The KYLO Show

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback. How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high. Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity. The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust. How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term. Key Takeaways: Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person. Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage. Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds. Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation. Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does. Join the Conversation: Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and talk about the battle to stay connected even when emotions run high. They share personal stories about rebuilding trust in marriage, navigating conflict with respect, and overcoming deception in relationships. If you want to create a culture of love, accountability, and healthy communication, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to stay courageous when building trust in a wounded relationship. Why connection—not control—should be your goal in conflict. Practical ways to manage fear and anger without damaging connection. How to recognize and respond to deception without breaking relationship. Why feedback, accountability, and a listening posture protect healthy connection. Key Takeaways: Connection heals fear: Staying connected in the middle of conflict is more powerful than rushing to fix or control the situation. Courage builds trust: Committing to connection, even when you feel hurt or scared, transforms relationships over time. Self-awareness is key: Recognizing your own fear, anger, or self-justification is critical to building safe, lasting connection. Feedback protects growth: Inviting honest feedback and staying accountable to others helps you stay out of deception and isolation. Join the Conversation: Where have you experienced the power of connection in the middle of conflict? We’d love to hear your story! Share with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

We’re back with part two of The KYLO Show live from our tour stop in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho! While Brittney was still down for the count with the flu (we missed her!), our good friend and Resolute Church pastor Katie Ann Browning returns to co-host alongside Danny. This episode goes deep into the heart of parenting teens without power struggles, shame, or fear. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, powerless, or unsure how to parent in a way that cultivates connection without losing authority—this one’s for you. We also explore how healing our own shame is essential to raising emotionally healthy kids—and how to stay anchored in love, even when your kid says, "You suck." What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why connection—not control—is your superpower in parenting How to handle disrespect and scary behavior without losing your peace Tools for breaking power struggle cycles with your kids Why your own healing journey is crucial to raising whole, healthy children The role of shame, and how it sabotages both parenting and marriage Key Takeaways Fear fuels control. When we’re disconnected from our kids, fear takes over—and controlling them becomes our default. Connection is the goal, not control. Staying relationally connected through conflict is more powerful than punishment. You’re not powerless. You don’t control your child—but you do control access, resources, and your response. Shame blocks love. If you struggle to receive love or extend it, shame is likely at the root. Do the inner work—it’s the best gift you can give your family. Repetition builds character. Inner healing matters, but tools and practice are what carry you through real-life conflict. Practical Parenting Tools Mentioned Use phrases like “I know,” “Probably so,” and “Nice try” to avoid power struggles Establish connection before correction Practice calm, confident boundaries with natural consequences Stay close in the middle of scary choices to build long-term trust Do the inner healing work to break shame cycles before they get passed down Books Referenced Loving Your Kids on Purpose by Danny Silk Imperfect Parenting by Brittney Serpell Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk Unpunishable by Danny Silk The Way of the Dragon Slayer by Danny Silk Stay Connected Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell

We’re taking The KYLO Show on the road! This special episode is the first in our KYLO Show Live tour, recorded in front of a live audience in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. While Brittney was unable to make the first stop due to illness, our incredible friend Katie Ann Browning, pastor of Resolute Church, stepped in to join Danny on stage. This episode is packed with raw and powerful conversations about what it truly means to protect and love your spouse. Danny shares personal stories of learning how to be a protector in his marriage, navigating the pull of self-preservation, and stepping into courage instead of fear. From breaking free from shame cycles to embracing the power of love languages, this episode will challenge and encourage you in your relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Key Takeaways: Love requires courage:Self-preservation destroys connection:Breaking shame cycles is essential:Love languages require intentionality: We love hearing from you! What resonated with you from this episode? How have you seen courage and protection play a role in your marriage? Share your thoughts with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message! Stay Connected: www.LovingonPurpose.com@dannylovingonpurpose@brittneyserpell

Feedback—it’s one of the most powerful tools for personal and relational growth, yet it can also feel uncomfortable, intimidating, and even scary. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney dive deep into the importance of feedback, why it’s essential for building trust, and how both giving and receiving it can transform relationships. They share personal experiences, discuss the fears that often hold people back, and offer practical wisdom on how to cultivate a culture of honest, loving feedback in your life. If you want to grow in self-awareness, strengthen your connections, and create a thriving community, this episode is a must-listen. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Key Takeaways: Mature love invites feedback:Self-justification destroys trust:Courage is required:Your community should be built on truth: Join the Conversation: What’s your biggest challenge when it comes to giving or receiving feedback? Share your thoughts with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected: www.LovingonPurpose.com@dannylovingonpurpose@brittneyserpell

What does it take to keep the flame alive in marriage? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney dive into the key ingredients for maintaining connection, intimacy, and joy in your relationship. They explore the small habits that prevent disconnection from creeping in, the importance of prioritizing your spouse, and how to navigate the inevitable challenges that come with different seasons of marriage. If you want a thriving, passionate, and enduring relationship, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical tools to help you cultivate love that lasts. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Key Takeaways: Small disconnections grow into major issues:Marriage evolves through seasons:Enjoyment is key:Communication is the lifeline: Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear your thoughts! What are your favorite ways to stay connected in marriage? Share your insights with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected: www.LovingonPurpose.com@dannylovingonpurpose@brittneyserpell

Boundaries are one of the most challenging, yet essential, tools in relationships. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney explore the concept of boundaries and how they protect what is valuable in our lives. From setting boundaries with strangers to navigating difficult situations in close relationships, they share practical wisdom and personal stories that illustrate why boundaries are vital for connection, growth, and thriving. If you’ve ever asked, “What do I do with mean people?”—this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Key Takeaways: Boundaries protect what’s valuable:It’s about hope, not punishment:Repentance is crucial:Different relationships, different boundaries: Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share how this episode resonated with you, and let us know your biggest boundary-related questions. Leave a review or connect with us on social media to keep the conversation going. Stay Connected: www.LovingonPurpose.com@dannylovingonpurpose@brittneyserpell

Episode Overview The KYLO Show is back! In this highly anticipated relaunch episode, Danny and Brittney Silk share the story behind their recent break, offering a candid look at the reflections, lessons, and renewed energy that have fueled their return. Together, they dive into what’s next for the show, their commitment to strengthening connections, and how this fresh start aligns with their mission to cultivate thriving families and communities. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The KYLO Show Key Takeaways: Episode Highlights: Resources Mentioned: The KYLO Show TourKeep Your Love On: Connection, Communication, and BoundariesLoving on Purpose YouTube Channel Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode and what you’re most excited about for The KYLO Show. Connect with us on social media or leave a review on your favorite podcast platform to help others discover the show. Stay Connected: Loving on Purpose@dannylovingonpurpose@brittneyserpell

In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into practical ways to handle power struggles with children and discuss the fine line between discipline and punishment. We answer a listener's question about managing expectations and responsibilities in the home, offering insights on empowering kids to make better choices without resorting to control. Later, we tackle the challenges of maintaining healthy connections in the face of family conflicts. Learn how to keep your love on, protect your peace, and foster genuine relationships even when navigating tough family dynamics. Like, Subscribe, and download this podcast to hear more each week on how whole, healthy families are saving the world! This episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO

In this episode of The KYLO Show, we address a listener's concern about guiding her 11-year-old grandson who struggles with expressing empathy and connection. We dive into practical advice on how to instill respect and self-control in children, particularly when dealing with challenging behaviors. Later, we explore the delicate process of sharing personal testimonies, such as overcoming addiction or infidelity, with your children before taking those stories public. Tune in for insightful discussions on fostering healthy communication within your family and the transformative power of sharing your story. Like, Subscribe, and download this podcast to hear more each week on how whole, healthy families are saving the world! This episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO

How do you keep a team connected and engaged, especially when new members bring different experiences and expectations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into the challenges of maintaining a powerful team culture. Drawing on real-life examples and practical insights, we discuss strategies for ensuring every team member feels valued and connected while upholding the core principles that make your team strong. Whether you're leading a team or simply part of one, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you navigate the complexities of team dynamics and keep the momentum going. Like, Subscribe, and download this podcast to hear more each week on how whole, healthy families are saving the world! This episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO

In this episode of The Kylo Show, we delve into the unique challenges of nurturing faith and self-esteem in pre-teens. Learn how to navigate the complexities of raising children in a mixed-belief household, foster genuine connections, and provide the emotional support they need. Join us for practical advice on building empathy, asking the right questions, and creating a loving environment that helps your pre-teens thrive.

Are you truly hearing what's being said in your conversations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney delve into the art of "listening beyond words," teaching you how to tune into the emotions and needs behind the words spoken and ask really great questions to get to the need. Learn how to better understand and connect with others by recognizing the underlying feelings in your interactions. Join us for practical tips on enhancing your communication skills and building deeper, more empathetic relationships. Like, Subscribe, and download this podcast to hear more each week on how whole, healthy families are saving the world! This episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO

Struggling to break through defensive barriers in your relationships? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions on improving communication with defensive partners and navigating emotionally challenging situations. Discover practical strategies for fostering empathy, maintaining boundaries, and creating safe spaces for honest dialogue. Tune in, follow, and subscribe for advice and tools to transform your connections and build a whole, healthy family!

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on navigating church leadership and parenting determined children. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on being a victim or volunteer in your relationships and what is the goal God has in the waiting season. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions and give our top tools for parenting strong-willed children! We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions about church leadership, judgment, and learning why the question, "how are you experiencing me?" is so crucial for healthy relationships. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer your questions and tackle an important topic: how to create a game plan for a confrontation conversation! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we are diving into questions about how to control your freakin' self! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!