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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T
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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

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Episodes

FMQ 183 The secret to making today better than today

8/14/2018
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The secret to making today better than today What!!!!!! Another secret exposed!!! In the last FMQ podcast I shared how to make tomorrow better than today and now we're going to learn how to make today better than today. It will all make sense - trust me :O) So if you have listened to FMQ 182 this will make even more sense and when you put into practice both of these processes you will be ready to rock your world. And if you want it would be great if you could share this and the last podcast...

Duration:00:10:57

FMQ 182 The secret to making tomorrow better than today

8/10/2018
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The secret to making tomorrow better than today Oh how I love to expose those pesky secrets! Why would you want to learn how to make tomorrow better than today and then the next tomorrow better than that? I guess the real answer is why wouldn't you? So................. Have a listen to this 'secret' which isn't and I'll share with you a simple way to get your unconscious mind aligned to making the next day, tomorrow, better than today and while you sleep to boot. Basically no real effort...

Duration:00:11:20

# 105 A sad story we can use for a happy ending

8/7/2018
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A podcast about a sad story we can use for a happy ending When I listen to a clients story it's as if they tell me what's the real problem without knowing. Not the issue they came in through the door with but the one that's causing the one they came in through the door with. They just don't know they know ;O) I've mentioned this story I heard from a man on the radio before in a past FMQ podcast, you know the shorter version of this podcast, and had forgotten I'd spoke about it and I have...

Duration:00:35:16

FMQ 181 Empathy no way - well maybe this way

8/4/2018
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Empathy no way - well maybe this way A five minute quickie podcast I have always said I don't do empathy, I didn't think I did empathy with my clients. If empathy is being able to feel what another persons feeling then why would I need to feel what they're feeling when they have issues such as panic attacks, anxiety, depression and grief and .... well you fill in the blank. My mum, bless her soul, did empathy really well and people left their negative emotions on her shoulders - a heavy...

Duration:00:12:32

FMQ 180 Dooo beee Doooo

8/1/2018
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Dooo beee Doooo - a Fake it 'till you make it podcast Aaaaghhhhhh!!!!!! I'm still hearing people, people who I think should know better, talking and advising 'Fake it until you make it' Whaaaaaat! So I wanted to give you a way, not the only way, of acting As If but not 'acting' - being you AS IF. Why is this important? Well we all know that communication is not just the words that you use, it's not only the tone of those words, it's linked with your physiology. If your not aligned and...

Duration:00:11:50

#104.1 Let's get better with money hypnosis track and more

7/29/2018
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I've created two additional tracks of the process in the podcast - Oooooo!! One is a hypnosis track - sit or lay back and enjoy and the other is the same process but I guide you through it consciously. The great thing about the process is that you can use it to explore your relationship with other things or people just substitute it's name e.g job/persons name/hobbie/side hustle/project/goal where I say money and Bob's your uncle. If you want to access to the FREE tracks go to...

Duration:00:01:52

#104 Let's get better with money - podcast

7/28/2018
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Let's get better with money a longer podcast What is your relationship with money? Whether it's good bad or something in between this will give you something to think about. I've also created two additional tracks of the process give at the end of this podcast - Oooooo!! I thought I was ok with the way I say money and the value of it but Oh was I wrong! I'll tell you that story that had me really thinking and in a bit of a dilemma. It took my son to re-frame my value of money and has had...

Duration:00:39:39

FMQ 179 Let's wallow! a short podcast

7/25/2018
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Let's wallow! a short and quick podcast Do you wallow in your successes? Do you celebrate the great wins in your life? What about the small one - celebrate those - I bet you don't - and why should you? I'll tell you why in the 5 minute quickie podcast that actually is around five minutes. If you have a listen you'll find out how to wallow, not get big headed, and get to your goals and outcomes quickly and easily - It's that 'Cloughie' guarantee again :O) Shine brightly Paul Please...

Duration:00:07:29

FMQ 178 How small is small - a step that is

7/21/2018
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How small is small? - a step that is Having heard a way of describing 'small steps' that is 'baby steps' and it didn't really make sense and I wanted to share my way of knowing you are taking the right steps starting from 'baby steps' and progressing to get bigger and just as easy. It's not about ladders but more like stepping stones and the magic ingredient - it's not magic by the way - as Neville Goddard explained 'The feeling of the wish fulfilled' Let's get simple and make thing happen,...

Duration:00:11:05

#103 The secret of being in the flow state

7/18/2018
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The secret of being in the flow state - podcast We've all been there, where time seems to stop, everything seems easy (even the difficult) and you're simply there, here in the moment. When we're in it we don't even notice we're in it. What's it? The FLOW state! But can we control ourselves to be in it as it seems such an unconscious process - absolutely! :O) By studying what is not the flow state we can learn how to use the 'not' to get into the flow. Let me, in this what was to a 5 minute...

Duration:00:25:41

FMQ 177 How to UN-practice - podcast

7/14/2018
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How to UN-practice - podcast We all know practice makes perfect but it doesn't. If you really think about it nothing is or can be perfect - it, whatever it may be, can always be a little bit better. Practice actually makes permanent and whether you practice something well or badly that's what you will make permanent. When you are doing this unconsciously what happens? we just get better, the good stuff seems to get better and easier and unfortunately the not so good seems to get not so...

Duration:00:17:37

FMQ 176 This is literally life changing - a podcast

7/10/2018
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This is literally life changing! A 5 minute (or longer podcast) I've been thinking about who you are today and who were you yesterday and before that and before that. I've also got a process that I'll explain. What would happen if you did a little review to acknowledge where you were back last week, last month or last - well you fill in the blank. I know you will be surprised that what we have taken for granted or purely not noticed. When you do review both little things and the larger...

Duration:00:17:17

#102.1 Hypnosis letting go of the old you

7/8/2018
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Yep! Here is your hypnosis I promised you in podcast #102 Letting go of the old you. As we constantly evolve with new learnings and understandings it's great to let go of the you that didn't have those capabilities and get to connect to the you that is you right now with them - the learnings and understandings. You can repeat as often as you like and it's downloadable Tell your friends and enjoy Paul

Duration:00:02:36

#102 Letting go of the old you - podcast

7/7/2018
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Letting go of the old you What does this mean? - let me de-hypnotize you - let's get back to the real you and Oh!there's a hypnosis track to support this podcast. CANI constant and never ending improvement but in what direction, come with me and let's dig deeper. I think you will find this podcast a little counter-intuitive which when we specifically think like that we can often find some really interesting 'stuff'. Would you like the old you back? so many clients express that that's what...

Duration:00:19:40

FMQ 175 Thinking the opposite and procrastination

7/4/2018
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Thinking the opposite and procrastination A 5 minute podcast 'ish (well 9 minutes) Let's turn procrastination on it's head. We all, a generalization I know, suffer from procrastination and self sabotage and I'll share what I do to put things off. I'll also show and share something that will change you putting things off. The first thing is not to put of this process else the world will stop ;o) You will need our 'Jenny' journal to explore even better ways to put things off - let's explore...

Duration:00:13:14

FMQ 174 Act like a BLANK (podcast)

6/30/2018
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Act like a BLANK A five minute podcast Here's a little, if not a BiG, bit of encouragement to get your goals, dreams and any outcome. Remember 'fake it until you make it'? and what's implied in that title? well here's a way to be it and make it! This is not about acting and not being yourself but being yourself as you would be when you get there. Maybe you can model - let me explain - not here but in the podcast -silly ;0) Because when you use your physiology you can change the way you...

Duration:00:15:28

#101 It's all about Ooodles! in a podcast

6/27/2018
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It's all about Ooodles! in a podcast Knowing you know more than you know - because you do and when you look back at things you know you will find even more things you didn't know. Doe that make sense? - probably not so to make sense you really do have to listen - it is a podcast you know ;o) Let me make it just a little more clear. When you first learn something, because you don't know you only take in say the first level of information. Then as you listen again you know something about...

Duration:00:18:54

FMQ 173 The what's in the detail

6/23/2018
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The what's in the detail - a five minute podcast Let's get rid of overwhelm Overwhelm of all those details and also overwhelm of the BIG picture We've all heard to saying 'the devil's in the detail' but is it or is it an angel in disguise? Let me share a recent bout of overwhelm and how by mixing the big picture and the details together made a massive difference and divert a would be disaster. I've found an app 'workflowy' that does help in both too. I'll also share a couple of questions...

Duration:00:15:41

FMQ 172 HELP ME - I'm coming out

6/20/2018
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HELP ME - I'm coming out A five minute quickie podcast Let's 'come out' & 'Man UP!' 'Woman UP!' What's that mean? Let me share with you an example of someone who Came Out in a courageous way to encourage others to get help by telling of his personal mental health battles - (and you know I hate with a vengeance that term) The guy's name, Danny Rose a young footballer who I admire for his football skills and now more than ever for what he did and said. I'll also take a little metaphor that...

Duration:00:16:34

#100 What you've learnt is out of date - Really!

6/16/2018
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What you've learnt is out of date - Really! A podcast of the longer variety ish Just because you learnt something a little while ago or even a long time ago is it out of date? I've heard by a couple of people of late and people I think that should know better - say that it is. Evolution of the human brain has taken a little while not just over the last few years. Hmmmmm. Yep I think they should know better. This is not to say we shouldn't strive to improve what we know but don't throw...

Duration:00:24:28