The second of 34 more Listener Letters on breakups, dating, relationships, self-care, custody, visitation, support, codependency, mental illness, bipolar, depression, violence, PTSD, abusive, abuseDivorce, relationships, breaking up, dating
Today I have made 2 episodes Episodes 34 and 34a. I recorded this one first but put the intro to the episodes on the NEXT ONE. Brilliant! Anyway, we are talking about my exes and their craziness and the other 34 will have more Listener Letters on breakups, dating, relationships, self-care, custody, visitation, support, codependency, mental illness, bipolar, depression, violence, PTSD, abusive, abuse
The importance of recognizing your own codependency, whether it's a little or a lot and the importance (for everyone, codependent or not) of building a life in between relationships. Breakups, divorce, separation, codependency, recovery, building a life
This episode continues the 5-part series of dealing with the personality disordered (or extremely dysfunctional person) and the legal system when it comes to divorce, custody, support, visitation and co-parenting. Boundaries, emails, separation, parenting
Talking about positive self-talk and healthy self-esteem and how it is SO IMPORTANT to focus on this aftera breakup and how to see rejection - not as a testament to your worth but as a difference of opinion and thankfully that keeps you out of another bad relationship.
Episode 19 discusses male stalking victims who turn into murder victims like Travis Alexander and Ryan Poston. How male stalking victims do or do not exhibit fear and what measures one should take if an obsessive ex-girlfriend threatens suicide and stalking behavior. Typical domestic violence information is woefully inadequate where male stalking victims are concerned. Stalking, abuse, domestic violence, travis Alexander, Ryan position, Jodi arias, murder, expert male stalking victim,...
Episode 20 continues to answer listener questions about dating and standards and compatibility. How and when to talk about former relationships, breakups, divorce, separation, abuse, addiction, children, family, friends.
In this episode we are talking about Listener Email when the ONLY reason you give your perplexed friends and family for staying in a bad relationship is "Because I love him/her" and what friends go through trying to get you to extricate yourself from this relationship. When we wear out our friends and family with our yo-yo relationships, we have to give our relationships and reasoning some thought.
In this episode, the MLT podcast is talking about mixed messages - whether the origin is a lie, confusion or words not lining up with other words or actions, it's very difficult to navigate the meaning behind mixed messages. In this episode there is a well-worn strategy called Discount It All and how to get to the point when it's time to do exactly that. Whether in a relationship, during a breakup or dealing with someone who doesn't seem to know his or her own mind, the issue can be...
In this listener email episode, we are answering 2 letters. The first is about co-parenting communication and what is and what is not acceptable after a breakup. The second is about healthy communication IN a relationship to deal with disagreements and how to deal with secondary losses inherent in every breakup.
The 3rd in a 5 part series of Navigating the Legal System with the Personality Disordered and how to deal with these destructive people when you have to coparent with them and how to bring the attention of the judges, lawyers, CPS workers, therapists and teachers to the right place. What to do and what not to do when dealing with divorce, child visitation, child support, with a very difficult person. Divorce, relationships, court, court orders, narcissists, sociopaths
From telling or being told a few fibs to being full-blown "catfished," the world of on-line dating can have a lot of pitfalls if you are not careful or don't know what to look for. In this episode we're talking about being real and sharing who you are and 7 Rules for on-line dating to keep yourself SAFE! We talk dating, video chat, honesty, red flags, listening for nonsense, being gullible and easily taken and how to smarten up in the on-line world. Relationships, dating, standards,...
In this episode we explore the connection between fear of intimacy and healing from destructive relationships. Relationship breakups, self-esteem, fear of intimacy, self-care, healthy relationships, abuse
This episode continues to talk about - is my boyfriend a narcissist? When we're in these relationships, our heads turn to spaghetti and we fail to figure it out. We are so blind-sided and our heads get so twisted by these disordered lunatics, we don't know which way is up any more. It's part of the game. Relationships, breakups, personality-disorders, codependency, divorce, separation, dating, healthy, unhealthy.