Extatica: The Way to an Erotic, Ecstatic Love Life

Relationships

Sex can almost always be better. EXTATICA: The Way to an Erotic, Ecstatic Love Life explores the depths, breadth and heights to which deep intimacy and fulfilled sexuality can take us, and how you can expand YOUR sex life. Learn ways to boost full-body pleasure, sexual communication and sexual-spiritual union.Host Ellen Eatough, “The Soulful Sex Coach” and sexual healer, will inspire you as she examines new possibilities in the world of love, sex, intimacy and sexual-spiritual fulfillment with intriguing top experts. They’ll give you a sense of permission to push your boundaries and explore new realms, as you heal sexual wounds and release the chokehold of cultural repression and inhibition that may have limited your enjoyment of the richly fulfilling sex life you deserve. Plus, you’ll get practical “how to” information and tools to do this. Learn to cultivate the powerful energies of sexuality and an undefended heart so you can fully express your divine nature in all of life.

Location:

Tempe, AZ

Genres:

Relationships

Podcasts

Description:

Sex can almost always be better. EXTATICA: The Way to an Erotic, Ecstatic Love Life explores the depths, breadth and heights to which deep intimacy and fulfilled sexuality can take us, and how you can expand YOUR sex life. Learn ways to boost full-body pleasure, sexual communication and sexual-spiritual union.Host Ellen Eatough, “The Soulful Sex Coach” and sexual healer, will inspire you as she examines new possibilities in the world of love, sex, intimacy and sexual-spiritual fulfillment with intriguing top experts. They’ll give you a sense of permission to push your boundaries and explore new realms, as you heal sexual wounds and release the chokehold of cultural repression and inhibition that may have limited your enjoyment of the richly fulfilling sex life you deserve. Plus, you’ll get practical “how to” information and tools to do this. Learn to cultivate the powerful energies of sexuality and an undefended heart so you can fully express your divine nature in all of life.

Language:

English

Website:

http://www.voiceamerica.com/show/2247/extatica-the-way-to-an-erotic-ecstatic-love-life

Episodes

Rapid Sexual Healing

Are you a bit inhibited in your full, spontaneous sexual expression or your ability to trust and enjoy deep intimacy? If so, this show is for you. Non-sexual events in your past can limit your sex life. Worse, one in four people in the US has experienced sexual trauma in the form of rape (or attempted rape), molestation or incest.brbr We’ll explore sexual wounding, including cultural or religious inhibitions or a split between your sexuality and your spirituality, and ways to heal these wounds to open to deeper intimacy and more fulfilling sex.brbr I’ll address different healing modalities that are particularly helpful, like color, directed eye movement, somatic awareness, regression, breath work, and energetic tools -- and why they tend to work faster than talk therapy. I’ll also guide you through an exercise that can start your healing process. It’s an exercise you can easily do on your own as often as you like.

Duration:00:55:51

4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy

Whether you’re having great sex, ordinary sex or boring sex (or even no sex), it can be better. Everyone has the ability to experience ecstatic lovemaking.brbr Ecstatic sex includes not only sensual and orgasmic bliss, but the soulful connection you undoubtedly long for. On this show, I’ll reveal what the “4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” are and how you can begin to incorporate them into your life.brbr You’ll also find out: The difference between orgasm and ecstasy, and how you can have both; Why sex can actually get better with age, even when hormones are waning; How to have soulful connection with spine-tingling sex; Three ways to enjoy deeper intimacy during lovemaking without having to say a word; The daily 60-second non-sexual practice that increases passion in the bedroom later and helps affair-proof your relationship.

Duration:00:56:25

Good Vibes for Love and Sex: Why Being on the Same Wavelength Matters

What is the “chemistry” we sometimes feel (or don’t feel) with another person? Is it actually vibrational resonance? True love is hard to find, and sometimes it’s hard to maintain once you find it. Being comfortable and in tune with another person is something that we all seek. But why do some couples hit it off right away while others struggle?brbr With Brett Wade, PhD, author of “The Ekahi Method,” we’ll explore how to form stronger relationships by mastering one thing that connects all living and nonliving things - waves. We’ll discover that our measurable base frequencies are actually waves that interact with other people's waves. Sometimes these waves can be amplified or flattened by other people and external sources, such as electrosmog.brbr We’ll discuss how to: tune into your own frequency, set your “base frequency,” respond to external frequencies, and tune into your own frequency, and improve relationships through adjusting your frequency, and sense.

Duration:00:56:07

Your LoveStyle: The Key to a Secure and Passionate Relationship

Making your relationship work isn’t rocket science. It’s neurology! Every infant needs a secure bond with his or her parents. Few of us got what we really needed, however. This formed a set of relationship behaviors, which Carista Luminare and Lion Goodman call your LoveStyle™. Your LoveStyle causes you to repeat troublesome patterns in your adult relationships. But you’re not stuck with those patterns! With awareness and practice, you can re-wire your brain, mind, and heart to have the relationship you want. When you understand the science of early childhood bonding, and your own and your partner’s patterns, you can learn specific practices that will re-secure your love bond, which expands your intimacy and passion. We’ll explore the research my guests have brought together from developmental psychology, neurobiology, and trauma healing into a practical set of solutions you can use to shift your relationship rapidly, so you can get the love and passion you really want – and deserve.

Duration:00:54:52

How Sexual Energy Reveals Your Essence

What would sex be like if we shed all our principles and expectations about it? What if we approached sex with a totally naked mind? In such a void, we're often able to explode the limitations of false identity and unite with our true Self. This true Self is beyond the distinction of masculine and feminine, you and I, or even I and All. Instead of being made love to, now we're made love through. In these moments, what roars between ourselves and our lovers are the deepest, wildest forces of creation. These forces can be summoned and honored, but not controlled. It's by learning to surrender to them that we realize, and actually experience, our divinity. Raphael Cushnir will explore the vital role of sexuality in achieving maximum health and wellness, new perspectives on gender roles and sexual identity, using sexual energy to foster mindfulness and relaxation, and the essential connection between sexual awareness and emotional intelligence.

Duration:00:56:39

The Ecstasy of Surrender

This EXTATICA show is all about “The Way to an Erotic, Ecstatic Love Life.” Ecstasy can permeate your life beyond your intimate relationship and sex life. In fact, living an ecstatic life is one of the most powerful things you can do to attract a partner or stimulate your current partner to fall in love with you all over again.brbr So, how do you do surrender to an ecstatic love life? Judith Orloff MD is releasing her new book, “The Ecstasy of Surrender,” and she’ll address this question on this show. We’ll discuss surrendering to soul mates, the divinity of your body, what stops us from being good lovers, and igniting your sexual power.brbr We’ll also explore: what your full sexual power is and how surrender can enable you to manifest it; how to surrender to the divinity of your body and your sexuality, rather than obsessing over what you don’t think is perfect about it; how to get over the fear of letting go; and the ecstasy of blending sex and spirit.brbr

Duration:00:55:38

Prostate Pleasuring for Men and Couples

You know about the G-Spot, and you know about the prostate. But did you know prostate (or P-spot) exploration can transform a man’s experience of orgasm as much as G-spot stimulation can for a woman? Even if you’re seasoned at prostate play, you may learn something in this no-holds-barred conversation to take your pleasure to a new level.brbr Men, and women who have male partners, this is for you! Prostate pleasuring can enhance pleasure, intimacy, and communication for a couple, as well as help a man deepen his relationship with himself.brbr With Charlie Glickman PhD, author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, we’ll explore what you need to know about this powerful source of sexual fulfillment. We’ll talk about solo and partner explorations of the prostate for pleasure. This includes getting started, masculine identity issues, safety and hygiene, building trust, and of course, the how-to’s and toys you may wish to incorporate into your play.

Duration:00:57:28

Women, Sex and Aging: The Best is Yet to Come

Discover why and how your sex life can get better as you age, whether you’re single or coupled, through a more expansive way of experiencing sex. Explore new dimensions of your sensual and sexual relationship with yourself and your partner, if you have one – realms of pleasure, intimacy, and ecstasy you may not have known existed.brbr Many women find that aging brings an interest in a different expression of their sexuality, often less genitally focused and far more tuned into energy. Did you know older women have a greater capacity to experience the energetics of sex?brbr In this show, we’ll explore:br - Making love with God: What it means and why every woman should do itbr - How we can cultivate erotic energy without a partner, and why it’s important to do sobr - Why women who have male partners may be underestimating them, and how to bring them on board with what you needbr - Heart orgasmsbr - What men love about older women relative to sexbr

Duration:00:58:02

Bringing Ecstasy, Intimacy and Peace into your Love Life

The word “ecstatic” is intimately connected to our topic for this show, and one of three critical realms of life we weave together: Ecstasy, Intimacy and Peace.brbr With Jalaja Bonheim’s vast knowledge of these subjects, we explore questions like:.brbr - What is ecstasy?br - What is intimacy and how does it relate to ecstasy?br - Why shame is the arch-enemy of ecstasy (and how this relates to the story of Adam and Eve)br - Why healing our relationship to desire is a key to the survival of our species and the healing of our planet.brbr The goal is to explore how we can bring both ecstasy and peace into our lives and intimate relationships, including our sex lives, and in this way make a small contribution to the healing of ourselves, our communities, and all of humanity.

Duration:00:56:22

Female Ejaculation and the G Spot

The G-spot is the female prostate. All women have one, as do all men. And female ejaculate is prostatic fluid. Therefore, all women have the ability to ejaculate! Discover how to Let Go and Let it Flow! The perspective of this show is to support female ejaculation as a beautiful expression of a woman’s sexuality, not just one more thing she has to achieve sexually to be fulfilled.brbr Discover why the G-spot is the literal heart of female sexuality. We’ll explore female ejaculation's ancient history, current scientific studies, how to have a G-spot orgasm, and how to get this wonderful feminine fountain™ flowing! Both women and the men who love them will get a lot out of this program.brbr Recognizing that this is a touchy subject for a lot of people, we’ll also address the biggest obstacles to female ejaculation and how to overcome them, including the “3 Yucks:” 1. Why would a woman what to ejaculate? 2. Shame, and 3. Performance, including the porn-star factor.

Duration:00:57:15

Seduction and Erotic Escalation

Discover how you can keep your physical intimacy getting hotter and hotter and hotter, both in a single lovemaking session, as well as throughout your entire relationship.brbr Find out how to fan the flames in the moment, move your partner into grateful erotic surrender and experience the bliss of becoming one in your passion.brbr You’ll delight in step-by-step techniques and erotic communication skills that will make you the best lover ever. Find out the difference between how to make a woman or a man go out of their mind in passion when you know these strategies. You’ll even know how to instantly get him or her to want you immediately, even when they’re not in the mood.brbr If you have a partner, you’ll want to listen to this show with them. It may just provide the breakthrough you need to take your sex life to the next level and beyond!

Duration:00:57:08

Feng Shui for Bedroom Bliss

Are you looking for love? Or perhaps you have a partner but have lost that loving feeling. Are you getting enough passion and enough rejuvenating sleep for your best love life?brbr You may be unwittingly committing feng shui faux-pas that can fizzle out your love life! Not to worry -- in this show with best-selling author and feng shui expert Karen Rauch Carter, you’ll discover the bedroom feng-shui-for-love do’s and don’ts that have proven to make a huge difference in the love department!brbr Karen takes a giant leap beyond traditional feng shui, incorporating Mind, Environment, Body, and Spirit for major shifts in your life. She’ll discuss how to create a bedroom environment that not only supports a rejuvenating night of sleep, but also supports as much passion in real life as it is in your dreams. You’ll learn the feng shui do’s and taboos when it comes to what works in your favor to create the ultimate rejuvenation as well as maximize romance and re-ignite your sex life.

Duration:00:57:30

Expanding Spirituality through Sex and Intimacy

Discover how singles and couples can integrate awakening consciousness into intimate relationship and sexuality. Some of the questions we’ll explore with internationally recognized Awakening Coach, Arjuna Ardagh include:br • How can we step out of the chaotic and often painful drama of personality, and shift our relating from agendas of protecting ourselves and getting what we want to dedicating ourselves to meet in depth?br • How can we serve Love itself, and through conscious practice, serve all beings?br • And how do we bring this into our sexual connection with our partner?brbr We’ll also discover what Ardagh calls “The Architecture of a Woman’s Heart” and the value of going deep with one woman -- where together you become whole, and where freedom and love become the same.

Duration:00:57:31

Transcendent Sex: When Lovemaking Opens the Veil

Are YOU one of the 8 to 12 people out of a 100 who have spontaneously catapulted into alternate realities during lovemaking (without the use of drugs or intentional practices)? Jenny Wade, PhD, developmental psychologist and consciousness researcher will discuss her research of these often spiritually enlightening, sexually healing, and sometimes disturbing experiences and share stories from her in-depth interviews of 91 people whose lives have been changed by them.brbr Dr. Wade, author of “Transcendent Sex,” will also explore sex as a means for accessing whole consciousness. You will hear the stories of people whose lovemaking was so intense, they attained altered states of consciousness which led to transcendence, spiritual revelations, and the healing of psychological wounds. She’ll also give pointers on how to open to transcendent sexual experiences and protect yourself should they happen to you.

Duration:00:57:37

THE HEALING POWER OF CONSCIOUS SEX

Discover how you and your partner can come together for conscious healing through sex. Also learn how to become in tune with your internal flow of energy in order to facilitate healing of emotional and spiritual wounds.brbr We’ll also explore how to stay in touch with your innermost being during sex so as to awaken your spiritual consciousness.brbr Shantam Nityama, Reiki master, chi gong energy worker, tantra and spiritual teacher, explains how the way to opening a woman's heart differs from that of a man and the different methods to facilitate this. And he’ll address these questions: How can you help your partner become comfortable with their nudity? What is the difference between romance and love? Why does a man come to a woman? How does one create conscious love making in committed relationships, in open relationships, in same sex relationships?

Duration:00:54:52

The Surprising Truth About Men and Sex - and Why They Fake It Too

Are men stereotyped regarding their sexuality as much as women have been? How do women’s growing freedoms around sexuality and what they expect from it affect male sex drive and performance? How do ED drugs and testosterone supplements affect love and relationships?brbr Dr. Abraham Morgentaler offers a surprising perspective on the minds and motivations of men: committed, caring, loving and sometimes clumsy individuals doing their best to be great partners in their relationships.brbr In this frank and open discussion, Dr. Morgentaler will make men and women alike question what we think we know about gender, motivation, sexuality, relationships, and, ultimately, the definition of a “man.”brbr

Duration:00:55:53

How ADHD Can Kill Your Love Life, and How to Keep it From Killing Yours

We all know ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) affects children’s learning, and many of us feel it affects us at work. But did you know ADHD (yours or your partner’s) can sabotage your intimate relationship?brbr Dr. John Gray says, “In nearly every couple I have ever counseled the inability to correctly or appropriately regulate attention and focus is one of the root causes of their challenges. Just as ADHD has become an epidemic in children, it is wrecking havoc in our adult lives and relationships giving rise to increasing divorce statistics.”brbr In this show, we’ll explore how ADHD shows up in adults, and how the effects are more far-reaching than the standard symptoms of ADHD, as unexpected as how we operate in the world as women and men, and how these effects can erode the bond between even the most loving partners. We’ll also discuss some solutions that can lead to less stress, better relationships, more energy, and overall increased vitality and happiness.

Duration:00:57:23

Creating Sexual Flow—Body, Mind, Heart & Spirit

Is present day sex research shortchanging most of us by asking the wrong questions? Yes, says Dr. Gina Ogden, sex therapy pioneer, who asserts that there’s much more to great sex than just physical performance.brbr When we help clients create sexual flow, we’re looking beyond intercourse, beyond gender, beyond age. We’re opening up heart-to-heart connection as well as arousal and orgasm. We’re encouraging movement—physical, emotional, mental, spiritual. We’re helping women and men ask new questions, create new rituals for desire, bring both safety and excitement into their lives.brbr In today’s program Dr.Ogden invites us into her ISIS Wheel of Sexual Experience, which offers a template and a practice for creating integration and flow—at any age, straight or gay, with or without a partner.

Duration:00:57:28

Clearing Obstacles to Deeper Intimacy and Better Sex

There are some common obstacles that people encounter on the path to deeper intimacy and ecstatic lovemaking. These obstacles can really set you back. I’ve personally experienced all of them and, most likely, you have too. So, I’m going to be my own guest on this show. And I’m going to discuss these obstacles and some ways to clear or overcome them. Here are the obstacles I’ll address: The Touch Trap, Resistance to Pleasure and Connection, Old Wounds, and The Push-Pull Dynamic.brbr I’d love to hear your experiences with these and other obstacles you've run into, and any solutions you may have discovered. This is also an opportunity for you to ask me your personal questions live on the air.brbr You can call me during the live show at 866-472-5795. If you can’t make the live show, or are outside the U.S., you are welcome to ask me questions or send comments in advance by sending them to radioshow@extatica.com (NOTE: this email address is only for the radio show).

Duration:00:57:13

Expanded Orgasm as a Pathway to Transcendence and More Love

Expanded Orgasm is a fun and very powerful way for you to have far more pleasure, connection, and love in your life and in your relationships. It integrates body, mind, heart, and even the spiritual dimension. This is what Extatica is all about, expanding the ecstatic possibilities for your love life! My guest, Dr. Patti Taylor, the foremost expert on Expanded Orgasm, will share how her research has shown this wonderful experience can be a pathway to transcendence. We’ll also explore how you can bring this ecstatic experience into your life. We’ll discuss what Expanded Orgasm is and why we need to know about it. How do you do it? What do you do if you’re in a couple or single? How does expanded orgasm differ during intercourse vs with manual stimulation What if you’ve been together for a long time and want to spice things up? What takes you from good to great? Is this a natural gift or something you can learn? You won’t want to miss this enlightening and inspiring show!

Duration:00:55:42