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Informal talks from DJ McKay about spiritual practice: how to live the teachings of the Buddha right here, right now, in this world we inhabit.

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United States

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Informal talks from DJ McKay about spiritual practice: how to live the teachings of the Buddha right here, right now, in this world we inhabit.

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English

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Episodes
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The Five Centering Tools

3/27/2022
Contains an overview of spiritual practice as I offer it and as I practice it myself. The podcast begins with a description of our fundamental effort in practice to reside in a place of simple being and pure awareness. I then go on to outline the Five Centering Tools we may use in order to free ourselves from the various fictions and illusions we are subject to when we become entangled within conditioned mind. Simple, practical, and easy to remember.

Duration:00:56:19

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To Live in Peace in This Confused and Troubled World

8/6/2021
Is it possible to live in peace in in this terribly confused and troubled world? Yes, it is--though that effort requires, for most people, a radical reorientation. In this podcast I explore that reorientation, and the one simple but difficult way we may save ourselves from suffering as individuals, and also as a species, if we choose. For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:00:47:21

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Is Conditioned Mind a Real Thing?

7/25/2021
In our practice we often talk about conditioned mind (the set of unconscious processes that create and maintain the illusion of a "self" that is separate from Life) in a way that implies it has real agency. We'll say stuff like "conditioned mind wants this" or "conditioned mind is doing that", as if it has actual intelligence, an independent will, and the desire to cause us suffering in a myriad of ways. People sometimes balk at that sort of language, and they ask me if I actually see conditioned mind as a real thing, as a real entity that is living inside our minds. I made this podcast in order to explore that question. The answer, I'll tell you now, is "yes" and "no"--it depends upon the place you're looking from. Check out this podcast for more. For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:05:19

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The Evolutionary Origins of Conditioned Mind (and Thoughts on the Future of Humanity)

7/11/2021
How did it come to be that we, as individuals and as an entire species, have traded our innate capacity for joy, happiness, and connection for the survival system we call "conditioned mind"? What are the origins of the separate self? And what might we learn from our origins about the future of humanity? Check out this podcast for an exploration of these and other related topics. For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:02:59

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Towards a Healthy Relationship with Thinking

7/6/2021
Is thinking useful? At first glance the question seems ridiculous, but if we look into the effects of our habitual ways of thinking on individual human happiness (really detrimental), and on our ability to live in harmony with each other and with the other living beings on our planet (really, really detrimental), the question becomes more and more relevant. Thinking is useful, in the sense of helping us to live happy, healthy, deeply experienced lives--but only if it's coming from a centered place. In this podcast I explore the sorts of thinking that are not helpful, the sorts that are, and how to know the difference. Enjoy! For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:00:43:37

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An Interview with Rich Ray

6/24/2021
An interview with Rich Ray: former monk, yogi extraordinaire, wise being, and all-around great guy. Rich tells us the story of his life before and during his time at the monastery (which I found to be very interesting and helpful), and he talks about the intersection between his yoga practice and Zen awareness practice. Not to be missed! Check out Rich and the good things he's up to: His website: https://www.ashtangaportlandme.com/ On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rich.ray.165 On Instagram: @richrayyoga For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:03:50

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The Enlighted Ego

6/17/2021
About one of the trickiest and most subtle spiritual traps we can fall into. The basic work of our survival system is to create an identity to hide from Life within. It doesn't matter at all what that identity is, so long as we are being an imaginary "self," with all of its prejudices, it's egotistical desires, and it's destructive behaviors. One of the most difficult "selves" to recognize, often, is a "self" that has put on a spiritual outfit and uses spiritual language: an "enlightened ego," in other words. Over the course of this podcast I describe the enlightened ego and various forms it can take, and I outline the difference between a practice centered on ego and a practice that is authentic. Also contains some words about the various Buddhist scandals that have happened over time. Enjoy! For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:00:49:32

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About Wanting, Having, and Bringing Children into this World

6/9/2021
The Buddha taught that suffering is caused by "desire". But what does that mean, exactly? What is the trouble with wanting things? Is there a good and natural way to want? The question arises from a question someone had about bringing children into this world. Over the course of the podcast I discuss the conditioned, suffering-producing sort of desire the Buddha talked about, and also the sort of wanting that is simply a part of being human. Then I apply those ideas to the possibility of having children and the consequences and implications of that choice. Enjoy! For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:03:07

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How to Escape from the Battering Cycle (and Lose Weight at the Same Time!)

5/31/2021
In this episode our friend Janet helps us explore the process tool we call "The Battering Cycle". We begin talking about Janet's work to lose weight (and so if you're someone who would like to lose weight--or would like to do anything healthy and good and difficult--this is the episode for you) and we end talking about how to lose weight. In the middle, however, we discuss the processes within conditioned mind that cause us to do what we don't want to do, and which create and maintain unhappy ideas about ourselves--and the path of unconditional love and acceptance which will carry us to the place where we can make clear and compassionate choices. Enjoy! For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:08:58

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On the Ol' "Not Enough Time" Scam

5/25/2021
About the classic and nearly universal conditioned mind scam that has us believe that "there isn't enough time". Over the course of this podcast I get into the relative nature of time, the difference between linear time and sacred time, and then I get down into the nitty-gritty and talk about to-do lists, overwhelm, distraction and the other various ways we contract our sense of time. And then of course I consider the alternative: how we may experience spaciousness within the ever-unfolding presence of the moment. Enjoy! For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:00:54:21

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Compassionate Self-Discipline, Self-Love, and a Bit About Conscious Relationship

5/18/2021
The title says it all. Enjoy! For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma private Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA Instagram: @theoneopendoor David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:06:28

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Wu Wei: Being Life as It Unfolds

5/13/2021
This podcast is something of a follow-up to the previous one. This time I go deeper into the ways in which we may live as Life Unfolding. The backbone of the podcast is some text from a book by Thomas Merton (the Jesuit monk, mystic, and writer) about Chuang Tsu (the ancient Taoist master). I hope you will find it to be interesting.

Duration:00:40:12

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How to Make Conscious, Centered Decisions

5/11/2021
About the art of making decisions from the place of consciousness and awareness. How to practice letting go of conditioned mind and follow the Guidance of Life moment by moment. For information about the practice David facilitates, about the community, and about the supports for awareness practice that are available, go to: website: www.theoneopendoor.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theoneopendoor Daily Dharma Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailydharma YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_edOCF0OcOdyCqIcFK_IbA David McKay entered a Zen Buddhist monastery at the age of twenty-nine and spent the next eighteen years training there in silence. Over time he became a skilled facilitator and counselor, offering retreats and workshops at the monastery and across the country. David left the monastery in the fall of 2014 to further explore life and spiritual practice back in the world. He currently supports awareness and personal transformation in the form of retreats, workshops, and one-on-one spiritual mentoring.

Duration:01:05:45

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Our Divine Essence

5/5/2021
About the Divine Essence that rests behind all appearances; the truth that this essence is who we each most fundamentally are; and about the profound teaching that emptiness (the Divine Essence) is not different from form, and form is not different from emptiness.

Duration:00:50:29

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What is Spiritual Practice, and My Time at the Monastery

4/27/2021
Containing the abbreviated story of my spiritual life before, during, and after my time at the monastery, plus some thoughts about what spiritual practice is and has been for me.

Duration:01:18:22