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#211 "Loveable"

Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras talk about affair healing issues of worthiness, shame, and grace in their discussion of the book Loveable by Kelly Flanagan. Podcast Notes & Resources: Get the Book: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats:

Duration: 00:30:15

#210 "7 Things Your Betrayed Partner Wishes You Knew"

Three counselors, Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras, discuss eight truths about affair recovery that betrayed partners wish their partners understood. Podcast Notes & Resources: Get the Book: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats:

Duration: 00:20:59

#209 "A Reconnected Marriage" (Relationship Renewal Stage 5)

Affair recovery counselor Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs. Podcast Notes & Resources: Get the Book: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats:

Duration: 00:32:17

#208 "Affair Healing Misunderstood"

Tim and Sharon Tedder give personal insight into their response to recent criticism and defend the legitimacy of hope for healing after infidelity. Podcast Notes & Downloads: Get the Book: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats:

Duration: 00:17:52

#207 "Cooperation" (Relationship Renewal Stage 4)

Continuing in the Relationship Renewal strategy for couples building a new marriage after infidelity, Tim Tedder explains the fourth stage of Cooperation in which couples form a cooperating partnership to work toward agreed goals. (For earlier stages of Exposure, Reaction, and Clarity, listen to podcasts #118 and #120.) Podcast Notes & Downloads: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats: Online...

Duration: 00:26:05

#206 "Affair Recovery & Faith"

Tim Tedder interviews Christian author and sociologist, Dr. Jayne Swanson, who talks about four steps that lead toward living a full, abundant life after an affair. Podcast Notes: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats: Online Community:

Duration: 00:28:32

#205 "8 Affair Counseling Cautions"

Counseling is often an important part of affair recovery, but not every counseling choice or experience is a good one. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, counselors who specialize in affair recovery issues, discuss eight important issues to consider when seeking therapy after infidelity. Podcast Notes: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats: Online Community:

Duration: 00:22:28

#204 "Needing To Ask About The Affair"

After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about each partner's role in affair recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to help them through this period of healing. Podcast Notes: Phone Coaching: Couples Retreats:...

Duration: 00:40:27

#123 Convo: "Handling the Holidays"

Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras discuss the difficulties often experienced when trying to navigate holiday celebrations while recovering from the trauma of an affair. They also share advice from members of our Community forum. Podcast Archives: Phone Coaching: Online Community: Music used in intro: Josh Woodward, Under the Stairs (instrumental),,...

Duration: 00:22:56

#121 Convo: "How Did She Really Feel About Her Affair Partner?"

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder answer a caller's question about how his wife describes her feelings for the affair partner, and recommend a recovery resource for betrayed spouses. Podcast Shownotes: Phone Coaching with Tim or Sharon: Leave a question or comment on our podcast hotline: (407) 536-7398

Duration: 00:23:27

#120 "Reaction-Clarity" (Relationship Renewal Stages 2-3)

Tim Tedder, an affair recovery counselor, discusses stages 2 and 3 of relationship renewal after an affair: REACTION and CLARITY. He is joined by his wife and co-worker, Sharon, to further discuss some of the issues couples face during these stages. For podcast notes, episode resources, and information about the Relationship Renewal Guide: Information about phone coaching with Tim Tedder: Couple's Affair Healing Retreats:...

Duration: 00:51:11

#119 Convo: "Will I Ever Heal from the Affair?"

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder read forum posts and comment on the question of whether a betrayed spouse might be permanently stuck or broken by the pain of betrayal. Podcast Shownotes: Phone Coaching with Tim or Sharon: The Kind World podcast:

Duration: 00:32:49

#113 Affair Questions & Answers (June 2016)

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder answer affair related questions submitted by listeners. This episode includes questions about staying healthy with a spouse who is openly cheating, how to deal with an affair partner, how to deal with the strong feelings of betrayal, what to think when you hear "I love you but I'm not in love with you and want something new," and considering the role of the brain in an affair attraction.

Duration: 00:28:24

#112 "He Said He Didn't Love Me Anymore"

Counselor Tim Tedder interviews Robin, whose husband announced one day that he wanted a divorce. As she tells her story, we discuss finding out about an affair, Trickle Truth, snooping, forgiving, trusting, and change.

Duration: 00:22:42

#110 "Signs of Real Affair Recovery"

Counselor Tim Tedder discusses the evidences to look for in determining whether healthy recovery is happening in a marriage after an affair and talks to a betrayed husband about his part in their marriage healing. [Note: This is a combined re-recording of two earlier podcasts due to the high level of microphone static present in those recordings.]

Duration: 00:26:21

#109 Convo: "Needing Affair Closure"

Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder discuss one betrayed spouse's desire for her husband to send a final message to the affair partner nine months after the affair ended and consider the pros and cons of doing so. They also recommend a good book on boundaries along with talking about powdered donuts and Sharon's favorite restaurant.

Duration: 00:13:15

#108 Convo: "Reality vs Fantasy"

A conversation between husband-and-wife counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder as they discuss a recent forum post about the euphoric feelings in an affair and recommend a good book to read.

Duration: 00:12:15

#107 "Children and Affairs"

A father talks to his children about their past experience of being in a family that was being torn apart by his affair.

Duration: 00:27:28

#105 "One Couple's Affair Healing Story"

Tim Tedder interviews Tim & Lori about their journey of recovery from Lori's affair.

Duration: 00:47:56

#104 "Ping Pong Effect: The Unfaithful Partner's Indecision"

Tim Tedder discusses the pattern of indecision often experienced by a partner who has been unfaithful, swinging back and forth between choosing their spouse or the affair partner.

Duration: 00:47:09

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