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United States

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Tuff Love - get down to it and let's get intimate.

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English

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Episodes

054: Confronting Money

12/22/2016
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Money. Just the word alone will probably bring some form of meaning, connotation, to you. It might be something you want desparately but can’t have, fear of losing what you have, or it helps you feel powerful. Or… something. We all have a “thing” around money. Don’t say that you don’t. I’ve witnessed thousands of people confront their shadows around ... The post 054: Confronting Money appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:48:50


053: Many Fish in the Sea

12/8/2016
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I often speak to a member of a couple and inside their unhappiness is the feeling of fear. “What if I never find someone else? What if this is the best I can do” We live in a world of scarcity. It is part of the fabric of our society that there are limited resources, not enough men, not enough ... The post 053: Many Fish in the Sea appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:43:23


052: The Foundation of Self-Love

12/1/2016
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I am looking at my partner’s face, touching her skin, and feeling deeper love with her than I ever thought possible. It feels like ‘Disney Love’, the kind that you only see in the movies. My cynical mind is perplexed. How is this possible? A strange thought enters in. “it’s cause you love yourself more than you ever thought possible!” ... The post 052: The Foundation of Self-Love appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:42:01


051: One Unit of Truth

11/17/2016
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I posted this recently: >> I suggested a game for more intimacy. >> Client responds: “I feel overwhelmed in my life already” >> Me: “No… you feel overwhelmed by the fear in your life” >> Client: “……..” >> Me: “I suspect that one unit of your fear equals 10 units of life. So you have vast more capability than you ... The post 051: One Unit of Truth appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:42:13


50: #TruthMoment

11/10/2016
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One trip a few months ago, I was looking at my phone and saw the name of a FB crush. We were friends, connected, I tended to LIKE her posts, and check out her profile pics. I realized that in this lifetime, she would NEVER know that I had a crush on her. The next moment, in my altered state, ... The post 50: #TruthMoment appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:42:07


048: The Patriarchy with Heather Higgins

11/3/2016
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In October 2016, I went to the Integral Center in Boulder to speak at Relationship Leader Summit. I had the pleasure of talking besides 30 or so speakers on various topics around relationship, communication and authenticity. When I was watching Heather doing her talk about the Patriarchy, I was impressed by many things but the one that was undeniable was ... The post 048: The Patriarchy with Heather Higgins appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:43:42


047: Levels of Engagement

10/13/2016
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The definitions of ENGAGEMENT: a formal agreement to get married. an arrangement to do something or go somewhere at a fixed time. the action of engaging or being engaged. a fight or battle between armed forces. Interesting. To me, to be engaged is to be living life. Sometimes that with intense curiosity, sometimes by ignoring it. Yes, ignoring what is ... The post 047: Levels of Engagement appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:42:23


046: Stop Apologizing

10/6/2016
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Everyone, including me, does it. They say “I’m sorry” Your face skews a bit. You wonder “What are you saying you’re sorry for?” Then, you respond “It’s alright, no worries” thinking “Why did I just say that” It’s the unconscious habit of apologizing when there is no apology necessary. Its about your human nature, your being you, you moving throughout ... The post 046: Stop Apologizing appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:41:45


045: Graceful Breakups with Kelsey Grant

9/29/2016
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I mentioned to my friend Connor Beaton that i was looking for some awesome guest hosts for this show and he mentioned his friend Kelsey Grant. We spoke on the phone for just a brief chat and I knew that I was talking with someone who (a) knew their shit and (b) was making a difference in the world. Kelsey ... The post 045: Graceful Breakups with Kelsey Grant appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:44:33


044: The Effects of Projection

9/22/2016
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I wrote a post last week about a sensitive experience i had and the important lesson I learned from it. It was vulnerable to write and important. My life is one of service and on facebook, I choose to open my heart and bare my soul. A collegue, someone I don’t know well but respect greatly, wrote a strong response ... The post 044: The Effects of Projection appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:39:22


043: The Pursuit of Purpose

9/15/2016
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In honor of next week’s ManTalks (ManTalks.com, I will be talking about the concept of PURPOSE and how it affects a person’s life. I will be sharing my own journey of first following the well-beaten path to going off the reservation to find my own way in the world and the tangled web it created in my life. Now, older, ... The post 043: The Pursuit of Purpose appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:40:15


042: The Challenges of Co-Parenting

9/8/2016
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At the height of the Landmark Advanced Course in 1999, I announced outloud to 500 people, “I’m ready to be a father”. Loud applause. It was obvious I had gotten my money’s worth. As my marriage went on, it was obvious that kids weren’t really on the table. Neither of us were ready. I started OneTaste in 2004 and for ... The post 042: The Challenges of Co-Parenting appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:39:26


041: The Cost of Men’s Sexual Shame

9/1/2016
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I have 17.5 years of self-development work. I have been an owner of an international company based on female orgasm. I have done extensive internal work including therapy, 12-step work, courses and self-introspection. I have a loving partner who encourages me to bring to her all my carnal sexual thoughts. And I still have shame around my sex. “Is it ... The post 041: The Cost of Men’s Sexual Shame appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:45:49


040: Modern Sex Talk with Ryan Thomas

8/25/2016
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It was time for some new guests so I reached out to Connor Beaton who does ManTalks in Canada. We had connected last year. When I asked him for some suggestions for some people to invite on the show, Ryan Thomas was the first one he recommended. So we connected and a few days later we’re on skype rapping about ... The post 040: Modern Sex Talk with Ryan Thomas appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:47:58


039: Navigating Parental Approval

8/19/2016
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i once heard this joke that really describes a lot of child-parent relationships: “Parents know how to push all our buttons. They are the onces who installed them” What is the power that the parental units have over our psyches? Why do we search for approval from them? What part of our souls are so connected to those that created ... The post 039: Navigating Parental Approval appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:43:35


038: Tales of One Successful Relationship w/ Morgan Mellas

8/11/2016
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Bluntly, before I met Morgan, I didn’t have much faith in relationships and didn’t really believe that they could be successful. In fact, I never thought I would meet a woman who could ‘keep up with me’. I still carried trauma from years of being in an extreme situation where my romantic life was poked and proded and judged by ... The post 038: Tales of One Successful Relationship w/ Morgan Mellas appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:50:39


037: How to Touch Deliberately

8/4/2016
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I came up with the concept for this Tuff Love in a moment and then thought – “you can’t do that”. But, as a teacher of deliberate touch for 10 years and a witness to a WORLD of UN-DELIBERATE touch, I thought it would be a good one to discuss. Touch is a necessity of life. They say babies can ... The post 037: How to Touch Deliberately appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:41:16


036: Authenticity with Kendra Cunov

7/28/2016
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au·then·tic·i·ty Noun : real or genuine : not copied or false : true and accurate its a simple word really… authenticity. Just be real, right. Easy? Right? Well.. no, its not so easy. In matter of fact, its f’in hard to be authentic in this world because the world rarely rewards you if you are truly who you are. > ... The post 036: Authenticity with Kendra Cunov appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:41:57


035: Having Integrity

7/21/2016
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This week’s show was off-script. In other words, it’s more real and vulnerable than I expected it to be. We start off with Robert Burns’ 1785 poem: > The best-laid schemes o’ mice an’ men > Gang aft agley The best laid plans of mice and men often go askew. In my life, I am suffering a loss of LA ... The post 035: Having Integrity appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:40:07


034: Surviving and Thriving in Transitions

7/7/2016
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I am in the middle of a transformation. Details will be made public soon. The question, really, is how I handle this transition will be a true test of my commitment to being an entrepreneur and a man. As Tony Robbins says, we all want stability. But we all crave instability. But we say we want them on OUR F’IN ... The post 034: Surviving and Thriving in Transitions appeared first on Robert Kandell Consulting.

Duration: 00:38:54

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