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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T
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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

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Episodes

FMQ 205 Is selfless service real?

12/7/2018
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Is selfless service real? Is this something you can really do with no expectation of return? I wonder? Come down this rabbit hole and my struggle with Selfless Service - you will won't you So what is it supposed to be? A service which is performed without any expectation of result or award for performing it Hmmmmmmm............................. This got me thinking of a couple of stories I'll share with you Is it really wrong if you give selfless service because it feels really good...

Duration:00:16:03

FMQ 204_1 Your hypnosis track for connecting to the real you

12/5/2018
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Following on from FMQ 204 I want the old me - sound familiar as I promised here is the hypnosis track to let go of the old you and re-connect to the REAL you. I hope you enjoy and use it many times. With my compliments Paul Personal development [Unplugged] [podcast][NLP][Hypnosis][self development]self improvement][awareness]

Duration:00:02:32

FMQ 204 I want the old me - sound familiar

12/4/2018
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I want the old me - sound familiar Would you let me share a another personal story? My personal story of wanting to find and be the 'Old Paul' again. I think it will resonate with you and maybe you will see the similarities. You see you don't really want the old you back again but what you do need is to be the REAL you. It was difficult for me to get this but when I did WOW! I don't want to spoil it by giving to much here but since recording this I have also recorded a hypnosis track to...

Duration:00:10:27

#117 Let's park our goals

11/30/2018
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Let's park our goals I overheard some people talking about how settings goals was NOT the thing to do, in fact if you set a goal then you should set in on the shelf and forget about it. Oh how I love people making statements that seem brand new and confirm their latest theory advocating and promoting systems (and by coincidence their latest book). They even gave an example to prove their case which seemed so wrong it should have been left on the shelf instead. Which is all ok if you're...

Duration:00:43:05

FMQ 203 It doesn't have to be this way

11/27/2018
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It doesn't have to be this way Sometimes things happen to make us feel down or negative - S**t happens. It can effect you and I in different ways because................ You are unique and if you, like me, sometimes think "I'm the only person feeling this way". You walk around see all those people who seem to be enjoying themselves and think this is so unfair - yet you wouldn't wish this feeling on them but it feels isolating, alone. Does it have to be this way - it seems that way and even...

Duration:00:08:31

FMQ 202 The BS of vulnerability - podcast

11/23/2018
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The BS of vulnerability - podcast "Exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed" or "Someone who is weak and without protection" If vulnerability is the 'thing' to be and strive for the above definitions doesn't bode well unless we go for the 'FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT' and you know how I hate with a vengeance that way to get what you want. Why? Because the words in the statement FFAAKKEE IITT!!!!!!!! If some people, and there are, who suggest this, that probably suggest doing...

Duration:00:10:52

#116 Can I ask you a question?

11/20/2018
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Can I ask you a question? Everything seems to start with a question - Especially the questions that make things worse when trying to make things better. Confused?? We have a brilliant, wonderful skill of not only asking those questions but answering them in outstanding 4k colour and 5:2 surround sound and with all the negative and painful feelings. Oh yes we're really good at that. But it's a brilliant skill - if we used it wisely. Let me explain - well you will have to listen for the...

Duration:00:22:53

FMQ 201.1 Your sleep hypnosis track

11/17/2018
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Here's your Hypnosis track Sleep Deeply Following FMQ 200 Come Sleep with me I promised I would share my personal hypnosis track with you. I d suggest you listen to the podcast first then use this track as many times as you wish. Get it here :O)

Duration:00:03:31

FMQ 201 Sleep with me and hypnosis

11/16/2018
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Sleep with me and hypnosis A 5 minute quickie podcast and gift Sleep is so important so we can enjoy being awake. And we've, well I know I have, have experienced not being able to sleep or waking up wide awake and it's still night time. There's probably a great positive intention from you best friend that's creating this too but it's just not working because when you're awake at night you can't really do anything and when you're awake you're too tired to do anything. Let me explain all,...

Duration:00:12:05

FMQ 200 Here's some bad and some good advice

11/13/2018
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Some bad and some good advice A five minute quickie podcast Oh dear! experienced people saying things that they didn't think through. In a nut shell these people were saying go to a therapist but make sure that therapist has experienced the issue you're experiencing. They didn't mean having experienced working with but to of actually have had the issue. What!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let me explain - Do I need to have experienced what my clients are experiencing? That's what was being advocated by...

Duration:00:11:50

#115 Making all of life richer - A PDU Podcast

11/9/2018
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Making all of life richer A PDU Podcast We, I, cover so much in this podcast from the filters we use to experience the world to making different decisions, our value and our beliefs. We all made bad choices and done things we wish we hadn't or we keep on doing the same things that don't make out life good let alone great. We do want great don't we - I know I do. Let me take you through how we filter out things we experience and filter in others and when we understand this it can really...

Duration:00:32:10

FMQ 199 It's a gift unseen

11/6/2018
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It's a gift unseen - a 5 minute quickie podcast Are you missing it ? This gift? You will need to open up your mind to problems, issues or failures and our unconscious minds' attempt to keep us from harm. Problems, issues or failures all seem to bring with them unwanted negative feelings and we look to get away from these as quickly as possible. Here's the thing - Are you only looking at the packaging or the gift inside? Because inside all of those problems, issues or failures is a gift...

Duration:00:16:24

FMQ 198 Thinking without this is useless

11/2/2018
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Thinking without this is useless The 5 minute podcast Deep thinking, deep diving or simply taking time out to think are all part of personal development and all this is Awesome with a capital A. You really have to don't you? if you want to improve yourself and allow those dreams to come. We generally have a ritual for doing this, I know I do. Maybe it's making the room just right with music and quiet or it can be in a cafe or library. The thing is the space doesn't have to be perfect it...

Duration:00:11:08

#114.1 Here's your- Being with your best friend - HYPNOSIS

10/31/2018
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Here's your- Being with your best friend - HYPNOSIS Yep I promised another hypnosis track and here's one I produced for myself with the thought of putting it on sale but I wanted to share it because I feel it will make such a difference to you. That's if you wish to accept this gift Please enjoy from the heart Paul

Duration:00:04:09

#114 Another Ah Ha moment and I was listening

10/30/2018
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Another Ah Ha moment and I was listening If you have listened to FMQ 197 you will remember my struggle to listen and connect to my unconscious mind. Now I want share with you something that took this to another level - maybe when you listen to this personal experience you too may learn more about your connection to your best friend and listen more carefully. It all started when I got really motivated to get fitter and healthier and up my game in the gym. Then a series of things happened...

Duration:00:17:40

FMQ 197 How do you listen - to yourself?

10/26/2018
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How do you listen - to yourself? Why is it the obvious, the hiding in plain sight can be invisible? That's what I have just found out about myself, a personal share as it were. I looked back to how long I've been journaling and it has been over some 20 years and a recurring question I have noticed when looking back though my journals is around my struggle with listening to my best friend - my unconscious mind and then something happened and it became so much more clearer. It's this...

Duration:00:09:10

FMQ 196 The secret of making the right decision

10/23/2018
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The secret of making the right decision - an FMQ This might actually change your life - for the better that is! Neil Strauss, a writer and genuine nice guy, was on a recent YouTube clip I saw and I had to share this and put a little of the PDU Cloughie spin on it. I've taken this and applied it to decision making and I think you will find this will make a real difference and the enhance the results you get. Because it's based on your unconscious life values it means when you base your...

Duration:00:08:11

# 113 Walking through the world -How do you do it

10/19/2018
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Walking through the world -How do you do it A slightly longer Personal Development Unplugged podcast Question: How do you walk in or though your world? Do you dance, stumble, skip, run, fall or dawdle??? I know it's a metaphor but let's explore together. Do you actually notice? Because normally we don't and it just happens and we miss it and there is so much to learn from it and the purpose for each way. All we have to do is notice and ask some questions so we really get to learn. I...

Duration:00:27:18

FMQ 195 There's no F in talent

10/16/2018
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There's no F in talent A five minute quickie podcast Let's change your life just a little bit more (for the better) -Yep this is the place for encouragement to make positive changes in our, your, personal development. Yes this can be a little scary but the fear is really self imposed or imagined and when you get to go beyond your comfort zone - your familiar zone you'll find life is even more amazing than you can imagine! The thing I've been considering is what is your unique talent?...

Duration:00:12:55

FMQ 194 Sharing a Ah Ha moment - Doh!

10/12/2018
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Sharing a Ah Ha moment - Doh! What are you working on? Confidence? Anxiety? you fill in the blank. I also hear peers say I did NLP on someone or Hypnosis on someone - Nope that's not the way If you're kind enough to listen I'll share with you one of my biggest struggles. I have been having a real struggle lately working on ME, working on my best friend and things just haven't been as clear as I wanted. Then the AhHa! Try working WITH yourself Cloughie!! Where did that come from? I think...

Duration:00:09:19