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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T
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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

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Episodes

#139 Not just doing something different - a personal story

7/19/2019
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Not just doing something different - a personal story I have just been writing in my journal and that lead to sharing a personal story of treading water and now it's time to swim. "If you want what you never had you will have to do what you have never done" Tiffany Dufu The thing is when I considered the thought of just treading water I go to thinking 'what about the things I have achieved?' Let me share with you where my thoughts went with even a little story. To get something...

Duration:00:20:36

FMQ 257 I'm too OLD too YOUNG

7/16/2019
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I'm too OLD too YOUNG Just like we discussed in FMQ 256 another reason, or excuse as we call it out, for not investing in ourselves (yep I'm in here with you) is when we say: I'm too OLD too YOUNG And we seem to say this without thinking. Come with me and listen to my personal experiences and those of my youngest son, Joseph, in which we nearly fell into this trap. Once you do follow me down this rabbit hole you will never believe your age has anything to do with accomplishing...

Duration:00:12:38

FMQ 256 Dig your well and leave a legacy

7/12/2019
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Dig your well and leave a legacy Metaphors are dripping all over the place in this 5 minute quickie podcast The saying of 'Dig the well before you become thirsty' by Harvey Mackay has been used as a foundation of 'good' networking but I wanted to think a little alternatively and see where we can use this saying more widely for our purposes of simply being better (at anything) So is it one well or many wells? and who digs? and what type of well is dug? This all goes to creating a great...

Duration:00:10:25

#138 A personal story - Where do our beliefs come from

7/9/2019
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Where do our beliefs come from A personal story I wanted to share a personal story of some recent work I did with myself and more specifically the beliefs that came up that I wasn't expecting. I'll also share what happened as I worked through them. Come with me and hear this story of experiencing of not so nice feeling and how I communicated with it and my unconscious mind and how they communicated with me. Where do these beliefs come from and when I thought about it I could remember...

Duration:00:18:01

FMQ 255 The one thing that creates everything

7/6/2019
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The one thing that creates everything The next two questions are going to change your life. Another big statement but one that's true. We've talked about creating dreams, wishes and letting go of issues and this is no exception and the reason I keep doing it is for you to find your real voice and make it sing!!!! Everybody and their wife seem to be on social media giving advice as to the best morning routine and the like and I'm not sure of them actually practicing what they preach but I...

Duration:00:06:55

Hypnotic spice hypnosis

7/3/2019
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FMQ 254.1 Here is hypnotic spice hypnosis Yep, here is the hypnosis track to add spice into life. If you haven't listened to the podcast please do as it's good to get a conscious understanding as well as priming your unconscious mind. Please enjoy with my compliments Shine and be well Paul Personal development [self improvement] [self development] [NLP] [Hypnosis]

Duration:00:03:18

FMQ 254 Hypnotic spice

7/2/2019
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Hypnotic spice Hypnosis to spice up your life So what does all this mean? Well, from wasting a little time watching a cookery program I had a mini Ah Ha! moment. Isn't it strange where and what creates them? So inspired I went to the mike and recorded the hypnosis track to have your unconscious mind 'spice' up the things that you do so you get to taste the richness of life. It's best that you listen to this episode before experiencing the hypnosis so both your conscious and unconscious...

Duration:00:31:07

#137 Love and appreciation

6/28/2019
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Love and appreciation A case study that showed we push away what we want the most. Come with me to find how even secondary gain, getting things from an issue or problem, eventually will not get you the rewards you want. And How we need to do the very things we want from others. Confusing? Well all will become clear when you listen to me recall how when working with a lovely client we discovered how even taking drugs had a wonderful positive intention and created a powerful conflict that...

Duration:00:16:59

FMQ 253 Living to your potential

6/25/2019
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Living to your potential A five minute quickie podcast We go all things 'faking it until to you make it' to living your potential. and all in just a few minutes. Can it be done - you bet - and why is all this important. You may have heard my previous podcasts where I rant on about the lie of 'Faking it until you make it' and how if you're not living to your potential then you are - faking it! Thanks to Todd Herman for putting the idea into my brain. From Todd Herman's make seed I make...

Duration:00:08:52

FMQ 252 I wonder

6/21/2019
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I wonder 5 minutes that just may change your life We miss so much in our busy lives and in the busyness we may, I now I do, forget to wonder at the wonder. Yep I know that's a little ambiguous but when you listen it will make so much sense And ................. I wonder what wonders you will notice :) Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback. If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe....

Duration:00:07:03

#136 Make this a habit

6/18/2019
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Make this a habit And as usual it will change your life (for the good if not great) I was reminded of this topic by a recent client and when I get to it you will go Oh! I do but you're probably, if you're like me, in a subtle state of denial. You see from the moment of our conception, well at the very least our first breath, we've chosen everything we do, have done or will do and I'm not saying consciously but unconsciously using the wisdom and experience that we have at that moment....

Duration:00:20:54

FMQ 251 You're unique - really???

6/14/2019
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You're unique - really??? You hear this - that you are UNIQUE- and I guess you dismiss it because well ....... everyone says it but do they mean it or are they just saying it because it sounds nice? In this five minute Quickie podcast (12 minutes 7 seconds actually - just get lost in my words and time flies ) I'll take from the nice bit to something superhuman. I'll show you examples of people like you, like me (please like me) and see how we are unique in that we are all superhuman with...

Duration:00:08:16

FMQ 250 Why do we always expect a no

6/11/2019
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Why do we always expect a no and how do we get over expecting a no because you can Forget that old 'self sabotage' that's just an effect and we can deal with that too! You see we stop ourselves doing stuff - that technical term again - because we think we don't do what we want to do because we expect someone will not accept us, say a no, we'll fail or any other excuse. That's right EXCUSE, you heard me right. We make up these excuses with a wonderful positive intention but only to create...

Duration:00:09:48

#135 Getting help (mental health)

6/7/2019
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Getting help (To Good Mental Health) Oh how I hate the term mental health issues but I guess it's here to stay. It seems all I hear about on podcasts, radio, tv and everywhere else is that more and more people are getting anxious over mental health issues - with anxiety being a major player in those issues ( so a little self propelling). I'm also hearing some terrible advice from well meaning people but nevertheless bad advice. So................ I wanted to share my thoughts, advice and...

Duration:00:26:33

FMQ 249 The art of the language of Love

6/4/2019
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The art of the language of Love A five minute Quickie podcast When you learn the art of the language of love your relationship with your partner/husband/wife/significant other will be enhanced beyond your imagination. Here's the thing - we all understand how we know when we're loved and we think everyone understands this in the same way (like we do) but there's a big BUT WE DON'T Would you like to know how to find out how to communicate your love for someone in a way they get it, know...

Duration:00:10:09

FMQ 248 A gift - Experience being in the moment

5/31/2019
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Experience being in the moment For once a 5 minute 5 minute Quickie Podcast This is pure experiential and not hypnosis because this includes seeing, hearing and feeling (even taste and smell) and literally experiencing being in the now - this very moment - Awesome If you can do this outside (in nature ) all the better but please do not worry if you're not. The great thing is you can use this as many times as you like and the more you get used to it you will create a wonderful habit. And...

Duration:00:05:12

#134 Me feeling a failure - and how I am dealing with it

5/28/2019
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Me feeling a failure - and how I am dealing with it I guess we all feel like a failure at some time or other - don't we?? Or maybe it's only me. I'm sharing something a little personal in the hope that if you feel like I felt or ever do in the future you will have some strategies, processes to deal with it. I'm sure I'll think of other new ways to help in the future and will, as usual share them with you, but right now here's what I got :O) Come with me a dive into a small bit of my...

Duration:00:22:00

FMQ 247 Learning by forgetting

5/24/2019
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Learning by forgetting The 5 minute quickie podcast that actually lasts 18 minutes (sorry I got carried away) You don't know how much you don't know until you really begin to learn more and more and as you will know from FMQ 246 (you have listened to it haven't you?) your learning potential is limitless. Yet one of the problems of learning something new, well in my personal experience, is that I usually start with comparing what I already know to in the new information before I've really...

Duration:00:11:50

FMQ 246 You can never not know more

5/21/2019
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You can never not know more A five minute podcast that lasts 12 There are so many Bs beliefs we tell ourselves to not do things or maybe more importantly learn new things. I'm to old I'm to set in my ways You can't teach an old dog new tricks You get the picture And each one limits our potential because YOU can never not know more - it's a fact that we sometimes try to deny but will always fail. Come with me and in the next 12 minutes we'll discover that your potential is limitless...

Duration:00:08:05

133.1 here's your hypnosis track to passion

5/18/2019
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Here's your hypnosis track to accompany the episode #133 Follow - find your passion I think you will really enjoy this trip down the rabbit hole of passions, your personal vision and calling using the wonder of you mind - your Unconscious mind :O) Shine and be well Paul Personal development [self improvement] [self development] [NLP] [Hypnosis]

Duration:00:02:59