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171: Align Your Body with Aaron Alexander

Every moment is an opportunity to cultivate your mind, body, and movement. That is Aaron Alexander’s tagline for Align Therapy because he believes it would be insane for that not to be the way that you live your life. Aaron is an accomplished manual therapist and movement coach with over thirteen years of professional experience. […]


170: unHidden Conversations with Miriam, Kelsey, and Daniel

Rob takes three of his favorite unHidden Conversations from powerful and energetic Facebook Lives that he did to celebrate his book launch. Sensual embodiment coach Miriam Elyse talks about pleasure and the unconscious ways that we avoid it. Confidence coach Kelsey Abbott explores the concept of abundance and confidence. Kelsey helps people find their awesome. […]


169: unHidden Conversations: 3 unHIDDEN Conversations with Gina, Mary Lou & Tory

Get inspired by three women as they share unHidden Conversations. Coach and speaker Gina Hatzis speaks about her viral video on what it means to be too much woman. She explores how women, too often, are told to be small in this world -pushing down the common narrative that we are not enough. Mary Lou […]


168: Worth It: Your Life, Your Money, Your Terms with Amanda Steinberg

We constantly hear the traditional narrative about money: you grow up, get married, combine your finances, then save for retirement. However, what people fail to say is that it doesn’t always work in a linear fashion. Financial expert, entrepreneur and human rights activist, Amanda Steinberg knows this to be true. That is why she dishes […]


167: The Good Dad Project: The Dad’s Edge with Larry Hagner

Probably 99.99% of us have a little father wound, a little issue with our own a father that's impacted us. Larry Hagner is doing one of the most important pieces of work out there, teaching men to be better men and to become better fathers. Larry is the founder of the Good Dad Project and […]


166: Forgiveness Among The Genders

The world is a form of transition. We live in a time of evolution and a time where things are changing dramatically and in so many different fashions. We've seen a significant change in the last 50 or 60 years. We're seeing all this anger, divisiveness, and mistrust between the genders. How do we get […]


165: Getting To Hell Yes with Alexandra Jamieson and Bob Gower

Getting to Hell Yes will teach you a simple, guided methodology that allows groups to increase empathy and trust. It can be used in sales, when launching a team, or at any point during the project where some refocus is needed. Alexandra Jamieson and Bob Gower believe passionately that the world needs more people who […]


164: Exquisite Consent with the Brotherhood Community

While a lot of men are freaking out about the #MeToo movement, some of us are finding that embracing ever more exquisite levels of consent and attunement with women is the path to everybody getting more of what they want. Robert Schwenkler, Peter Rubin, and Joshua Hathaway from the Brotherhood Community explore the challenges and […]


163: Your Erotic Blueprint with Jaiya Ma

Sexuality changes. It's not something that stays the same our whole lifetime. It is malleable, it moves, and it changes as life experience, hormones, menopause, and having children happens. Sex educator Jaiya Ma was experiencing a downturn on her sex life when she started learning the Erotic Blueprint or the erotic language that shows what […]


161: Physical and Emotional Health First with Lisa Carpenter

People put themselves in stressful positions. We’re overachievers and workaholics, and with all these things that we do we're not even sure why. We so often neglect to take care of ourselves. Lisa Carpenter is an advocate for health fitness and is helping people put their physical and emotional health first. Lisa is the secret […]


159: Stepping Into The Spotlight

I am an excellent man behind the scenes and I'm excellent at make others shine. However, I've had an itch to do this for myself my entire life but have never been able to. I've refused to step fully into the spotlight. In here, I reveal why. Go together in this journey of self-discovery and […]


158: Six Conversations 4.4 – Forget What You Know About Masculine/Feminine Polarity with Eva Clay and Tobin Zovin

What do you feel our current social and political climate around sexual assault is inviting you to do? What is it asking of you? Whether or not you're acknowledging that or taking action on it yet, hear, feel, and know what's percolating in your body and in your consciousness as Eva Clay and Tobin Zovin […]


157: Maintaining Connections with Bryan Reeves

Men and women have different needs and ways of maintaining connection. The former tends to struggle most with it. Delving deeper into that is life and relationship coach Bryan Reeves. Bryan talks about the reasons behind why men can’t seem to get deeper with other men about their feelings and likewise in their relationships. Going […]


156: Women, Rage, And The Sexual Shadow with Eva Clay And Tobin Zivon

For millennia, women have been conditioned to suppress their anger, borne of well-founded consequences such as violence, exile, and even death. Most women carry not only a lifetime of our own rage, but the ancestral traumas of our foremothers. and yet, anger is a natural, healthy part of relating. When we suppress it, anger gets […]


155: Q & A: Relationships, Triggers, And Narcissists

Rob bares it all out as he takes your questions—about love, relationships, and all other concerns—and answers it with honesty and sincerity. Explore the difficulties of developing a crush on another person during marriage; learn how to share your own shadows with your partner; find the generosity to your partner when facing big fundamental triggers […]


154: Sexual Taboo: Tapping Into Your Authentic Self

We all have them—sexual taboos. And usually, they’re our biggest turn-ons. Why is “The Forbidden” so erotic? Taboo rules most religions; it’s launched wars, divorces, and probably some of the best sex you’ve ever had. Acclaimed sexologist, Eva Clay and, spiritual teacher and therapist, Tobin Zivon unravel the allure and share their perspectives on how […]


153: Conflict And Mess with Nastaran Tavakoli-Far

Nas is the host of the highly successful and amazing podcast, The Gender Knot. Our first meeting was when we recorded my guest appearance on the show about men and shame. There are many ways that I can describe my experience of this first meeting and the best way I can describe it is this […]


152: I Brag

What do you do when life is so good that you don't know what to do with it? How does one confront when things are going your way? How do you stay sane when all you've known is stress and pain to motivate you? It's no easy feat. Listen to your own internal voice. Say […]


151: The Bold Life with Adam Gilad

Boldness is the courage to get free and be free. That means internally getting free from your ego and from anything that keeps you smaller. Adam Gilad has excavated boldness in conversation, presentation and lifestyle choices. He’s been a dating, relationship, lifestyle, and business coach and teacher for fourteen years. He says you've got to […]


150: You’re a Free Woman

When I first started dating Morgan, I said to her a simple phrase, "You're a free woman." I explained that when it came to our dating or engaging in physical intimacy with other people, she didn't need to ask me permission, owe me an explanation, or even have to tell me ahead of time. She […]