The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, I did an interview a while back with two LOVELY ladies by the name of Behk & LAH. If you haven't heard it yet, you're about to. Enjoy! Amanda --------------------------------------------------- In this special collaboration episode, Behk & LAH of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" sit down with Amanda Arnier, the insightful host of "The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast." Together, they explore emotional intricacies in relationships, focusing on the challenges of dealing with narcissists and toxic people. Topics Discussed: Dr. Vaknin Amanda brings her unique perspective from "The Dichotomy Diaries," where she recounts her relationship with Dick and shares the experiences of other women who were also involved with him. This episode discusses the complexities of narcissists, strategies for navigating toxic dynamics, and the importance of sharing these stories for healing. Please tune in for an intimate and revealing dialogue that offers a deeper understanding of Amanda’s mission and the powerful stories she shares with her audience. Subscribe and listen to "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" and "The Dichotomy Diaries" on your favorite podcast platforms. Don't forget to rate, review, and share! Book mentioned in this episode: The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Values, and Spiritual Growth by M. Scott Peck M.D. Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice. Hosts: Behk & LAH Follow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompod Production & Design: LAHarden Music: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Narcissists, Gaslighters, Cheaters, Oh My! Podcast's Patreon The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast's Patreon WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music & Sound Production: Ashley England Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listener's, I cannot tell you how excited I was to book this interview, with Dr. Nadine Macaluso. While most of you may not know her immediately by just mentioning her name- most of you probably know her story. Dr. Nadine Macaluso was married to Jordan Belfort, The Wolf of Wall Street. Her character, name changed, was played by the beautiful Margo Robbie in the Scorsese director box office hit! Join Dr. Nae and I as we discuss so many topics dear to both of our hearts. In this episode Dr. Nadine Macaluso, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares her story of being married to Jordan Belfort, the Wolf of Wall Street, and how it led her to write a book and become an advocate for trauma bonding and pathological lovers. She discusses the challenges of having her life portrayed in a movie and the lack of control she had over the narrative. Dr. Macaluso emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one's own vulnerabilities in order to break free from toxic relationships. She also explores the concept of cognitive dissonance and the difficulty of leaving an abusive partner. The conversation explores the themes of healing from trauma bonds, finding one's voice, and navigating new relationships after abuse. Dr. Nae and I emphasize the importance of self-compassion and grace in the healing process. The conversation also touches on the challenges of co-parenting and the impact of trauma bonds on children. We both share their personal experiences and offer hope for post-traumatic growth and reinvention. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Be sure to check below for Dr. Nadine's website where you can order her book Run Like Hell and explore many of her free tools, like the Self Compassion Assessment we discussed in this episode. Give Dr. Nae a follow on her social media, all linked below as well! ‪@TheRealDrNadine‬ Website: https://drnae.com/about-dr-nadine-mac... Free Assessments by Dr. Nae: https://drnae.com/assessments/ Order Run Like Hell Book Here: https://drnae.com/run-like-hell-book/ Instagram: / therealdrnadine TikTok: / drnaelmft Twitter: / therealdrnadine Facebook: / drnaelmft WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music & Sound Production: Ashley England Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In this exciting Bonus Episode of The Dichotomy Diaries, I interview the beautiful, bad ass, Vanessa Reiser, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker from The Big Apple who's got a BOOK coming out soon! (Pre-Order Link Below!) We talk about SO many juicy topics including the connection between narcissistic abuse and cults, the behavior and mindset of narcissists and psychopaths, and dissect the experience of victims down piece by piece. We touch on the confusing role most family members take in (not) warning others about the narcissist in their life. Join us as we break down the challenges of conveying the complexity of narcissistic abuse in a concise manner others. A topic that I've really struggled with lately... This episode also explores trauma bonding and addiction in narcissistic relationships. Vanessa and I talk about the repetitive cycle of love bombing, devaluing, and discarding, which creates a trauma bond and intense addiction to the makeup session. Vanessa emphasizes the need for support and understanding for those trying to extricate themselves from these relationships, comparing it to drug addiction. Not to mention the post-separation abuse that can occur, which more often than not, includes attempts to destroy the victim's life. I had SO MUCH FUN chatting in up with Vanessa and learning all the things from her not only about my relationship with Dick, but about important topics and congruencies I wasn't even aware of. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Be sure to check below for Vanessa's website, how to find her on Social Media, and Pre-Order her new book: Narcissistic Abuse: A Therapist's Guide to Identifying, Escaping, and Healing from Toxic and Manipulative People. @vanessareiserlcsw-narcissi5380 Website: https://www.tellatherapist.net Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessareiserlcsw TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vanessareiser BOOK PRE ORDER: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0306833174 WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Vanessa Reiser, LCSW Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, I think we may have uncovered something important during this episode... As Savana and I discuss how her and Dick's engagement came to an abrupt end, I realize that I share with her that she had NO idea about. Imagine her surprise when I fill her in on what HER FIANCE was doing way back when. Better yet, imagine the AUDACITY this man has to tell me the truth about his whereabouts and doings, while completely leaving out the fact that he was actively engaged to this beautiful human. Savana and I really want to emphasize how important it is to continue to do things for YOURSELF while in a relationship, NEW or OLD, you need to maintain your sense of self at all cost. Luckily for Savana, Dick wasn't able to break her spirit like he did many others, myself included. Savana's fighter soul is what gave her the strength to persevere and know what was best for her... A LIFE WITHOUT DICK. Let's be honest, that's literally what's best for everyone. I hope you enjoyed hearing Savana's story and have some good takeaways. Whether you're in a similar relationship, or know someone who is struggling to get out- just remember that your presence matters in the life of others. Whether they are gracious or not. Forever Sharing My Truth, Amanda L. Arnier, MLS Savana's Hair Instagram Savana's Personal Instagram Savana's TikTok WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Savana Martin Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In today’s episode, I am joined by a very special guest—Savana, who was once engaged to Dick. From the moment I reached out to her, Savana has been a pillar of support in uncovering the shocking truths about our shared ex. Savana’s story is one of beauty, resilience, and positive energy. She brings her sassy and captivating personality to this conversation, making for an episode you won't want to miss. Together, we dive into the complexities of their experiences with Dick, revealing insights that are both startling and compelling. This episode marks part one of their revealing conversation, titled “Straight to Zelle.” Be sure to give Savana a follow, her social media links are listed below! Oh, go check out the video recording of this podcast, now live on YouTube. Don’t forget to subscribe to our channel, each podcast episode drops on YouTube before anywhere else! Forever Sharing My Truth, Amanda L. Arnier, MLS Savana's Hair Instagram Savana's Personal Instagram Savana's TikTok Stay tuned for PART 2 of Straight to Zelle coming out NEXT WEEK! WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Savana Martin Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, HAPPY SUMMER SOLSTICE! I know right? Quite coincidental for the LAST part of Ambre's story to be released wouldn't you say? I love it when things like that happen. I also love it when you can tell by the look in someone's face that a weight has been lifted from sharing something they kept to themselves for so long. I applaud Ambre for making herself vulnerable and putting herself out there by telling this story. In this episode you will hear some pretty shocking things... From Dick's unconventional bedroom requests to a new scary part to his persona- stalking... I hope you enjoy Summer Solstice Part 3. Please make sure you give Ambre a follow, her links are below and make sure you head over and subscribe to YouTube. All episodes are released there FIRST. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda L. Arnier, MLS Instagram: @AmbreFit YouTube: @ambrefit Twitter: @TheAmbreFit TikTok: @AmbreFit www.AmbreFit.com WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Ambre McKee Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In this powerful and raw episode of The Dichotomy Diaries, Amanda sits down with Ambre to uncover the many layers of their toxic relationships. The conversation delves into several deeply personal themes, including: Strained Family Dynamics: Amanda shares insights into the troubled relationship between her husband and his father, exposing the negative family dynamics and emotional abuse she endured. Financial Control and Manipulation: Both Amanda and Ambre discuss the financial issues they faced, including how their partners used money as a tool for control and manipulation. Emotional and Verbal Abuse: They recount the hurtful comments, derogatory language, and verbal attacks that characterized their relationships, highlighting the damaging impact on their mental health. Gambling Addiction: The episode explores the significant role that Amanda's husband's gambling addiction played in their lives, adding another layer of complexity to the abuse. Conflict Diffusion: Amanda and Ambre describe their roles as peacemakers in constant conflicts, often at the expense of their own well-being. Suspicious Friendships: The conversation also touches on the suspicious and unhealthy relationship between Amanda's husband, Dick, and his friend Matt. The episode continues with Ambre's experiences of manipulation, coercion, and financial abuse in her relationship. Key points include: Broken Promises and Anxiety: Ambre recounts how her partner's broken promises left her feeling scared and anxious, a sentiment Amanda relates to deeply. Self-Prioritization and Derogation: They discuss how their partners prioritized themselves, often putting Ambre down and making her feel insignificant. Steroids and Hormone Therapy: Ambre shares how her partner's involvement with steroids and hormone therapy affected their relationship, including an incident of physical aggression. Car Situation: They talk about the partner's procrastination in getting a new car, reflecting his overall lack of responsibility. Finally, Amanda and Ambre discuss their experiences living with a narcissist, shedding light on: Unstable Living Conditions: They share stories of being moved to different apartments without consent, contributing to financial instability. Empty Promises: The narcissists' habit of making promises and failing to follow through, leaving them in precarious situations during trips and daily life. Obsession with Fitness: The narcissists' fixation on gyms and fitness, and how it impacted their relationships. Dangerous Behavior: Accounts of physically aggressive behavior during "play fights" and the narcissists' lack of remorse. Through this candid conversation, Amanda and Ambre highlight the manipulative, unpredictable, and damaging nature of their relationships with narcissists. Tune in to hear their stories and gain a deeper understanding of the complex dynamics of abusive relationships. Remember to share this episode if it resonates with you or someone you know, and follow The Dichotomy Diaries for more stories of strength and resilience. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Ambre McKee Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In today's episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Ambre to delve into the whirlwind of emotions and experiences that come with falling in love with a Wolf in Sheep's clothing. Ambre takes us through her journey of meeting our shared ex, where the sparks flew and the relationship progressed rapidly. She opens up about the initial attraction, the deepening of their feelings, and the shared belief that they had each found their soulmate. Our conversation also takes a personal turn as Ambre shares insights into her background, family life, and religious upbringing, providing a rich context to her part of this story. We navigate through my own experiences, recounting the excitement and connection I felt upon meeting Dick. I reveal the challenges and discoveries I faced, including the surprising revelations about his past engagements and financial behaviors that led to a stark realization of dishonesty and manipulation. Together, Ambre and I explore the intricate dynamics of our scarily similar relationships, from meeting significant family members to confronting the turmoil and uncertainties that emerged. It's a heartfelt and eye-opening discussion about love, trust, and the lessons we learn along the way. Thank you for tuning in, and I hope this episode resonates with you as much as it did with me. You can learn more about Ambre by checking out her socials below: Instagram: @AmbreFit YouTube: @ambrefit Twitter: @TheAmbreFit TikTok: @AmbreFit www.AmbreFit.com Stay tuned for PART 2 or this THREE part story next week! Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Ambre McKee Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In this episode, Kylie opens up about what drove her to be part of The Dichotomy Diaries podcast as we reflect on our shared experiences with relationships. Join me as Kylie Brocato bravely shares her story about dating Dick, a man with a violent criminal history. What started with attraction and compliments soon turned into a nightmare of verbal abuse, manipulation, and attempts to disrupt her co-parenting relationship. Despite the chaos, Kylie’s strength shone through, and she ultimately ended the toxic relationship, leading to a much healthier co-parenting dynamic with her ex. We dive deep into the dynamics of Kylie's relationship with Dick, including his neglect of his own children while trying to claim hers, his financial instability and gambling, and his secret life as a sex worker for men! Kylie’s revelation about being deceived by Dick's false narratives highlights the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing red flags. We also discuss how Dick used location sharing as a control tactic, the financial strain he caused, and his outrageous public behavior. Join us for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that underscores the importance of resilience, boundaries, and self-awareness in relationships. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 💖 Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda CLICK HERE FOR THE VIDEO RECORDING OF THIS EPISODE! WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Kylie Brocato Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In this deep and insightful conversation, Rohanna and I explore Rohanna’s multifaceted life experiences, touching on her early life on Whidbey Island, her journey through homeschooling, and her early marriage. Rohanna also shares about her collaborative natural body care business with her mom in the Pacific Northwest, and the beauty of living near the orcas. The conversation shifts to more personal themes, delving into Rohanna’s past narcissistic relationship with you guessed it....Dick. The revelations of abuse begin to align with the healing power of storytelling as we both reflect on the importance of empathy, accountability, and reciprocity. We candidly discuss the dynamics of different relationships, from familial to romantic, highlighting the lessons learned about safety, trust, and maintaining one’s individuality. Throughout, Rohanna hopes her openness helps others feel less alone, emphasizing the strength found in shared stories and the support of true friendship- an amazing byproduct of Dick's treacherous ways. Please give Rohanna a follow and support her business: https://www.sweetsistersbodycare.com Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sweetsistersbodycare Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildonefit WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Rohanna Wildon Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In this segment of the conversation, Joanna and Amanda delve into the intricate dynamics of Joanna's relationship with her ex-partner, Dick. They explore Dick's isolated lifestyle, his fixation on fitness and steroid use, as well as his troubling control over Joanna's diet and body image. Furthermore, they shed light on his neglectful behavior as a father to his daughter. The discussion also touches upon Dick's manipulative tactics, including his skillful redirection during arguments and exploitation of Joanna's talents and creativity. Joanna bravely shares her profound sense of entrapment and manipulation in the relationship, detailing the emotional and physical abuse she endured. She recounts harrowing experiences, including a violent incident where Dick attempted to suffocate her. Amidst the darkness, Joanna opens up about her journey to healing and the pivotal role therapy played in her recovery process. Follow Joanna and support her business ventures through the links below: Personal Instagram: @_joannahans Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse TikTok: @joanna.hans Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Joanna Hans Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Listeners, In this compelling episode, Amanda sits down with Joanna to delve into her personal journey with a former partner who, coincidentally, they both know. Joanna candidly shares the story of their meeting, the subtle early signs of manipulation she noticed, and the profound impact it had on her life. Both Amanda and Joanna hope that by sharing this story, it will provide solace to others and illuminate the realities of narcissistic abuse. They explore the characteristics of women often targeted by narcissists and the manipulative tactics they employ. From the outset, Joanna's father had reservations about Dick. Yet, Dick managed to maintain a convincing facade, impressing Joanna's family to some extent. As circumstances would have it, Joanna found herself becoming roommates with Dick, eventually leading to an "exclusive" relationship...or so she thought. The relationship seemed picture-perfect on social media, providing Joanna with a sense of security. However, this facade crumbled when she began receiving messages about Dick's inappropriate behavior. Joanna soon recognized that Dick had used his Mormon faith as yet another tool for manipulation. In addition to this, Joanna discovered some of Dick's unconventional side hustles, one of which even surprised Amanda. Much like Amanda, Joanna found herself trapped in a trauma bond with Dick, experiencing lies, abandonment, verbal abuse, and coercion firsthand. VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! Please give Joanna a follow & support her business! Personal Instagram: @_joannahans Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse TikTok: @joanna.hans Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: Joanna Hans Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Loyal Listeners), Today's solar eclipse reminds us of the beauty that can be found in life's uncertainties, prompting a brief ONE WEEK hiatus for The Dichotomy Diaries. (I KNOWWWWWWW) I'm grappling with personal challenges, including family matters and financial stress to the MAX. I feel guilty for deviating from our schedule, trust me. However, quality remains paramount as we anticipate new global listeners via a very exciting opportunity. During this brief break, I'll address these challenges and return with content that exceeds expectations. On a brighter note, our first interviewee, Joanna, will be introduced via social media before her episode goes live with Part One on April 16th and Part Two on April 23rd. Your patience and support are appreciated as we navigate life's curveballs. Thank you for understanding. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: SOLO Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), Per your request, I have chosen to break up the interviews with solo update episodes. Here is a fun update. Well- fun in terms of entertainment I guess. What you'll hear today had me shook. Thanks for letting me share and be vulnerable with you. I am forever grateful... Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Lynette Arnier, MLS VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: SOLO Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), We're back with Kyle for Part Two! I want to extend my greatest gratitude out to Kyle for sharing his story with us. It was so wonderful to hear from another person with similar experiences. This validates me in my truth and I hope so many more of you in your own. I know you've waited alllll day. So here you go. Let's get to it! VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: "Kyle" Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), You are now entering the part of The Dichotomy Diaries I like to refer to as... THE INTERVIEWS Everyone you will hear from, from this point forward is someone who had a first hand relationship with the monster that I married. What my guests will be sharing will be FACTUAL, raw, and chronological. You will also get an opportunity to ask guests of The Dichotomy Diaries questions in between the different parts of their episodes... Please submit your questions in a DM on @TheDichotomyDiaries Instagram or directly to Email at TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com First up, we have Kyle. A wonderfully warm and chatty gentleman from Phoenix, AZ who saw through Dick's facade faster than most; but played along- because the P L O T was just too juicy. Please don't forget to rate, review, share, and comment. Your interactions get The Dichotomy Diaries noticed. Thank you for your continued support as always. VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Guest: "Kyle" Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), We made it! We survived. VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! Even though at times it may have seemed impossible, we are both stronger than we thought. This episode is the last episode in MY part of this story. And while I am going to miss sharing my experiences with you weekly, I feel this indescribable weight lifted off my shoulders that it is all FINALLY OVER.. The next part of The Dichotomy Diaries Season One has one main focus… To help others share their truth, finally experience closure, and help countless others. Many times while recording this episode, I caught myself smiling. Stupidly proud of what I have created. Stupidly proud of my own personal growth and accelerated healing. But most importantly, stupidly proud that the woman I have become- is someone little 7 year old, ruby slipper wearing Amanda would be proud to become. While sometimes I feel down when reflecting on the path my life has taken; the pride I feel directly relating to my resilience supersedes all of it. In Episode 20, you will hear how my story ends. You will hear exactly how I uncovered all the other women Dick swindled in almost the exact same way. You will learn who’s interview comes first, as well as who to expect in the upcoming episodes. There’s No Place Like Home. Especially when you build home within yourself. Be on the lookout for opportunities to interact with the upcoming guests on Instagram. Thank you all for your support and hanging in there during this difficult and trying story that was my life. I will be forever grateful and humbled by this extraordinary experience. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), Welcome to the second to LAST episode in MY part of this tragic story. We've been on a wild ride together. But you know what...? There's no one else I would have rather taken this trip with. Episode 19 really needs no introduction, but I might as well give you a taste... This is the episode where you find out how my marriage really ended. Yep. This is the one. I won't keep you waiting. Just please, don't forget. One day, you wake up...and it just doesn't hurt anymore. I promise. VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), While I had hoped the justice system would come through, it fell short, leaving me disappointed. Did I get the justice I deserved? Not at all. My experiences were dismissed, making them seem like lies. But does it matter in the grand scheme of things? Also -Nope. Why? Because even if the court didn't see it, I know the truth, and now - so do you. That feels like a win to me. In Episode 18, I'll give you a quick rundown of my messy divorce court saga and share how I celebrated my birthday. Then, get ready for more drama as I spill the beans on the treachery leading up to my first wedding anniversary. Buckle up—it's gonna be a wild ride! VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda L. Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

Want the SCOOP & UNEDITED Visual Timeline for ALL The Dichotomy Diaries Episodes AND MORE?... Click below. You won't want to miss how Season One ENDS... PATREON IS LIVE!!! and MERCH IS LIVE!!! Dear Diary (& Listeners), Stress has taught me a lot this year. I have learned that stress can be both debilitating AND motivating. I have learned that no one cares what is going on in your life; they expect you to keep it moving as usual- no matter the price. I have learned that while devastatingly debilitating at times; stress can sometimes be invisible to anyone other than yourself. So what do we do with this information? Well- we learn of course. We learn how to manage our stress levels. We learn new tools to soften the blow it has on our activities of daily life. But we also learn that stress relief is NO ONES job, but our own. Episode 17 is ALL THE THINGS. You're going to hear the raunchy, the sad, the shocking, and of course- the heartbreaking... So sit tight. OH- and if you're not fully prepared to hear some insanely gross sexual content...I would advise you to skip this episode. Shit's NASTYYYYYY up in here. Forever Speaking My Truth, Amanda Arnier, MLS WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. Season Two Story Pitch Call Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com Music: Ashley England Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes! Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries