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Welcome to Our Deepest Secrets Revealed podcast with Sarah Findlay. Have you ever had a question for the opposite sex in which you seek to be answered authentically? On this podcast that is exactly what we do! I discuss intimate topics with guests, as they share their point of view about dating, sex and relationships. We are raw and authentic to reveal the essence of how the opposite sex feels about today’s topic we are exploring. If you have a question, please feel free to write to us and ask...it just might inspire our next episode and get answered.

Welcome to Our Deepest Secrets Revealed podcast with Sarah Findlay. Have you ever had a question for the opposite sex in which you seek to be answered authentically? On this podcast that is exactly what we do! I discuss intimate topics with guests, as they share their point of view about dating, sex and relationships. We are raw and authentic to reveal the essence of how the opposite sex feels about today’s topic we are exploring. If you have a question, please feel free to write to us and ask...it just might inspire our next episode and get answered.
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Welcome to Our Deepest Secrets Revealed podcast with Sarah Findlay. Have you ever had a question for the opposite sex in which you seek to be answered authentically? On this podcast that is exactly what we do! I discuss intimate topics with guests, as they share their point of view about dating, sex and relationships. We are raw and authentic to reveal the essence of how the opposite sex feels about today’s topic we are exploring. If you have a question, please feel free to write to us and ask...it just might inspire our next episode and get answered.

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Episodes

The magic happens outside of your comfort zone

7/18/2018
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I believe the magic happens outside of your comfort zone and today I want to share my personal experience of this and how you can get out of a routine and use fear to motivate you instead of paralyzing you.

Duration:00:04:43

Are you or your love interest emotionally ready for each other? - The Male & Female Perspective

7/14/2018
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Themes for today’s episode and some quotes I’d like to share with you all: “Love when you’re ready and not when you’re alone” ~ UNKNOWN. “The wrong relationships teach you how to recognize the right one when it arrives”~ Mandy Hale. And finally: “you can’t make someone be ready for what you’re ready for. And you’re not obligated to wait around for them to make up their mind”~ UNKNOWN. Today we are going to talk about: Are you or your love interest emotionally ready for each other? I’ve...

Duration:00:38:26

How you can create heaven on earth

7/7/2018
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“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, not by heaven or hell” said the Buddha. To expand on this further, I wonder if feeling complete self-love is how we experience heaven on earth? So today we are discussing the concept of creating Heaven on Earth for yourself. I’ve invited back to the show, Brandon Bozarth, to explain to us his concept of creating Heaven on Earth. We talk...

Duration:00:47:57

The best way to end a romantic relationship, no matter the stage – The Male Perspective

6/30/2018
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Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with… Today I’ve invited Gene Stark to share his perspective. Over the years we’ve had many conversations about relationships and...

Duration:00:35:07

The best way to end a romantic relationship, no matter the stage – The Female Perspective

6/30/2018
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Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with… For the female’s perspective, I’ve invited a friend, Jenny and we have a lot of fun. We also talk about ghosting and even...

Duration:00:34:11

The War Within - Men Are Suffering In Silence

6/23/2018
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“Men are at war – within themselves. That is what is fueling the division of our families, communities and the world.” This is a quote from the man I’ve invited to the show today, JuVan Langford…an inspirational thought-leader whose mission is to help empower men. Today we talk about The War Within: Men Are Suffering In Silence. In light of Father’s Day in the states last week, this episode has a very powerful message for fathers and men. Listen up. This one is dedicated to all the men...

Duration:00:47:26

Compromising in relationships - The Male Perspective

6/16/2018
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Compromising in a relationship — we’ve all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise? For the male’s perspective, Josh, shares his personal experiences of over-compromising and how it affected his life. After many years married he decided to end his...

Duration:00:33:23

Compromising in relationships - The Female Perspective

6/16/2018
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Compromising in a relationship — we’ve all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise? For the female’s perspective, Liliane Grace, shares her personal experiences. She is an author and in an interesting twist of events, the book she was writing, Wanted:...

Duration:00:39:34

It’s time to play big & share your gifts with the world

6/9/2018
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Recently I watched a very inspirational video called “It’s Time To Wake Up”. Every moment in life we have a choice to live by design or default. We can create our own reality as life is about choices. Every single day. So today we are discussing why it is time to play big and share your gifts with the world and how you do this. I’ve invited the man behind the video, Brandon Bozarth. We discuss discovering your purpose, personal superpowers, why people keep themselves small and how to...

Duration:01:02:54

Don’t Panic! Dating in your 20’s versus your 30’s - The Male Perspective

6/4/2018
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I have a very real and raw conversation with a friend about dating in your 20’s compared to your 30’s. We offer some advice for people in their 20’s…having lived it and now being in our 30’s. Plus we talk about what it is like dating in your 30’s…if you’re newly single…it is not as scary as you think!

Duration:00:26:12

Don’t Panic! Dating in your 20’s versus your 30’s - The Female Perspective

6/2/2018
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I have a very real and raw conversation with a friend about dating in your 20’s compared to your 30’s. We offer some advice for people in their 20’s…having lived it and now being in our 30’s. Plus we talk about what it is like dating in your 30’s…if you’re newly single…it is not as scary as you think!

Duration:00:30:01

How to create genuine connections when dating

5/26/2018
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People are craving connection…especially whilst dating, yet most are not experiencing genuine interactions on the dating scene. I’ve often wondered why humans as a whole generally really want to be in a relationship. Today we discuss this with my coach, Cheryne Blom. In relationships, we can feel connected or we can feel attached to another, we discuss what is the difference between connection and attachment? To me, it feels like people want to be treated with respect…naturally, yet they...

Duration:00:57:19

Dating lessons from Aussies: Booty Calls vs Friends With Benefits

5/19/2018
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The more time I spend in the United States, the more I am realizing Americans don’t fully understand the concept of Friends With Benefits when it comes to dating…Aussie style! Therefore it appears that Aussies can teach Americans and possibly other cultures a thing or two when it comes to dating as Friends With Benefits is a huge part of our culture when it comes to dating. Therefore in today’s episode, we will be discussing the Aussie way of dating and the difference between Booty Calls...

Duration:00:28:29

What straight couples can learn from gay couples about relationships

5/12/2018
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I’ve invited my very good friend A.J Mayers to gives us an insight into gay relationships and share his wisdom, as I believe straight couples can learn a thing or two from gay couples. AJ is the author of Final Boarding as well as other books. He also works in film marketing at Lionsgate. We discuss defining and setting boundaries, the different dynamics of relationships, and gender roles.

Duration:00:42:10

Why isn’t sexual compatibility part of the checklist when dating? The Female Perspective

5/5/2018
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I talk about this A LOT in LIFE and I know it is considered taboo to include sexual compatibility as a serious item on the checklist when dating. Today we discuss sexual compatibility and whether it should be considered an important item on the checklist when dating. Barrett Perlman joins me today to share the female perspective. She is a TV and documentary director & producer and is very candid…an episode I’m sure you’ll enjoy. I often hear this comment “Sex gets better over time”? So...

Duration:00:40:40

Why isn’t sexual compatibility part of the checklist when dating? The Male Perspective

5/5/2018
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I talk about this A LOT in LIFE and I know it is considered taboo to include sexual compatibility as a serious item on the checklist when dating. Today we discuss sexual compatibility and whether it should be considered an important item on the checklist when dating. I often hear this comment “Sex gets better over time”? So today we discuss this as well as infidelities, having a list of sexual things you’d like to experience and much more. This episode is dedicated to everyone and may we...

Duration:00:43:12

Love Addiction - how to break out of relationships we are addicted to

4/28/2018
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Addiction comes in many forms and LOVE is one of those forms. Today we talk to my coach, Cheryne Blom, about Love Addiction. We discuss: what is love addiction, why do people get addicted to love, what are the signs, how to cut ties from toxic relationships and enlightened relationships and how you experience them. To connect with Cheryne - http://www.beyoubetrue.com.au

Duration:00:55:55

Men & Anger - how it affects dating and your romantic relationship/s

4/21/2018
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In today’s episode, we discuss anger and how it affects dating and romantic relationships…in particular anger that many men feel. Our guest today, Andy, shares his personal experience with anger and how it has affected all of his romantic relationships his whole life as well as his children. We talk about: how it shows up, what are some of the signs, the effects and how in the end he has learned it results in you being alone. He also shares how he has healed the anger he has felt since a...

Duration:00:44:40

Personal growth steps before your next relationship

4/14/2018
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In today’s episode, we will be discussing Personal Growth Steps Before Your Next Relationship. I recently read an article Jillian Turecki wrote for Mind, Body Green about this and that is what has inspired this episode as I couldn’t agree more. Today she is here to help us understand the important growth steps we need to do before our next relationship so we can enter into a new relationship and give it the best chance it has to not only survive but thrive! Jillian Turecki is a...

Duration:00:43:48

Open Relationships: a couple’s perspective - The Husband

4/7/2018
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Today’s episode we get a real insight into what it’s like to be in an open relationship. Tony is very authentic as he opens up about his open relationship with his wife, Scarlett. They have been together for 17 years, married for 12 years and have a pre-teen daughter and he says they are very happily married. We talk about how they opened their marriage up, the ups and downs, advice for anyone wanting to open up their relationship, the rules, religion as well as other social pressures,...

Duration:01:41:33