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Ep. 26 - No Games Q and A with Janelle Paige Brandom

Emcee, Host, and Lifestyle Blogger, Janelle Paige Brandom joins Coach Paula to ask the questions her fitness, fashion, and faithful followers want to know. Texting, calling or DM’ing a man first? What’s the low-down on living together? Why do men stalk you on social media only to slink out of sight or totally ghost you? Why is making a man wonder such a make-or-break in keeping a relationship and getting a man to commit?


Ep. 25 - Getting to Know Men with Brian Glenn

Sometimes a glitch turns out to be great thing. TV and Radio Personality, Brian Glenn, said yes to being on Make Him Wonder, but our recording went gonzo. However, I was on Brian’s daily show, In The Know, on KEXB 620am, and that went swimmingly. We dive into everything from where to meet men (you might be surprised what I say about bars) to sustaining sex in marriage. We all get a little more in-the-know from talking to the opposite sex (when men are willing to ask, listen, and open up) and...


Ep. 24 - Consumer vs Buyer Sex: The Reason You Might Feel Like You’re Being Cheated

Ever wonder why sex with a man who’s a completely committed, signed-on, Bono Fide Buyer (husband) isn’t as off-the-hook hot, intense, or passionate as with an Ultimate or Mixed-Messages Consumer? Paula gives the low-down on the goods feeling hotter when on the down-low, marked-down, hot-sale rack than they are when delivered from a fully-invested man who’s decided that you are his prize to value forever.


Ep. 23 - 100% Rules Produced a Peculiar Effect

After years of dating in a way that she describes as “needy or clingy,” 36-yr-old Julia found The Rules in 2015 and began following them strictly. Now, after 4 years of not experiencing her desired result of marriage, Julia fears "never getting the right guy" and that she might go through her life without ever having children. She is tired of being consumed by men telling her that her communication is “odd” and that they think she is “just a good-time girl,” when she knows herself to be a...


Ep. 22 - Reliving, Reminiscing, and Revisiting Everything The Rules

Paula’s great friend, Rules pal, and fellow Social Worker, Erin joins Paula to talk about their respective journeys to finding what works with men. Paula and Erin recall their first meeting, working together, and how they developed their special bond. Both relive part of their past pains and shames that brought each to a totally new place personally and romantically. They also recall their time together in the desert sun sweating it out to ensure the right scores on Paula’s Consumer vs....


Ep. 21 - Divorced and Dating with Devoted Mom, Amy Vanderoef

Emmy nominated host of WFAA’s Good Morning Texas, Miss Connecticut 2001, performer, and on-air personality, Amy Vanderoef gets real with Paula about her real-life love and relationships. On this episode, Amy shares the struggles of divorce and single-motherhood while juggling a demanding career and life in the public eye. Paula opens-up about her former husband and career distress following her divorce, as well.


Ep. 20 - A Porn Addiction or Perfectly Normal?

31-yr-old Rachel married 32-yr-old Paul three years ago. While still engaged, Rachel found a stack of magazines under Paul’s bed that she deemed pornographic and unacceptable. Rachel reports that the couple have had a good marriage and despite having a new baby, consistently have sex three times a week. However, Rachel continues to be disheartened and disturbed by thoughts of not being Paul’s “dream girl.” While admitting to be being bored by their sex life, Rachel believes giving into...


Ep. 19 - A Deeper-Dive on Certain Selfies Lessening Success in Love

Why is it that married or marriage-bound celebrities and starlets can be seen in sexy shots, but posed or provocative pics of the average woman hurt her chances at complete commitment? On the heels of Episode 18, Coach Paula dives deeper into why it is that your efforts at being evocative may be getting you a lot of likes, but are likely hurting your chances at long-term love. Hear how sexy selfies skew a man’s reptilian wiring to see you as just a playmate, not as woman to whom he can feel...


Ep. 18 - How Posting Positions You in His Eyes

If you're posting posed or provocative selfies, showing lots of pics of you and your guy, or even presenting yourself to be a lot sexier than the girl next door, you might be hurting your chance at committed love. In this episode, Coach Paula talks about using social media to attract the right men. Hear how to have the best shot at getting a proposal by perfecting your online presence!


Ep. 17 - Closing the Gap on a Long-Distance Relationship

Olivia was a guest on Ep.#2 of Make Him Wonder. At that time, Olivia was confused about her feelings for her LD boyfriend, Mark, and a growing interest in man at work. While she loved Mark, this new man was filling the emotional void having a LD, unformalized relationship creates. At 32 yrs old, with a 13 yr old dtr, Olivia was not willing to wait any longer for Mark to make a decision. Hear how Olivia’s actions prompted Mark to come to terms with what he wanted and needed, so that Olivia...


Ep. 16 - Dating Online as Florence Nightingale Sickens Even the Strongest

At 46 years old, Susan is dating online after being divorced three times. With a heart as big as her home state of Texas, Susan gives every man a chance. Her stories are both heartwarming and hard to hear. Her willingness to give her time and attention, as well as her joie-de-vivre and sense of humor have landed her with less than a healthy dating life. Paula gives Susan a dose of reality on how being too nice eases loneliness in the moment, but hurts in the long run to finding and keeping a...


Ep. 15 - When You Gotta Hold Your Sexy Back

Dating in your fabulous forties can feel like a new world where being brave and daring lands you feeling empty and floundering around wondering what is wrong with men. Find out why being uber sexy is so much fun, but can lead to men just taking you for a ride. In this Episode, Sexy Boss, Syndicated Radio Host, and Author, Heather Havenwood talks about her experience of being super smart and sexy, and how that has created some difficulty in the having men who adore her, commit! Hear why...


Ep. 14 - When Dating Following Divorce Disappoints

Sometimes dating after a divorce feels like you’ve been asleep for the number of years you were married and have woken up in a different world. Anna is 42 years old and was married for nearly 18 years. She began dating Dan immediately following her divorce and has been seeing him for 12 months. When the two are together, Anna says that the relationship is great, but she’s baffled as to why Dan doesn’t seem to need to see her more often and connect more deeply. Anna’s frustration and...


Ep. 13 - Two Conversations That Helped Amanda Get Engaged

Amanda was a guest on Episode #2 of Make Him Wonder. At 26 years old, she is divorced with one small child. Amanda had been dating Brian for the past year and was about to move in with him. Because she wanted to ensure that she and Brian would go the distance, she called Coach Paula wanting info on how to keep the fire burning in a long-term relationship. The call took an interesting turn, ending up with Amanda having her mind changed about moving in without a ring and a date. Three months...


Ep. 12 - What You Do With Him, He Thinks You Do With All Men

Paula talks about the controversy around her concept and the negative comments related to her talks and YouTube video. In this episode, she discusses the importance of a woman showing her value over her body, as it relates to the male brain, Freud's Madonna/Whore Complex, and how important it is to allow a man to see you as a woman to marry over one he can just consume!


Ep. 11 - When His Budget Causes Too Big of an Imbalance

After 6 months of dating, Andy proposed to Lisa and the two blended their families by moving into Lisa's new home. Early on, Lisa discovered what this relationship would cost her, and in less than a year she was forced to cut her losses and break things off. 10 years later, Lisa still loves Andy and wants to know if there is any hope to be back with him and make things better.


Ep. 10 - Is a Separated Man Ready?

38-yr-old Mira dated Dan, a 47-yr-old separated, but not yet divorced man, for nearly 6 months. Mira processes the relationship with Paula, wanting to know if she could have done anything differently to prevent the ending, or if it was simply a case of Dan being a Consumer rather than a Buyer.


Ep. 9 - She married a Narcissist?

48-yr-old Katie met 58-yr-old Mike online. When Katie knew she wanted to marry Mike she began utilizing Paula's coaching strategies and in 9 weeks, Mike proposed. The two married soon after. Katie talks to Paula about her failure to admit the truth and heed "the warning signs" regarding Mike's lying and lack of empathy


Ep. 8 - Marriage to a Man 20 Years Younger?

44-year-old Riley is in a relationship with 25-year-old Justin. The two have been friends for over 4 years and became romantic 6 months ago. Justin has been discussing marriage, but Riley has been married twice before and promised herself she would never do it again. Riley is also concerned about the age difference and wants to hear from Paula if engagement would be enough.


Ep. 7 - Childhood Programming Keeping You Unpartnered?

Heather Havenwood is an entrepreneur and host of the nationally syndicated radio show, Like a Boss. At 43 years old, following a devastating breakup with her fiancé and business partner, Heather had to start over. In the process, she discovered that her childhood programming may be keeping her from achieving for herself all that she easily did when partnered with a man. Heather talks openly about the struggles to be feminine in a relationship while maintaining her strength and power in...