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Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Self Development


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United States

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English

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Episodes

MLT Ep 92 Resolving Unresolved Childhood Struggles

2/1/2020
In the first of a few planned episodes, we begin our discussion of unresolved childhood struggles playing themselves out in adult relationships.

Duration:00:36:19

MLT Ep 91 Need for Approval

1/16/2020
The need for approval is an overdeveloped defense mechanism. It's important to lose our attachment to approval from disapproving people. It will never happen.

Duration:00:33:36

MLT Ep 90 Fear of Conflict & Boundaries

1/14/2020
Concluding where we started with MLT 89 - discussing the "arc" of boundaries and where/when/how it all goes wrong especially if you have a fear of conflict. Send your comments, questions etc. and we'll talk MORE about this!

Duration:00:32:14

MLT Ep 89 Resistance and Boundaries

1/12/2020
In this episode we talk about resistance to "the work" whether it's our program, our therapist, our trusted friends. Suddenly we're smarter than everyone else and no one knows what we know. For the boundaries section, we begin here and will conclude on Episode 90 about Fear of Conflict and Boundaries.

Duration:00:27:23

MLT Ep 88 Creating & Maintaining Balance

1/11/2020
In this episode we talk about the importance of creating and maintaining balance in our grief recovery protocol.

Duration:00:35:31

MLT Ep 87 Grief, Gratitude, Inclusion & Victimization

11/30/2019
I released this podcast to the podcast supporters, the Meanies, on Thanksgiving, but it's about grief, gratitude, fairness, unfairness, inclusion and victimization.

Duration:00:40:42

MLTEP86 Talking About Codependence

11/27/2019
Someone sent me email about women who write to men in prison and other signs of codependency large and small. It happens on a curve - and everyone can be guilty of giving too much to too many for too long. The GPYB program is the way out

Duration:00:29:30

MLT Ep 85 More on Boundaries

11/24/2019
In preparation for the release of Power! Boundaries, I invite everyone to send me questions, comments, situations about setting boundaries. No, they are not easy, but they are vital.

Duration:00:34:14

MLTEP 84 Talking About Decisions

11/17/2019
Part of our recovery is making decision all along the way as to who and what we are as a person and as a couple. Before you get back into a relationship, you need to decide what you're going to be and how you're going to decide if this person is for you. It's about "you get what you put up with" and how you arrive at what you put up with.

Duration:00:34:37

MLT Ep 83 Talking About Ambivalance

11/15/2019
I have gotten a lot of email about ambivalence and "is there something wrong when I feel nothing or don't know what I'm feeling?" NO and AMBIVALENCE is part of the package of ALL human relationships. It's more than okay. It's part of the journey.

Duration:00:32:31

MLT Ep 82 Doing the Work and Healing The Pain

11/6/2019
Don't lament having to go through the books again. They are MEANT to be done that way. Trust the process and trust that you are healing and that the healing will heal you and eventually help others.

Duration:00:43:57

MLT Ep 81 Talking About Infidelity!

10/28/2019
As requested by a Meanie, the Infidelity Podcast. What does it mean and how does it seem "okay" in other relationships and how to make it right or not right in yours.

Duration:00:36:52

MLT 80 Talking About Great Expectations and Narcissists

10/28/2019
Great expectations and narcissists - by popular demand!

Duration:00:31:30

MLT 79 Talking About Goals and Planning

10/28/2019
Part of getting back on track is using my own advice and the goal worksheets in the workbook, which I have not really used in years. Guess what? They work!

Duration:00:36:42

MLT Ep 78 Talking About This and That

10/28/2019
Talking about the short hiatus I've been on and how I've been working on things. Please let me know what you want to hear!

Duration:00:32:31

MLT Ep 77 Talking About Boundaries, Codependency, Narcissists

10/9/2019
By special request - from a Meanie - some general topics we talk about a lot....is it GIVING or is it MANIPULATION???? When we are codependent and have little self-esteem, we have to think about this. We're talking about giving, getting involved with "project people" and fixer uppers, boundaries, self-esteem and narcissists.

Duration:00:46:59

MLT Ep 76 Talking About Not Getting Over It

10/5/2019
I've gotten this question since before GPYB was published. What if I can't get over it? What if I never stop crying?

Duration:00:27:31

MLT Ep 74 Talking About "Soft Ghosting" Ghosting & BS Behavior

10/5/2019
This came from a Meanie request to check out the MTV show "Ghosted" and to talk about that. It's just another term for BS behavior is what it is.

Duration:00:32:04

MLT Ep 75 Talking About Stalking and No Contact

9/27/2019
In this episode it's a preview of the stalking material. Stalking is an epidemic and police departments are woefully undertrained in dealing with it. I have gotten emails from listeners around the world telling me about different cases. I think it's important to understand the epidemic that is stalking.

Duration:00:38:51

MLT Ep 73 Boundaries & The Unpopular Stance

8/29/2019
Boundaries keep us safe and tell the world you deserve to be treated this way and not that way. It's very clear that sometmes all about us are losing their heads and blaming it on us.Sometimes we must explain that we're not explaining. Healthy boundaries are respected by healthy people. Unhealthy people challenge and lose their heads over it.

Duration:00:50:24