Ask A Divorcée-logo

Ask A Divorcée

Comedy Podcasts >

More Information


United States






52 - The no-pants life

Today we have an awesome guest on the podcast and she evangelizes about a life where you wear no pants! This is a returnee guest, from our most popular episode ever!! That super famous episode is titled “Sex Prison.” If you haven’t listened to it, you should. Also, can you f%&%%$%^^! your way out of a depression? And, we learn about how Burning Man is really the catalyst of Alllll divorce. Cat or baby? Listen on!


51 - Deuces

Tracy Nguyen, comedienne extraordinaire joins us! Not a divorcée, but veteran of enough relationships to share in our cynicism. We address the big questions: can one have too many vibrators? Should relationships end at three years? Is art all about sex or all about death? PICK A SIDE! Tracy shares the history of Catholicism in Vietnam and her boat times. Plus an all new edition of Annette's an Ignorant Dumb Bitch.


50 - Stay the fuck home

This episode gets poetic IRL. Annette gets inspired and recites poetry to our readers. Also, would you like to know how to go on a hike and not get murdered? You certainly would. Definitely, learn how data science is used at Tinder. Listen on to learn what “Me gusta cuando callas” means to your romantic relationship.


49 - Property is More Important Than People

We are joined by smokey-voiced comic and pre-Raphaelite beauty Shelbi Evans, who tells us about growing up in Texas, what comes from abstinence-only education (spoiler: babies!), and her adorable parents. We also ask the important questions: who are you if you aren't yourself. What wasn't published in Anne Frank's diary? Someone tries to murder us. Well, someone tried to open the door with unknown aims. Plus an all new Annette's an Ignorant Dumb Bitch!


48 - So … If we can start the sex now

The microphone stand flew away! and Paola is wearing snake skin boots. In this episode, our intrepid hostesses discuss racism against hair color and brain eating amoebas. Our guest, Damian, tells us about his long periods of not thinking about anything and key ways to interact with his hair dresser. He also enlightens us about how to meet people IRL. And, we learn about dating in the US vs. AU. Wanna hear it? So … listen and learn.


47 - Happy Divorce-iversary!

We're baaaack! We’re sorry we’ve been away so long! We’ll never do it again, we swear (maybe). We’ve missed you and we know you missed us! How have you been living your lives without our advice to guide you? What, did you realize no one else can make your decisions for you, embrace the reality of that which you cannot change, and take concrete steps to change that which is within your control? Gross! What should you say when meeting up with an ex? Should you subject a new and fragile...


45 - Leather Puppy

Bottoms, tops, subs, doms, sadists, rope buddies, leather puppies - learn what some of these are but not all of them on this episode! Today we have very special guest Maha, here to correct our misconceptions about BDSM, whether one should enter into a relationship because of how good the sex is, 50 Shades of Grey, your 30s, and Arabic. Join us to be taught, terrified, and maybe a little titillated!


44 - I love you I know

We love our guest Scarlett! And not just because she compliments the everlovin' shit out of us (though that certainly doesn't hurt). Join us as we learn together about her ideal wedding, Star Wars, the difference between Mexican and Irish Catholicism, shit wine, and feminist bullshit. What is homonormativity? How can you make nachos even better? Is the self and its apparent separation from the rest of existence an illusion? All this and also some other stuff! Featuring a double-bonus...


42 - Nonworkers of the World, Unite!

We have a guest again! Hear someone else's voice for a change of pace! Joining us today is Arjun, fresh from the Democratic Socialists of America conference in Chicago and full of revolutionary (or incremental?) spirit. How did he veer red? What does Obamacare matter? How can one scare bougie people AND achieve solidarity with homeless? Arjun talks to us about moving back to Michigan, multiple sclerosis, the importance of work to identity in American, and (of course!) dating. Plus, Paola...


41 - Join Tech to Be Pretty

We didn't want to leave y'all for a week without us, even though Paola is in away in Seattle and Annette has shows, that we delayed salsa in order to record this (dear reader, fret not, immediately afterwards we salsa'd like motherfuckers). SO MUCH advice packed into this short ep you're gonna think we're Oprahs. Career advice focused on what YOU care about - feelin' pretty! Should you do steroids? How to motivate yourself to workout - think about making yourself less murderable! Quite a...


40 - Soulless Cycle

Life is a soulless cycle, but we can distract ourselves. Ready to learn SO MANY THINGS? We have amazing facts and stories from the history of weightlifting, lesbians, our superhero alter egos, ghosts, ponytails, and art collecting. Plus advice about roommates and nutrition, the latter of which may or may not be related to shit getting hella scatological. All this AND a new Dumb Ignorant Bitch question.


39 - Murder or Apples

For a change of pace we discuss strategies to trap a man. Problem: are any men worth trapping? Or should one go for a more humane, catch-and-release strategy? Also, when is too soon to bring up sexual compatibility? When is too late? We work through a lot of our Catholic guilt in this one AND for the kids, a special section on word problems. These chicks love math! Plus, a dumb ignorant question about how ladies hit on each other. Got questions? Email


38 - The Divorcee Whisperer

Aaaannnndddd Annette is back from Greece. YAY. Paola is really excited to have her eloquent friend back to talk to. Thoughout Annette’s absence, Paola languished through the streets of San Francisco. Annette, drops some knowledge about Sappho, a greek poet from the island of Lesbos. Could this be the origin of all the Lesbians? This episode’s guest is the very charming Arya, who tells about her public service to divorced men. She knows exactly how to extract all their sadness. Curious...


34 - Email Bankruptcy

More on coregasms and fitness fantasies from our two hostesses. This episode, we have a sagacious guest who tells us how he summoned the detective gods to find the truth that would win him a Divorce! Can an unorganized inbox really end a marriage? What should be your last meal before you declare divorce? And what is the correct winking etiquette? We learn what the life train is like when it no longer follows the set path of train tracks … derailing, so much better. This and more, now,...


AskADivorcee - The End To Racism

Paola and Annette discover that they have a podcast where they explore very important existential questions. In a previous episode, the two divorcee hosts engaged in a push up contest and they disclose the winner during this episode. Other topics in this episode include: best retirement strategies, when to take a shot before leaving the house, equality in the skin color of cows, the solution to racism, and worm-operated-lesbian holograms that transcend time but not space. Hit us up at...


33 - Teddy Bear Tinder Pic

Ugh, relationships. Gross. We're not only sick of relationships, but sick of romance being a goto topic of conversation. Does our aversion make sense given that this podcast is often about relationships? Does it matter that we would have fire tinder profiles if we were about that life? We divorce ourselves from these concerns and propose conversation alternates - eyeliner, exercise, the nature of cups, sleeping situations, and murder. Plus an all-new edition of "Annette's A Dumb Ignorant...


32 - Hot Butches for Middle-Aged Moms

We are joined by very special guest Liz, who is not a divorcée but nonetheless has some pretty interesting things to say about marriage, especially the one she's in. Is an ideal marriage one in which you can sit together on the couch, drink, and bitch about your respective girlfriends? Also, Paola is concerned about her hair, Annette very straightfully tries to put sexuality in boxes, and both finally admit that this podcast is pretty much gay propaganda. Are you a hot butch? Contact us to...


31 - Oprah Libre

Travel changes a person. Paola, for example, went to Cuba and now is a much more authentic, honest person AND is into hats now. How long will her newfound authenticity and love for people last? $5 says less than 2 weeks. We get into Cuba in a big way, expressing envy over their healthcare and lack of internet. Much information about Cuba is shared, some of it informed by actual experience (Paola) and some of it the result of conjecture and half-remembered bullshit (Annette). Related: Is...


30 - Bonjour Bonjour

We welcome Clara Bijl: comedian, mother, Fenchwoman, philosopher of the art of living, divorcée, lawyer. Maybe not a lawyer, but she really seems like she could be. She is also our first remarriée - yes, she saw the light of divorce, and yet chose to reenter the cave of illusions that is matrimony. We have questions! Like “What?” “Why?” and “Huh?” Can we convince her to become a double-divorcée? Also we learn why burritos are better than diamonds, and Paola completely fails to hide her...


28 - Ay Dios Mío Check Out That Ass

Chris joins us to chat about his long engagement, his horny-ass aunties, and the importance of garages in Latin culture. Garages are hella versatile - one can come out in them or get married in them. Chris' fiancé is from Annette's hometown - the universe is strange indeed. Spanish is spoken. Rape is joked about far too often. Also featuring the return of Annette's An Ignorant Dumb Bitch with a question about Gold Star Lesbians.


Try Premium for 30 days

Live games for all NFL, MLB, NBA, & NHL teams
Commercial-Free Music
No Display Ads