To Hell With Rejection

In this Season 2 Finale, LaVonne and I will be going deep into explaining how the battle we have with rejection is not with people, but with the unseen spirit of rejection that is behind the actions of people. Rejection is one of the most painful experiences we can go through. It can leave us feeling hurt, dejected, and unworthy. But it's important to understand that the battle we have with rejection isn't really with the people we are in a relationship with. This spirit of rejection is a force that works against us and tries to keep us from fulfilling our purpose and destiny. It whispers lies into our minds, telling us that we're not good enough or that we don't deserve to be loved. And when we experience rejection from others, it's often because this spirit is working through them to try to reinforce those lies. So how do we fight against this spirit of rejection? First, we need to recognize that it's there. We need to be aware of the lies it's telling us and the actions it's manipulating others to take. Next, we need to combat those lies with the truth of who we are in Christ. We need to remind ourselves that we are loved, chosen, and valuable in God's eyes. We need to renew our minds with the truth of His Word and fill our hearts with His love. And finally, we need to forgive those who have rejected us. We need to release them from any hold the spirit of rejection may have on them and trust God to heal our hearts. In the final episode of season 2, we come face to face with the spirit of rejection. We recognize its lies and choose to combat them with God's truth. And in doing so, we are able to overcome the rejection we have faced and move forward into our destinies. So remember, the battle we have with rejection isn't really with people. It's with the unseen spirit of rejection. But with God's help, we can overcome it and walk confidently in His love and purpose for our lives. Leave us a comment and let us know what relationship challenges you’ve faced when dealing with rejection and ways in which Satan has tried to get you to attack people rather than him.

Episode 207 has dropped! Catch the 7th episode of "To Hell With Rejection" where Coach DeBorah and LaVonne "The Love Doctor" delve deep into the maze of rejection and the strength of reliance on God. Here's a sneak peek of what's in store: • 🌱Discussing the real struggles of overcoming rejection and its re-emergence. • 🔗 Noting that beating rejection is a continuous journey of recovery and self-work. • 🙏 Emphasizing the power of turning to God and spiritual faith to battle life's most daunting challenges. • 🌍 Recognizing that confronting rejection and hardships makes us realize our human fragility and God's indispensable role in our lives. • ❗️ Observing how often we instinctively react to triggers due to unresolved issues, only for them to appear again more vigorously if ignored. • 💪 Highlighting the pressing and often unhealthy cultural expectation for Black women to constantly stand firm amidst adversity without breaking. • 🕊️ Reminding us that when life gets too much, it's not weakness to "cast our cares" upon God, who's always there to shoulder our burdens. Tune in, reflect, and find your path to recovery. Remember, His "yoke is easy" and "burden is light". 💖 #ToHellWithRejection #GodsStrength #BlackWomenRising #RecoveryJourney #CastYourCares Do share and comment below! We would love to hear your thoughts. 🌟👇

Rejection is a universal human experience that can elicit emotions from disappointment to devastation. However, societal expectations of masculinity often lead men to suppress or hide their emotions, making it more challenging to process and deal with rejection and making it extremely difficult to foster good, healthy, intimate relationships. Bringing two together to make one is difficult enough, but, the disparities that exist between how men and women handle emotions, communicate and generally show up for the relationship, makes it even tougher. In this episode of To Hell With Rejection, LaVonne and I, along with our guest host, Harold Merrell, explore why men struggle with rejection, showing their emotions and have difficulty communicating, and how these impact their relationships. Come listen in, comment and add your voice to the conversation. If you have your own rejection story you’d like to share, please leave us a comment or send an email to deborah.warren@coachdeborahwarren.com and let us know how we can contact you for the possibility of sharing your story on the podcast.

Vonne and I have a male guest in the she-shed for this week's show and the conversation got gooooooood! Our special guest, Harold Merrell, showed up and gave us ladies some good knowledge on the inner workings of men when it comes to relationships and the rejection that sometimes come with it. Come listen in to our conversation and learn a thing or two. Ladies, he answered a lot of the questions we had on the dynamics of navigating relationships and gave us an inside view of how men handle and deal with rejection.

Join us on an emotionally introspective episode as we explore the transformative experience of awakening to long-term rejection. LaVonne and I discuss the often-hidden emotional landscape that accompanies the realization of long-term rejection. From the initial shock and denial to the subsequent stages of grief, listeners will gain a deep understanding of the complex emotions that arise in such situations. With raw honesty and vulnerability, we delve into the overwhelming emotions that emerge during this realization, such as anger, confusion, and a profound sense of confusion. Through introspection and the sharing of personal experiences, we aim to empower listeners to embrace their emotions and embark on a journey of assessment to determine a plan of action.

Join the Love Doctor and I in this empowering episode as we explore the purpose of rejection and the profound meaning it holds in our lives. Anyone who has experienced long term rejection can attest to the fact that the question we all have asked over and over is, "Why Me? Why Did I Have to Experience This?" In this episode, we're exploring the answer to that question. We're looking into the similarities those who have experienced this trauma have in common. Through heartfelt stories we share about our rejection growing up, we delve into the transformative power of rejection, uncovering how it can shape our character, redirect our paths, and ultimately lead us to a more authentic and fulfilling existence. Get ready to be blown away by the good that's actually found deep in this rejection experience.

In this eye-opening episode, the Love Doctor and I do a coaching session to help me walk-through why I have been procrastinating on the very thing I know to be my purpose and how this procrastination is likely fueled by my past rejections. As we share our real-life stories, we show how it’s necessary to dig deep to understanding why we often self-sabotage when we’re getting over rejection and how to stop procrastination to get back on track to fulfilling our goals and ultimately our life purpose. Discover how the fear of being rejected can subconsciously drive us to put off tasks and gain valuable insights on overcoming this self-sabotaging behavior. Getting over rejection is not done in one night, but by learning to recognize when we’re giving into it, we can begin to grow more adept at putting a nail in rejection’s coffin for good. Learning to get past procrastination is one major way to win the war against this demon spirit for good! Even if you just do one small thing a day, that’s progress and that will eventually get you to your goals. Come join us in the conversation and if you’d like to share your rejection story on the show, leave us a comment and let us know. See you on the other side of Rejection!

Get ready for the highly anticipated second season of "To Hell With Rejection"! In this episode, we dive deep into how rejection sneaks into our lives, even through the smallest things like social media. Join the Love Doctor as she shares her personal journey of triumph over self-sabotage and negative thoughts. But that's not all - Coach Deborah is here to guide us through the enemy's traps and snares that hold us hostage, even when we know the truth. Discover the power of stepping back and gaining a fresh perspective to uncover the lies we've been fed. Coach Debora reveals the secret steps to expose the enemy's strategy and defeat their deceit. Don't miss out on this eye-opening episode that will empower you to reclaim your joy and overcome rejection. Tune in now and join us on this transformative journey!

On our Season Finale, LaVonne and I are delving into the fascinating world of masculine and feminine energies in women. Join our lively and honest discussion as we challenge traditional notions and explore the limitless possibilities of embracing both sides. So, grab a cup of tea, sit back, and let's celebrate the diverse tapestry of femininity. Tune in and learn what the difference is between masculine and feminine energies, why culturally and because of circumstances, some women have been forced to operate more in their masculine energies, out of necessity, and why embracing them both may be better. We'll be back in a few weeks for Season #2, but, in the meantime, remember, when rejection comes your way, just say, "To Hell With That!"

Relationships are tricky and sometimes bring pain and disappointment, but, finally getting to one that is good in the way Yahweh meant it to be is so worth waiting for! Join LaVonne Lee NorrilsLaVonne and I in our discussion this week on the trials of relationships and the seemingly impossible journey to get back to Yahweh's plan of how relationships between men and women should be. Listen in on our conversation on Episode 107 of the To Hell With Rejection Podcast. Leave a comment and let us know what about the show resonated with you.

Is it always rejection when someone does not want to be in a relationship with you? Or is it just preference? Come find out what LaVonne and I have to say about it on this week's episode.

On this part 1 of a multi-part series on rejection in relationshipos, LaVonne and I are digging into rejection in intimate relationships and what effect that has had on us. Some of the questions that came up were: 1. Can you be in a relationship with someone else who has also suffered rejection? 2. Is it rejection when someone doesn't want to be with you? 3. Is it rejection when your partner doesn't want to talk to or hear what you have to say? Listen and find out!

There are 3 phases to the journey out of rejection: Phase 1 - Come from under the influence of rejection so it no longer affects you negatively Phase 2 - Deconstruct the limiting beliefs that were erected as you went through rejection Phase 3 - Accept that you are worthy, loved and that a good life is God's plan for you, so that the goodness comes in, you can receive it Even though you may have come through a phase or two of healing from rejection, until you're all the way through, you will still get triggered by things that happen in life, especially those not so good moments. What do you do to keep yourself from going back under the influence of Rejection and coming into bondage again? LaVonne and I walk through a personal trigger I had on this week's episode and share wonderful, tried and true ways to deal with them and stay in the fight to say To Hell With Rejection! Check out this week's episode for more of our candid conversation. Come join us and learn how to take your power back and move a little further out of rejection.

Sometimes when you're under the influence of rejection, people who want to keep you in rejection will cause you to second guess yourself and this makes your self-esteem and self-confidence suffer. LaVonne and I talked on the show this week about how to get from under this influence by building up your resilience and standing on what you know to be true. Once you master that, it won't be long before you're saying, "To Hell With Rejection" and sending it back to hell where it belongs!

In this episode of the 'To Hell With Rejection' Podcast, we're sharing the true beginning of rejection, all the way back to Adam's rejection of Eve and how even today, women are still under that rejection. We came forward and realized that some of the rejection we experience is actually due to us expecting to be rejected. We have to stay in our truth and stop letting rejection in when we know, that we know what the truth is about ourselves. We are a good thing and as we come out of rejection more, we can stand on that truth more and don't have to fear saying ‘To Hell With Rejection’ when we know we don't deserve it! Leave us a comment and let us know how you handle rejection when you encounter it?

In this very first episode of the 'To Hell With Rejection' Podcast, we're sharing where all the rejection began and how it was living under a shroud of family rejection. If you’ve lived with rejection for a while, listen in because now is your time to break free and say ‘To Hell With Rejection’!