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Unbinding men's hearts so that they are free to love well

Unbinding men's hearts so that they are free to love well
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Unbinding men's hearts so that they are free to love well

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Churched but not taught (Ep #49)

5/22/2019
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Chris shares how being churched but not taught resulted in not having the foundation to question abortion. He was 27, it wasn’t convenient, and he just wanted to off the baby problem. In fact, it took him a few minutes to make the decision. Please listen in as Chris talks about what helped him to […] The post Churched but not taught (Ep #49) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:48

Why is there so much anger? (Ep #48)

5/14/2019
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Trevor and Marek discuss why is there so much anger? We start by defining what anger is and what causes us to lash out. Then we shift into practical advice on how to break the cycle and use the times we fall short as opportunities to strengthen our relationships. Heart for Excellence Episode #47 with […] The post Why is there so much anger? (Ep #48) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:22:12

The transition from “Me First” (Ep #47)

5/8/2019
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Trevor and Marek discuss how our guests made the transition from “Me First.” It’s tempting for us men to think that we are the only ones struggling, but we ALL wrestle with the SAME things. In this episode, you will learn about the benefits of transitioning from selfishness and the importance of finding the guys […] The post The transition from “Me First” (Ep #47) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:08

I don’t control squat (Ep #46)

4/30/2019
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Lee shares how his IT project management experiences led him to conclude that “I don’t control squat.” Like for all of us, it’s a constant struggle of wanting to micromanage rather than surrender to God. Please listen on a discussion of how to balance the paradox of giving all the power to the Holy Spirit […] The post I don’t control squat (Ep #46) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:22:21

What have I accomplished? (Ep #45)

4/23/2019
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Lee shares how he deals with the frustrations of the “what have I accomplished?” question. It started with Lee getting kicked out of a Bible college even though he was a Bible club president and rode a bus on purpose just so that he could evangelize. It continues with some of his current efforts like […] The post What have I accomplished? (Ep #45) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:22:01

Still wrestling with giving (Ep #44)

4/16/2019
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Woo shares how even with all the spiritual growth he is still wrestling with giving. Please listen in to hear what keeps Woo from getting discouraged by the fact that he still doesn’t consider himself a cheerful giver. Woo also gives his tips for what helps him whenever he gets tempted not to give. We […] The post Still wrestling with giving (Ep #44) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:22:52

Love of money (Ep #43)

4/12/2019
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Woo knew that his love of money wasn’t a good thing. He tried to justify it to the point of negotiation with God. “If I get this much money, I’m going to give you this much.” All he thought about was his next investment and how to grow wealth. Everything changed when a business bankruptcy […] The post Love of money (Ep #43) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:25

God introduces trials to purify us (Ep # 42)

4/9/2019
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Through drugs, crimes, prison Chris reflects how God introduces trials to purify us. He experienced God’s goodness, and he is on fire. Please tune in to hear how this very drive helped him to work his way up in the construction industry, find his wife Amber and overcome a slip-up. Chris finishes up by sharing […] The post God introduces trials to purify us (Ep # 42) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:22:07

When we don’t have an identity; we’ll take anything (Ep #41)

4/5/2019
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Chris by his life’s example shares how when we don’t have an identity; we’ll take anything. He wanted to be a quarterback so that people could see him as the head. Over time, Chris ended up peddling drugs to be the person who gets you what you need. Drugs fed his identity crisis, and he […] The post When we don’t have an identity; we’ll take anything (Ep #41) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:20:56

I want to stop, but I cannot stop (Ep #40)

4/2/2019
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Chris shares how what led him to do stupid things for acceptance, to the point where he told himself “I want to stop, but I cannot stop.” From growing up as a biracial kid who never quite fit in, to a free-spirited father who didn’t tell him who he was so that he could stand […] The post I want to stop, but I cannot stop (Ep #40) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:32

If you know the voice of self, you’ll know when it’s not God (Ep #39)

3/29/2019
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Sean talks about what got him to realize that “If you know the voice of self, you’ll know when it’s not God.” Even then, one thing is to be sensitive to the voice of God, another is to follow. Sean shares what helps him to encourage people to get out of their comfort zone. Be […] The post If you know the voice of self, you’ll know when it’s not God (Ep #39) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:58

God, shield me from me (Ep #38)

3/26/2019
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Sean shares how he finally got to the point of asking “God, shield me from me.” Since nobody modeled for him what being a good husband or a father looks like, he tried to make it to what he thought it should be. Consequently, Sean outlines the sequence of events that led him to buy his […] The post God, shield me from me (Ep #38) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:03

A person doesn’t backslide overnight (Ep #37)

3/22/2019
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Sean shares by his example of how a person doesn’t backslide overnight. Even though his mother prayed to the point of bloodshed eyes, he never developed a personal relationship with Christ. Sean shares how not having a dad speaking into his life made him wrestle with his identity. It was only in the Navy when […] The post A person doesn’t backslide overnight (Ep #37) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:02

Grief is love with no place to go (Ep #36)

3/19/2019
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Andrew shares how he learned that grief is love with no place to go. Autistic kids have very specialized interests, which may seem odd to people but may turn into great careers. Now that he learned to channel his passions, Andrew is traveling with SkillCorps to Prague. He will bring evidence-based practices to the local […] The post Grief is love with no place to go (Ep #36) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:22:43

Finding the energy to press on (Ep #35)

3/15/2019
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Andrew shares personal lessons learned on finding the energy to press on. Particularly when he lost contact with the person he learned French for and left his job. Andrew decided to continue to try new things not because they are easy, but because they are hard. That’s what gave him the courage to apply for […] The post Finding the energy to press on (Ep #35) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:56

Criticism kills the spirit of our children (Ep #34)

3/12/2019
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Bill, Trevor and Marek talk about who they became as a result of their dads. We come to a conclusion that criticism kills the spirit of our children. What follows is a discussion of what happens when fathers don’t communicate love to their children and how to break the cycle. We wrap up by thanking […] The post Criticism kills the spirit of our children (Ep #34) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:20:39

How to become a better dad? (Ep #33)

3/8/2019
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Bill, Trevor and Marek talk about the relationships they had with their fathers to answer the question “How to become a better dad?” In the process we discover that we all became that which we didn’t like. What follows is a discussion of what helped three men, from three different generations, to break the cycle. […] The post How to become a better dad? (Ep #33) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:37

Why did my daughter get shot? (Ep #32)

3/5/2019
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Bill shares the doubts and emotions he experienced when he asked himself “Why did my daughter get shot?” More specifically, how he dug deeper, past the clichés. Finally, Bill gives an example of how this trial helped him to be there for his brother who is still having a hard time dealing with the death […] The post Why did my daughter get shot? (Ep #32) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:20:37

Forgiving Ourselves (Ep #31)

3/1/2019
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Forgiving ourselves tends to be most difficult. Particularly when the person we wronged is either dead or deeply hurt by our actions. Marek shares the process that helped him forgive himself for not appreciating his mom who passed away years ago. Trevor shares the progress and lessons he learned as he tries to forgive himself […] The post Forgiving Ourselves (Ep #31) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:21:49

Forgiving Others (Ep #30)

2/26/2019
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Forgiving others is difficult because we tend to think that we are right. It’s the other person’s responsibility! In this episode we talk about the difficulty of taking the first step and the temptations of giving others the judgement treatment. Yet, forgiving others is so freeing! We share practical steps that will encourage you to […] The post Forgiving Others (Ep #30) appeared first on Love Proficiency Coaching.

Duration:00:20:49