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Topics: Negative Thoughts, Mother Issues, Caregiving, Suicide, Pleasers, Custody, Siblings, Estrangement, Adult Children, Betrayal, Intimacy Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Chris discusses a heart at dis-ease and our critical nature that causes it. 2. How can I not let my mom hurt my feelings? She is struggling with depression and arthritis. 3. My 4yo daughter’s mother won’t let her see me; how do I get regular access to my daughter? 4. What should I do if my sister stabbed me in the back because she’s talking with my estranged son? 5. My husband of 50yrs had an affair and went through counseling, but I am struggling to love him. Suggested Resources: How We Love Trust Take Your Life Back Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Willingness, Workaholic, Abandonment, Transgender Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses the spectrum of laziness. 2. I called in after my husband abandoned me over 20yrs ago, and you helped me so much. Thank you! 3. My childhood friend is transitioning from male to female; am I compromising my faith if I call my friend by their new name and pronouns? 4. I wanted to call in from Cayman Public Radio and thank you for announcing our station. People are so grateful to have you! Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Take Your Life Back Workbook Life Recovery Prayer Devotional To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Disappointments, Adult Children, Connection, Avoiders, Drug Addiction, Grief, Pornography, Boundaries, Hearing Voices Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses how to manage disappointments. 2. My son is a military prosecutor and very distant and aloof; how do I form a connection if he has been like this since he was 13yo? 3. I struggle with drug addiction and lost a child right after I gave birth; how do I get help? 4. What should I do if I went to Restore, but I have been waiting over 2yrs for my husband to stop using porn? 5. I used meth over 20yrs ago and I still hear voices; what are your thoughts? Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is a Choice Worthy of Her Trust Life Recovery Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Anger, Anxiety, Disclosure, Pornography, Grief, Getting Unstuck, Christian Walk Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Becky discusses anger and how it impacts you. 2. I have struggled with anxiety since childhood; do you have any resources on brain rewiring for anxiety? 3. Every Man’s Battle was awesome! Should I do a full disclosure with my current wife about my porn use in my previous marriage? 4. Our youngest sister lost our mom when she was 12yo and she feels like she was bounced around; how can we help her move forward? 5. Why am I not hearing basic Bible principles on your show about accepting Jesus as Lord and repenting of sins? Suggested Resources: 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Intimate Deception Boundaries Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Communication, Adult Children, Estrangement, Anxiety, Work Issues, Sexual Intimacy, Aging, Depression, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim talks about the magic five to one ratio for interactions. 2. My grandchildren heard awful things that my narcissist daughter said to me, and I haven’t seen them since. 3. How do I handle my anxiety after catching my boss looking at me and listening in on a conversation I was having? 4. What should I do if my wife told me that she doesn’t need sex anymore? We are in our mid-80s. 5. How can I bring peace and wisdom to my mom who is depressed and grieving? An incident happened with my teenage half-sisters that has gone to court. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline PD 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Living Strong, Finishing Well Understanding and Loving Your Child as a Single Parent To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Depression, Counseling, Grief, Military Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Becky discusses the signs, symptoms, and solutions to depression. 2. How can I keep continuity with a psychiatrist through Veterans Affairs when they keep changing doctors? 3. I keep getting knocked down after the death of my parents and my boyfriend leaving me; how do I keep moving forward and not give up? 4. Are headaches a side effect from my depression medication? I quit my job, but my depression got worse. 5. I was discharged from the military because they said I lacked motivation, and I was diagnosed with major depression disorder; do symptoms get worse? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Anger, Breakdown, PTSD, Church Life, Counseling, Separation, Boundaries, Adult Children, Brain Issues, Learned Helplessness Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui warns us not to look for external resources to solve internal issues; don’t blame others before you look inside of yourself to find out what is upsetting you. 2. Is there a pathway back to being a pastor? I stepped down after a mental breakdown and I also struggle with PTSD as a military veteran. 3. I’ve been separated from my husband for 2yrs because he asked me to leave during my cancer treatment; when is it time to take off my wedding ring? 4. How do I set boundaries with my 29yo son who lives on his own but struggles with mental health challenges? 5. How do I help my adult son get the proper assistance he needs for his traumatic brain injury and PTSD? He tried to stop his brother from committing suicide. 6. Do you have any resources for a friend’s 23yo son who has severe ADHD, Asperger’s, PTSD, and is gay? Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well Healing Is a Choice Doing Life with Your Adult Children Heart Handbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Willingness, Boundaries, Dating, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Incarceration, Getting Unstuck, Addictions, Reconciliation Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses hardened hearts vs. humbled hearts, and JJ shares how guarding your heart is different. 2. The hosts discuss dating and the importance of sharing differences before marriage, including political viewpoints. 3. How do I help my 40yo son who keeps going in and out of prison because of drugs? He keeps going back to the wrong group of people. 4. The hosts discuss what is inside of us that could draw us back to the friends that got us into trouble, and the benefits of taking inventory and being responsible for our actions. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Bible Workbook Life Recovery Devotional To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Triggers, PTSD, Divorce, Mother Issues, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Becky defines what triggers are and three tactics to cope with them. I promised myself I'd never get a divorce, but my husband is a veteran with PTSD who is living in Belize and can't handle conflict. As a child, I was The post New Life Live: March 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, In-laws, Alcohol, Incarceration, Boundaries, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Verbal Abuse, Physical Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. JJ discusses planting in the light matters so you can bear more fruit. 2. My son and his family live with us, and my daughter-in-law starts drinking from the moment she gets home until bed; how can I have a better relationship with her? 3. My nephew just got out of prison for drugs and theft, and I asked my family not to let him know where I live. Does that sound like an unchristian thing to ask? 4. How can my daughter have a new start? She has kids and was arrested for meth charges. 5. What should I do if my wife is verbally and physically abusive? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Paradigm Shift, Dating, Divorce, Communication, Christian Walk, Affairs, Counseling Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses the importance of a paradigm shift and the willingness to be wrong. 2. What is your opinion of dating a man who is 18yrs older and just got divorced 5mos ago? 3. How do I get my husband of 33yrs to communicate? 4. My fiance wants God in her life, but how do I get her to read the Bible? 5. What should I do if my husband of 28yrs had an affair? I told him he had to see a counselor, but he quit after two sessions. Suggested Resources: Trust How We Love Take Your Life Back Devotional Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Borderline, Adult Children, Emotional Abuse, Separation, Reconciliation, Aging Parents Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim talks about finishing well; pray to break the strongholds that are entangling you, love God, do the right thing, and repeat every day. 2. How do I have empathy for my adult daughter who was diagnosed as a mild sociopath with Borderline PD and is very mean to me? 3. My husband is verbally and emotionally abusive. How do I reconcile after moving out of the bedroom five weeks ago? I have been told that I am not being Christ-like. 4. I am from Iran, and Dr. Sheri literally changed my life! How do I take care of my 74yo mom who has dementia and headaches daily? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Emotionally Destructive Relationship How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Trust, Fear, Medical Issues, Racism, Depression, Hope, Unhoused, Disability, Parenting, Discipline Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses our self-serving bias to blame others rather than giving others the benefit of the doubt. 2. Is it normal that I don’t fear my potentially serious medical diagnosis? I do hospice nursing. 3. My husband of 42yo is a racist and doesn’t want me to invite my granddaughter’s boyfriend over for Easter because of his race; am I disrespecting my husband if I invite him anyway? 4. I am very depressed and I don’t know what to do anymore. I live in my car because I don’t get enough disability to pay for a place to live. 5. It hurt me when my 8yo adopted son told his friend’s mom that he wanted to go stay with her. What kind of a mom am I? Suggested Resources: Soul of a Hero Boundaries Take Your Life Back How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Betrayal, Suicide, Adult Children, Estrangement, Addictions, Boundaries, Sexual Intimacy Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri shares what we can learn from the hedgehog effect and prickly quills. 2. My 32yo nephew lived with me and attempted suicide in my house; my daughter blames me and has cut off communication; what do I do? 3. How can I deal with old patterns from a spouse who has addictions? We separated for a while and are back together. 4. I am 56yo and my wife and I haven’t been intimate for more than a year because of her medical issues; what can we do to have sexual intimacy? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Intimate Deception How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self-Care, Christian Walk, Alcohol, Father Issues, Sexual Integrity, Adult Children, Divorce, Betrayal, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. JJ talks about why we should invest in training our soul, growing in godliness, and not just physical training. 2. What can I do to help my dad stop drinking? 3. I loved Every Man’s Battle last weekend! I encourage all men to come clean before they are found out. How do I share with my seven sons without them denying their own struggles? 4. I went to Restore, but my husband is in denial and asked me for a divorce; can you help me? 5. Our daughter died 8mos ago from cancer, and my husband is stuck in the anger stage of grieving. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with Sexual Addiction Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Dating, Attachment, Childhood Trauma, Accusations, Fear, Getting Unstuck, Reframe Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses some of the worst relationship advice that he’s ever heard. 2. Did I handle my adult son’s childhood memory the best way? He is having a false memory that I molested him. 3. I went to visit a congressman and found out that security is very tight in Washington DC right now. Can you help me with my fears? 4. I’m 83yo and was injured in a car accident recently; how do I find a way to reframe this because now I am stuck with health issues and no transportation? Suggested Resources: How We Love 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Social Anxiety, Adult Children, Video Games, Childhood Trauma, Self Worth, Codependency, Pornography, Dating, Disclosure Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill warns us that the more we opt out of social activities, the worse social anxiety gets. 2. Any advice on helping our 24yo son launch? He lives at home, won’t keep a job, and only wants to play video games. 3. I am 28yo and in a good marriage, but I feel like I don’t deserve to be in a good marriage because of my childhood trauma. 4. Is it ever okay to withhold porn or lust struggles from a girlfriend? My daughter was dating a boy whose pastor said he should have never told her about his porn struggle. Suggested Resources: Becoming an Adult How You Think Determines the Course of your Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self-Awareness, Adult Children, Anxiety, Same-Sex Attraction, Self-Harm, Counseling, Affairs, Depression, Introverts, Estrangement Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses the importance of self-awareness and other awareness. 2. I want to help my 19yo gay son who has a lot of anxiety and self-harms. What should my next step be? 3. My friend’s wife has issues from childhood, and she doesn’t want to go to counseling. Should my friend go to counseling by himself? 4. My son is being unfaithful to his wife; what should my role be? 5. I am 76yo, struggle with depression, and can’t even talk to people; how do I move forward? 6. I haven’t seen my son since he was 19yo, and his mom says he can make his own choices. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, Dating, Christian Walk, Forgiveness, Grief, Separation, Depression, Caregiving Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim encourages parents to practice the power of being there and let Jesus be the example, When you welcome a child, you welcome Me. 2. It bothers me that the person I had a relationship with 10yrs ago doesn’t like me. 3. I am a 71yo widow who dated a widower until he broke it off because he felt like he was cheating on his late wife. Now after 3mos he wants to come back; what do I do? 4. I am feeling depressed and bitter after my husband committed adultery. We are separated, but he still depends on me because he is now blind. Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Creativity, Divorce, Anxiety, Dating, Grief, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Chris discusses how we are creative beings as God is a creative being. Trauma and addictions steal our ability to make things around us. 2. I am in court for alimony issues from my divorce 12yrs ago; how do I release anxiety from the past? 3. Is God going to bless our future marriage? We’re dating but one of us is not divorced yet. 4. Do you have a broader view of why my godly friend lost his house and passed away without leaving his wife anything? 5. This is the second time my adult son has cut himself off from me; what can I do? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29