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Join friends Fr. Steven Borello and Ashley Pultorak as they share about prayer and journeying together in the spiritual life. This life we're given is such an adventure- come along for the journey!

Join friends Fr. Steven Borello and Ashley Pultorak as they share about prayer and journeying together in the spiritual life. This life we're given is such an adventure- come along for the journey!

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United States

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Join friends Fr. Steven Borello and Ashley Pultorak as they share about prayer and journeying together in the spiritual life. This life we're given is such an adventure- come along for the journey!

Language:

English


Episodes

RRR 041: Detachment as a Lifestyle

5/13/2022
In this episode, Fr. Steve and Ashley continue discussing the Illuminative Stage of the spiritual life, focusing on detachment. We can grow in detachment as a particular lifestyle, which allows us to grow in virtue and freedom, leading to a greater abundance of grace from the Lord. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast and leave us a rating! Thank you so much for listening! God bless.

Duration:00:33:46

RRR 040: Reaching Stability

4/29/2022
In this episode, Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the Illuminative Stage of the spiritual life, focusing on the two main obstacles to growth once one reaches this stage. Continuing with Ralph Martin's The Fulfillment of All Desire, we see how lack of knowledge and lack of desire both hold us back in growing closer to the Lord. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast and leave us a rating! Thank you so much for...

Duration:00:39:45

RRR 039: Temptations and Trials

4/15/2022
Continuing with Ralph Martin's The Fulfillment of All Desire, Fr. Steve and Ashley finish talking about the Purgative Way, ending with the temptations and trials we often all experience. If we don't experience any temptations or trials, it likely means we aren't growing in the spiritual journey! We are always given the grace to respond to whatever is before us, we need only say yes and ask for the grace to grow in Faith. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer...

Duration:00:31:30

RRR 038: The Struggle of Sin and The Remedy of Prayer

4/1/2022
Continuing with Ralph Martin's The Fulfillment of All Desire, Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the struggle of sin we all experience in this spiritual life, specifically looking at the Purgative Way. How does prayer help to remedy this struggle we all experience? Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening! God bless. ***We apologize for the...

Duration:00:38:28

RRR 037: Biblical Worldview- What's the Big Picture?

3/11/2022
Continuing with Ralph Martin's The Fulfillment of All Desire, Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the unique Biblical worldview shared by the saints, and how this outlook on life really changed everything for them. What's the big picture when it comes to our journey in our faith and spiritual life? Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening! God...

Duration:00:32:54

RRR 036: Breaking the Cycle of Sin

2/25/2022
Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss St. Augustine's conversion story, including the two major blocks to growth in the spiritual life he experienced. They also talk about the cycle of sin we often find ourselves trapped in and how to break from that cycle with God's grace. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening! God bless.

Duration:00:42:50

RRR 035: Conversion and Blocks to Spiritual Progress

2/11/2022
In this episode, Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the call to conversion, as well as St. Teresa of Avila's four blocks to spiritual progress as mentioned in Ralph Martin's The Fulfillment of All Desire. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening! God bless.

Duration:00:40:57

RRR 034: Beginning Again- Called to Perfection!

1/28/2022
We're back! After taking a break for the Christmas Season, Fr. Steve and Ashley are back and ready to dive into all things about the spiritual life and prayer. In this episode, we talk about the call to perfection that each of us shares, and how to reorient our hearts towards the Lord and begin again. We are made for greatness, not mediocrity and complacency! Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions or prayer intentions. Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a...

Duration:00:40:59

RRR 033: Drew and Ashley's Vocation Story

12/10/2021
This is the last episode in our series on discernment! Ashley shares her vocation story along with her husband Drew. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions, episode suggestions, prayer intentions- you name it! Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening! God bless.

Duration:00:55:17

RRR 032: Fr. Steve's Vocation Story

12/3/2021
This episode is the second to last episode in our series on discernment. Fr. Steve shares with us his own experience of discernment through his vocation story. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions, episode suggestions, prayer intentions- you name it! Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening! God bless.

Duration:00:40:15

RRR 031: How to Discern your Vocation

11/19/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss how within the Church, two paths are given to respond to the love God has for us. The first is marriage and the second is celibacy. In Marriage, one is called to marry a particular person. In Celibacy, one is called to live it in a particular way. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions, episode suggestions, prayer intentions- you name it! Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much...

Duration:00:32:08

RRR 030: Universal Call to Holiness

11/12/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the Universal Call to Holiness, how this call is our prime and fundamental vocation. This call is rooted in our baptism, and is the foundation of all other callings and vocations from the Lord. Vocation and the call to holiness also flow from relationship; we cannot become holy by ourselves. “Figuring out” our vocation isn’t the end goal, but rather the means by which we come to love and discover God. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with...

Duration:00:29:57

RRR 029: Ignatian Modes of Discernment (Part 2/2)

11/5/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley continue discussing St. Ignatius' Three Modes of Discernment. This second set of rules includes spiritual advice for discernment during times of spiritual consolation. Mode 1- Clarity Beyond Doubt Mode 2- An Attraction of the Heart Mode 3- A Preponderance of Reasons Go to www.wordonfire.org/ignatius to watch Bishop Barron's full-length feature film for free during the 500th anniversary of St. Ignatius' conversion. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with...

Duration:00:31:28

RRR 028: Ignatian Modes of Discernment (Part 1/2)

10/29/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley continue discussing Ignatian prayer, this time talking about St. Ignatius' Three Modes of Discernment. This second set of rules includes spiritual advice for discernment during times of spiritual consolation. In discernment, we are always choosing between two real goods. In order to properly discern, we need to pay attention, have the freedom to do so, test the discernment, and notice its fruits. Go to www.wordonfire.org/ignatius to watch Bishop Barron's full-length...

Duration:00:29:27

RRR 027: St. Ignatius' Fourteen Rules for the Discernment of Spirits

10/22/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley continue discussing Ignatian Prayer, this time going into the 14 Rules for the Discernment of Spirits. There are two main sets of rules Ignatius gives us in his Spiritual Exercises. This first set of 14 rules is meant to give practical advice for times we find ourselves in spiritual desolation. Go to www.wordonfire.org/ignatius to watch Bishop Barron's full-length feature film for free during the 500th anniversary of St. Ignatius' conversion. Email us at...

Duration:00:35:23

RRR 026: Intro to Ignatian Prayer

10/15/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the Ignatian style of prayer, in which God meets our story through an encounter in Scripture. St. Ignatius suggests a simple model of "be aware, understand, act" as a means to help us in our prayer with the Lord. Go to www.wordonfire.org/ignatius to watch Bishop Barron's full-length feature film for free during the 500th anniversary of St. Ignatius' conversion. Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions, episode suggestions, prayer...

Duration:00:36:53

RRR 025: Emotions

10/8/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about emotions, including emotional attunement, emotional regulation, and the six things every child needs from their parents. How are emotions relevant to our prayer life? Does the Church have anything to say on emotions? Take a listen to find out! Resources: Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions, episode suggestions, prayer intentions- you name it! Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you...

Duration:00:35:24

RRR 024: Christian Friendship

10/1/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the different types of friendship, focusing primarily on virtuous Christian friendship. In this type of friendship, we have our eyes set on the same horizon, the same goal: heaven. How do we begin to cultivate holy, Christian friendship? Email us at ashley@rootedinthereallyreal.com with questions, episode suggestions, prayer intentions- you name it! Please also subscribe to our podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend. Thank you so much for listening!...

Duration:00:38:49

RRR 023: Where Do We Go From Here? How to Grow into a Secure Attachment Style

9/17/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley end this series on Attachment Theory by discussing, where do we go from here? How do we move from an experience of an insecure attachment style to a posture of a secure attachment style? Freedom is possible, growth is real. Something that’s central to growth in our journey here from the perspective of the attachment styles is finding the freedom to love and be loved. Satan wants our story to have a certain meaning for us. He wants us to focus on the miserable,...

Duration:00:30:31

RRR 022: The Disorganized Attachment Style

9/10/2021
Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the disorganized attachment style, which is one of the four attachment styles within attachment theory. People who have a disorganized attachment style have a negative view of self and a negative view of others, they have a hard time believing they deserve love and that they’re worthy of love. They also don’t trust others or believe they would be willing or able to give them that love. They are able to find darkness and negativity wherever they go. Because of...

Duration:00:27:08