The Everyday Style School

Many women assume that dressing well requires a fat bank account and lots of disposable income. However, as a wardrobe stylist with over 20 years of experience, I know that looking good doesn't have to break the bank. If you're like most Americans, April is a time when your mind's on your money, and your money's on your mind. But, that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice style. There are plenty of ways to boost your style without spending any (or much) money, and this week, I'm sharing 6 of them. No matter who you are, where you live, or what shape or size you are, chances are, you can utilize at least a couple of these tips to look even more fantastic. I hope these suggestions inspire you to take a fresh look at your closet and make the most of what you already have. Remember, style is about expressing yourself and feeling confident. So, give these free strategies a try and see how they can elevate your everyday look effortlessly. In this episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/improve-style-without-spending-a-dime

Have you been harmed by traditional body shape advice? I think most of us have in one way or another, leaving us feeling confused or dissatisfied with our natural shape. The truth is, this type of advice leaves a lot to be desired. Today I dive deep into the flaws in traditional body shape advice and offer a fresh perspective on dressing for your body shape. For one thing, traditional body shape advice often focuses solely on flattery. However, it's crucial to consider how clothing items fit your unique body shape rather than just how they look. Remember, as I've said many times before, it's not you, it's the pants! Instead of using body shape advice to hide parts of your body you don't like, try celebrating the parts you love first. Dressing your body should start from a place of highlighting your best features rather than disguising what you perceive as flaws. Listen to the full episode for more valuable insights and tips on modernizing your approach to dressing for your body shape. As mentioned in the episode, this year I've already held several free mini-classes, with more planned. The invitations are exclusively sent through email, so if you want to come to these free classes, sign up here and also receive our mini capsule wardrobe guide. In This Episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/body-shape-advice-wrong

Winter is over, and one of Style's best seasons is here! Spring is when we get our first look at what's big for the warm months, and this season, there are so many great looks out there. The Spring/Summer 24 runways were full of some new trends--and some trends from past seasons that are still going strong. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 trends for Spring 2024 that you can work into your real-life wardrobe to look current without feeling like you're trying too hard (or that you raided your teenage daughter's closet). Listen and learn what's trending for the season and a few tips for making these looks work for you. Need more help getting your wardrobe looking current? Many of these styles are featured in our Spring 2024 Capsule Wardrobe Guide. The Guide shows you how to combine 39 pieces (mostly basics, with a few trends peppered in) to create over 250 fab Spring outfits. The Guide is available in the Style Circle membership, where you also get access to all 5 of our Style Masterclasses, our Facebook Community, and lots of other style resources. Plus, you get our exclusive members-only podcast, The Everyday Style School: Extra Credit. This month, I'm sharing 5 more Spring trends we didn't have time to talk about here. Join the membership and get everything you need to make style easy. I hope this episode gives you some insight into what’s big this season and gives you some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/spring-trends-2024

We've all been there--that moment you're tired of feeling blah or frumpy, and you're ready to have better style. If you're like most women, you do one of a few things: a) go shopping, b) clean out your closet, or c) hire someone to help you. And those are all good things. But style doesn't actually start there. At least lasting style doesn't. Better style starts in your mind. One thing I've said over and over is that what's in your head is more important than what's in your closet. How you think about style, what it means, and how much it matters goes a long way in making style easier and your intentions stick. Until your mind is ready for better style, your daily practices will probably feel like a bore...and a chore. Once your mindset shifts to believe that you and your efforts are worth it, style becomes easier, and dare I say it? Maybe even a little fun. In this episode, I'm sharing a few things super stylish women believe, not just do. So, before you hit the stores or empty your entire closet, make sure you spend a little time getting your mind in the right place. If you want better style, but haven't been able to actually get started---or you struggle to consistently love the way you look, this one's for you! In this episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/better-style-starts-here

Today, we're looking at some of the countless style typing systems on the internet, each one promising an easy way for us to get dressed and love the results. But do they actually help, or do they leave us feeling more confused than we were before? I've got some issues with these highly specific, incredibly detailed typing systems, but if they've worked for you, I'm thrilled! In this episode, I talk about my personal experiences with one of the more high-profile systems, The Kibbe Body Type System. This is an array of thirteen style types based largely on a person's balance of yin and yang. After spending hours exploring this system, I was hopelessly lost and confused! We also touch on some of the other systems that often use random questions that don't seem to connect, leaving you more puzzled than anything else. Like, what do my curly hair and cuticle shape have to do with the colors I should buy? In order to actually make style easier, I've developed my own method for identifying your body shape. I call it the L.O.O.K method. It's revolutionary. In This Episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/whats-your-type

If honest conversations about finances make you want to bury your head in the sand, STOP! Before you skip this episode, my guest today will help you to face your money anxiety and help you to become more financially savvy. Shannah Game is an award-winning Money Wellness Expert, host of the Everyone’s Talkin’ Money podcast (with 25 million downloads), a certified financial planner with an MBA, an entrepreneur, educator, and certified Trauma of Money Specialist. In this episode, we discuss the concept of money trauma and how our childhood experiences shape our beliefs and habits around money. Shannah also highlights the unique financial challenges that women face, such as the gender pay gap and the fact that women tend to live longer and spend their retirement savings taking care of their partners. Shannah provides some practical tips for improving our financial health and encourages us to have open conversations about money, both with ourselves and with our children, to create a healthier mindset around finances. Overall, Shannah's message was clear: money is more mental than it is math. By changing our thoughts and beliefs about money, we can improve our relationship with it and create a better financial future for ourselves. Shannah was also kind enough to answer some individual questions for our Style Circle members, and those are in the Extra Credit Podcast. If you aren't a Style Circle member, the Extra Credit podcast is just one of the exclusive benefits available in the membership. Check out the full list of what's included and join our amazing community now! In This Episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/shannah-game

Are you one of the 40% of U.S. adults who made a New Year’s Resolution this year? If you are, how’s that going for ya? Studies show that most people abandon their good New Year’s intentions by January 18. Hopefully, you’re still going strong. But if you’re not, this episode may be able to help get you back on track. I’m breaking down the five most common resolutions and sharing how your wardrobe can help you achieve them. So often, we tell ourselves, “I’ll have a better wardrobe ‘when'”. When I lose weight. When I go back to work. When I have a better social life. Sound familiar? I want to encourage you to flip your thinking and instead say, “I’ll have a better wardrobe ‘so'”. So I can lose weight. So I can get the job I want. So I can get out there more. Sounds better, doesn’t it? Whether your goals are New Year’s based or not, this episode will help you use your wardrobe as a super powerful tool to help you crush them. In this episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/wardrobe-help-reach-your-goals

At the beginning of 2023, I created a bucket list full of style-related tasks that I wanted to accomplish during the year. Some were easy, some were not so easy, and some of them I even managed to tick off without meaning to! However, all of them were designed to move my style forward. So, in this episode, I'm holding myself accountable, looking back to see how I did...and sharing the lessons I learned along the way. The second part of my 2023 bucket list recap is coming soon as an Extra Credit episode. This exclusive podcast is one of the incredible benefits available for Style Circle members - so if you aren't already a member, join us today. The amazing community within the Style Circle is another way to hold yourself accountable. So if you want to take your style to another level in 2024, find out more here. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/style-bucket-list-recap

The temperatures might be dropping, but your style will be heating up after listening to this episode. It’s Winter Trend Time! In this episode, I’m sharing 10 trends for the season that you can use to look current, and boost your spirits while the days are cold and short. Listen and learn what's trending for the season, and tips for making the trends work for you. I hope this episode gives you some insight into what’s big this season and gives you some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/winter-trends-2023

If you're anything like me, you're probably starting to get into the holiday spirit and feeling excited about seeing friends and family, and hosting parties. But let's be real, entertaining can be stressful. The pressure to make everything perfect and live up to social media standards can really take the fun out of it. Luckily, my guest today has some great ideas (and the perfect skill set) to help us all make one part of the holidays a little more enjoyable. One of the key takeaways is to remember our "why" - why are we hosting this party? By focusing on the reason we're doing this, we can let go of the pressure to make everything perfect. Friends, let's all make the holidays, especially entertaining, a little easier this year. Another thing that can add to the holiday pressure is figuring out what to wear. To help you have a fabulous festive season, I've put together a FREE Workshop happening Tuesday, Nov 21 at 1:00 Eastern. In this one-hour Zoom chat, I'll be sharing: any Plus, I'll be answering your holiday-style questions. Click here to register. I hope to see you there! In this episode: About Melissa Gugni: Melissa Gugni is a San Francisco Bay Area professional organizer who helps clients feel a sense of calm and order at home. She's also the co-owner of Union Larder, an award-winning wine bar, and Little Vine, a wine and cheese shop. With that, today she is combining her knowledge of catering with her organizational skills to show us how to reduce stress and enjoy the process of hosting a party. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/melissa-gugni

Today, I'm sharing five reasons you're in a style rut! It's part 2 of our style rut series, and it might be just what you need to shake things up, and get out of the style doldrums! If you're bored by your wardrobe, and buying more clothes doesn't seem to help, this episode is for you. If you feel like actually loving your wardrobe is a concept just for other people, this episode is for you. If you're always struggling to get dressed, and you don't know why, this episode is for you In last week's episode, I talked about a very specific type of Style Rut, which happens when you're trying to develop a Signature Style, but end up more bored and uninspired than you were before. This week, we're covering general style ruts - the kind that sneak up on you for seemingly no reason. I've got 5 reasons (or habits) that might have got you there in the first place. In this episode: The Signature Style Challenge is a great way to bust out of your Style Rut, and it starts November 14 in the Style Circle Community! Not only will you get the Challenge for free, you'll also have access to ALL of our masterclasses, including Signature Style, Dress Your Body Shape like a Pro, The Ultimate Closet Makeover, and of course, our famous Capsule Wardrobe Guides. If you're not a member yet, join us today. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/five-reasons-style-rut

If you've ever tried to have better, more authentic, personal..dare we say Signature style and ended up feeling like you just wear the same thing all the time, this episode is for you! Over the next two episodes, I'll be talking about Style Ruts--what they are, why they happen, and how to get out of them. Every woman falls into a Style Rut now and then, including me. If you're not sure what a Style Rut is, basically, it's a major case of the wardrobe blahs. Nothing lights you up, everything feels the same, and getting dressed is a chore--especially for things outside your daily routines. There are lots of reasons we fall into style ruts, but today, we're talking about a very specific type of style rut--that is, when you're consciously working on developing your style, but things are getting worse, instead of better. The good news is, there's a reason your Signature Style is turning into a Style Rut--and today, we're uncovering what that is! In this episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/signature-style-or-style-rut

Does where you live influence your style? And if it does, which has the better style - the East Coast or the West Coast? Obviously, we're not going to pretend to be able to settle this topic once and for all in a single podcast episode! However, we do explore whether regional style can truly exist in a world where retail chains offer the same items across the country, and around the world. To dig deeper into this topic, we've invited two experts, both Certified Stylists in the Everyday Style Network. Representing the West Coast is Morgen Peters, a wife and mother of four who's passionate about helping women create casual wardrobes that suit their current life phase. On the East Coast, we have Katie Valentine, who believes great style is about showing up rather than showing off. She equips her clients with the tools to embrace their signature style and build wardrobes that complement their lifestyle. We talked about things that would look out of place on each coast, as well as their closet staples, and of course, how to make the same merchandise we all have access to look individual and appropriate for any regional style. In other super exciting news, The Style Network Training program is coming back! The next round starts October 30, and we've updated the program so that you can take part wherever you are in the world! Plus, we've added four incredible bonuses to help you through the biggest roadblocks new business owners face. If you've ever thought a wardrobe styling business could be right for you, you owe it to yourself to take the next step to your dream career! Visit our new Style Network website for more details! In this episode: Don't forget, that our Fall Capsule Wardrobe is available now! It's the blueprint for an effortlessly stylish wardrobe. The Guide is available in the Style Circle membership, where you also get access to all 5 of our Style Masterclasses, our Facebook Community, and lots of other style resources. Plus, you get our exclusive members-only podcast, The Everyday Style School: Extra Credit. Join the membership and get everything you need to make style easy. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/east-coast-west-coast-style

Have you ever had one of those mornings when everything seems to go wrong? You oversleep, spill coffee on your outfit, and hit every single red light on your way to work? And then, it feels like no matter what you do, you can’t shake the black cloud that follows you all day long. Yep, we’ve all been there. The way your morning goes tends to set the tone for your entire day, and let’s face it, getting dressed is an important part of your morning. As a wardrobe stylist who has been dressing everyday women for over 20 years, I am well aware of the transformational power of what you wear. But did you know that your wardrobe also has the power to change your mornings and your days by influencing your confidence and mindset? Your clothes have an incredible impact on how you feel about yourself and how you show up in the world. In this episode, I talk about four wardrobe-related things we can do to make sure that our mornings set us up for success, no matter what life throws at us. So if you’re tired of feeling overwhelmed in the morning, this episode will change the way you approach getting dressed. In this episode: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/better-morning

In this episode, I'm sharing a few trends from the Fall 2023 runways that you can incorporate into your everyday wardrobe without looking like you raided your daughter's closet! While a lot of runway looks don't translate to real-way life (looking at you, no-pants trend!), there are tons of fall trends you can wear to work, to dinner with friends, or even to the grocery store! Listen and learn what's trending for the season, and tips for making the trends work for you. Need more help getting your wardrobe looking current? Many of these styles are featured in our Fall 2023 Capsule Wardrobe Guide, coming Sept 13. The Guide shows you how to combine 39 pieces (mostly basics, with a few trends peppered in) to create over 250 fab fall outfits. The Guide is available in the Style Circle membership, where you also get access to all 5 of our Style Masterclasses, our Facebook Community, and lots of other style resources. Plus, you get our exclusive members-only podcast, The Everyday Style School: Extra Credit. This month, I'm sharing 5 more Fall trends, as well as 5 former Fall trends that it's time to retire. Join the membership and get everything you need to make style easy. I hope this episode gives you some insight into what’s big this season and gives you some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/fall-trends-2023

This week we wrap up our summer series with a conversation I’ve been wanting to have for ages. It’s honestly taken me a long time to get up the courage to ruffle some feathers in service of the greater good. In today's episode, I'm talking with Emily Paulson about direct sales - also known as network marketing, social selling, and multi-level marketing (MLM). Although it goes by a few different names, the principles are the same, and we're going to dig into how the business model really works. After being a completely unsuccessful consultant with 2 MLM companies, my goal with this episode just might be to have a little vindication…. This type of business model has left a negative impression on women in terms of what owning, and growing a business is all about. I sincerely believe that owning your own business is the best way to have it all, and it pains me to think women who want to start something of their own hold themselves back because of what they've experienced being exposed to this culture. If you’re in a Direct Sales business, I really want you to hear me when I say that this isn’t about you, the consultant, it’s about the company and the business model as a whole. As we get ready to launch the Style Network again, I knew it was time to get over my fear of offending people and talk about this–in hopes that women who do want to start something of their own won’t hold themselves back because they believe they have to follow a business model that just feels icky. Having a wildly successful business is possible. Speaking of which, if you’ve got an eye for style, a heart for serving women, and the desire to build a business of your own, the Style Network training and certification program could be just what you’re looking for. Grab our free guide to 5 Things you Need to be a Successful Stylist and 5 things you don’t. That will get you on the list when details come out for our next round. I would love to help you build something real and lasting. Join me for an enlightening look at multi-level marketing (MLM). I hope you find our conversation entertaining and informative–and if you’ve ever thought about starting your own business, I really hope this episode gives you a fresh perspective. Emily is the author of the book Hey, Hun: Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing. In it, she shares the story of how she signed up for the sisterhood, free cars, and the promise of a successful business of her own. After making well over a million dollars at one of the top MLMs, she realized what she really had were burned bridges, broken friendships, and an unsustainable schedule. Now she’s speaking out to spark change and bring a new perspective to the cultural epidemic of MLMs. In this episode you’ll learn: What MLMs are and how they are different from Pyramid Schemes The link between personal development and the MLM model The ways the MLM model aims to exploit women's needs and pain points and what to watch out for Emily's best advice for any listeners who are working for MLMs Of course, if you’re in a Direct Sales business, and you feel this doesn’t apply to you, great! I’m talking about the MLM model, so if you want to DM me and let me know how your situation is different, I’m all ears! Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/emily-paulson

In this episode, I had the privilege of going behind the scenes with one of my favorite real-life, everyday-style influencers for women over 40, Jo-Lynne Shane. I'm fascinated by the world of style influencers, especially those like Jo-Lynn, who give us attainable, real-life style guidance. In this conversation we chat about the hard work that goes into being a creator, she shares her professional journey, favorite brands, and personal must-have pieces. If you've been missing clothing conversations on the podcast during our Summer interview series, then this episode is for you... Jo-Lynne is a wife and mom of three who has been blogging since 2006. What started as a mommy blog has evolved into an everyday style destination for women over 40. She shares the latest fashion trends, wearable outfits, and practical style tips five days a week on JoLynneShane.com. In this episode you’ll learn: The difference between stylists and style influencers - and why you should get style inspiration from both Jo-Lynne's daily life and how frequently she creates content Trends that Jo-Lynne is predicting for Fall Common fashion challenges and mistakes - and how to address them Where Jo-Lynne finds inspiration online Spending time talking with Jo-Lynn was so much fun! I want to thank her again for sharing with us. I hope our conversation inspires you to up-level your everyday style. For year-round style encouragement and support, become a member of the Style Circle. Visit ​The Style Circle for details on all the ways that this membership can assist you in your own style journey. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/jo-lynne-shane

This week we're continuing our Summer Series with a super special guest, Patrick Kucharson, a gift coach who specializes in helping people give more meaningful gifts while avoiding the stress that comes with it. A B- gift-giver by nature, Patrick runs Better Gift Coach, a free newsletter that provides a weekly one-minute shortcut to always having awesome gift ideas well in advance. Each week, he enjoys sharing a story of the best gift someone has ever received and providing guidance on how to replicate it. His newsletter has been featured in The New York Times and Real Simple Magazine. I must confess that I love giving gifts, but I understand that giving meaningful gifts can be challenging for many people. Life gets busy, and special occasions can sneak up on us, leading to rushed gift card purchases or relying on next-day deliveries from Amazon. If you can relate to this, today's conversation will help you have fewer of these stressful moments. Don't let gift-giving stress get the best of you. Tune in to this episode and discover how to give meaningful, memorable gifts throughout the year. Get a head start on your holiday shopping and make gift-giving a joyous and stress-free experience. In this episode you'll learn: Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/patrick-kucharson

Skincare can be overwhelming, don't you think? I mean, you walk into the store looking for a moisturizer, and suddenly you're surrounded by a sea of serums, lotions, and unfamiliar ingredients that claim to be essential. It's hard to figure out what to buy, what you actually need, and what's worth the money. Join me as we talk through all of this. This week's guest is Amber Budd, a skincare expert who I have the pleasure of seeing every six weeks or so. Amber is a self-described skincare nerd and the Skincare Fairy Godmother. She’s been featured in Oprah, Fast Company, Munaluchi Bride, and ESPN2. She’s worked with Caitlyn Jenner, Mike Tyson, and for the US Ryder Cup Wives. Ambers is also the owner of an award-winning spa. She's a product developer, a jewelry designer, a Navy wife, and the mom to a very chatty toddler. This episode is jam-packed with skincare wisdom. We cover everything from skincare routines for common skin challenges to the latest trending ingredients and services. Amber was so generous with her knowledge that we chatted longer than expected. I hope this conversation clears up some of your skincare confusion, and inspires you to shake up your routine a little and try some new things so you can reach your skincare goals. In this episode you’ll learn: For even more of Amber's skincare tips head on over to the Extra Credit podcast for the bonus episode! This is another REALLY amazing benefit you’ll get as a Style Circle member. See ​The Style Circle for details. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/amber-budd

Are you like me, and have really good intentions... but the follow-through could use some help? Do you find it challenging to form great habits? If so, you're in the right place! We're continuing our Summer Interview series this week with Lisa Lizotte, an expert in turning good intentions into good habits that stick. In this episode, Lisa shares easy action steps for decluttering, organizing, and systemizing our homes so we can live more simply and focus on the things that matter most. One new habit can change your life, so start small and you'll be amazed at where you can end up. In this episode you'll learn: Planning your wardrobe is a great habit that makes mornings easier and sets you up for success all day long. Get your seasonal wardrobe planner inside The Style Circle. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/lisa-lizotte