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Tuff Love - get down to it and let's get intimate.

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English

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043: The Pursuit of Purpose

9/15/2016
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In honor of next week’s ManTalks (ManTalks.com, I will be talking about the concept of PURPOSE and how it affects a person’s life. I will be sharing my own journey of first following the well-beaten path to going off the reservation to find my own way in the world and the tangled web it created in my life. Now, older, ... The post 043: The Pursuit of Purpose appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:40:15

042: The Challenges of Co-Parenting

9/8/2016
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At the height of the Landmark Advanced Course in 1999, I announced outloud to 500 people, “I’m ready to be a father”. Loud applause. It was obvious I had gotten my money’s worth. As my marriage went on, it was obvious that kids weren’t really on the table. Neither of us were ready. I started OneTaste in 2004 and for ... The post 042: The Challenges of Co-Parenting appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:39:26

041: The Cost of Men’s Sexual Shame

9/1/2016
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I have 17.5 years of self-development work. I have been an owner of an international company based on female orgasm. I have done extensive internal work including therapy, 12-step work, courses and self-introspection. I have a loving partner who encourages me to bring to her all my carnal sexual thoughts. And I still have shame around my sex. “Is it ... The post 041: The Cost of Men’s Sexual Shame appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:45:49

040: Modern Sex Talk with Ryan Thomas

8/25/2016
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It was time for some new guests so I reached out to Connor Beaton who does ManTalks in Canada. We had connected last year. When I asked him for some suggestions for some people to invite on the show, Ryan Thomas was the first one he recommended. So we connected and a few days later we’re on skype rapping about ... The post 040: Modern Sex Talk with Ryan Thomas appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:47:58

039: Navigating Parental Approval

8/19/2016
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i once heard this joke that really describes a lot of child-parent relationships: “Parents know how to push all our buttons. They are the onces who installed them” What is the power that the parental units have over our psyches? Why do we search for approval from them? What part of our souls are so connected to those that created ... The post 039: Navigating Parental Approval appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:43:35

038: Tales of One Successful Relationship w/ Morgan Mellas

8/11/2016
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Bluntly, before I met Morgan, I didn’t have much faith in relationships and didn’t really believe that they could be successful. In fact, I never thought I would meet a woman who could ‘keep up with me’. I still carried trauma from years of being in an extreme situation where my romantic life was poked and proded and judged by ... The post 038: Tales of One Successful Relationship w/ Morgan Mellas appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:50:39

037: How to Touch Deliberately

8/4/2016
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I came up with the concept for this Tuff Love in a moment and then thought – “you can’t do that”. But, as a teacher of deliberate touch for 10 years and a witness to a WORLD of UN-DELIBERATE touch, I thought it would be a good one to discuss. Touch is a necessity of life. They say babies can ... The post 037: How to Touch Deliberately appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:41:16

036: Authenticity with Kendra Cunov

7/28/2016
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au·then·tic·i·ty Noun : real or genuine : not copied or false : true and accurate its a simple word really… authenticity. Just be real, right. Easy? Right? Well.. no, its not so easy. In matter of fact, its f’in hard to be authentic in this world because the world rarely rewards you if you are truly who you are. > ... The post 036: Authenticity with Kendra Cunov appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:41:57

035: Having Integrity

7/21/2016
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This week’s show was off-script. In other words, it’s more real and vulnerable than I expected it to be. We start off with Robert Burns’ 1785 poem: > The best-laid schemes o’ mice an’ men > Gang aft agley The best laid plans of mice and men often go askew. In my life, I am suffering a loss of LA ... The post 035: Having Integrity appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:40:07

034: Surviving and Thriving in Transitions

7/7/2016
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I am in the middle of a transformation. Details will be made public soon. The question, really, is how I handle this transition will be a true test of my commitment to being an entrepreneur and a man. As Tony Robbins says, we all want stability. But we all crave instability. But we say we want them on OUR F’IN ... The post 034: Surviving and Thriving in Transitions appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:38:54

033: Breaking The Old Relationship Paradigm w/ Ray Doktor

6/30/2016
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My buddy Jason said that i had to meet Ray that we are like-minded souls. We were like two cats when we first met. Sniffing at each other, our ears pinned back, but with a definite kinship. Since then, we’ve become friends and colleagues. Ray is doing his part to bring people together in Los Angeles. He has a popular ... The post 033: Breaking The Old Relationship Paradigm w/ Ray Doktor appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:38:23

032: Handling the Heat

6/23/2016
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I grew up an overweight kid in the suburbs of Long Island which meant the heat of the hazy and humid summers was something to be feared. I feared how my shirt would cling to my body, bring the cotton t-shirts to conform to the body I was ashamed of. More, it would remind of the extra pounds I was ... The post 032: Handling the Heat appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:40:52

031: Be Nice

6/16/2016
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A teacher once told me the viewpoint: “Being ‘Nice’ is telling the truth without anger”. I always liked that. Last weekend, Morgan and i had the opportunity to coach a couple who were in a rough spot. They kept going around in the same loop and from 10 feet away I could hear this reoccuring ‘whine’ from both of them ... The post 031: Be Nice appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:46:35

030: Stop Creating Problems (Where there none)

6/9/2016
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There was an epic fire in my new home of Calabasas, California on Saturday. We could see huge billowing smoke, fire helicopers, planes, fire-trucks over the ridge from our home. I was home cooking dinner waiting for Morgan and the kids to come home. When they come in the front door, the two kiddos (aged 5 & 7) are screaming ... The post 030: Stop Creating Problems (Where there none) appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:42:55

029: Start with Why for Better Results

6/2/2016
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The first time I saw Simon Sinek’s presentation “Starts with Why”, I was blown away. I saw the wisdom in his words and his eloquent way of explaining a new paradigm of how to approach business and life. It has become the first thing I often discuss with clients about the expansion in their lives. Now, this is happening for ... The post 029: Start with Why for Better Results appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:37:52

028: Pure Education around Gender Identity and Dynamics with Amy Jo Goddard

5/26/2016
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I am a heterosexual white male born and raised in an upper middle class neighborhood who really has never wanted for anything in his entire life. When they define “privilege”, it would be appropriate to use my life as an example. This has not stopped me from working my ass off since i was 14 years old but still the ... The post 028: Pure Education around Gender Identity and Dynamics with Amy Jo Goddard appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:45:15

027: The Conundrum of ‘Unconditional Love’

5/19/2016
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The songs say: Unconditional Love is what we all strive for. To have it and to receive it. The parents say: We love our children unconditionally. The cynics say: There is no such thing as conditional love The Lovers say: I love Is it possible? Does it happen? Are we really able to love someone or something unconditionally? I don’t ... The post 027: The Conundrum of ‘Unconditional Love’ appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:44:21

026: Mother’s Day

5/5/2016
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I once read a “joke” on Facebook that your parents know how to push your buttons because they are the ones who installed them. My mother, Netta Kandell, was born into a different time, raised to abide by certain rules, and be “act” like a woman of her times. Then, the 70’s happened. One of most vivid memories was when ... The post 026: Mother’s Day appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:44:27

025: Sexual Polarity with John Wineland

4/28/2016
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I once told my good friend John… “I don’t believe in polarity”. He was quiet about it for a while and then his face turned red and I thought he might pop a blood vessel. We debated about it and teased each other about it and finally i got a clue on what he was referring to. Then, i learned. ... The post 025: Sexual Polarity with John Wineland appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:45:37

024: Stop Stressing Out

4/21/2016
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They say Stress is a killer but it also the first step to losing your vision. When we stress, we stop seeing and when we stop seeing we stop performing optimally and then we don’t do well and then guess what!! We stress the f*&K out. In this week’s show, we’ll be talking about how to be grounded in all ... The post 024: Stop Stressing Out appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration:00:42:55

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