ICK on live TV, whether we think other people's perception of your partner can influence your feelings, and share our predictions for Taylor and Travis' future. (Taylor, blink twice if you need help.) Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

Happy Valentine's Day! We know which love language we speak, we know the types of red flags to look out for, which dating trends give us the ick and make us want to ghost, but do we know what the types of dating there are? Knowledge about more dating terms might feel like yet another damn thing we need to file away in our bag of tricks, but we think identifying which type of dating you are looking for could be a simple way to find clarity for yourself and a way to identify what the person you are interested in is looking for as well. We found an article that explains the 12 types of dating, including the positives and negatives of each and why only a few of them are what we consider to be the end game. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated

It's the big game. Chiefs versus the Niners. Taylor Swift vs Olivia Culpo. We run the tapes and discuss which significant other will be this year's Super Bowl good luck charm, how romantic relationships may play offensive or defensive against your professional life, and why it's important for your crew to continuing cheering your relationship on. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow Shop our Pod merch - shop here Shop our Amazon store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated