Raising Happy Teens

In this episode, I dive into the common hurdles parents face when raising teenage boys. I'll also offer actionable strategies to build a strong foundation of trust and understanding with your son. Topics discussed include: Common challenges:Building trust:Communication hacks: You'll also learn: Remember, your teen son still needs you! This episode will equip you with the tools to navigate this crucial stage and build a strong and supportive relationship. Mentioned in this episode: 53. Why is My Teen So Angry -- Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

A little over a year ago, I dropped an episode tackling the do's and don'ts of parenting a teenager, and guess what? I'm back for round two! Now, I'm not exactly the type to stick to every rule, but I do appreciate a solid guideline or two. That's precisely what I'm serving up in this latest installment. Join me as I unpack 7 essential do's and 7 must-avoid don'ts when it comes to navigating the teenage years. From the art of embracing boredom to celebrating individual quirks, I'm covering it all. Now, you know me—I'm all about shaking things up and questioning norms. So, fair warning: this advice might not be conventional, but it's definitely worth a listen. Tune in, filter it through your own values, and let's challenge the status quo together. Mentioned in this episode: 62. The Do's and Don'ts of Parenting a Teenager 64. Adulting 101: Life Skills Every Teenager Should Learn We're All Weird: The Rise of Tribes and the End of Normal - Seth Godin -- Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Raise your hand if you remember your first love. We all do! Because it's all so exciting and new and also so incredibly crushing at the same time. Now you have a teenager ready to do the same... gasp! But fear not! I am here to help you through it. In this episode, we'll explore the 6 stages of teen love (crush, connection, "official," settling in, crumbling, breakup) and give you tips to navigate them all. Learn how to: This episode is perfect for parents who want to: Mentioned in this episode: Episode 24. Tips for Teen Dating Teenage Love - Slick Rick -- Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Doing something that goes against the grain can feel scary, especially when it comes to parenting. What will they think? What if it's a mistake? What if this all blows up in my face? All of these thoughts have gone through my head as I've made parenting decisions along the way. Decisions like pulling them from public school, finding a program that better suited their needs, and trying alternative approaches to mental health care. I found something different because the old way of doing things wasn't working. And I wanted something better for my family. I'm starting to see more parents challenging the norm and I'm here for it! The wave of a new paradigm in parenting is rising, and that's what this week's podcast episode is all about. Topics discussed include: The Old Rulebook's Toll: The cost of hidden feelings, disconnection, a fear of failure, and a focus on punishment over understanding. The New Rules of Connection: The impact of open communication, building trust, and prioritizing mental well-being. Self-Doubt & Isolation: Strategies to overcome fears, trust your gut, and have the courage to do things differently. If you're wanting something different and better for your teen, this episode is for you. -- Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

In this podcast episode, I discuss type A and type B personality types and the challenges that type A parents face when raising a teenager. I'll explain the characteristics of type A and type B personalities and share my experience of transitioning from type B to type A. I'll also provide tips for type A parents who have a type B teen and offer advice on how to be a more laid-back parent. Get ready to learn about: So, if you're a Type A parent (or suspect you might be!), this episode is for you! -- Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

In this episode, I invited Marriage Coach, Michelle Purta on to discuss the challenges of raising teenagers while maintaining a happy and healthy marriage. We talk about the importance of effective communication and conflict resolution so that you can remain connected as a couple. Topics discussed include: Where to find Michelle: Website The Marriage and Motherhood Podcast Instagram -- ⁠⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Raising a teenager can be tough for so many reasons. We question every decision, wondering if that fight over curfew or the forgotten permission slip somehow means we're failing them. But here's the secret many parents don't realize: raising a teenager isn't just about shaping them, it's about shaping you. All of the challenges are opportunities for growth, giving you the chance to become an even better person. In this episode, I share personal stories as well as a few client stories. You'll learn: This episode is for you if: -- ⁠⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of parent groups and why they're absolutely essential for anyone raising a teenager. You'll learn: This episode is for you if: You feel alone and isolated while raising a teenager You're looking for support and encouragement from other parents going through the same thing You're tired of feeling like you're constantly questioning your parenting decisions You want to feel more confident and effective when parenting your teenager -- Mentioned in this episode: The Art of Non-Reactive Parenting Masterclass Episode 100: Teen Loneliness & Parental Isolation -- ⁠⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Is your teenager's slamming door echoing in your soul? Are meltdowns (theirs or yours) becoming a regular feature in your home? You might be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), and parenting a teenager can feel like walking a tightrope blindfolded. In this episode, I’ll shed light on the unique challenges and hidden gifts of HSP parents navigating the teenage years. Topics discussed include: This episode is for you if: Not sure if you're a HSP? Take this free online quiz. Mentioned in this episode: Supporting a Highly Sensitive Teen Free masterclass for parents of teens called The Art of Non-Reactive Parenting. If you’d like calmer communication and a better connection with your teenager, this class is for you. ⁠WATCH HERE -- ⁠⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Is your house a warzone of bickering siblings? You're not alone! This episode dives into the five main types of sibling dynamics and explores why conflict between siblings is actually a good thing. Topics discussed include: *Common causes of sibling rivalry *How to effectively resolve conflicts, including 7 steps to guide you through the process. *How to reduce future fighting and create a more peaceful home environment for everyone. -- Mentioned in this episode: Free masterclass for parents of teens, The Art of Non-Reactive Parenting. If you’d like calmer communication and a better connection with your teenager, this class is for you. WATCH HERE -- ⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

In this episode, I’m having a conversation with my friend and former client, Michelle Gauthier about why so many moms are feeling overwhelmed and dissatisfied with life. This is something I've struggled with as have many of my clients. It's easy to just accept this way of life, but surprisingly just as simple to do something about it. If you're a working mom, this episode is for you! Topics discussed: * Why so many moms are feeling overwhelmed and dissatisfied with life * Where the drive to do more comes from * The importance of asking for help and outsourcing tasks * How being more relaxed and present in your life translates to a better relationship with your teen -- Michelle is a professional life coach who helps busy, overwhelmed women create a more calm and intentional life. She is also the host of the Overwhelmed Working Woman podcast. www.michellegauthier.com Overwhelmed Working Woman podcast Instagram -- ⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

This episode offers a simple yet powerful framework for navigating this unpredictable phase of parenting: the 3 E's of Parenting a Teenager. Topics discussed include: This episode will help you: Episode mentioned: Letting Go of Expectations: The Key for Better Parenting for Teenagers -- ⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Strict? Me? Never! That’s what you may be thinking. But strictness is a spectrum. And sometimes parents can teeter into harmful righty without even realizing it. In this episode, I explore why some parents lean towards strictness, signs that you might be overly strict, and the effects it can have on your teenager. Key Points Covered: Article used in this episode -- ⁠Join my free parent group⁠ ⁠Apply to work with me⁠ ⁠Follow me on Instagram

So often, as parents, our dissatisfaction with our own life negatively impacts our ability to effectively parent our teen. When we feel happy in our own life, it not only makes us better parents but also better people. One of the most effective tools I’ve found in improving my quality of life is manifestation. Manifestation is often perceived as mystical or far-fetched, but it's actually a practical process of setting clear goals and aligning your thoughts and actions with those goals. In this episode, I’ll dive into the concept of manifestation, breaking down its components and sharing personal experiences to illustrate its effectiveness. Topics in this episode include: -- Apply to work with me Join my free group for parents

In this episode, I invited Leadership and Mindfulness Coach Vrin Rao to explain how to use the Enneagram to become a more intentional and less reactive parent. We explore how understanding your own Enneagram type can offer insights into your parenting style and tendencies. Through real-life examples and practical tips, Vrin provides a roadmap for parents to navigate the challenges of raising teens with mindfulness and empathy. Topics in this episode include: -- Vrindavan (Vrin) Rao is a Leadership & Mindfulness Coach who specializes in helping individuals, parents, groups, and teams to decrease their emotional reactivity and overcome self-sabotaging tendencies. She uses the framework of the Enneagram, yoga psychology, and meditation practices to help others solve the question of, "Why do I get in my own way?" Vrin is also a meditation teacher and a lifelong practitioner of nada yoga (the yoga of sound), japa yoga (the yoga of meditative mantra recitation), and kirtan yoga. She has been featured in over twenty podcasts, has been an expert contributor to Career Contessa and Girlboss, and was selected as one of the top meditation coaches by Coach Foundation in 2022. Website: www.illuminate.nyc Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/illuminate.nyc/ Enneagram Consultation (figure out your Type and/or learn more about it): vrin@illuminate.nyc Receive reflections, and prompts and be the first one to hear about upcoming workshops and events here: https://app.flodesk.com/form/5f3a97529cf975002baa09fd/build -- Apply to work with me Join my free parent group

Teenage rebellion. It's practically a cliché, right? Grumpy teenagers slamming doors, staying out late, and making questionable choices. But what if the reality is more nuanced than that? In this episode, we'll explore the true nature of teenage rebellion, debunking myths and stereotypes along the way. I’ll talk about the different forms rebellion can take, and the underlying reasons why teens might act out. I’ll also offer practical tips on how to navigate this challenging phase with their teens. Here's what you can expect to learn: -- Apply to work with me Join my free group for parents

You know how a total stranger can rub you the wrong way? You can feel put off by them, even if there's no obvious reason for it. Fun fact: In the early days of my Yoga Teacher Training, we had to do this really uncomfortable exercise in which all 25 of us walked around a room without talking. After about a minute, we put our hand on the shoulder of someone who "rubbed us the wrong way" — someone we were triggered by, for some reason. Then we did the same thing with someone we felt comfortable around. (I repeat: This was uncomfortable! Who wants people to know what you think of them, especially if it's negative?) But the reflection was: "What is it in each of these people that I see in myself?" Because in reality, everyone is a mirror to you. Everything you can see in other people, you can see in yourself. And if something you see triggers you in a negative way, it's something you (probably subconsciously) don't like about yourself. This episode is about shining a light on those subconscious thoughts, so you don't have to be at their whim anymore — and so you can stop being triggered by your teen. Here's what's inside: Free resource for parents: How to Stop Being Triggered by Your Teenager ⁠⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

Today's guest, Psychotherapist and Coach TJ Matton, is sharing what play really is, and why everyone - adults included - needs it! She defines "play" to clarify that it's not just one kind of behavior, but a state of being in the body. And it's a primal drive, just like hunger, thirst, and sleep. While we can't avoid this drive in our bodies, culturally, we really suppress play - which is why people need help re-engaging it. Listen to find out: -- Apply to work with me ⁠Join my free parent group⁠ for connection and parenting tips. -- About TJ TJ Matton is a social worker, psychotherapist, coach, and educator focused on helping adults learn to liberate their minds and bodies through play. TJ’s business, The Playful Revolution, is focused on helping people understand the neuroscience of play and reconnect with the power and joy of play. Play liberates and gives us permission to embrace the ups and downs of life rather than brace for them. Play is a primal need of the human body and is the neglected side of mindfulness. TJ helps people find enjoyment in the everyday, playful ways to manage stress, and empowering ways to greater fulfillment. ⁠https://www.theplayfulrevolution.com/quiz-play-personality⁠

In this episode, we delve into the prevalent issue of loneliness among teenagers and the often-overlooked isolation that parents experience while navigating the challenging journey of parenting teens. Topics discussed include: -- ⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram

In this episode, we delve into the impact of having a narcissist in your life, how to navigate co-parenting with a narcissist, and how to support your teen when they've developed a relationship with a narcissist. Laura explains the two things that make a narcissist a narcissist: This naturally presents a challenge for people in any kind of relationship with narcissists. They feel emotionally attacked — they're sent into fight/flight mode — they're trying to survive and get their needs met. This means they're more likely to people-please the narcissist, just to make things calm and peaceful again. Over time, they can end up in a whole quagmire of terrible feelings and confusion. In this episode: -- Join Jennifer's free group⁠ for parents of teenagers for more tips and support. ⁠Schedule a complimentary consultation with Jennifer⁠ to learn more about my programs and together, we’ll decide if coaching is the next right step for you and your family. -- About Laura: Laura Bytheway is a Certified Life Coach specializing in helping her clients reach their impossible goals while dealing with their impossible person. Her clients deal with narcissistic parents, co-parents, in-laws, and more all while creating their dreams. She lives in Houston, TX with her husband and 3 kids. Find her on Instagram The Post Narc Life Podcast Laura's website -- ⁠Join my free parent group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apply to work with me⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram