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Join two queer ex-Mormons as they unpack years of generational trauma and explore what it was like to be raised in a Christian cult.

Join two queer ex-Mormons as they unpack years of generational trauma and explore what it was like to be raised in a Christian cult.
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Join two queer ex-Mormons as they unpack years of generational trauma and explore what it was like to be raised in a Christian cult.

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English


Episodes

11 - #GaslightTheWorld, benevolent sexism in Mormonism

12/9/2017
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Welcome to week two of #GaslightTheWorld! This week, Cari and Kelsae explore the many and sundry ways in which benevolent sexism exists in Mormon doctrine and culture, and how LDS church leaders use gaslighting to perpetuate it. Gross. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/11

Duration: 00:59:57


10 - #GaslightTheWorld, LDS Face2Face

12/2/2017
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Happy December, apostates! Cari and Kelsae are excited to announce their super special theme for this month: #GaslightTheWorld! This week, they explore aaaaaaall the gaslighting from the recent LDS Face2Face event hosted by Elders Oaks and Ballard. (Spoiler: there's lots.) For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/10

Duration: 00:55:16


9 - Attachment theory and god as a perfect parent

11/25/2017
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Joseph Smith once referred to god as “the great parent of the universe,” but we think “great” is a bit of a stretch. Join Cari and Kelsae this week as they talk about attachment theory, mirror neurons, and why god is the worst parent ever. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/09

Duration: 00:54:40


8 - BYU devotional with Elder Ballard

11/18/2017
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Cari and Kelsae continue in their apostle-related Q&A adventures with a discussion about Elder Ballard’s recent BYU Devotional address, where he responded to members' questions about perfectionism, being gay and Mormon, pornography as addiction, etc., and failed miserably at saying anything helpful at all. Sigh. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/08

Duration: 01:02:53


7 - LDS Face2Face questions

11/11/2017
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LDSFace2Face is a live Q&A session hosted by high-ranking Mormon leaders and broadcast online to young single adults in the church. Cari and Kelsae answer a few of the questions submitted to the online event page in ways that are better, gayer, and way more honest than Elder Oaks or Ballard could ever hope to be. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/07

Duration: 00:53:52


6 - BITE model part four, emotional control

11/3/2017
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We've made it to the last portion of the BITE Model! Cari and Kelsae wrap things up with emotional control and, uh ... things aren't looking good for the Mormon church. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/06

Duration: 01:32:14


5 - BITE model part three, thought control

10/28/2017
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Cari and Kelsae keep truckin' along with their third episode on the BITE model. This week's focus is on the “T” in BITE: Thought control. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/05

Duration: 01:05:30


4 - BITE model part two, information control

10/21/2017
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Cari and Kelsae continue their discussion on whether Mormonism is a cult using the BITE Model. This week they focus on the “I” in BITE: Information control. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/04

Duration: 00:42:52


3 - Mormonism, cults, and the BITE model

10/14/2017
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Is Mormonism a cult? Let’s find out! Cari and Kelsae discuss the BITE model, which details specific methods that cults use to recruit and maintain control over members. This episode focuses on the “B” in BITE: Behavioral Control. For full show notes and links, go to: https://www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/03

Duration: 01:06:52


2 - Surviving BYU during Proposition 8

10/5/2017
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Cari and Kelsae discuss their experiences as closeted queer BYU students while the LDS church was actively campaigning for Proposition 8 to pass in California. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/02

Duration: 00:48:10


1 - “They leave the Church but they can’t leave it alone!”

9/26/2017
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Join Cari and Kelsae, two queer ex-Mormon women, as they discuss their experiences leaving the Mormon church and the concept of “[Ex-Members] leave the church, but they can’t leave it alone!” For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/01

Duration: 01:12:05