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Welcome to Our Deepest Secrets Revealed podcast with Sarah Findlay. Have you ever had a question for the opposite sex in which you seek to be answered authentically? On this podcast that is exactly what we do! I discuss intimate topics with guests, as they share their point of view about dating, sex and relationships. We are raw and authentic to reveal the essence of how the opposite sex feels about today’s topic we are exploring. If you have a question, please feel free to write to us and ask...it just might inspire our next episode and get answered.

Welcome to Our Deepest Secrets Revealed podcast with Sarah Findlay. Have you ever had a question for the opposite sex in which you seek to be answered authentically? On this podcast that is exactly what we do! I discuss intimate topics with guests, as they share their point of view about dating, sex and relationships. We are raw and authentic to reveal the essence of how the opposite sex feels about today’s topic we are exploring. If you have a question, please feel free to write to us and ask...it just might inspire our next episode and get answered.
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Welcome to Our Deepest Secrets Revealed podcast with Sarah Findlay. Have you ever had a question for the opposite sex in which you seek to be answered authentically? On this podcast that is exactly what we do! I discuss intimate topics with guests, as they share their point of view about dating, sex and relationships. We are raw and authentic to reveal the essence of how the opposite sex feels about today’s topic we are exploring. If you have a question, please feel free to write to us and ask...it just might inspire our next episode and get answered.

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Episodes

You don’t need to experience pain to evolve and grow

8/11/2018
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Today Brandon Bozarth and I talk about the fact we don’t need to experience pain to evolve and grow. Most people wait for tragedy, pain, life-altering or near death experiences, major breakups, basically any pattern of pain or self-sabotage to show up again and again until they break before seeking change. My personal coach actually says most people seek help when they’ve felt enough pain. However, there is another choice. Brandon believes we don’t need to experience this amount of pain in...

Duration:01:04:08

The road less traveled

8/8/2018
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Looking at the road less traveled right now? Not sure if you should take a leap of faith? Are your heart and soul screaming for something yet you feel terrified to follow this? Today I talk about taking a leap of faith and how you muster the courage to jump.

Duration:00:06:47

Tantric Dating & Sex

8/4/2018
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Tired of the conventional dating scene and its cold, rejecting, non-loving atmosphere? Tantric Dating teaches a new mindset and shares exercises to help you bring love and awareness to the dating process. Today I’ve invited Catherine Auman to the show to share her wisdom about tantric dating. Catherine is the author of - Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process. We talk about how to bring love and awareness to dating, chemistry and trusting your gut instincts,...

Duration:00:39:21

Life is like a train

8/1/2018
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A train is something we don’t think twice of…but I believe how a train operates is very reflective of life. As we go along on the train tracks (the journey of life), we pick people up and drop them off (every human we connect with) all the time, just like a train does. I believe we can learn about connection and detachment from thinking about a train and what it symbolizes…time and connection.

Duration:00:05:16

How do I know she is interested? - The Female Perspective

7/28/2018
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I feel like every guy or woman has this conversation with a friend or even family member in regards to someone they are crushing on…Do you think she likes me? So today I talk with Gracie to get the female’s perspective. We talk about the texting stage, first date, dating and general signs. Join us in the fun and have a few laughs. Because dating shouldn’t be taken too seriously…life is about having fun and enjoying the journey!

Duration:00:36:23

How do I know he is interested? - The Male Perspective

7/28/2018
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I feel like every guy or woman has this conversation with a friend or even family member in regards to someone they are crushing on…Do you think he likes me? So today I talk with Dallas to get the male’s perspective. We talk about the texting stage, first date, dating and general signs. Join us in the fun and have a few laughs. Because dating shouldn’t be taken too seriously…life is about having fun and enjoying the journey!

Duration:00:51:02

Some rules are meant to be broken

7/25/2018
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I believe some rules are meant to be broken as some rules in place by society or ourselves control and restrict us from being our authentic self. Rules that keep us in an emotional fear space I believe we should question…obviously there are many rules we do need in society, and I am not talking about these ones. I’m talking about holding yourself back because of fear of judgment.

Duration:00:04:36

Why We Attach To “I Love You”

7/21/2018
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It feels like we can often attach to the phrase “I love you” from a partner…it can mean so much or it can affect your relationship if it isn’t said enough, at the right time etc. This is why I think we often attach to it. When we attached to “I love you” this means we have expectations and this is where the danger can lie. Today I talk with Cheryne Blom about attachment to this phrase, the different types of love as well as different love strategies. Love strategies mean the way you show...

Duration:00:40:34

The magic happens outside of your comfort zone

7/18/2018
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I believe the magic happens outside of your comfort zone and today I want to share my personal experience of this and how you can get out of a routine and use fear to motivate you instead of paralyzing you.

Duration:00:04:43

Are you or your love interest emotionally ready for each other? - The Male & Female Perspective

7/14/2018
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Themes for today’s episode and some quotes I’d like to share with you all: “Love when you’re ready and not when you’re alone” ~ UNKNOWN. “The wrong relationships teach you how to recognize the right one when it arrives”~ Mandy Hale. And finally: “you can’t make someone be ready for what you’re ready for. And you’re not obligated to wait around for them to make up their mind”~ UNKNOWN. Today we are going to talk about: Are you or your love interest emotionally ready for each other? I’ve...

Duration:00:38:26

How you can create heaven on earth

7/7/2018
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“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, not by heaven or hell” said the Buddha. To expand on this further, I wonder if feeling complete self-love is how we experience heaven on earth? So today we are discussing the concept of creating Heaven on Earth for yourself. I’ve invited back to the show, Brandon Bozarth, to explain to us his concept of creating Heaven on Earth. We talk...

Duration:00:47:57

The best way to end a romantic relationship, no matter the stage – The Male Perspective

6/30/2018
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Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with… Today I’ve invited Gene Stark to share his perspective. Over the years we’ve had many conversations about relationships and...

Duration:00:35:07

The best way to end a romantic relationship, no matter the stage – The Female Perspective

6/30/2018
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Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with… For the female’s perspective, I’ve invited a friend, Jenny and we have a lot of fun. We also talk about ghosting and even...

Duration:00:34:11

The War Within - Men Are Suffering In Silence

6/23/2018
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“Men are at war – within themselves. That is what is fueling the division of our families, communities and the world.” This is a quote from the man I’ve invited to the show today, JuVan Langford…an inspirational thought-leader whose mission is to help empower men. Today we talk about The War Within: Men Are Suffering In Silence. In light of Father’s Day in the states last week, this episode has a very powerful message for fathers and men. Listen up. This one is dedicated to all the men...

Duration:00:47:26

Compromising in relationships - The Male Perspective

6/16/2018
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Compromising in a relationship — we’ve all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise? For the male’s perspective, Josh, shares his personal experiences of over-compromising and how it affected his life. After many years married he decided to end his...

Duration:00:33:23

Compromising in relationships - The Female Perspective

6/16/2018
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Compromising in a relationship — we’ve all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise? For the female’s perspective, Liliane Grace, shares her personal experiences. She is an author and in an interesting twist of events, the book she was writing, Wanted:...

Duration:00:39:34

Open Relationships: a couple’s perspective - The Husband

4/7/2018
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Today’s episode we get a real insight into what it’s like to be in an open relationship. Tony is very authentic as he opens up about his open relationship with his wife, Scarlett. They have been together for 17 years, married for 12 years and have a pre-teen daughter and he says they are very happily married. We talk about how they opened their marriage up, the ups and downs, advice for anyone wanting to open up their relationship, the rules, religion as well as other social pressures,...

Duration:01:41:33

Deep down inside, do you really want to be monogamist? - The Male perspective

3/24/2018
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It feels like many people are now questioning monogamy – I know I definitely am. It feels like most relationships are coming to an end because someone has had either one or multiple infidelities. So the question is - Deep down inside, do we really want to be monogamist? Or is this an old belief and way of life that no longer serves society and humanity? To share the male’s perspective today I have invited back Roman Wyden, host of the podcast You. Love. Life. You can lis [...]

Duration:00:44:00

Deep down inside, do you really want to be monogamist? - The Female perspective

3/24/2018
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It feels like many people are now questioning monogamy – I know I definitely am. It feels like most relationships are coming to an end because someone has had either one or multiple infidelities. So the question is - Deep down inside, do we really want to be monogamist? Or is this an old belief and way of life that no longer serves society and humanity? To share the female’s perspective my friend Sal joins me.

Duration:00:40:07

Why do women find it so hard to orgasm?

3/17/2018
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Many women find it hard to orgasm, so this week I have my coach, Cheryne Blom, on the show to discuss why women are finding it so difficult and what we can do about it. How can a man assist “in the moment” to make sure she isn’t in her head and is present in the moment? Can he even help her? What can women do to be present so they can experience an incredible orgasm? Cheryne is the Founder of Be You Be True. She is a self-empowerment coach, author and speaker. To connect with Cheryne...

Duration:00:30:20