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No sugar- or cream-added, enticingly evil, wickedly funny conversations with Sy Locklair and Derrick Deberry on life, dating, pop culture, and every issue in between. It's humor, attitude, shade, and opinionated-truth!

No sugar- or cream-added, enticingly evil, wickedly funny conversations with Sy Locklair and Derrick Deberry on life, dating, pop culture, and every issue in between. It's humor, attitude, shade, and opinionated-truth!
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No sugar- or cream-added, enticingly evil, wickedly funny conversations with Sy Locklair and Derrick Deberry on life, dating, pop culture, and every issue in between. It's humor, attitude, shade, and opinionated-truth!






Girl Talk: Spilling the Tea, Throwing Shade, and Keeping It Real -- THRST071

After a short break, we’re back and joined by Lola for a classic I-Can’t-Believe-This-Really-Happened episode! Spilled tea, epic shadiness, confessions, educations, and unbridled realness. From Janet Jackson to Little Richard, from Publisher’s Clearing House to broke men with small attachments, and from fetishes to people who dress their animals to go grocery shopping…there’s a LOT packed into this episode. Talk Du Jour in this episode is the debut installment of Girl Talk where we discuss...

Duration: 01:27:45

The Comeback: Tanning, Contraceptives, and Consumer Electronics -- THRST070

Summer is almost over and we're serving a comeback episode -- it's the return after our summer hiatus and Derek Johnson joins as guest co-host, the archaic pullout method is making a comeback, too, and we're sharing the hot and interesting finds from CES NY and GetGeeked 2017. Yes, the Pullout Method; people still use it...we try to figure out WHY. Then, there's the JifTip...which is odd, but may work (if it works at all) in conjunction with pulling out or else you may be in severe...

Duration: 00:54:53

69-ing and Oral Transactions: Myths, Tips, Tricks, and Skips -- THRST069

69. The art, the act, the milestone and celebratory episode with Jezula and Martino! We cover the sex position (do you like yours standard or standing) and get the unsweetened sweet tea on an actual couple! We bring you up-to-speed on the latest must-know-subject matter: pornsexuality, Dancing Bear parties, a new trend in vaginal rejuvenation, and the latest pearl-clutching moment in Nashville. We have a solid discussion on how often couples should have sex and share details around the...

Duration: 01:13:43

Weddings: When You Say I Do and Things Not To Do -- THRST068

Wedding Season has arrived and we're here to help you not screw it up. We're giving you things people are doing that they shouldn't be, offering tips on what not to do at your wedding, and giving you and your guest the scoop on making your moment socially perfect. It's just the two of us, this time -- giving the tea on marriage ceremonies and being our normal chatty selves; we discuss the perfect husband (better known as a Happy Meal Man), anal rejuvenation and butthole Botox, mayonnaise...

Duration: 00:40:12

Interracial Dating 101 -- THRST067

When friends come together, things happen: all hell breaks loose, problems get solved, fun is had, and one of the hosts can't keep it together. Jezula Antoine joins us again to discuss some very interesting topics: celebrity sex tapes we wish existed so they could be leaked, what to do when you and a friend are mutually sexually attracted to each other but neither wants to make the first move, the biggest and unsuspected health issue facing middle aged men, masturbating at work, and we...

Duration: 01:07:48

Soda Pop Social -- THRST066

Sometimes you have to have faith and trust in your friends and let the spirit guide you where it leads. We made some plans and did the rest by chance. Places we landed include the smell of some body parts and the taste of some bodily fluids (and what can affect either), the latest Botox related cosmetic procedure, masturbation in Texas, the going rate for virginity, the text message that will make you clutch your pearls and gag simultaneously, Cristiano Ronaldo, and the introduction of...

Duration: 00:56:41

To The Left, To The Left: When to End a Friendship -- THRST065

When there are three people and two of them have names that sound exactly alike, things can get downright hilarious and confusing. Nevertheless, we had fun (like we always do when Derek Johnson joins us in the studio) and went in on numerous topics; including: confidentiality agreements for sex, what people think during a hookup, the hotness and grossness of testicles, public sex, and what you say to someone after sex. Yep, it’s a lot of sex talk today…with a few other goodies sprinkled...

Duration: 01:10:02

Is Casual Sex The Cure For Loneliness Or A Breakup? - THRST064

If you could color between the lines of casual sex, loneliness, and a broken heart; it would look a lot like this episode: vivid, wildly entertaining, and real. Derek Johnson and Ken Shadford make a return visit for some friendly and revealing conversation. We discuss gay fat, jockstraps, married men, paying for sex, premature ejaculation, and casual sex as a way to cope with loneliness and getting over a failed relationship. Be sure to check out our new segment, Would You Like Fries...

Duration: 00:53:19

Prenuptial Agreements, Divorces, and Reasons to Stay Single -- THRST063

You asked...and they returned! Jezula Antoine and Derek Johnson...both in one episode. They showed up and turned it all out and upside down. We talked the good talk: from Mariah Carey's prenuptial agreement to Mary J. Blige's divorce; from when doing something you love goes horribly wrong to weird and wild causes of death; from Lil Kim to fighting penguins;and, from getting that bootylicious rump to putting Siri to a raunchy but real test. There's a new PARCHED reveal; tune in to...

Duration: 00:59:32

Sleeping With The Help -- THRST062

Special Guest: Leah Linder We hear of celebrities doing it all of the time, but how many average joes do it: sleeping with the help (those you pay for personal/intimate services) -- including those outside of nannies and tennis instructors. Special guest, Leah Linder, joins us for that conversation and the others in the episode; including: dating a best friend, interracial marriages, dating apps, and see what she reveals in Train Of Thoughts and which heartthrobs she chooses for Take,...

Duration: 00:47:34

Inside The Mind of a Travel Agent -- THRST061

We ask the questions you've been wanting to ask a travel agent and get deep into the mind of award-winning travel agent and owner of Ace World Travel, Aurelio Giordano. He answers our questions, listener submitted questions, and provides mind-blowing info on travel agents and the benefits of using one -- talk about things we didn't know! Other topics of the show include the elusive and exclusive Mile High Club and airlines that offer "romantic flights," dating preferences and what you do...

Duration: 01:13:13

What Do You Consider Cheating? - THRST060

Cheating. Infidelity. To some they are one and the same, but what constitutes cheating varies from person to person and couple to couple. Max joins us for a Talk Du Jour on 'cheating' and examples of what could be considered cheating and stepping outside of the rules. Kissing, flirting, sex, sexting, sexy selfies, mutual masturbation...we cover them all and a few more. We revisit interracial mingling and chat about 'the butters.' We, also, discuss your friends -- are they really your...

Duration: 00:56:39

Hey Daddy! The Tea on Intergenerational Relationships - THRST059

We have a "daddy" in the house! Scott Adams is here, y'all! What is the age of the oldest man you've ever dated or with whom you've had sex? We chat those daddy/son relationships -- when the cake is fresh and eaten, too. There's, also, talk on the best way to cut a cake -- a real cake -- along with underwear pet peeves (really, Hanes and Fruit of the Loom should be for a certain demographic...and dirty is never in), the popularity of cheating married men porn and the appeal of those men,...

Duration: 00:57:04

Reunited: Class Reunions, Family Reunions, and Going Back to Your Roots -- THRST058

Who made the potato salad??? You guessed it: Reunited...and the reunions are real, really hilarious, and a chance to go back to your roots. Family reunions, class reunions, and reuniting with people you haven't seen in ages. It's exhausting, but someone's gotta catch up on the latest gossip and local shenanigans. Aside from who made what, who's married to whom now, who has the most kids, and who's in jail and/or sleeping with whomever, we're discussing interracial dating, revisiting a...

Duration: 00:58:18

The Cute and The Unattractive of Relationships -- THRST057

We're taking the good, the bad, and giving you the facts of relationships; or as we like to call it --- the cute and the unattractive. There's anal sex (the new make-or-break), nipples (yours may not be normal), splashback (good aim isn't a game), zodiac signs (there's a method to the way you lie), and a special guest -- Jason (his first time on a podcast...judge him for yourself), to join us through it all. Other treats: a new blowjob, Olympic swimmer Ryan Lochte and his Olympic...

Duration: 00:38:45

Does Your Freak Number Keep You In The Friend Zone? -- THRST056

Maxine is in the house for this episode and we want you to ask yourself these questions: - What's my Freak Number? - Does my Sex Personality keep me in The Friend Zone? - What's the number of people I've been exposed to sexually -- directly and indirectly? - Vaginal steaming; what might that be!? - What kind of person am I less likely to use a condom with during sex? If you answered "I don't know" to any of these questions, this episode is for you. Listen to it. Our special guest,...

Duration: 00:57:43

Things We're Packing In Our Bag When We Go Back To Africa -- THRST055

Ever wondered what would happen if you gave a lot to someone and then took much of it back; how would they be left? In the state of our society today where racism is evident, people are blatantly against the Black Lives Matter movement, and many are courageously fighting for change through it all; it's a daunting and frightening moment to realize how your life is devalued and you are disrespected as a human being because of the simple color of your skin. It inspired a conversation around...

Duration: 01:10:14

Ménage à Trois: Tips For A Threesome -- THRST054

We aim to help you live your best life, your most fulfilled life, and your most scandalous life...combined; all at once. Forget Oprah, The THRST is the podcast to be following. In our typical raunchy-but-real fashion, we're serving up Ménage à Trois how-to's. You know, tips on how successfully navigate an effective and satisfying threesome. Also in this episode, we share our opinions on gun control and regulation, discuss the outrageous tragedy at Pulse nightclub in Orlando, Florida; as...

Duration: 01:13:26

Relationship Fitbits: 5 Ways to Improve Your Partnership -- THRST053

Your favorite dynamic gay duo returns with valuable fitbits -- tips on how to maintain and improve your relationship with your partner: from communication to trust and respect, from a place of love to not sweating the small stuff. Points of views and insights from a single person and someone in a serious relationship. We've got you covered in faith, hope, and truth. There's also serious, real-life, conversations-with-my-friends discussions on the appearance of men, the flakiness of gay...

Duration: 00:59:49

Lemons & Limes -- THRST052

Beyonce brought us Lemonade and we're serving black gays in white spaces -- in more ways than one. Malcolm Betts joins us a special guest to discuss some of his experiences in predominantly white spaces. Given that May is National Masturbation Month, there's some rub-and-tug jerking discussion, tea is completely spilled on a pseudo-celebrity, we miss Prince, and the fiasco surrounding Kelly Ripa and Michael Strahan. Messy Connections makes a triumphant return! There are two more Parched...

Duration: 00:58:01

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